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I wanted to read this book after hearing Evie King being interviewed on local radio; I thought she seemed like a lot of fun, and she had a very interesting job. I'd never heard of the post of Council Funeral Officer before; but it sounded like a fascinating job, organising Section 46 funerals under the Public Health Act, ie, for people without the family and/or finances to cremate or bury them: although I do wonder how many CFOs perform their task in the way that Evie does.
One thing I soon learned from reading this book is that Section 46 funerals are nothing like the dismal image of a pauper's funeral that I had in my head. If the deceased has left behind documentation relating to their wishes concerning their committal, those wishes will be carried out: if there's no such information, or the deceased's identity is unknown, they will still receive a dignified send-off.
King talks about her early days in the job, and with each case, we see her expertise and knowledge developing and growing. She learns how to become immune to the "smell of death", to maggots in months'-old food and, in the process, realises that she possesses a talent for organising respectful funerals for the dispossessed dead.
King's book is enlightening for readers in respect of what a "Council Funeral" actually entails. One of her cases is that of a man whose family are in receipt of benefits, as was he, and who are devastated by the thought that their loved one will receive only a cheap, perfunctory send-off because even collectively they couldn't afford anything more. In fact, the reassuring truth is that a Section 46 funeral may have fewer frills than other funerals, but it is still every bit as respectful and dignified.
Whilst King has no way of knowing how other CFOs operate, her approach is to contact all the relevant authorities and necessary departments to set the wheels in motion. She ensures that the funeral will be conducted according to the deceased's wishes, if known, or their family's, and then liases with whoever is conducting the service.
When few details are known about the deceased, King then embarks on a search for any existing family, friends, colleagues, documentation, etc who can shed light on the dead person's life and thereby help her to tailor the funeral service to what the deceased would have liked, or what seems the most appropriate and pleasing. Where this becomes impossible is when either the deceased has no apparent family or their identity is unknown. This is where King comes into her own, setting out on a mission to find out whatever she can about them, using all the means at her disposal and some inspired methods of her own. She doesn't always succeed, but it's heartening to see the lengths to which she goes and the effort she puts in.
There's no doubt that King's job can be emotionally tough and also hard on the olfactory system at times, but it's also clear that this is a fascinating and deeply rewarding career requiring a combination of skills, including those of a detective on occasion. A sense of gallows humour is probably also necessary; but on occasion, King is a bit *too* jokey and inappropriate. There are a couple of deeply unsavoury characters for whom funerals are required, but the rest are a joy to read about - such as Edward (aka 'Adam'), Carl, Jean, and Alex; the unknown girl who brought strangers together in an outpouring of love and compassion; and the minister who conducted a funeral dressed as a Jedi, in a chapel decked out like a spaceship.
There's plenty to learn in this gently uplifting book. Some of Evie King's cases will make you cry, others will make you angry, and some will make you smile - or even *laugh*. Above all, there's nothing morbid or depressing about this book - unless you count the behaviour and attitudes of some of the deceaseds' family members.
For further proof of the nature of the book, consider the reviewers chosen and whose comments are printed on the covers and inside the book:
• Stewart Lee: "I laughed and cried. I can't recommend this book enough."
• Richard Herring: "A remarkable book."
• Georgie Vestey: "What happens when we die alone or without money? If we're lucky, CFO Evie King steps in. Evie offers a fascinating and often amusing insight into an aspect of death that is universally feared. A surprisingly uplifting meditation on what death has to teach us about life."
• Diane (Philomena Cunk) Morgan: "A fascinating, poignant, and funny insight into the slightly macabre world of a Council Funeral Officer."
• Joe Wilkinson: "I was hooked from the first moment I started reading."
I'm with Stewart Lee and recommend this book highly.