This is a hard one. Let me start by saying, I truly love Katherine Center's books. Hands down, one of my top 5 authors, so it pains me to give this a 2 star review. For me though, two stars is being generous. I really did not enjoy this book. My first KC book was Happiness for Beginners, so that is a big bar to set. One of my top 10 books. I’ve read everything she’s done since then, and started going back to some of her previous books. If you didn’t tell me KC wrote this book, I wouldn’t have guessed it. Her writing style 15+ years ago vs today is totally different. I noticed a similar theme in the Lost Husband of “buck up and get over it.” That is not my style, nor is that always how life is. Her newer books have much gentler life lessons and more relatable characters. I was drawn to this particular book because like the protagonist, I am also a photographer and mother of 3, and with that background, I found it to be ridiculously implausible. First of, no one takes half a photography class and is good enough to have their work displayed/sold in local businesses. Secondly, the division of labor between the husband and wife is appalling. The mother does EVERYTHING in this story, in a truly ridiculous way. Lanie is the mother of 3 very little boys, including a baby. Not only is her husband Peter unlikeable, but completely self-obsessed and oblivious. He’s a composer and is “very into his music”, to the point of having his family live in borderline poverty so he can follow his passions. He never helps out with the children or household tasks; the main character may have been a single mom for all intents and purposes! Despite all this, Lanie is obsessively in love with Peter. The “arc” of the book is her “learning to put herself first”, but again, in a completely unrealistic way. She takes care of ALL the kids ALL day long, and then after making them dinner and putting them to bed at 9 or 10pm she goes to her photography class and then goes to the gym and doesn’t roll into bed until midnight or 1 AM. Lady, no! I had to look up and see if KC even had any kids because I can’t imagine a parent ever thinking this is realistic, not to mention sustainable! And with a small baby who wouldn’t yet be sleeping through the night? I kept waiting for the main character to say “Hey Peter, these are your kids and your house too, come help out because I haven’t showered in 3 days!” Alas, this never happened, and I feel like I’m back in the 1920’s... If this is your first Katherine Center book, please take this with a grain of salt and don’t be discouraged, I promise you, her newer stuff is full of strong sassy women who never would have taken this crap lol! It’s full of hope and promise and some really fun characters. I couldn’t believe this had 4.4 stars on Amazon, given the storyline and how unlikable the characters are, but to each their own. So maybe, you will enjoy this book, but if you’re on the fence, definitely don’t start here. There are WAY better KC books to light up your life with!