I bought this book maybe a year and a half ago, and I started reading it last April. I was intrigued when I flipped through it at the bookstore. It seemed like a devotional but with action-steps/homework for you to focus on throughout the day or week. I liked that idea! Sometimes it's easy to get caught up in "living your life" and forget to love your neighbor well, but this book seems like a great way to build up the habit of loving on those around you.
All that said... in the span of about a year, I have made it to day 15 of this book — as a fairly consistent reader, that is almost unheard of for me. And some of those days, I was not able to fully complete because I didn't have a situation available in which I could complete the task (like seeking reconciliation with someone — if you don't have a circumstance in which you could apply this, then it's hard to complete haha). I appreciate what this book is trying to do. It is a fairly aggressive way to build up the habit of loving your neighbor. I like the concept. But I do wonder if a group of readers ran through the book in a beta stage and said, "Yes, this is doable." Some of it just feels like too much to do in a week. And I am not saying that because I am a scrooge! I feel like this concept just feels too overwhelming.
If you are practicing hospitality, reconciling with someone, opening your home to strangers, sacrificing something for others, etc. in one week, that is a lot. It is good, but it is a lot. I really wanted to complete this book, but I have just realized it isn't for me. Some of this stuff I already practice anyways, so to compound my to-do-for-others list feels like an undue burden. I think if you kinda ignored doing this daily and just picked it up whenever you felt a nudge from the Holy Spirit, that would be a better methodology for finishing this book. I think the format for this book would've been better as pared-down to a thirty day devotional, or as a 100-item list in a lovely coffee table book that you could just pick up whenever.
I feel bad throwing in the towel on this book in some ways because I love the idea of it. But I also know that sometimes certain books aren't for us in certain seasons, or maybe ever. I think right now this book isn't for me.
The pages that I have looked at seemed very helpful and even convicting at points to where it made me reevaluate myself. I liked the short format of each day and the space to write off to the side. I also appreciated the variety of journal prompts or tasks to do for each day.
One area I am disappointed in this book is the paper quality 😭 since it is a journaling-type format, I wish a bit more thought had been put into the paper! It is almost like newsprint + construction paper had a baby together. It's sort of difficult to write on in any medium—pencil, pen, etc.
2.75 stars.