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Choices and Illusions: How Did I Get Where I Am, and How Do I Get Where I Want to Be?

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This fascinating book holds an important key. Whether you're interested in the science of thinking and beliefs, how your own mind works, how others control your thoughts, why things just don't work out in your life, how you can create the life you've always wanted, or on a grander scale, how you can help make the world a better place, Choices and Illusions provides insights for all. Simply reading this book will open your eyes to new worlds of possibilities. Once exposed to the illusions most live under and by, you will change, and putting into practice any of these very simple teachings will open the door for you to achieve your highest potential. Choices and Illusions tells the story of one man's journey into the workings of the human mind and our reason for being. The adventure is every bit as exciting as the best of scientific discoveries. Eldon Taylor's approach is scientific and pragmatic, and his conclusions are inspirational and soul enhancing. Along the journey you'll hear fantastic stories of divine intervention, learn why you think and do what you do not wish to do, and understand the very clear message that it's never too late to be happy and succeed, regardless of your past actions.

312 pages, Paperback

First published June 1, 2007

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Eldon Taylor

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Eldon Taylor has made a lifelong study of the human mind and has earned doctoral degrees in psychology and metaphysics. He is a Fellow with the American Psychotherapy Association (APA) and a nondenominational minister.

Eldon was a practicing criminalist for over ten years while completing his education. He supervised and conducted investigations, and testing to detect deception. His earliest work with changing inner beliefs was conducted from this setting, including a double blind study conducted at the Utah State Prison, 1986-87. Eldon is President and Director of Progressive Awareness Research, Inc. For more than twenty years, his books, tapes, lectures, radio, and television appearances have approached personal empowerment from the cornerstone perspective of forgiveness, gratitude, self responsibility and service.

Eldon now lives in the countryside of Washington State with his wife and their two sons. Apart from his family and work, his true passion is horses.

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Profile Image for Stuart Aken.
Author 24 books288 followers
February 7, 2017
I received a free copy of this book for review from one of the team supporting the author, otherwise I would never have come across the book, let alone read it.
It’s one of thousands of similar volumes ostensibly designed to offer ‘self-help’ or ‘self-development’ but, in reality more akin to an elaborate catalogue aimed at selling more of the author’s works in the same line, some of them extremely pricey. As is frequently the case with such stuff, the book begins with pages and pages of ‘endorsements’ for the product. Let’s be quite clear; this is a product, a way of making money.
The book itself contains chapters of pseudo-science, personal anecdotes used to illustrate the success of the author’s methods, and many references to religious texts intended to support the theories. Much of the ‘scientific’ content was either unintelligible or meaningless, but was interspersed with genuine science in what I assume was an attempt to give it some authority.
I rarely read books in this genre: they pretend to offer something substantial and life-changing but are generally methods of making money for the producers. What saddens me is the trust of those who spend a fortune on buying these generally worthless products. Though I suppose that such desperation for life improvement says a lot about our current society. There may be some truth in the author’s contention that ‘You can change what you believe you can change.’ But, like so many works written under the flag of religious faith, there is internal conflict and apparent author blindness to cognitive dissonance: e.g. an apparent belief in the words of Christ alongside a constant attempt to persuade readers to buy the author’s huge range of products. Yet, Christ is memorably reported to have said, ‘It is easier for a camel to go through the eye of a needle, than for a rich man to enter the Kingdom of Heaven.’ The concentration on making money seems to sit rather poorly with the idea of an eternal afterlife. I’m an agnostic, so the reality excludes me from such concerns, but I find it impossible to square the idea of personal wealth with the supposed Christian ideal of social sharing.
There’s an interesting possibility with regard to the idea of using the mind to change things in one’s life, even medical conditions. That it can be done is indisputable: many well-researched cases of just such outcomes exist. However, we know very well that the placebo effect is a powerful aid to recovery. Perhaps those who have ‘faith’ are able to fool their subconscious into believing that their ‘faith’ has brought about changes that have, in reality, been brought about by the simple power of their own minds.
I could go on. But I spent a good deal of time reading this unrewarding and banal piece of salesmanship and I prefer not to waste any more of my valuable time on it. I produce this review only to warn other potential readers that they will be purchasing something that more resembles a publicity pamphlet (albeit it a lengthy one) than a work of either inspiration or worth. I shall definitely be avoiding further offerings from this factory and the industry that supports it.
Profile Image for Darcia Helle.
Author 30 books734 followers
July 24, 2017
Eldon Taylor shares research and stories with us proving that we have the illusion of choice, when in fact our subconscious mind has already decided for us. Our thought processes, decisions, and behaviors are often driven by biases and beliefs of which we might be completely unaware. To complicate matters, we are all too easily influenced by subliminal messages within advertising that we are besieged with each and every day. Consequently, the inner voice directing us might not be completely our own.

This book has been out awhile, so the research presented is no longer new. Even so, the author presents the studies and information in an intelligent, thoughtful way, showing us what all of this means to us as individuals and as societies.

Taylor's writing style is conversational and easy to follow. He shares stories along the way, adding a personal touch and giving readers a better understanding of the information discussed. He offers tips on how to recognize and change the negatives within our inner voice, so that we can work toward positive change and take better control of our lives.

My one quibble with the book is with the final chapter, entitled 'Change'. This chapter reads like a sales pitch for Taylor's InnerTalk program. The entire chapter is made up of testimonials from people who have used his InnerTalk products, touting them with glowing reviews. I found this heavy-handed sales pitch irritating. I just don't think a chapter of testimonials on the author's products is appropriate within a book.

Aside from that last chapter, this book is an interesting read, reminding us we are only confined by the limits we place upon ourselves.

*I was provided with an ebook copy in exchange for my honest review.*



Profile Image for Gordon Long.
Author 30 books58 followers
January 29, 2017
An Infomercial Posing as a Self-Help Book
I was given a free copy of this book so that I could write this review. Yeah, I know people usually tack that disclaimer on at the bottom. But I’m starting out with it to demonstrate that I was approached by the usual channels to do a legitimate review of what I assumed was a legitimate book. It turns out such is not the case. And that’s too bad, because for the first bit, it is a pretty good self-help book.
Eldon Taylor goes to a great deal of time and trouble to prove to us that what we think we see and know is not what is real. Subliminal perception gives us information we don’t know we‘re getting, and defence mechanisms cause us to reinterpret that information in non-rational ways. Fair enough.
We have been receiving this information since we were born, and our subconscious minds have been tabulating it. So we are living our lives based on a huge store of information that our conscious mind isn’t aware of. Which keeps us neatly in our little boxes, inhibits success and keeps us from making truly rational decisions. So far I am agreeing.

For a lot of the book Taylor treads the line between science and pseudo-science, but it’s interesting stuff, and what I enjoyed most about the read. The problem is that the information is not organized with very clear objectives, jumping from digression to digression until we’re not sure where we are, leaving us without a clear idea of why the author is giving us this information. It also has an exceptionally high vocabulary level, with a great deal of scientific jargon. Later I was to find out why:

He Doesn’t Really Care.
Because we get all the way to Chapter 12 before the gloves come off. This chapter is basically an infomercial disguised as an interview, complete with case histories and claims (including breast enlargement and a cure for Multiple Sclerosis), with a bobble-head interviewer asking tough questions like, “And how did our program help your patients have success, Doctor?” This rapidly segues into a list of blatant testimonials. Not what I signed up for.

This book contains some good ideas, most of them basic Christian beliefs you could get at your local church on Sunday. I particularly noted the concept that forgiving people means you stop blaming them, so you can take responsibility for your own life and get on with it. Good stuff.

Unfortunately the book’s main objective is to sell Dr. Taylor’s subliminal teaching programs. Which leads me to the suspicion that the text is riddled with subliminals. How do I know? They’re subliminal. Taylor is using the techniques he talks about to persuade us to not fall for the manipulations he talks about, and at the end he is asking us to do exactly the opposite, and buy his sales pitch.

I am giving this work two stars because it has good information that we can use to improve our lives. It’s just that if you’re already strong enough to resist Dr.Taylor’s hard sell in Chapter 12, you probably don’t need the book.
Profile Image for Heidi Wiechert.
1,400 reviews1,521 followers
March 19, 2015
Choices and Illusions is a new age, self help title that examines the role of the mind in our life. Chapter 4 "Psychological Defense Mechanisms" was the most interesting and disturbing to me. The advertisement for the drink and the sexual embeds changed the way that I view advertising- probably forever. Taylor makes it clear that your mind has power and, even if you don't utilize it, other people will. The end of the book devolved into personal recommendations for his hundreds of InnerTalk programs. I would be more interested in his product if he made it available in the App store, which it doesn't seem to be yet.

If you enjoyed Choices and Illusions, you may want to read The Book of Afformations by Noah St. John or The Power of the Heart by Baptist de Pape. Both of those titles deal with creating life changes based on your own inner wisdom. They use different tools and approaches, but are the same general concept as Choices and Illusions.
Profile Image for Stanley McShane.
Author 10 books58 followers
February 5, 2017
From the hype promoted for "Choices and Illusions-How Did I Get Where I am, and How Do I Get Where I Want to Be?," I guess I expected some innovative breakthrough, or influential psychological studies that would drive home a solution, albeit not without real conscious or subconscious work on the behalf of the reader. This is an entire book that could basically be summed up in two words: "Own it." Take responsibility for yourself is a strong mantra repeated throughout, and probably learned by most who delved into self-help books beginning 20 years ago. It's a close companion to "forgive and forget", and ergo always more difficult that those simple words would divine. Tons of research are presented devoted to proving the case--including the chicken story (I'm only a chicken--I'll never soar) and his studies of inmates in a Utah prison. "I didn't do it," "It wasn't my fault," and "poor me" permeates the stories. That self-talk is powerful has never been denied. That the subconscious directs our conscious probably can't be denied either. That we can receive suggestions that will penetrate the subconscious to the level of diverting lifelong mind matrixes was again proven some time ago. This study may be the equivalent to beating a dead horse--or in the case of the chicken yard--a crippled eagle. I get it--I get it--subliminal suggestions. But while many wonderful salient and intelligent points are made here (and I did appreciate those, most by other learned philosophical thinkers through the ages, I did not appreciate the last quarter of the book devoted to letters expounding the benefits of all his CD's, tapes, books, and other promotional subliminal materials and his InnerTalk Techology. I received this book in exchange for an honest review. I expected to really enjoy. It was okay--but I finally skipped all those letters.
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September 4, 2019
الكتاب عبارة عن تسويق لمنتجه ومدح لنفسه ماعدا ذلك افكار مكرره ومشوشه وغير واضحه
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February 19, 2014
Choices and Illusions
By: Eldon Taylor Ph.D.
Copyright 2013
ISBN: 978-1-4019-4338-7

Eldon Taylor author of “Choices and Illusions” is an award-winning, New York Times best-selling author of over 300 books, audio, and video programs. He is the inventor of the patented InnerTalk technology and the founder and President of Progressive Awareness Research, Inc. “Choices and Illusions” offers the reader insight into the subconscious mind and how it dictates behavior, often without the awareness of the conscious part of us and gives practical solutions on how we can gain control. Eldon Taylor has been called a ‘master of the mind’ he has appeared as an expert witness on both hypnosis and subliminal communication.

The author’s purpose in writing this book is to offer the reader a road map to a better way of living life. He suggests ideas, and introduces the reader to research, and data. It is written with the hope that it will open doors for all those that are ready to step through it.

The overall theme is an awareness and understanding of how the human mind works. Within the pages of “Choices and Illusions” you will have the opportunity to gain valuable information about the subconscious mind and how it dictates behavior. The book talks about inner beliefs, and how they create our daily circumstances as well as the overall patterns we express throughout our lives.

It is the author’s belief that in changing our subconscious programing, we gain control of our life; we are able to move past limitations, doubts, fears, addictions etc. He eloquently expresses his views and his research within these pages, as well as true stories of the many that have realized positive change in their own lives.

“Choices and Illusions” is packed with well researched data, case studies, and examples. It talks about free will and choice. It introduces the reader to how beliefs create actual facts. The role our subconscious mind plays and how it is responsible for 90% of all our choices. The author asks us to think about, and answer this question; “What was your last original thought?”

“When the body is at peace, there is growth”

As a seeker of personal growth and awareness, I was very pleased with all the information this book provides, it is one that has the potential to catapult the reader into new realms of awareness and positive change in their lives.

There is a mixture of scientific facts mixed with spirituality that are well substantiated and support each other. For all the skeptics out there, I say give it a chance, what do you have to loose except the old programs that have not served you up to now!

It offers valuable feedback from actual participants of his program and the effect it has made in their lives. With all the years of study and the research behind his work it can leave no room for doubt that his work is not only exceptional, but it works!

I enjoyed reading “Choices and Illusions” I feel it has left me with a greater understanding of how easy it can be to alter the old programs in our subconscious mind that have kept so many from moving forward, for those feeling stuck, or hopeless in the results they keep manifesting this is one book you will want to read!





Profile Image for Greyceeh Guevarra.
7 reviews5 followers
September 19, 2007
Choices and Illusions shows you how to activate the immense power of your mind and create the life of your dreams.

We are living at a time where people are searching for answers to fundamental questions in their lives and this book can be, if applied, a roadmap to personal enlightenment and empowerment. I believe it can 'tune in' the frequency your currently operating on... or more importantly, help you to see that you can manifest a change.

Choices and Illusions holds an important key. Whether you are interested in the science of thinking and beliefs, how your own mind works, how others control your thoughts, why things just don't work out in your life, how you can create the life you have always wanted, how you can realize your true potential, how you can find peace, or on a grander scale, and how you can help make the world a better place, Choices and Illusions provides insights for all.

Simply reading this book will open your eyes to new worlds of possibilities. Once exposed to the illusions most live under and by, you will change. Putting into practice any of the very simple teachings will improve the quality of your life. Using all of the tools and techniques explained in this book will open the door for you to achieve your highest potential.

It is not until you crack the code that opens the lock that a world of limitless possibility appears. The Great Masters of our time can tell you over and over about your unlimited potential, but as long as you are confined within a particular set of beliefs, you won't have the perspective to really see, find or do it yourself.

Choices and Illusions helps you to see through the illusions that have kept you bound in an endless cycle, repeating the same patterns over and over again. Once you hold this key in your hand, all the knowledge you have accumulated up until now will make sense to you in a way it never has before.

You will want this book regardless of your level or background in self-help and self-empowerment. It is written in such a simple and straightforward way that it will assist those who are just beginning to embark upon a path of inner-exploration and at the same time offer powerful insights to the professional.

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44 reviews6 followers
September 15, 2013
I received Eldon Taylor’s latest release, Choices and Illusions: How Did I Get Where I Am, and How Do I Get Where I Want to Be? free from Hay House Publishing for review. The material was so compelling and inspirational, that I finished the book in one day.

“Most people hold beliefs that are mutually exclusive…At some point in their lives, the conflicting beliefs challenge one another.” The author supports this notion with an analogy he uses concerning most people’s desire to become millionaires as they simultaneously hold an “unconscious” negative belief about money. Usually the negative belief wins the tug-of-war between the two conflicting beliefs because as he states, “Our beliefs are strongest if fear is attached to them.” Many of his explanations and findings throughout the pages of the book may surprise or even challenge you. He asserts that who you’ve become or how you view your world is probably the result of others’ manipulation of your thoughts.

I really enjoyed the story in chapter 18 about the Buddha, Edgar Cayce, and Jesus, which addresses a common theme amongst many of those in “helping” professions.

The book also included a beautiful Innertalk cd entitled, “Unlimited Personal Power,” which can be combined with the accompanying affirmations found in Appendix D in the back of the book—or you can use your own.

What I most appreciated was the author’s willingness to address his own vulnerabilities, doubts, and flaws in his quest to merge the numerous spiritual revelations he’d encountered with his logical side. He is encouraging, practical, and even optimistic in his outlook on the human condition, which is admirable considering the amount of time he spent time working with members of the incarcerated population. I highly recommend Choices and Illusions: How Did I Get Where I Am, and How Do I Get Where I Want to Be? for all seekers of the authentic self.
Profile Image for Andy Nieradko.
165 reviews10 followers
October 2, 2013
Eldon Taylor's new book Choices and Illusions is a fascinating study of the human mind. It goes beyond what most motivational or inspirational leaders teach. If you are a person who is serious about improving some area of your life, you'll benefit greatly from Choices and Illusions. By focusing on how the mind relates to perceptions and behaviors, the reader is educated in the how and why it can be difficult to change. Some of this is heady stuff. I found myself having to reread sections, several times, but didn't mind at all because the writing is brilliant and thought provoking. The idea that our subconcious belief patterns hold us in check, and prevent us from achieving what we truly want, is something everyone should take a look at. The book comes with a CD of Eldon Taylor's patented Innertalk technology. A 55 minute program entitled Unlimited Personal Power. I've been using it for about 4 days, a little early to say so, but I do feel maybe a bit more confident and hopeful. As a daily meditator, and someone who's been using subliminal technologies going back to Robert Monroe's original Hemisync tapes, I have to say it certainly hastens me into a deeper trance state than any of the other technologies on the market today. This book is worth taking a look at if you're curious, but especially if you're serious about taking control of your life and the mind that colors it, even when you're not looking. I received this book for free from Hay House Publishing. I wasn't paid for my opinion, it's mine alone. I suggest you read Choices and Illusions (2013 edition) to develop an opinion of your own.
Profile Image for Ryshia Kennie.
Author 32 books382 followers
October 5, 2013
The human mind is extremely complex as Eldon Taylor again demonstrates in his latest book, “Choices and Illusions”. Richly written, Eldon takes us on a journey into the power of the mind. While no book on the mind can be anything but complex, Eldon softens the depth of the information with strategically placed tales and stories that entertain as well as teach.

Do minds communicate with each other – is the basis of creativity more a group activity than an individual one? R. D. Laing
Quotes like this along with Eldon Taylor’s thought provoking research and easy prose make “Choices and Illusions” a provocative read.

“Choices and Illusions” provides an excellent base to begin the exploration of self, and of the unseen but compelling forces of society that have the ability to shape the basis of our beliefs and ultimately our personalities. It provides the tools necessary to begin harnessing the powers of your mind instead of leaving it run unfettered and potentially controlled by the power of hidden beliefs foisted on us by others. And more importantly, it provides telling evidence that the mind is the one thing that can change your life.

Although I found the last chapters weighed down with mentions of prior books and prose that was not as smooth as the earlier chapters, I still found “Choices and Illusions” an intriguing read. With plenty of references to other books on the subject, “Choices and Illusions” is an excellent jumping off point for anyone interested in enriching their lives by becoming aware of their most powerful tool, their mind.
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77 reviews
October 3, 2008
This was a quick, enlightening read. Made me think about the interconnectedness of all the beings in the universe. Made me remember how much control we each have over our lives: our reactions to events, our interactions with others, our perceptions of good and bad. The biggest kick in my pants was over the idea of "bad fortune cookie keepers" - the people in our livings who seem to thrive off of whining and melodrama. I find it's so easy to fall into that "woo is me" mindset... it's the modern American mindset... that things happen TO me and everyone/everything's against me. This book was a good eye opener on how to change my perceptions to create a happy, healthier life. There are many overlaps with the theories of "The Secret" - as in "the world is what you make it" and "you can create change."
I was a little frustrated by the overt marketing of the author's subliminal tape business, particularly toward the end of the book. And I don't think he offered any really new insights... so that's why he only gets three stars.
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56 reviews
October 9, 2013
It's not often that I pick up a non-fiction book. Why? Because I don't like to be told that I'm doing something wrong. Who does?

Still, the premise of this book intrigued me, and I decided to give it a try. It's not lightly that I say it's one of the best self-help books I've read.

With a caring voice, Eldon Taylor helps you recognize how you are programming your own mind, usually in the wrong way. By believing in negative thoughts, by setting limitations dictated by what culture calls "possible", you are likely not happy.

What would happen if you dared to change? If you started to really believe in yourself and reprogram your mind to break all those limitations? How much happier would you be? How much better would you treat the people around you?

That's what this book is about. I encourage you, if you need motivation to take that first step, read this book. Read Eldon Taylor's stories of the changes that have taken place in his own life, and in the lives of others, by letting go of the illusions that plague you.

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Author 127 books135 followers
February 10, 2017
Extraordinary

This audio book was something spectacular. You can read the book or listen to it, and i recommend listening to it. The tone and inflection helps lend to the basis of the story. It teaches us how the mind works and how knowing that can help the reader relate to his or her own life. It's well written and well thought out. It's all about choices and I recommend making the choice to read/listen to this book.
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Author 2 books16 followers
September 15, 2013
It was relatively recently that I came across Eldon Taylor’s work and I must say that I have enjoyed both his writing style as well as the information that he presents. In this book, Choices and Illusions, Eldon once again relies on his vast knowledge of the mind and his own personal inquisitiveness to present information that the reader can use to analyze their own thought patterns and ultimately improve the quality of their lives. Eldon discusses numerous topics related to the mind in a manner that is interesting and informative. I particularly enjoyed the section on optical illusions and subliminal messaging and Elden was gracious enough to provide numerous websites where more of these mind-bending images can be discovered.

There's a great deal of information crammed into this book and through it the reader will gain a better grasp of a most important subject: oneself.
Profile Image for Kate Hyde.
154 reviews3 followers
September 29, 2009
This is a very interesting book, and well worth reading. It seems to cover a lot of subject matter, and while I see how it all fits together in the big picture, the book does seem to jump around a little. The author goes back and forth between personal stories and very scientific explanations. I wasn't as interested in the specific science as I was in the stories, but it was good that both were included. By the end of the book, it seems like the author is just trying to sell you on his subliminal message CDs. They do sound like they might be helpful though, so I plan on looking into that.
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Author 23 books32 followers
February 2, 2017
Choices and Illusions weeds through years of research to champion mental fitness. The content is generous, presented in neutralizing stories, physiological models, modest examples and products such as, validated Innertalk therapies. The elephant example, along with the ‘Good Luck, Bad Luck…who knows’ short story and the ‘storing cortisol’ enlightenment were some of my personal favorites.

Anyone interested in inner-mind relations, or those studying disciplines with the intent to help others get out of mental ruts may want to add Choices and Illusions to their reading lists.
37 reviews
December 5, 2012


Well for the most part ive enjoyed this book, though I am not in any way shape or form religious so the god talk I skipped over..... Boringgggg. But I'd be extremely interested to get my hands on the audits of in retaliation, sounds fascinating. I have a very healthy inner talk anyway but still with some issues I struggle. I'd give it a go for sure
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May 16, 2008
This books holds a wealth of information about the choices one makes in their lifetime and how postive thinking can help you reach your highest potential. It's never too late to be happy and successful despite your past actions.
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25 reviews3 followers
October 1, 2008
Similar to the Law of Attraction books in the basic concept: we have control over our lives. Does a bit more to explain how the brain works in coming to conclusions and where we get tripped up in working toward our goals.
58 reviews
July 6, 2009
An excellent read, a helpful book for anybody in any situation. I want to give one to all of my friends.
5 reviews
November 30, 2014
For me the part about "how do I get where I want to be" (as suggested on the cover)was lacking.
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7 reviews2 followers
January 26, 2013
I think this book was geared to sell the authors subliminal audio cds more than anything.
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