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The Abuse of Power: A Theological Problem

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Pastoral care instruction and observation from a therapist of survivors of sexual abuse.

"The Abuse of Power is 'must' reading for clergy and denominational officials.... Weaving case stories with theory, Poling demonstrates that sexual abuse of children is not a private matter, but very much a matter for society and church--a question of structure and ideology, not just of individual character. He is not afraid to tackle the tough question: Does the image of God sacrificing Jesus on the cross contribute to abusive parent-child relationships?...If pastors and church officials read this book the church will change." --Karen Lebacqz, Pacific School of Religion

"For the exploitation of women and children to stop, men must be willing to break ranks with all forms of privilege that sanction male dominance. James Poling does so by deconstructing his own sense of male entitlement, by refusing to distance himself from perpetrators, by allowing survivors of sexual and domestic violence to speak with their own voices, by giving us profound words of hope, and by articulating a powerfully healing theology wrought through the depths of his own struggle with one of the worst evils in our society. His courageous and compassionate work reveals the love and hope that is born of solidarity across the boundaries of gender, sexual orientation, race, and economics....The psychological, political, spiritual, and theological power of this book is such that all educators, ministers, therapists, and Christians must read it." --Rita Nakashima Brock, Hamline University

Chapter titles are: 1. Hearing the Silenced Voices 2. Power and Abuse of Power 3. "Karen": Survivor of Sexual Violence 4. Stories of Recovering Perpetrators 5. The Schreber Case: Methods of Analysis 6. The Search for Self 7. The Search for Community 8. The Search for God 9. Ministry Practice and Practical Theology

224 pages, Paperback

First published December 1, 1991

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June 5, 2023
Read this in before engaging with Langberg's Redeeming Power, so I am hoping they are complimentary. Poling may lack in syntax and formalized argumentation, but he's a therapist before he's a theologian, in my estimation. I was challenged and persuaded by the content, even if the style felt lacking.
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April 8, 2014
I feel like I should like the concept of the "ambiguous relational God" more than I do, but I'm not terribly excited by or comfortable with the idea. The short section on Ministry Practice and Practical Theology was great. I really read through this whole book for one chapter, "The Search for God," since I'm a lot more interested in theological problems for individuals and communities than I am in psychosocial development. I did, however, find the author's exploration of abusive power dynamics in families and churches insightful and compelling.

The author was aware of his privileges and tried listen to the voices of marginalized people. Four stars for that.

"Reflection leads to awareness of tension between oppression and liberation in the institutions and ideologies of community. Communities include some parts of experience and exclude other parts. Communities extend power to some persons and withhold it from others. The oppression of community becomes evident in reflection on the depths of experience....[requiring] a reformulation of corporate identity, and eventually of ecclesiology, or theology of community" (p. 188).

"The task of practical theology is to hear the silenced voices of truth, to hear them against the destructive force of ideology and religion" (p. 191).
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