Stop Settling: Finding Clear Directions for a Regret-Free Life

by Rick Hale

Purpose. Meaning. Fulfillment. Who wants to live in a way that doesn't make a dent? No one. But how do we find and follow the right direction? Some of us live defensively, trying to avoid big mistakes, but our caution may cause us to miss some wonderful opportunities. Others insist they're spontaneous, seat-of-the-pants people who "go with the flow." They assume good things will somehow just happen for them. And others are meticulous planners who have goals and a schedule for every day, every week, every year, and every decade of their lives. Each of these kinds of people has at least part of the picture, but there's another-a better-way. In this book, Rick Hale identifies sources of inspiration to live a life that really matters, and he provides tools to help people narrow their sights to focus on the priorities that make their lives awesome. He shares his own circuitous journey to fulfillment, success, and rich relationships, and he invites all of us to stop settling for anything less!

276 pages, Kindle Edition

Published March 14, 2023

Reviews

[Thomas Coughlin · Rating 5 out of 5]

I knew when I read the first pages, which are about a life-altering conversation the author had with his father when he was 26 about embracing failure and striving for a regret free life, that this was a book for me. “Stop Settling” is certainly a book that anyone can read and take something away from but as a 26 year old with goals and aspirations, I just felt I could really connect with the author’s advice.

As someone who has read quite a few books in the “self-help” genre, what I think makes this book stand out is it’s holistic and balanced approach to improving your life. A lot of self-help books feel a bit selfish in a way where they focus everything on maximizing your fitness, finances, and productivity. But not this book. While the author does discuss those topics, I appreciate that he clarifies there is more to living a regret-free life like being charitable/improving the lives of others, taking the time to be creative and explore passions, and building strong relationships. The book is also very practical in that it gives questions, exercises, and examples to spur thought on what your own best life would look like.

Overall, “Stop Settling” is a great book for anyone looking to improve their lives and is willing to put in the work that the book asks of you. It’s a fairly easy read but challenges the reader to think deeply on what they want their life to be, if they are taking the steps to make that life a reality, and how to course-correct in the areas of their life that are not moving towards that ideal life. If you embrace these challenges, theres a lot that can be taken away from the book.

[Jeri Moran · Rating 5 out of 5]

This is one of the easiest books to read of its kind because of how well Rick Hale communicates. I thought it would take me a week to read, but I couldn't put it down and finishd it in two days! I love his story and I really appreciate that this book is not just filled with reasons why we should "stop settling," but every chapter has real "how to" ways, methods and strategies that make stopping settling so easy! I can't wait for the audio book because I'm dying to go through the material again, and I believe hearing the author read it to me will completely cement his ideas into my brain. If reading these types of books were an education, I would have a Doctorate Degree...and this book is truly one of the best due to how easy it is to absorb. This is a gift...Don't squander the opportunity to start living better today. Buy this book!

[Riah Deal · Rating 5 out of 5]

I had always hated the question where do you see yourself in 5-10+ years. I knew I wanted success but I was just letting life pass me by thinking that there’s too much uncertainy in the future. For the first time I was able to really ask myself where do I see myself in 5 years. Rick Hale does a great job blending narrative with practical steps. Each step builds upon its self where you have tangible building blocks to your next destination.

As someone who loves biographys and documentaries, Rick has an amazing story. Despite the tragedies and rejection he's experienced, he's allowed each hurddle to teach him something about himself and keep on keeping on.

Definitely recommend this book if your ready to take full advantage of life and all that it has to offer.

[Josh Hooper · Rating 5 out of 5]

The author shares the story of his life and how it shaped him to the position where he can share tactical advice on how to Stop Settling in your life. While reading I felt like I was having a conversation with a mentor. I was immediately inspired to go through the activities he shared throughout the book. It has the potential to change your life by changing the lens through which you view your life. If you are looking for clarity, it is within you and this book gives you tactics on how to reach clarity in your vision and in your process. This one is going to be on the annual list to re-read.

[Nilesh · Rating 5 out of 5]

Just wrapped up "Stop Settling" by Rick Hale, and let me be real with you – it's no ordinary read. 🚀 Starting with the author's own journey, this book feels like a heart-to-heart conversation with a close friend.
Hale doesn't just dive into setting goals and real estate; he does it in a way that's relatable, not preachy. It's like having a cozy chat with a mentor who genuinely wants to see you thrive.
As I flipped through the pages, I found myself nodding along to his advice on making every day count and building connections that matter. If you're up for a genuine conversation and practical insights, give it a shot.

[Brett Caldwell · Rating 5 out of 5]

I finished reading Stop Settling by Rick Hale and I’m super motivated to find my Best Life! The story telling and practical application of how to get clarity and move towards my best life will be an infinite return on investment! The book reads very well and doesn’t over complicate simple concepts with big rewards!

[Denise Buchanan · Rating 5 out of 5]

Best book I've read this year !!!!! Treat yourself to this thought-provoking read! It's worth it!