"Please don't be a bystander" (p. 248). This book surprised me. I picked it up on a whim and had low expectations. However the three co-authors do an excellent job deconstructing the culture of violence and rape that pervades, and in some ways, defines professional hockey. The authors take a nuanced approach (when discussing queer identities they even use the term men who have sex with men to account for the fact that not all men who have sex with men are necessarily gay) in understanding the culture. They primarily use the male peer support theory to understand how men in hockey often engage in violent acts. The authors touch on many aspects of patriarchal culture that contributes to this including pornography, gambling, and lack of infrastructure within the league to deal with player misconduct. The authors call out players including Austen Matthews, Patrick Roy, and even Sidney Crosby (for perpetuating the well-meaning man and passive bystander approach to league issues). I feel like this book is a must for all Canadians who wrap their national identity so much within hockey culture - and especially for all individuals who watch and play the sport.