Wouldn't it be nice if we were older? / Then we wouldn't have to wait so long / And wouldn't it be nice to live together / In the kind of world where we belong? (Wouldn’t It Be Nice – The Beach Boys).
Well great, it’s over and now I’m sad. Another beautiful story that made me feel way too much on a random afternoon under my belt. I'm collecting the heart-wrenchers like Infinity Stones at this point! So, yay for that? I will say that I was more than happy with the happily-ever-after ending because... trust me, with the way that summer romances usually end up, whether it be in song, movie, or book format, I was totally preparing for the ending to go any kind of way. I know that the understood nature of romance stories set during summer is that they're fleeting, and most stories try to convey this through a bittersweet ending in order to express a level of realism like with the early works of Adam Silvera, but I just thought it was really sweet how instead, My Summer of You's author decided to depict three consecutive of Wataru and Chiharu's romance to show how they both changed and stayed the same. The lack of sweeping romantic gestures and heightened relationship strife throughout the story felt like a promise to the reader that things were going to work out okay in the end. And I do think there's a special kind of beauty in the mundanity of their relationship because if offered a different kind of grounded appeal without things slipping into cliches. Okay look, I've read so much manga in my life that I don’t even have all of it logged on Goodreads (I’m all caught up on both Spy x Family and One Punch Man) and I really don't want to flood everybody's news feed, so I'll just say that I’ve kind of built up a certain immunity to common tropes in the romance genre and leave it there. The endless love-triangles, the childhood friend who shows up way late in the story to add a little extra dash of drama, or the sudden changes of hearts between the main couple during the final arc, I've seen it all. So, you can probably imagine my surprise when I'm reading something I picked up on a whim all la-di-daa~aa where all of a sudden I noticed that the narrative conflict has a surprisingly introspective take on relationships despite the otherwise light nature of the manga. You don't see it every day, so I think it’s important for me to take note. That’s what this review is; me taking notes! It really is nice to come across characters in a manga that act like real people and respond to their real people problems in a real person way! Woah, maturity? What a novel concept.
It’s cool because I don’t really think this manga needed to go on for three whole volumes (you can go ahead and read the first one and call it a day if you really want to), and you could argue that The Summer With You feels a bit like an extended epilogue much in the same way The Nobleman’s Guide to Scandal and Shipwrecks was, but I think this sequel was a nice addition simply because more time with these characters also gave the author more time to explore how their relationship would evolve past being high school sweethearts. How could they continue on? That’s what this volume is for. For example, and this is slight spoilers for the first volume, but the big climactic moment happens when Chiharu abruptly leaves one day without telling Wataru because he always knew their time together was going to be brief, and rather than coming clean from the outset, he instead convinced himself that it was easier for all parties involved if he had just left without saying goodbye. After going ghost for months, Wataru finds Chiharu on a chance encounter and makes him realize that all he was really sparing was his own fragile ego. Phew, but the thing is that while it's all water under the bridge now, we learn that Wataru still has residual resentment and fear over Chiharu’s flighty nature. This is mostly shown in how drunk Wataru is always grabbing his shirt whenever he's simply leaving the room because he's afraid he'll disappear on him again. It’s pretty sad and yet a wonderfully effective way of story-telling that expertly shows how the prospect of forgiveness isn't always so linear, and old hurts can sometimes flair right back up if not properly addressed. Also, if nothing else, Chiharu going out of his way to assure Wataru that he's here to stay this time specifically catered to my tastes as a reader because as you know, I'm always big on apologies in these kinds of stories. Can't get enough of them! In general, manga is an art form where everyone's emotions are always worn on their sleeves so blatantly that there usually isn’t much of a point in any in-depth character study, so I’m not really used to a story with level of nuance. Besides, it’s always nice to see an apology scene in a story where I don't categorically hate anybody on either side. Because you'd best believe me… I usually have an opinion on anything and everything.
Hey, do you think it's selfish of me to say that this manga should have continued on for a million more installments? I mean, I don't really know how a story like this could keep going, considering that even this volume felt like it was stretching the premise at points, but I'm just saying, if My Hero Academia can overstay its welcome long past closing hours, then why not this cute little gay romance manga? Bad or not, I wouldn’t mind this series taking up a lot more space on my bookshelf, that’s for sure! Actually, scratch that, I should probably just be grateful I actually got a complete ending, because there are so many manga out there that go on for so long that I kind of forget I was even reading them in the first place and drop off eventually (cough cough One Punch Man)! I wouldn't want this manga to grow more and more tired with each subsequent sequel until I can only remember what I once loved with resentment and disdain. Sure, I can throw out names like The Walking Dead or Naruto because they apply here, but for some reason I just keep thinking about this one YouTube channel I remember that did these “relatable” racial "humor" type videos that were all titled shit like “5 Things Asian Parents Do” (yawn). And let me tell you, they milked the hell out of them, eventually getting so desperate to keep the momentum going that their video started looking a little something like, “27 Things Asian Girls Do In College When They’re Also Majoring in Economics” instead. I guess you’ve got to get very specific down there while you’re scraping the bottom of the barrel. Literally just nonsense capitalizing on sweeping generalizations that are vague enough to the point where anybody with a pulse could watch them and be all like, “omg I'm an Asian, and this is soo~ooo me coded!” Yeah well, I’m Asian too, and that shit isn’t me at all. Anyway, my point is that I’d never wish for this manga to get to the point where I'd include it among the likes of Bleach, Boruto, or even Dragon Ball Super. Besides, the longer a series goes on, the more opportunities there are for the characters to either become parodies of themselves or become so mythologized that they become larger than the narrative. Just ask Dave Filoni, a grown ass man with the writing capabilities of a child mashing together action figures. As bittersweet as it can be, endings are there for a reason, and I don’t want this beautiful summer romance to simply be another victim of the slop machine! Okay, I’m cool now. I’m calm. In fact, I’m happy! Happy to have read a beautiful queer love story that just happened to make me feel a little too much on this random afternoon.
But happy times together we've been spending
I wish that every kiss was never-ending
Oh, wouldn't it be nice?