I somehow thought of it as a kind of “reference book.” It’s like a 10/10 reference book. So many of her experiences and reflections hit straight to my heart. If I ever go through similar things, I’ll quote her or borrow her metaphors to express my own feelings.
She’s smart and knowledgeable, but there’s also so much openness and sincerity in her writing. I trust her sensitivity and sharp critics into politics and philosophy. It’s rare, but so precious and comforting to see these reflections come from a female writer. These essays come from her blog posts between 2006 and 2009, and reading them feels like checking someone’s page over and over when you have a quiet crush, always hoping they’ve posted something new. Though it’s 2025 now, that time doesn’t feel so distant, you either learn a bit of history or could recall some own memories. It’s half admiration, half emotional attachment to her thoughts.
I also love how some academia person can reflect on and capture everyday life and pop culture.
What’s more, or on a personal note, I had recently been feeling uncomfortable writing anything serious in Chinese anymore, mostly because I hadn’t read serious Chinese writing for a while. But after reading this book, I found that willingness again, and Chinese words started coming to me directly and naturally. =)
But I honestly don’t understand why this book, and Liu herself agreed to publish multiple versions (it seems more than five), some of which are edited to remove politically sensitive content.