This book probably deserves closer to a five star rating because it addresses so many of life's truths but, and probably because of that, I found the first half of this book depressing and uncomfortable... Everyone had problems, and instead of actively trying to fix them, they were just plodding along and making them worse with every choice they made... Much like many of us do every day. So, it was disturbing. But then clarity struck, sometimes with the help of friends, fate or circumstances, and once that happened, seeing the larger pictured helped folks begin again. We all need to see that there is, indeed, a bigger picture. Thank you, Ms. Hill.