Absolutely delightful romance, exuberantly and elegantly written (which is a hard combo to pull off), actually funny, and full of longing and hope and all the wonderful things. Set in the tight knit Black community at a majority white university on the usual spectrum between well-meaning patronising cluelessness and overt racism.
The hero is purely delightful in every way, considerate, caring, listening, emotionally intelligent, but still not implausibly perfect. (The fact that this list of characteristics is close to implausible suggests how incredibly low we set the bar for men, and if you nodded at that you need to buy this book immediately.) The heroine is hurt and contradictory sometimes, but shaping herself to be a spectacular person. The relationship itself is very slow burn with delightful UST, but in parallel we see the heroine starting to make female friendships and the importance of that is absolutely equal to the relationship.
It's university-set so I suppose it could be YA/NA but it doesn't at all read that way. These feel like characters who ar young adults rather than YA characters, if that makes sense: the issues of trust and cliques and politics and bad men could all be played out by people in an office thirty years on. Which isn't to say these aren't convincing students: they really are, in their drama and earnestness. They're *people*.
One thing that seems important: this is very much a book about Black joy. Some bad things have happened to hero and heroine, but while acknowledging their seriousness, we're also well aware they could have been worse: that the heroine's mother survived her cancer, and the shitty men don't get their way, and when a lot of people have the opportunity to be horrible, they choose instead to be friends. That matters a great deal in the context of a publishing industry that all too often equates POC stories with "issues", and validates books by how much trauma and misery they inflict on the characters. Black joy is a political statement, and this book makes it loud and clear (but never glibly).
Delightful, heart-warming, very funny and engaging. A book that chooses to be a massive good time, and succeeds.