🪖 I liked Fielding’s interpretation of the U.S. Army Special Forces motto “de oppresso liber” as also relating to liberating your own mind/mindset from self-oppression.
🪖 In Chapter 3, when Fielding recalls walking home from a party rather than getting in a friend’s car, there are some holes in the story that feel intentional. It is heavily implied that there was probably illegal drinking and other illegal activities going on. Otherwise, why would all of Fielding’s friends be arrested? Fielding never comes out and directly says why they were arrested and his lack of details makes the story and Fielding sound ingenuine and deceptive.
🪖 I believe it would have been better for Kimberly to tell/write her own story. Furthermore, many self-help books talk about finding “the positive” in everything. I firmly believe that there are some things you do not need to find “the positive” in and that that is okay. Fielding talks about how Kimberly suffered sexual abuse and was kidnapped at knifepoint when she was fifteen (Whether these were 2 separate incidents or the same is not confirmed). These are a few situations that I believe you do not need to find “the positive” in. No one should ever have to find “the positive” in or try to positively examine sexual abuse or rape.
🪖 I grew up with a U.S. Army National Guard father who would commonly regal me and my siblings with stories of his service, training, and military experience. He would commonly tell us stories of his drill sergeants with all the swearing included. Therefore, reading Fielding’s PG-13 or General Audiences downplayed drill sergeants felt ingenuine and unrealistic. I do not know why Fielding took out swear words, especially when he makes a point multiple times in his book that you need a “tough skin” and swear words help enforce this tough skin. Therefore, it felt contradictory for Fielding to exclude swearing.