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The Marriage Wars
Ten years apart. Three nights of uncovered secrets. One decision to change it all.
Miserable and bound in a marriage she never wanted, Olivia Smith has played her part in The Nation’s marriage system for the last ten years. She had two children and supported their schooling, cared for her mother and sister, and never used her Challenge Pass from the Marriage Reward System—showing everyone she believed in the life of The Nation.
Until now.
Determined to have something for herself, Olivia selects the Challenge Pass as her ten-year anniversary reward, which allows her three nights with state-sanctioned escorts at The Challenge Center. She experiences intimate encounters, uncovered secrets, and a decision that will change her path forever.
When Ethan, her true love, stands before her as a state-sanctioned escort, Olivia questions the last ten years of her life. To Ethan, Olivia is the last key to undoing The Nation and everyone who believes in its future. To Olivia, Ethan is the escape she’s wanted, but now that he’s in front of her, can she actually take the leap and leave the world she knows behind her?
In The Marriage Wars: Book One, Melissa Gowdy Baldwin’s dystopian world asks us to question the role power and gender play in our need for connection, denial, and choice.
Miserable and bound in a marriage she never wanted, Olivia Smith has played her part in The Nation’s marriage system for the last ten years. She had two children and supported their schooling, cared for her mother and sister, and never used her Challenge Pass from the Marriage Reward System—showing everyone she believed in the life of The Nation.
Until now.
Determined to have something for herself, Olivia selects the Challenge Pass as her ten-year anniversary reward, which allows her three nights with state-sanctioned escorts at The Challenge Center. She experiences intimate encounters, uncovered secrets, and a decision that will change her path forever.
When Ethan, her true love, stands before her as a state-sanctioned escort, Olivia questions the last ten years of her life. To Ethan, Olivia is the last key to undoing The Nation and everyone who believes in its future. To Olivia, Ethan is the escape she’s wanted, but now that he’s in front of her, can she actually take the leap and leave the world she knows behind her?
In The Marriage Wars: Book One, Melissa Gowdy Baldwin’s dystopian world asks us to question the role power and gender play in our need for connection, denial, and choice.
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Published April 4, 2023
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March 24, 2023
Dystopian but make it SPICY! Set in my hometown of Sacramento, this post-pandering dystopian love story really made me think! The characters are amazing, the relationships are complicated, and the story kept me turning page after page. Read it in two days. Can’t wait for book two!
February 21, 2023
The Marriage Wars takes place many, many years in the future. The pandemic has wiped out a significant amount of the population and the government has stepped in to help regulate and regrow society. The Marriage Edicts are created to help pair people with spouses they will have the highest chance of procreating or successfully raising a morally healthy family - by the governments standards. In order to promote obedience to these rules, the government offers rewards for each successful year of marriage. Every few years, both spouses are offered a “cheat weekend” with a luxury escort service, which is exactly what our MC, Olivia, chooses to partake in for her 10 year anniversary. However, she gets more then she bargains for on her weekend of sexual bliss.
I think my absolute favourite thing about this book is how paranoid I was - and I honestly believe that’s how the reader is supposed to feel. This is a surveillance state, Big Brother is watching and judging. Every person was suspicious to me. Even those Olivia trusted had me writing notes like “no, he’s WAY too chipper in the morning. He’s hiding something” (and then later writing “okay now I feel bad for suspecting them…”)
It took a bit for Olivia to grow on me, before I understood why she was so unhappy with what seemed like a great life. By the end of the book I was grinning like an idiot while reading how strong and determined she had become. This book ends on an action-packed cliffhanger that has me dying a little on the inside knowing I have to wait for the sequel.
At the risk of saying anything that could be a spoiler, here is a quick list of what this book offers:
-LGBT characters
-love triangle
-morally grey characters
-insane plot twists
-multiple spicy scenes
-1984 vibes
And to conclude: I cannot wait for this book to release so everyone can read it and we can all discuss how much we love Jude.
I think my absolute favourite thing about this book is how paranoid I was - and I honestly believe that’s how the reader is supposed to feel. This is a surveillance state, Big Brother is watching and judging. Every person was suspicious to me. Even those Olivia trusted had me writing notes like “no, he’s WAY too chipper in the morning. He’s hiding something” (and then later writing “okay now I feel bad for suspecting them…”)
It took a bit for Olivia to grow on me, before I understood why she was so unhappy with what seemed like a great life. By the end of the book I was grinning like an idiot while reading how strong and determined she had become. This book ends on an action-packed cliffhanger that has me dying a little on the inside knowing I have to wait for the sequel.
At the risk of saying anything that could be a spoiler, here is a quick list of what this book offers:
-LGBT characters
-love triangle
-morally grey characters
-insane plot twists
-multiple spicy scenes
-1984 vibes
And to conclude: I cannot wait for this book to release so everyone can read it and we can all discuss how much we love Jude.
April 6, 2023
If dystopian fiction and spicy romance had a baby, it would be The Marriage Wars! Melissa Gowdy Baldwin’s debut novel perfectly combines the best of both genres.
The best types of dystopian fiction have an aura of plausibility to them, and The Marriage Wars downright nails this. Set in a future post-pandemic world (not COVID, but there are similarities) after vaccinations were found to cause reproductive issues, the Government tells citizens who they can marry in an effort to change the genetic future of the Nation. This caused Olivia to be separated from her true love Ethan and pressed into marriage with a Nation loyalist.
Now ten years later, Olivia appears to be a content and pampered Nation wife, but in reality she’s miserable and trapped in a loveless marriage. When she uses her her tenth anniversary reward from the Nation as a three-day respite from her marriage, she’s shocked to find the escort standing in front of her is none other than her long-lost love Ethan.
The Marriage Wars is a fascinating examination of reproductive rights, gender roles, oppression, and hope, all wrapped up in a spicy blanket of romance! The spice is well-written and tastefully steamy, and the dystopian aspects of the story are extremely compelling and feel frighteningly possible. This is the first installment of a trilogy, and I already can’t wait to see what will happen next for Olivia, Ethan, and the Nation!
Many thanks to BookSirens and the author for providing me an advance copy of this book.
The best types of dystopian fiction have an aura of plausibility to them, and The Marriage Wars downright nails this. Set in a future post-pandemic world (not COVID, but there are similarities) after vaccinations were found to cause reproductive issues, the Government tells citizens who they can marry in an effort to change the genetic future of the Nation. This caused Olivia to be separated from her true love Ethan and pressed into marriage with a Nation loyalist.
Now ten years later, Olivia appears to be a content and pampered Nation wife, but in reality she’s miserable and trapped in a loveless marriage. When she uses her her tenth anniversary reward from the Nation as a three-day respite from her marriage, she’s shocked to find the escort standing in front of her is none other than her long-lost love Ethan.
The Marriage Wars is a fascinating examination of reproductive rights, gender roles, oppression, and hope, all wrapped up in a spicy blanket of romance! The spice is well-written and tastefully steamy, and the dystopian aspects of the story are extremely compelling and feel frighteningly possible. This is the first installment of a trilogy, and I already can’t wait to see what will happen next for Olivia, Ethan, and the Nation!
Many thanks to BookSirens and the author for providing me an advance copy of this book.
March 24, 2023
I loved this book. It is very well written. The characters all have backgrounds and are believable. The savior is actually the devil. The story is original but still relates to current events. Surprising that it was started before the pandemic. This book is about the choices we have to make in life for ourselves and family. Also, true love, lies and deceit. The very first paragraph had me. I don’t want to give anything away because it is such a great read. I can’t wait for the next book.
February 26, 2023
Future after humanity wiped out from pandemic and the government takes control over marriages and children. At certain years each married couple given rewards for being exemplary married couple according to government. The wife has the outward appearance of being happy and content, appearances are decorative. The inner struggle is real. Her weekend at luxury spa is eye opening. First in series and I can’t wait to read more! *I was given an advanced reader copy via BookSirens and am voluntarily giving my honest review.
March 16, 2023
Read. This. Book. !!!
I don’t think I have ever read a book quite like this, and it was so intriguing! It is the kind of story that is realistic, but in a distant futuristic way.
Before reading this, I thought it might be too soon (for me personally) to read about the pandemic.. but my mind was swayed otherwise while reading this. It gave a different POV on the pandemic/vaccines so intricately entwined with social issues, relationships & hot spicy scenes that I couldn’t put it down!
I feel like I have a love/hate relationship with the MC, Olivia. On one hand, I feel bad for her & the situation she has been in, but on the other… girl how could you miss so many signs LOL!!! However, I admire her strength and willingness to push through (in many different situations). I don’t think she has even been aware of her strength.
This story really makes you think.. what would you be willing to do for the greater good? What line would be too far to cross and what would you be willing to endure. What choices could you make. Is love enough?
Spice rating is a solid 3.5/6 ! Really well written spicy scenes peppered throughout. (I rate on raunchiness).
5 stars from me, because even just the story line alone was so interesting, then adding in spicy scenes and social issues… it’s got it all!!
Make sure to check trigger warnings.
ARC review for free for honest opinion and I am leaving this review voluntarily.
March 13, 2023
3.5 stars
The Marriage Wars is a debut dystopian novel for author Melissa Gowdy Baldwin. I am not a big reader of dystopian books because they seem almost too real to be fiction. With how the world is right now, it would not be hard to believe that the government would step in and create mandates governing a woman’s body to increase birth rates. The possibility is too real.
The story follows Olivia as she navigates the post-pandemic future in the Nation while having two children with her husband, Thomas. Having had a successful marriage and displaying the outward persona of being a happy dutiful wife and mother, the Nation rewards them. For her tenth anniversary reward, she is given a Challenge Pass, which allows her to have a state-sanctioned escort for three days. With this experience, will Olivia be the same dutiful wife and mother? What about Ethan, her true love?
There was a perfect about of spice, and it was tastefully done. The story started a little slow, but I found it engaging. I enjoyed Melissa’s writing style, and the story did flow well.
Thank you, Melissa Gowdy Baldwin, for gifting me an audio copy of The Marriage Wars. I am leaving this review voluntarily. All thoughts and opinions are my own.
The Marriage Wars is a debut dystopian novel for author Melissa Gowdy Baldwin. I am not a big reader of dystopian books because they seem almost too real to be fiction. With how the world is right now, it would not be hard to believe that the government would step in and create mandates governing a woman’s body to increase birth rates. The possibility is too real.
The story follows Olivia as she navigates the post-pandemic future in the Nation while having two children with her husband, Thomas. Having had a successful marriage and displaying the outward persona of being a happy dutiful wife and mother, the Nation rewards them. For her tenth anniversary reward, she is given a Challenge Pass, which allows her to have a state-sanctioned escort for three days. With this experience, will Olivia be the same dutiful wife and mother? What about Ethan, her true love?
There was a perfect about of spice, and it was tastefully done. The story started a little slow, but I found it engaging. I enjoyed Melissa’s writing style, and the story did flow well.
Thank you, Melissa Gowdy Baldwin, for gifting me an audio copy of The Marriage Wars. I am leaving this review voluntarily. All thoughts and opinions are my own.
March 2, 2023
I devoured this book. I just could not put it down.
It's a heavier dystopian book than I normally read but I think because bits of it is set in a post pandemic world it doesn't feel as far removed from real life.
I was gutted when I had reached the last page and I can't wait to read the next book when it comes out.
Highly highly recommend this book.
I was given a free copy from Netgalley in exchange for an honest review.
It's a heavier dystopian book than I normally read but I think because bits of it is set in a post pandemic world it doesn't feel as far removed from real life.
I was gutted when I had reached the last page and I can't wait to read the next book when it comes out.
Highly highly recommend this book.
I was given a free copy from Netgalley in exchange for an honest review.
February 21, 2023
Let's begin with appreciating the cover, love how minimalistic yet accurate it is with the concept. Regarding the content, the book was right up my alley. There are so many hard topics covered here. Even the 'Behind the book' description was so beautifully written. The writing style and the plot twists, is so thoughtfully placed, it looks like the work of a seasoned writer.
The main protagonist Olivia makes us question the role and expectations from women in society. The SMUT🫠🫠 doesn't feel forced and rightfully fits like a puzzle.
This story brought out so many emotions in me. In the first half i was frustrated with Olivia for her choices and emotions but as the story started to unravel... Wow 😲😲 i could understand my girl and her struggles. I am looking forward for all the other books in the series to see how the story unfolds.
I would highly recommend this book to everyone.
Read if you like---
🔯 Dystopian World Setting
🔯 Spicy Romance
🔯 Social Injustice
🔯 Feminism
🔯 LGBTQ characters
🔯 Inequality between different economy class
The main protagonist Olivia makes us question the role and expectations from women in society. The SMUT🫠🫠 doesn't feel forced and rightfully fits like a puzzle.
This story brought out so many emotions in me. In the first half i was frustrated with Olivia for her choices and emotions but as the story started to unravel... Wow 😲😲 i could understand my girl and her struggles. I am looking forward for all the other books in the series to see how the story unfolds.
I would highly recommend this book to everyone.
Read if you like---
🔯 Dystopian World Setting
🔯 Spicy Romance
🔯 Social Injustice
🔯 Feminism
🔯 LGBTQ characters
🔯 Inequality between different economy class
May 23, 2023
I loved this read!! It’s so very realistic and I could easily see this occurring in real life. The spicy scenes were great! Now I’ll sit and wait for book 2 (impatiently lol)
July 9, 2023
This is 100% a must-read. Dystopian, romantic in a way, and violent, but also about a woman overcoming being trapped within an oppressive society.
Set in Sacramento, it is something I think local readers would really enjoy. Knowing the places and landmarks made it even more enjoyable for me.
Set in Sacramento, it is something I think local readers would really enjoy. Knowing the places and landmarks made it even more enjoyable for me.
May 25, 2024
Possibly the best dystopian I’ve ever read- book 2 + 3 are not out yet and ends on a cliffhanger but still worth the read could not put it down. Plot twists and spice!
April 17, 2023
4.5 stars
The Marriage Wars felt like a parallel universe. She was able to take real life events and mold a story around them making the reader think "what if"? I found the characters to be deeply flawed in a way that makes them believable. The beginning is a lot of groundwork to keep track of, but the second the action starts it doesn't stop! I give it 4.5 stars simply to give the next books the space to be even better! You do not have to be a fan of dystopian to enjoy this book, I think everyone can find a little bit of themselves in The Marriage Wars.
3 chili rated for spice
The spice was great! Not overly explicit and it did not drive the plot.
The Marriage Wars felt like a parallel universe. She was able to take real life events and mold a story around them making the reader think "what if"? I found the characters to be deeply flawed in a way that makes them believable. The beginning is a lot of groundwork to keep track of, but the second the action starts it doesn't stop! I give it 4.5 stars simply to give the next books the space to be even better! You do not have to be a fan of dystopian to enjoy this book, I think everyone can find a little bit of themselves in The Marriage Wars.
3 chili rated for spice
The spice was great! Not overly explicit and it did not drive the plot.
October 23, 2023
Told through dystopian lenses, this book raises real life questions about love, tradition, power dynamics, and social constructs. It evoked a lot of feelings around my own experiences with narcissism, helplessness, and loneliness.
It is beautifully written; I could barely put it down and finished it over the course of a weekend. I can’t wait for the second book.
It is beautifully written; I could barely put it down and finished it over the course of a weekend. I can’t wait for the second book.
March 22, 2023
Thank you to BookSirens and the author for an advanced copy!
First off, I want to say that I personally know the author and I was SO excited to hear she was publishing her first book! I IMMEDIATELY wanted a copy for myself.
The Marriage Wars is set in a near-future dystopian Sacramento, which is where I grew up. I knew every road, business, and landmark that Melissa mentioned in the book, and it made the story feel more real to me. At first, I was confused about the concept of the Nation, but over the course of the book, it started to make sense. California became the Nation and implemented its own government and started regulating who can get married and have children, in order to rebuild the population after the pandemic. The Nation also implemented a tier system to segregate its citizens by class.
Olivia mostly grew up on a compound, outside of the Nation, where such regulations were not in place. But to have a more stable income, she and her fiance Ethan moved back to the Nation, but their marriage application was denied. Sometime later, Olivia marries Thomas, who is in a higher tier, in order to get her sister cancer treatments.
Ten years have passed since Olivia and Thomas married, and Olivia decides to use her Challenge Pass. This is like a marriage hall pass, where they can go to a Nation Center to have sex with random people for three days, as a reward for being married and contributing to the Nation for 10 years.
I like this concept, it feels plausible, like this situation could actually happen in the future. It felt reminiscent of A Handmaid’s Tale.
The plot and writing in The Marriage Wars is strong, but certain parts felt kind of slow. I wanted more action in the first half of the book. Around 70%, things really started to pick up and so much happened. There was one twist around 80% that I did NOT see coming.
Overall, a solid 4 stars.
First off, I want to say that I personally know the author and I was SO excited to hear she was publishing her first book! I IMMEDIATELY wanted a copy for myself.
The Marriage Wars is set in a near-future dystopian Sacramento, which is where I grew up. I knew every road, business, and landmark that Melissa mentioned in the book, and it made the story feel more real to me. At first, I was confused about the concept of the Nation, but over the course of the book, it started to make sense. California became the Nation and implemented its own government and started regulating who can get married and have children, in order to rebuild the population after the pandemic. The Nation also implemented a tier system to segregate its citizens by class.
Olivia mostly grew up on a compound, outside of the Nation, where such regulations were not in place. But to have a more stable income, she and her fiance Ethan moved back to the Nation, but their marriage application was denied. Sometime later, Olivia marries Thomas, who is in a higher tier, in order to get her sister cancer treatments.
Ten years have passed since Olivia and Thomas married, and Olivia decides to use her Challenge Pass. This is like a marriage hall pass, where they can go to a Nation Center to have sex with random people for three days, as a reward for being married and contributing to the Nation for 10 years.
I like this concept, it feels plausible, like this situation could actually happen in the future. It felt reminiscent of A Handmaid’s Tale.
The plot and writing in The Marriage Wars is strong, but certain parts felt kind of slow. I wanted more action in the first half of the book. Around 70%, things really started to pick up and so much happened. There was one twist around 80% that I did NOT see coming.
Overall, a solid 4 stars.
March 21, 2023
The Marriage Wars is 1984 meets The Handmaid’s Tale, modernized to a dystopian post-pandemic world in the not so distant future. As harrowing as it was to read, I appreciated her exploration of the Vaccine Wars and the establishment of the Nation, which was supposed to help enhance the chance of survival, but was embedded in social inequity. Being a fellow Californian, I loved her before and after descriptions of Sacramento. It was interesting to think of other states becoming sanctuaries for those escaping the Nation.
The only thing preventing me from giving this 5 stars is that some of the characterizations felt a little two-dimensional. I particularly struggled to love Olivia, the main character. She seemed too passive to me (even in the pre-Nation flashbacks), and I wanted to see more of an arc. But I expect that will come in the next two tomes.
Great debut! I recommend.
Disclaimer: I received an advanced reader copy in exchange for an honest review
The only thing preventing me from giving this 5 stars is that some of the characterizations felt a little two-dimensional. I particularly struggled to love Olivia, the main character. She seemed too passive to me (even in the pre-Nation flashbacks), and I wanted to see more of an arc. But I expect that will come in the next two tomes.
Great debut! I recommend.
Disclaimer: I received an advanced reader copy in exchange for an honest review
March 28, 2023
I was very pleasantly surprised with how much I enjoyed this book. It was a quick and easy read for me because the author did a wonderful job keeping me engaged and wondering what was going to happen next. I loved how she presented the characters backstories. Ahhhh! That ending! I’m gonna need the author to go ahead and release the second one. Also, I am a big sucker for music playlists that go with the story and the character and bookworms, she’s got one for a few of the characters! Go check it out!
I received an advance review copy for free, and I am leaving this review voluntarily
I received an advance review copy for free, and I am leaving this review voluntarily
July 7, 2023
What can I say about this book. Besides the fact that my husband has met the author there’s just so much more. This book takes place in the future and although it didn’t have any significant twists that I didn’t see coming, it was well worth the five stars. I fell in love with the characters, especially Jude. I think the only thing that really upset me if I wasn’t prepared for the book to end on a cliffhanger. Now I have to wait for book two which is a total bummer. Awesome read. Completely worth every penny. And just as a bonus it’s based in my hometown Sacramento!
March 19, 2023
I have been struggling to decide how to review this book. Marriage Wars touches on a number of social issues engaging the reader in exploring their beliefs and values. Consider it a Handmaids Tale in the COVID era. It explores what a society will do to overcome the toll of a pandemic; a world post Roe vs Wade; a world where a few seem to control the masses.
I enjoy the Dystopian genre where ethics and values are challenged. However I became uncomfortable as the book moved forward. Oddly it wasn’t due to the marriage edicts or the ‘hall pass’ option but rather the issues surrounding the pandemic. Trying not to be close minded, and being cognizant of the battle authors are having with public bans on their books, I am still feeling it is still too early and fresh to explore the issues surrounding COVID vaccines. Working in healthcare, we continue to see the negative impact COVID has has on people, and I am unwilling to join a conversation suggesting the vaccines are the problem.
That being said, this book kept me engaged throughout. There were details of the main character’s childhood that seemed drawn out but still it was interesting. I liked the characters and found myself wondering what role they played in the society; who was good or bad. The reason for three stars was due to those drawn out parts and that it came to an abrupt end. I understand it is book one but I would have appreciated a bit of apparent closure to, and tease, of what is to come in the relationship triangle. I just needed more to make me anxious for book two.
Many thanks to BookSirens and the author. I received an advance review copy for free, and I am leaving this review voluntarily.
I enjoy the Dystopian genre where ethics and values are challenged. However I became uncomfortable as the book moved forward. Oddly it wasn’t due to the marriage edicts or the ‘hall pass’ option but rather the issues surrounding the pandemic. Trying not to be close minded, and being cognizant of the battle authors are having with public bans on their books, I am still feeling it is still too early and fresh to explore the issues surrounding COVID vaccines. Working in healthcare, we continue to see the negative impact COVID has has on people, and I am unwilling to join a conversation suggesting the vaccines are the problem.
That being said, this book kept me engaged throughout. There were details of the main character’s childhood that seemed drawn out but still it was interesting. I liked the characters and found myself wondering what role they played in the society; who was good or bad. The reason for three stars was due to those drawn out parts and that it came to an abrupt end. I understand it is book one but I would have appreciated a bit of apparent closure to, and tease, of what is to come in the relationship triangle. I just needed more to make me anxious for book two.
Many thanks to BookSirens and the author. I received an advance review copy for free, and I am leaving this review voluntarily.
February 10, 2024
Olivia has done her due diligence to the Nation by staying in a loveless marriage for ten years. Now she’s cashing in on her Challenge Pass in exchange for a few nights of passion. Her children will be well cared for, and it’s time to focus on herself.
With three nights and a Nation sanctioned escort, Olivia never thought she’d see Ethan again. Ethan was her true love, only to have abandoned her. Though secrets are between them can Ethan give her the escape she’s always dreamed of? Can Olivia take that leap of faith and leave the world she knows behind?
This book was a whole lot of fun. Dystopian works well if it is closely believable and this book did well set up that word, and it was done well. I really enjoyed most of this book, and it was tracking to be a strong 4.5 rounded to 5 star read for me, however, things took a turn in the final few chapters.
Even though this is the first book of what’s to be a trilogy, I do think that things were cut off at an awkward place for Olivia. I don’t know what to say without giving it away, but I have strong feelings towards the way Olivia left things. I couldn’t imagine doing this for any cost and as such I am just struggling reconciling her choice against what was left in the novel for explanation. I do think that had this ending been a little more drawn out, with more explanation it would have potentially bumped this up for me. But here I am a few days later, still confused and upset at how this book ended (and I’ve read several in between). So, for one to invoke such strong feelings is a heavy lift, so the writing was on point, however, just because it is against what I believe I am going to have to rate it a little lower, but not much. I’m still undecided whether I would pick up the next novel in the trilogy. I’m upset enough that I might just to see how things work out, but on the other hand I’m upset. So, it’s a catch 22 and I’m not sure.
However, I will say that the writing is compelling. In order to give me such strong feelings the writing must be on point. I will give Melissa Gowdy Baldwin that. She also did an amazing job with her world building. It wasn’t based on COVID, but we are close enough to COVID to understand what a pandemic might do to us, we can imagine.
I will say that I wish some of the marriage proclamations were a bit better explained as they didn’t really make sense to me. This could be because I’m a bit too liberal and I didn’t quite have on my far-right cap, but I just wish some explanation was given to why a few of them existed. I think there is plenty of time with the other books planned for this to happen, however.
The spice scenes were not overwhelming and were delicately and delightfully done. They were, like the rest of the book, well written but steamy. I enjoyed that the terms used were accurate and not overly accurate. Nothing like getting to a spice scene and reading about being impaled. That’s my personal pet peeve. I think that Ms. Gowdy Baldwin wrote the scenes nicely and while realistically, they were something we can long for.
Overall, this was a delightful read and one that I enjoyed. I am looking forward to seeing how this trilogy works out and I have high hopes for it!
Thank you so much to the author for my copy. All thoughts are my own.
A copy of this review will be posted to my blog, speedreadstagram.com on February 25, 2024
With three nights and a Nation sanctioned escort, Olivia never thought she’d see Ethan again. Ethan was her true love, only to have abandoned her. Though secrets are between them can Ethan give her the escape she’s always dreamed of? Can Olivia take that leap of faith and leave the world she knows behind?
This book was a whole lot of fun. Dystopian works well if it is closely believable and this book did well set up that word, and it was done well. I really enjoyed most of this book, and it was tracking to be a strong 4.5 rounded to 5 star read for me, however, things took a turn in the final few chapters.
Even though this is the first book of what’s to be a trilogy, I do think that things were cut off at an awkward place for Olivia. I don’t know what to say without giving it away, but I have strong feelings towards the way Olivia left things. I couldn’t imagine doing this for any cost and as such I am just struggling reconciling her choice against what was left in the novel for explanation. I do think that had this ending been a little more drawn out, with more explanation it would have potentially bumped this up for me. But here I am a few days later, still confused and upset at how this book ended (and I’ve read several in between). So, for one to invoke such strong feelings is a heavy lift, so the writing was on point, however, just because it is against what I believe I am going to have to rate it a little lower, but not much. I’m still undecided whether I would pick up the next novel in the trilogy. I’m upset enough that I might just to see how things work out, but on the other hand I’m upset. So, it’s a catch 22 and I’m not sure.
However, I will say that the writing is compelling. In order to give me such strong feelings the writing must be on point. I will give Melissa Gowdy Baldwin that. She also did an amazing job with her world building. It wasn’t based on COVID, but we are close enough to COVID to understand what a pandemic might do to us, we can imagine.
I will say that I wish some of the marriage proclamations were a bit better explained as they didn’t really make sense to me. This could be because I’m a bit too liberal and I didn’t quite have on my far-right cap, but I just wish some explanation was given to why a few of them existed. I think there is plenty of time with the other books planned for this to happen, however.
The spice scenes were not overwhelming and were delicately and delightfully done. They were, like the rest of the book, well written but steamy. I enjoyed that the terms used were accurate and not overly accurate. Nothing like getting to a spice scene and reading about being impaled. That’s my personal pet peeve. I think that Ms. Gowdy Baldwin wrote the scenes nicely and while realistically, they were something we can long for.
Overall, this was a delightful read and one that I enjoyed. I am looking forward to seeing how this trilogy works out and I have high hopes for it!
Thank you so much to the author for my copy. All thoughts are my own.
A copy of this review will be posted to my blog, speedreadstagram.com on February 25, 2024
December 6, 2023
Book Review: The Marriage War: Book One
Stars: 5 of 5
Author: Melissa Gowdy Baldwin @melissagowdybaldwin
Publisher: Atmosphere Press @atmoshpherepress
A dystopian book set in the future. The story takes place after a world wide pandemic and decimated the world’s population and the government now known as The Nation has taken over. It was found after the pandemic occured that many of the vaccinations that were given have led to reproductive issues in the surviving population. The new Nation government now has rules on who can marry who. Men and women can marry just as women and women can marry but men and men can not marry. This Is all about repopulating with specific reproductive and genetic rules for the future survival. The Nation has come up with certain rules just at he 10 Edicts (rules) for marriage 8 of 10 must be met before a couple can marry. The Nation has also implemented a tier system which segregrates its citizens by class.
Olivia the main protagonist grew up on a compound outside of the nation where there were no such rules in place. Olivia and her fiance, Ethen then decide to better themselves and move into The Nation. Unfortunately, for Ethen and Olivia they do not meet 8/10 Edicks and are not approved for marriage. They get separated and eventually lose track of each other. Olivia goes onto Nursing School. She eventually meets Thomas as they meet 10/10 Edicks. Thomas is in tier 4 and because of his status Olivia becomes a tier 4 person as does her mother and sister,
After 10 years of marriage a spouse is allowed a “challenge pass” at The Nation Center. This pass which is three days allows the person to pick a male of female of choice from a catalog.
At Olivia’s second night at The Nation Center chaos erupts and it appears that Olivia’s life is forever changed.
The author also uses flashback of Olivia’s life which enables the reader to understand the reason Olivia is the way she is.
There are so many twist and turns in this story and that makes it well worth the read. This book is wonderfully written. I have a tendency to read and listen to a book depending on what I am doing. I do have to admit that when I got to chapter 17 that I had to stop the audio version and just sit and read the rest of the book. I love the description of the places from Sacramento used in this book and I felt at times I was right there with the characters since I live in the Sacramento area. I recently met Melissa Gowdy Baldwin and when talking with her she mentioned sitting at the bar at the KlimponSawyer Hotel and writing. As read the book I could just imagine this as the KlimptonSawyer the Golden 1 Center are The Nation Center in the book. The novel does touch on many issues that are just as reverent today as in the future. The book embraces marriage, loves, family, sacrifices, loyalty and much more of what women go through throughout their lives. At the end of the book Olivia finds her voice and who she it. I am excited to see what happens to Olivia in the next book.
Stars: 5 of 5
Author: Melissa Gowdy Baldwin @melissagowdybaldwin
Publisher: Atmosphere Press @atmoshpherepress
A dystopian book set in the future. The story takes place after a world wide pandemic and decimated the world’s population and the government now known as The Nation has taken over. It was found after the pandemic occured that many of the vaccinations that were given have led to reproductive issues in the surviving population. The new Nation government now has rules on who can marry who. Men and women can marry just as women and women can marry but men and men can not marry. This Is all about repopulating with specific reproductive and genetic rules for the future survival. The Nation has come up with certain rules just at he 10 Edicts (rules) for marriage 8 of 10 must be met before a couple can marry. The Nation has also implemented a tier system which segregrates its citizens by class.
Olivia the main protagonist grew up on a compound outside of the nation where there were no such rules in place. Olivia and her fiance, Ethen then decide to better themselves and move into The Nation. Unfortunately, for Ethen and Olivia they do not meet 8/10 Edicks and are not approved for marriage. They get separated and eventually lose track of each other. Olivia goes onto Nursing School. She eventually meets Thomas as they meet 10/10 Edicks. Thomas is in tier 4 and because of his status Olivia becomes a tier 4 person as does her mother and sister,
After 10 years of marriage a spouse is allowed a “challenge pass” at The Nation Center. This pass which is three days allows the person to pick a male of female of choice from a catalog.
At Olivia’s second night at The Nation Center chaos erupts and it appears that Olivia’s life is forever changed.
The author also uses flashback of Olivia’s life which enables the reader to understand the reason Olivia is the way she is.
There are so many twist and turns in this story and that makes it well worth the read. This book is wonderfully written. I have a tendency to read and listen to a book depending on what I am doing. I do have to admit that when I got to chapter 17 that I had to stop the audio version and just sit and read the rest of the book. I love the description of the places from Sacramento used in this book and I felt at times I was right there with the characters since I live in the Sacramento area. I recently met Melissa Gowdy Baldwin and when talking with her she mentioned sitting at the bar at the KlimponSawyer Hotel and writing. As read the book I could just imagine this as the KlimptonSawyer the Golden 1 Center are The Nation Center in the book. The novel does touch on many issues that are just as reverent today as in the future. The book embraces marriage, loves, family, sacrifices, loyalty and much more of what women go through throughout their lives. At the end of the book Olivia finds her voice and who she it. I am excited to see what happens to Olivia in the next book.
May 29, 2024
**Review: The Marriage Wars by Melissa Gowdy Baldwin**
⭐️⭐️ (2 out of 5 stars)
Melissa Gowdy Baldwin's *The Marriage Wars* is an ambitious attempt to join the ranks of dystopian classics like *1984* and *The Handmaid's Tale*, but unfortunately, it falls short in several key areas. Despite an intriguing premise, the execution leaves much to be desired, making it a disappointing read for fans of the genre.
Set in a future society where marriage and personal freedoms are tightly controlled by a totalitarian regime, the novel promises an exploration of resistance and the human spirit. However, the story's potential is undermined by a weak and unbelievably gullible main character. The protagonist's actions and decisions often feel implausible, making it difficult to empathize with or root for them.
The narrative struggles with pacing and coherence. While dystopian tales thrive on tension and societal critique, *The Marriage Wars* fails to deliver these elements effectively. The world-building lacks depth, offering only superficial glimpses into the society's workings without providing a compelling or convincing backdrop.
Character development is another significant issue. The main character's naivety and lack of agency make for a frustrating reading experience. Instead of evolving or growing stronger in the face of adversity, they remain passive and easily manipulated, which detracts from the story's impact. Secondary characters are similarly underdeveloped, serving more as plot devices than fully realized individuals.
The book's attempt to echo the themes and style of renowned dystopian novels feels forced and derivative. While it aspires to provoke thought and reflection on issues of control and freedom, it lacks the nuance and sophistication found in its literary predecessors. The result is a narrative that feels both heavy-handed and superficial.
In summary, *The Marriage Wars* by Melissa Gowdy Baldwin earns a disappointing two stars. Its weak character development, implausible protagonist, and lackluster world-building make it a poor attempt to follow in the footsteps of classic dystopian tales. For readers seeking a compelling and thought-provoking dystopian read, this novel is likely to fall short of expectations.
I received an advance review copy for free, and I am leaving this review voluntarily.
⭐️⭐️ (2 out of 5 stars)
Melissa Gowdy Baldwin's *The Marriage Wars* is an ambitious attempt to join the ranks of dystopian classics like *1984* and *The Handmaid's Tale*, but unfortunately, it falls short in several key areas. Despite an intriguing premise, the execution leaves much to be desired, making it a disappointing read for fans of the genre.
Set in a future society where marriage and personal freedoms are tightly controlled by a totalitarian regime, the novel promises an exploration of resistance and the human spirit. However, the story's potential is undermined by a weak and unbelievably gullible main character. The protagonist's actions and decisions often feel implausible, making it difficult to empathize with or root for them.
The narrative struggles with pacing and coherence. While dystopian tales thrive on tension and societal critique, *The Marriage Wars* fails to deliver these elements effectively. The world-building lacks depth, offering only superficial glimpses into the society's workings without providing a compelling or convincing backdrop.
Character development is another significant issue. The main character's naivety and lack of agency make for a frustrating reading experience. Instead of evolving or growing stronger in the face of adversity, they remain passive and easily manipulated, which detracts from the story's impact. Secondary characters are similarly underdeveloped, serving more as plot devices than fully realized individuals.
The book's attempt to echo the themes and style of renowned dystopian novels feels forced and derivative. While it aspires to provoke thought and reflection on issues of control and freedom, it lacks the nuance and sophistication found in its literary predecessors. The result is a narrative that feels both heavy-handed and superficial.
In summary, *The Marriage Wars* by Melissa Gowdy Baldwin earns a disappointing two stars. Its weak character development, implausible protagonist, and lackluster world-building make it a poor attempt to follow in the footsteps of classic dystopian tales. For readers seeking a compelling and thought-provoking dystopian read, this novel is likely to fall short of expectations.
I received an advance review copy for free, and I am leaving this review voluntarily.
March 15, 2023
The Marriage Wars is a dystopian novel set in the not too distant future after a pandemic has decimated the population and a new and controlling government has taken over the United States. Doesn’t sound too far-fetched, right? The story follows Olivia, who while being trapped in a loveless marriage, longs for the one who got away - Ethan. It explores the roles of women in society, marriage, and parenthood and how they are valued as well as how they’re told to value themselves. As a person who grew up in a very conservative Christian home, I can identify with a lot of the questions Olivia asks herself as she struggles to find the balance between duty and happiness.
Struggling to figure out what’s best for yourself when your family is going through a major crisis isn’t easy, and after the last two years of personal struggles within my own family, I could really relate to Olivia putting her own wants and needs on the back burner, as well as the personal turmoil that often follows.
I know Melissa started this book many years ago, but the parallels to current events are striking. States making gender affirming care illegal, trying to victimize families for supporting their children, the overturning of Roe vs Wade, and much more. I don’t want to get political in a review, but let’s just say this is one of those dystopian novels that isn’t all that far-fetched. Which is how I like them. Relevant and realistic enough to give you the chills as you imagine the world that might be - and what you would do about it.
A thought-provoking novel that balances timely social issues with a realistic dystopian future and romantic elements, The Marriage Wars is a cautionary tale along the lines of The Handmaid’s Tale and Vox. As a lover of dystopian fiction, I appreciated the thoughtful world-building and relevant issues addressed, and look forward to seeing what happens next!
Disclaimer: I was given an ARC in exchange for an honest review.
“It served my family, and a long time ago, I decided their needs were more important than mine.”
Struggling to figure out what’s best for yourself when your family is going through a major crisis isn’t easy, and after the last two years of personal struggles within my own family, I could really relate to Olivia putting her own wants and needs on the back burner, as well as the personal turmoil that often follows.
“…so we can be great again.”
I know Melissa started this book many years ago, but the parallels to current events are striking. States making gender affirming care illegal, trying to victimize families for supporting their children, the overturning of Roe vs Wade, and much more. I don’t want to get political in a review, but let’s just say this is one of those dystopian novels that isn’t all that far-fetched. Which is how I like them. Relevant and realistic enough to give you the chills as you imagine the world that might be - and what you would do about it.
A thought-provoking novel that balances timely social issues with a realistic dystopian future and romantic elements, The Marriage Wars is a cautionary tale along the lines of The Handmaid’s Tale and Vox. As a lover of dystopian fiction, I appreciated the thoughtful world-building and relevant issues addressed, and look forward to seeing what happens next!
Disclaimer: I was given an ARC in exchange for an honest review.
January 7, 2024
I listened to the audiobook.
When I first read about the premise of this book, I wasn’t sure how I would feel about it, because I’m not really into spicy novels. However, I decided to give it a chance.
There were moments when I could feel Olivia’s burning rage. Moments when my own memories came to the surface when I was listening to what she had to endure. It was difficult, but I kept on listening. Her love for her children - I could feel that, too. I’m not a mother, but I have rescue pets, and somehow, I could relate to that feeling, similar to motherhood. I would do anything for my pets; endure a difficult life just to keep them safe, much like Olivia did for her kids.
Gosh, there’s so much I could talk about, but I don’t want to spoil anything. I didn’t know that I needed to listen to this book, but somehow, life made me find it, and now… I feel things, things I didn’t want to think about before, but I do now, and somehow, I learnt something about myself. I learnt about my underlying strength, much like Olivia. It’ll be weeks, perhaps months, before I stop thinking about this book. Or maybe I’ll never stop thinking about it.
Incredible narration of an incredible novel. I cannot wait to listen to the rest of the books. Thank you, Melissa, for writing this book, and thank you, Dahlia, for giving the characters their unique voices, and making it such a powerful experience. This novel is now among one of my favourite ones of all time.
When I first read about the premise of this book, I wasn’t sure how I would feel about it, because I’m not really into spicy novels. However, I decided to give it a chance.
There were moments when I could feel Olivia’s burning rage. Moments when my own memories came to the surface when I was listening to what she had to endure. It was difficult, but I kept on listening. Her love for her children - I could feel that, too. I’m not a mother, but I have rescue pets, and somehow, I could relate to that feeling, similar to motherhood. I would do anything for my pets; endure a difficult life just to keep them safe, much like Olivia did for her kids.
Gosh, there’s so much I could talk about, but I don’t want to spoil anything. I didn’t know that I needed to listen to this book, but somehow, life made me find it, and now… I feel things, things I didn’t want to think about before, but I do now, and somehow, I learnt something about myself. I learnt about my underlying strength, much like Olivia. It’ll be weeks, perhaps months, before I stop thinking about this book. Or maybe I’ll never stop thinking about it.
Incredible narration of an incredible novel. I cannot wait to listen to the rest of the books. Thank you, Melissa, for writing this book, and thank you, Dahlia, for giving the characters their unique voices, and making it such a powerful experience. This novel is now among one of my favourite ones of all time.
March 1, 2023
Wow!!! This amazing debut novel is so easy to just dive right into as it’s so vividly written. It is beyond addicting and I devoured it in one evening as I am a voyeuristic passenger taken on this journey watching Olivia’s life unfold before my very eyes. It is a journey filled with so many twists and turns as if I have been hurled down a rabbit hole and am left wondering how much farther down will I continue to fall. A journey that so many women can truly relate to in some form in our own lives.
It beautifully embraces the complicated human conditions surrounding love, marriage, family, commitment, purpose, sacrifice, identity, and loyalty that all too many women face and struggle with daily.
The quote: “Numbness can be quite the armor if you put it on the right way,” rings so loudly in my head as I fall further and deeper into Olivia’s story.
This is the kind of novel that crawls into your heart, your soul and grips and tugs at your emotions as it holds a mirror up to the reader and demands you to take a deep long look at your own story, your own truths, your own journey about love, sacrifice, and identity.
We are all Olivia to some degree just blindly doing the best we can to fall down this rabbit hole of life trying to get home. This novel helps us all not feel so alone.
It beautifully embraces the complicated human conditions surrounding love, marriage, family, commitment, purpose, sacrifice, identity, and loyalty that all too many women face and struggle with daily.
The quote: “Numbness can be quite the armor if you put it on the right way,” rings so loudly in my head as I fall further and deeper into Olivia’s story.
This is the kind of novel that crawls into your heart, your soul and grips and tugs at your emotions as it holds a mirror up to the reader and demands you to take a deep long look at your own story, your own truths, your own journey about love, sacrifice, and identity.
We are all Olivia to some degree just blindly doing the best we can to fall down this rabbit hole of life trying to get home. This novel helps us all not feel so alone.
April 26, 2023
🧬𝔹𝕠𝕠𝕜 ℝ𝕖𝕧𝕚𝕖𝕨🔍
𝒯𝒽ℯ ℳ𝒶𝓇𝓇𝒾𝒶ℊℯ 𝒲𝒶𝓇𝓈 ʙʏ : @melissagowdybaldwin
➾ ꜰɪʀsᴛ ᴛʜᴏᴜɢʜᴛs: 𝙸 𝚎𝚗𝚓𝚘𝚢 𝚛𝚎𝚊𝚍𝚒𝚗𝚐 𝚙𝚘𝚜𝚝 𝚊𝚙𝚘𝚌𝚊𝚕𝚢𝚙𝚝𝚒𝚌 𝚜𝚝𝚘𝚛𝚒𝚎𝚜 𝚊𝚋𝚘𝚞𝚝 𝚍𝚢𝚜𝚝𝚘𝚙𝚒𝚊𝚗 𝚠𝚘𝚛𝚕𝚍𝚜. 𝚆𝚑𝚊𝚝 𝚖𝚊𝚔𝚎𝚜 𝚝𝚑𝚒𝚜 𝚘𝚗𝚎 𝚍𝚒𝚏𝚏𝚎𝚛𝚎𝚗𝚝 𝚒𝚜 𝚓𝚞𝚜𝚝 𝚑𝚘𝚠 𝚛𝚎𝚊𝚕𝚒𝚜𝚝𝚒𝚌 𝚒𝚝 𝚠𝚊𝚜! (𝙰𝚗𝚍 𝚊 𝚕𝚒𝚝𝚝𝚕𝚎 𝚝𝚎𝚛𝚛𝚒𝚏𝚢𝚒𝚗𝚐 𝚑𝚘𝚠 𝚜𝚘𝚖𝚎𝚝𝚑𝚒𝚗𝚐 𝚕𝚒𝚔𝚎 𝚝𝚑𝚒𝚜 𝚌𝚘𝚞𝚕𝚍 𝚛𝚎𝚊𝚕𝚕𝚢 𝚑𝚊𝚙𝚙𝚎𝚗!)
❀ 𝚃𝚑𝚒𝚜 𝚜𝚝𝚘𝚛𝚢 𝚒𝚜 𝚜𝚎𝚝 𝚒𝚗 𝚊 𝚏𝚞𝚝𝚞𝚛𝚎 𝚝𝚑𝚊𝚝 𝚒𝚜 𝚙𝚘𝚜𝚝 𝚙𝚊𝚗𝚍𝚎𝚖𝚒𝚌 𝚊𝚏𝚝𝚎𝚛 𝚟𝚊𝚌𝚌𝚒𝚗𝚊𝚝𝚒𝚘𝚗𝚜 𝚠𝚎𝚛𝚎 𝚏𝚘𝚞𝚗𝚍 𝚝𝚘 𝚌𝚊𝚞𝚜𝚎 𝚜𝚎𝚛𝚒𝚘𝚞𝚜 𝚒𝚜𝚜𝚞𝚎𝚜. “𝙱𝚒𝚐 𝙱𝚛𝚘𝚝𝚑𝚎𝚛“ 𝚜𝚝𝚎𝚙𝚜 𝚛𝚒𝚐𝚑𝚝 𝚘𝚗 𝚒𝚗 𝚝𝚘 “𝚜𝚊𝚟𝚎 𝚝𝚑𝚎 𝚍𝚊𝚢“ 🙄 𝙾𝚕𝚒𝚟𝚒𝚊 𝚑𝚊𝚜 𝚙𝚕𝚊𝚢𝚎𝚍 𝚑𝚎𝚛 𝚙𝚊𝚛𝚝 𝚒𝚗 𝚝𝚑𝚎𝚒𝚛 𝚖𝚊𝚛𝚛𝚒𝚊𝚐𝚎 𝚜𝚢𝚜𝚝𝚎𝚖 𝚏𝚘𝚛 𝚝𝚎𝚗 𝚢𝚎𝚊𝚛𝚜 𝚊𝚗𝚍 𝚗𝚎𝚟𝚎𝚛 𝚞𝚜𝚎𝚍 𝚝𝚑𝚎𝚒𝚛 𝚌𝚑𝚊𝚕𝚕𝚎𝚗𝚐𝚎 𝚙𝚊𝚜𝚜 𝚞𝚗𝚝𝚒𝚕 𝚝𝚑𝚒𝚜 𝚛𝚎𝚠𝚊𝚛𝚍 𝚝𝚒𝚖𝚎. 𝚂𝚑𝚎 𝚒𝚜 𝚝𝚛𝚊𝚙𝚙𝚎𝚍 𝚒𝚗 𝚑𝚎𝚛 𝚕𝚘𝚟𝚎𝚕𝚎𝚜𝚜 𝚖𝚊𝚛𝚛𝚒𝚊𝚐𝚎, 𝚊𝚗𝚍 𝚠𝚊𝚗𝚝𝚜 𝚊 𝚖𝚘𝚖𝚎𝚗𝚝 𝚝𝚘 𝚋𝚛𝚎𝚊𝚝𝚑𝚎, 𝚊 𝚖𝚘𝚖𝚎𝚗𝚝 𝚝𝚘 𝚕𝚒𝚟𝚎, 𝚊 𝚖𝚘𝚖𝚎𝚗𝚝 𝚏𝚘𝚛 𝚑𝚎𝚛 𝚊𝚗𝚍 𝚘𝚗𝚕𝚢 𝚑𝚎𝚛.
❀ 𝙷𝚎𝚛 𝚌𝚑𝚊𝚕𝚕𝚎𝚗𝚐𝚎 𝚙𝚊𝚜𝚜 𝚘𝚏𝚏𝚎𝚛𝚜 𝚑𝚎𝚛 𝚝𝚒𝚖𝚎 𝚊𝚝 𝚊 𝚕𝚞𝚡𝚞𝚛𝚢 𝚜𝚙𝚊 𝚠𝚑𝚎𝚛𝚎 𝚝𝚑𝚎 𝚙𝚊𝚜𝚝 𝚗𝚘𝚝 𝚘𝚗𝚕𝚢 𝚑𝚊𝚞𝚗𝚝𝚜 𝚑𝚎𝚛 𝚋𝚞𝚝 𝚜𝚑𝚎 𝚕𝚘𝚘𝚔𝚜 𝚛𝚒𝚐𝚑𝚝 𝚒𝚗𝚝𝚘 𝚑𝚒𝚜 𝚏𝚊𝚌𝚎 𝚊𝚐𝚊𝚒𝚗.
❀ 𝚃𝚑𝚒𝚜 𝚋𝚘𝚘𝚔 𝚔𝚎𝚙𝚝 𝚖𝚎 𝚑𝚘𝚘𝚔𝚎𝚍 𝚋𝚎𝚝𝚠𝚎𝚎𝚗 𝚝𝚑𝚎 𝚜𝚝𝚘𝚛𝚢 𝚕𝚒𝚗𝚎, 𝚝𝚑𝚎 𝚜𝚘𝚌𝚒𝚊𝚕 𝚒𝚜𝚜𝚞𝚎𝚜 𝚏𝚊𝚌𝚎𝚍, 𝚊𝚗𝚍 𝚝𝚑𝚎 𝚜𝚙𝚒𝚌𝚢 𝚋𝚒𝚝𝚜 𝚜𝚙𝚛𝚒𝚗𝚔𝚕𝚎𝚍 𝚝𝚑𝚛𝚘𝚞𝚐𝚑𝚘𝚞𝚝. 𝚃𝚑𝚒𝚜 𝚊𝚞𝚝𝚑𝚘𝚛 𝚍𝚒𝚍 𝚊 𝚠𝚘𝚗𝚍𝚎𝚛𝚏𝚞𝚕 𝚓𝚘𝚋 𝚘𝚏 𝚌𝚛𝚎𝚊𝚝𝚒𝚗𝚐 𝚊 𝚠𝚘𝚛𝚕𝚍 𝚗𝚘𝚝 𝚜𝚘 𝚏𝚊𝚛 𝚊𝚠𝚊𝚢, 𝚊𝚗𝚍 𝚝𝚒𝚎𝚍 𝚎𝚟𝚎𝚛𝚢𝚝𝚑𝚒𝚗𝚐 𝚝𝚘𝚐𝚎𝚝𝚑𝚎𝚛 𝚏𝚕𝚊𝚠𝚕𝚎𝚜𝚜𝚕𝚢!
❥ 𝚃𝚑𝚒𝚜 𝚠𝚊𝚜 𝚊𝚗 𝟺.𝟻 𝚜𝚝𝚊𝚛 𝚛𝚎𝚊𝚍 𝚏𝚘𝚛 𝚖𝚎 𝚊𝚗𝚍 𝙸 𝙷𝙸𝙶𝙷𝙻𝚈 𝚛𝚎𝚌𝚘𝚖𝚖𝚎𝚗𝚍 𝚒𝚝! 𝚆𝚑𝚊𝚝 𝚠𝚘𝚞𝚕𝚍 𝚢𝚘𝚞 𝚋𝚎 𝚠𝚒𝚕𝚕𝚒𝚗𝚐 𝚝𝚘 𝚍𝚘 𝚏𝚘𝚛 𝚝𝚑𝚎 𝚐𝚛𝚎𝚊𝚝𝚎𝚛 𝚐𝚘𝚘𝚍?
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➾ ꜰɪʀsᴛ ᴛʜᴏᴜɢʜᴛs: 𝙸 𝚎𝚗𝚓𝚘𝚢 𝚛𝚎𝚊𝚍𝚒𝚗𝚐 𝚙𝚘𝚜𝚝 𝚊𝚙𝚘𝚌𝚊𝚕𝚢𝚙𝚝𝚒𝚌 𝚜𝚝𝚘𝚛𝚒𝚎𝚜 𝚊𝚋𝚘𝚞𝚝 𝚍𝚢𝚜𝚝𝚘𝚙𝚒𝚊𝚗 𝚠𝚘𝚛𝚕𝚍𝚜. 𝚆𝚑𝚊𝚝 𝚖𝚊𝚔𝚎𝚜 𝚝𝚑𝚒𝚜 𝚘𝚗𝚎 𝚍𝚒𝚏𝚏𝚎𝚛𝚎𝚗𝚝 𝚒𝚜 𝚓𝚞𝚜𝚝 𝚑𝚘𝚠 𝚛𝚎𝚊𝚕𝚒𝚜𝚝𝚒𝚌 𝚒𝚝 𝚠𝚊𝚜! (𝙰𝚗𝚍 𝚊 𝚕𝚒𝚝𝚝𝚕𝚎 𝚝𝚎𝚛𝚛𝚒𝚏𝚢𝚒𝚗𝚐 𝚑𝚘𝚠 𝚜𝚘𝚖𝚎𝚝𝚑𝚒𝚗𝚐 𝚕𝚒𝚔𝚎 𝚝𝚑𝚒𝚜 𝚌𝚘𝚞𝚕𝚍 𝚛𝚎𝚊𝚕𝚕𝚢 𝚑𝚊𝚙𝚙𝚎𝚗!)
❀ 𝚃𝚑𝚒𝚜 𝚜𝚝𝚘𝚛𝚢 𝚒𝚜 𝚜𝚎𝚝 𝚒𝚗 𝚊 𝚏𝚞𝚝𝚞𝚛𝚎 𝚝𝚑𝚊𝚝 𝚒𝚜 𝚙𝚘𝚜𝚝 𝚙𝚊𝚗𝚍𝚎𝚖𝚒𝚌 𝚊𝚏𝚝𝚎𝚛 𝚟𝚊𝚌𝚌𝚒𝚗𝚊𝚝𝚒𝚘𝚗𝚜 𝚠𝚎𝚛𝚎 𝚏𝚘𝚞𝚗𝚍 𝚝𝚘 𝚌𝚊𝚞𝚜𝚎 𝚜𝚎𝚛𝚒𝚘𝚞𝚜 𝚒𝚜𝚜𝚞𝚎𝚜. “𝙱𝚒𝚐 𝙱𝚛𝚘𝚝𝚑𝚎𝚛“ 𝚜𝚝𝚎𝚙𝚜 𝚛𝚒𝚐𝚑𝚝 𝚘𝚗 𝚒𝚗 𝚝𝚘 “𝚜𝚊𝚟𝚎 𝚝𝚑𝚎 𝚍𝚊𝚢“ 🙄 𝙾𝚕𝚒𝚟𝚒𝚊 𝚑𝚊𝚜 𝚙𝚕𝚊𝚢𝚎𝚍 𝚑𝚎𝚛 𝚙𝚊𝚛𝚝 𝚒𝚗 𝚝𝚑𝚎𝚒𝚛 𝚖𝚊𝚛𝚛𝚒𝚊𝚐𝚎 𝚜𝚢𝚜𝚝𝚎𝚖 𝚏𝚘𝚛 𝚝𝚎𝚗 𝚢𝚎𝚊𝚛𝚜 𝚊𝚗𝚍 𝚗𝚎𝚟𝚎𝚛 𝚞𝚜𝚎𝚍 𝚝𝚑𝚎𝚒𝚛 𝚌𝚑𝚊𝚕𝚕𝚎𝚗𝚐𝚎 𝚙𝚊𝚜𝚜 𝚞𝚗𝚝𝚒𝚕 𝚝𝚑𝚒𝚜 𝚛𝚎𝚠𝚊𝚛𝚍 𝚝𝚒𝚖𝚎. 𝚂𝚑𝚎 𝚒𝚜 𝚝𝚛𝚊𝚙𝚙𝚎𝚍 𝚒𝚗 𝚑𝚎𝚛 𝚕𝚘𝚟𝚎𝚕𝚎𝚜𝚜 𝚖𝚊𝚛𝚛𝚒𝚊𝚐𝚎, 𝚊𝚗𝚍 𝚠𝚊𝚗𝚝𝚜 𝚊 𝚖𝚘𝚖𝚎𝚗𝚝 𝚝𝚘 𝚋𝚛𝚎𝚊𝚝𝚑𝚎, 𝚊 𝚖𝚘𝚖𝚎𝚗𝚝 𝚝𝚘 𝚕𝚒𝚟𝚎, 𝚊 𝚖𝚘𝚖𝚎𝚗𝚝 𝚏𝚘𝚛 𝚑𝚎𝚛 𝚊𝚗𝚍 𝚘𝚗𝚕𝚢 𝚑𝚎𝚛.
❀ 𝙷𝚎𝚛 𝚌𝚑𝚊𝚕𝚕𝚎𝚗𝚐𝚎 𝚙𝚊𝚜𝚜 𝚘𝚏𝚏𝚎𝚛𝚜 𝚑𝚎𝚛 𝚝𝚒𝚖𝚎 𝚊𝚝 𝚊 𝚕𝚞𝚡𝚞𝚛𝚢 𝚜𝚙𝚊 𝚠𝚑𝚎𝚛𝚎 𝚝𝚑𝚎 𝚙𝚊𝚜𝚝 𝚗𝚘𝚝 𝚘𝚗𝚕𝚢 𝚑𝚊𝚞𝚗𝚝𝚜 𝚑𝚎𝚛 𝚋𝚞𝚝 𝚜𝚑𝚎 𝚕𝚘𝚘𝚔𝚜 𝚛𝚒𝚐𝚑𝚝 𝚒𝚗𝚝𝚘 𝚑𝚒𝚜 𝚏𝚊𝚌𝚎 𝚊𝚐𝚊𝚒𝚗.
❀ 𝚃𝚑𝚒𝚜 𝚋𝚘𝚘𝚔 𝚔𝚎𝚙𝚝 𝚖𝚎 𝚑𝚘𝚘𝚔𝚎𝚍 𝚋𝚎𝚝𝚠𝚎𝚎𝚗 𝚝𝚑𝚎 𝚜𝚝𝚘𝚛𝚢 𝚕𝚒𝚗𝚎, 𝚝𝚑𝚎 𝚜𝚘𝚌𝚒𝚊𝚕 𝚒𝚜𝚜𝚞𝚎𝚜 𝚏𝚊𝚌𝚎𝚍, 𝚊𝚗𝚍 𝚝𝚑𝚎 𝚜𝚙𝚒𝚌𝚢 𝚋𝚒𝚝𝚜 𝚜𝚙𝚛𝚒𝚗𝚔𝚕𝚎𝚍 𝚝𝚑𝚛𝚘𝚞𝚐𝚑𝚘𝚞𝚝. 𝚃𝚑𝚒𝚜 𝚊𝚞𝚝𝚑𝚘𝚛 𝚍𝚒𝚍 𝚊 𝚠𝚘𝚗𝚍𝚎𝚛𝚏𝚞𝚕 𝚓𝚘𝚋 𝚘𝚏 𝚌𝚛𝚎𝚊𝚝𝚒𝚗𝚐 𝚊 𝚠𝚘𝚛𝚕𝚍 𝚗𝚘𝚝 𝚜𝚘 𝚏𝚊𝚛 𝚊𝚠𝚊𝚢, 𝚊𝚗𝚍 𝚝𝚒𝚎𝚍 𝚎𝚟𝚎𝚛𝚢𝚝𝚑𝚒𝚗𝚐 𝚝𝚘𝚐𝚎𝚝𝚑𝚎𝚛 𝚏𝚕𝚊𝚠𝚕𝚎𝚜𝚜𝚕𝚢!
❥ 𝚃𝚑𝚒𝚜 𝚠𝚊𝚜 𝚊𝚗 𝟺.𝟻 𝚜𝚝𝚊𝚛 𝚛𝚎𝚊𝚍 𝚏𝚘𝚛 𝚖𝚎 𝚊𝚗𝚍 𝙸 𝙷𝙸𝙶𝙷𝙻𝚈 𝚛𝚎𝚌𝚘𝚖𝚖𝚎𝚗𝚍 𝚒𝚝! 𝚆𝚑𝚊𝚝 𝚠𝚘𝚞𝚕𝚍 𝚢𝚘𝚞 𝚋𝚎 𝚠𝚒𝚕𝚕𝚒𝚗𝚐 𝚝𝚘 𝚍𝚘 𝚏𝚘𝚛 𝚝𝚑𝚎 𝚐𝚛𝚎𝚊𝚝𝚎𝚛 𝚐𝚘𝚘𝚍?
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April 25, 2023
The Marriage Wars is Melissa Gowdy Baldwin's first dystopian book. Almost too real to be fiction, dystopian novels don't appeal to me much. Given the state of the world today, it is not difficult to imagine that the government might intervene and enact laws restricting a woman's body in an effort to boost the birth rate. The likelihood is far too real.
The narrative follows Olivia as she deals with the Nation's post-pandemic future while raising two kids with her husband, Thomas. The Nation rewards them because they have successful marriages and present the appearance of being a contented, devout wife and mother. She receives a Challenge Permit, which entitles her to a three-day state-approved escort, as part of her tenth anniversary present. Will Olivia still be the same obedient wife and mother after this experience? What about her true love, Ethan?
The amount of spiciness was just right, and it was done with finesse. Although it began out slowly, I found the tale to be interesting. The tale flowed beautifully, and I loved the way Melissa wrote.
Thank you to BookSirens for the ARC! :)
The narrative follows Olivia as she deals with the Nation's post-pandemic future while raising two kids with her husband, Thomas. The Nation rewards them because they have successful marriages and present the appearance of being a contented, devout wife and mother. She receives a Challenge Permit, which entitles her to a three-day state-approved escort, as part of her tenth anniversary present. Will Olivia still be the same obedient wife and mother after this experience? What about her true love, Ethan?
The amount of spiciness was just right, and it was done with finesse. Although it began out slowly, I found the tale to be interesting. The tale flowed beautifully, and I loved the way Melissa wrote.
Thank you to BookSirens for the ARC! :)
February 6, 2025
I didn't really have a good idea of what to expect with this book but I ended up enjoying it.
The dystopian world was interesting because I feel like it is something that is totally plausible... which is a little terrifying. It's almost like it took the issues we are facing today and blew them up to make a whole society based around them.
I related to Olivia on a certain level. Mostly, the back and forth she has with herself about whether she liked her life or not, feeling trapped while also loving her children, figuring out the best way to respond to the circumstances while trying to hold on to herself and those she cares about.
I will say the the storyline was slightly predictable and that instead of plot twists, it's more like spilling tea.
Overall, I enjoyed the book and would love to see what happens in the second one!
The dystopian world was interesting because I feel like it is something that is totally plausible... which is a little terrifying. It's almost like it took the issues we are facing today and blew them up to make a whole society based around them.
I related to Olivia on a certain level. Mostly, the back and forth she has with herself about whether she liked her life or not, feeling trapped while also loving her children, figuring out the best way to respond to the circumstances while trying to hold on to herself and those she cares about.
I will say the the storyline was slightly predictable and that instead of plot twists, it's more like spilling tea.
Overall, I enjoyed the book and would love to see what happens in the second one!
March 6, 2023
Humanity, having endured a catastrophic pandemic, many years in the future finds itself living in a dystopian world. The Government has the power over marriage and the children produced.
Each marriage is given a reward, at predetermined lengths if the marriage is deemed successful by the government. The wife must show an outward expression of happiness and fulfil her duties. Olivia has done her duty, raised 2 children and cared for her family members.
Using the challenge pass at the spa was well written and had just the right amount of spice.
Following Olivia’s journey was an emotional rollercoaster but as her story unfolded and the twists and turns revealed the truth, it left me wanting more.
Highly recommend and I'm looking forward to the next book coming out.
September 24, 2023
I enjoyed the narration of Dahlia Summers
Many years in the future. after the pandemic has wiped out a significant amount of the population. The Marriage Edicts are created to help pair people with spouses they will have the highest chance of procreating. Every few years, both spouses are offered a “cheat weekend” with a luxury escort service. Olivia, who is unhappy in her marriage . So uses her challenge pass and stays in a hotel with different guys for three nights. It is there she comes across her former love. Making Olivia decide what to do.
This book has so many elements and turns . Loved
Many years in the future. after the pandemic has wiped out a significant amount of the population. The Marriage Edicts are created to help pair people with spouses they will have the highest chance of procreating. Every few years, both spouses are offered a “cheat weekend” with a luxury escort service. Olivia, who is unhappy in her marriage . So uses her challenge pass and stays in a hotel with different guys for three nights. It is there she comes across her former love. Making Olivia decide what to do.
This book has so many elements and turns . Loved
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