REVIEW
cw: mentions of addiction, cancer, death, cheating, grief, bullying, misogyny
When Phyllis, the matriarch of Joni's family passes away, she leaves instructions for a bonding week of activities devised to bring her estranged family back together.
I loved Sarah Turner's previous book, Stepping Up. She writes difficult family dynamics really well. This book took me longer to get into but it was definitely a grower.
My biggest issue early on was Joni, the main character. Let me preface this by saying that I am a huge planner, so I saw some of my own traits in her. But truthfully, I found Joni rather unlikeable at times, and sometimes downright immature. That's not to say I didn't understand her frustration with her step-siblings Cate and Nick. But, even before the big twist, I felt sorry for her dad and his wife, Allie. She treated them both so dismissively, particularly early on. As the story progressed I was able to empathise a lot more with her and started to understand how she'd become so rigid in her life. The complex and varied ways that people react differently to grief were well-written. From Michael’s (Joni's father) pain and reluctance to ever speak about Joni's mum, to Joni's resentment at the cemetery. I sensed a twist, but the one that came still surprised me. I loved Allie. She was so sweet and caring towards Joni. I felt really sad for Michael because it was so clear that he missed his daughter. But I adored the resolution in chapter forty-three.
There were a lot of amusing moments in this book. Sue's message threads, along with her naivety about emojis were hilarious. Each activity was a lot of fun, but the one in chapter 26 cracked me up the most. Tim the activities instructor's reactions to this quirky family and their fraught dynamic cracked me up so many times. His reaction when he thought Bilbo was real, and locked in the car was hilarious. I wasn't surprised by how his relationship developed with Joni, but it was sweet and felt organic. Conversely, both Jason and Lewis were walking, talking red flags and I honestly couldn't fathom how Joni had managed to maintain a relationship with Lewis for a decade. Even though I disliked Lewis, he was right in what he said about how Joni had described Allie, Nick, and Cate so negatively to him. While initially feeling a bit one-dimensional, I grew to like both Nick and Cate. But Stan was, BY FAR, my favourite character. He was such a sweetheart, and I loved his innocent questions and podcast ideas. But my heart broke for him too, especially when we learned about his early life and his ongoing insecurities. I won't spoil the plot, but he has some of the best scenes in the book, and I particularly loved how his relationship with Joni developed. His presentation at the end was absolutely adorable.
An ultimately uplifting story about the power of healing fractured family dynamics.
Overall Rating: ❤️❤️❤️❤️
Heat Rating: n/a
*Thanks to NetGalley and the publisher for an ARC of this book. All opinions are my own*
Favourite Quotes:
‘I’ve honestly never met a family like yours,’ he says.
‘Most of them are not my family , as I keep pointing out, but I get your point. At least you’re getting paid for it. Spare a thought for me.
It’s remarkable how often I say no worries for someone who does, in fact, have all the worries.
It never gets easier , despite what people think. The deepest of wounds is opened when someone you love dies, and no amount of life going on around you can heal it. Yes, you learn to live with the wound, because you have to. If you’re lucky, over time that wound fades to a scar, but sometimes it gets reopened, the pain and messiness of it seeping out over everything that’s new.