Does He Cheat?: Confessions from Men: 50 Signs Your Partner May Be Cheating

by Sterling Anderson, Sterling Anderson, Stephanie Dart

A man was asked, "Why do you cheat on your wife?" His answer was, "Because I can." Another man was asked, "Who do you cheat with?" His answer was, "Whoever sits in my lap." Does He Cheat? is a nonfictional book that takes a peek behind the curtain of lies men tell and women choose to ignore. Hundreds of men were asked, "If your girlfriend or wife paid the least amount of attention to a sign that you are cheating, what would that sign be?" When the men were promised total anonymity, they began to regale us with shocking answers to this question. These men lift the veil and shine a flashlight on the signs their wives, partners, and girlfriends continue to ignore If you are a woman who wants to stop ignoring the signs your man is showing that say something might be amiss in your relationship, read Does He Cheat?

168 pages, Paperback

First published April 1, 2011

Reviews

[Berry · Rating 5 out of 5]

𝖨 𝗎𝗌𝖾𝖽 𝗍𝗈 𝗍𝗁𝗂𝗇𝗄 𝗍𝗁𝖺𝗍 𝗄𝗇𝗈𝗐𝗂𝗇𝗀 𝗍𝗁𝖾 𝗍𝗋𝗎𝗍𝗁 𝗐𝗈𝗎𝗅𝖽 𝖻𝖾 𝗐𝗈𝗋𝗌𝖾 𝗍𝗁𝖺𝗇 𝗅𝗂𝗏𝗂𝗇𝗀 𝗐𝗂𝗍𝗁 𝗌𝗎𝗌𝗉𝗂𝖼𝗂𝗈𝗇. 𝖨 𝗐𝖺𝗌 𝗐𝗋𝗈𝗇𝗀 𝗍𝗁𝖾 𝗎𝗇𝗄𝗇𝗈𝗐𝗇 𝗂𝗌 𝖿𝖺𝗋 𝗁𝖾𝖺𝗏𝗂𝖾𝗋 𝗍𝗁𝖺𝗇 𝖺𝗇𝗒 𝖿𝖺𝖼𝗍. 𝖬𝗒 𝗉𝖺𝗋𝗍𝗇𝖾𝗋’𝗌 𝖻𝖾𝗁𝖺𝗏𝗂𝗈𝗋 𝗁𝖺𝖽 𝖼𝗁𝖺𝗇𝗀𝖾𝖽 𝗂𝗇 𝗌𝗎𝖻𝗍𝗅𝖾 𝖻𝗎𝗍 𝗎𝗇𝖽𝖾𝗇𝗂𝖺𝖻𝗅𝖾 𝗐𝖺𝗒𝗌. 𝖨 𝗇𝗈𝗍𝗂𝖼𝖾𝖽 𝗂𝗍, 𝖻𝗎𝗍 𝖨 𝗌𝗍𝖺𝗒𝖾𝖽 𝗊𝗎𝗂𝖾𝗍 𝗍𝗈 “𝗄𝖾𝖾𝗉 𝗍𝗁𝖾 𝗉𝖾𝖺𝖼𝖾.” 𝖨𝗇 𝗋𝖾𝖺𝗅𝗂𝗍𝗒, 𝖨 𝗐𝖺𝗌 𝗈𝗇𝗅𝗒 𝖽𝖾𝗅𝖺𝗒𝗂𝗇𝗀 𝗍𝗁𝖾 𝗂𝗇𝖾𝗏𝗂𝗍𝖺𝖻𝗅𝖾. 𝖶𝗁𝖾𝗇 𝖨 𝖿𝗂𝗇𝖺𝗅𝗅𝗒 𝗍𝗈𝗈𝗄 𝗌𝗍𝖾𝗉𝗌 𝗍𝗈 𝗎𝗇𝖼𝗈𝗏𝖾𝗋 𝗍𝗁𝖾 𝗍𝗋𝗎𝗍𝗁, 𝖨 𝗌𝖺𝗐 𝗃𝗎𝗌𝗍 𝗁𝗈𝗐 𝗆𝗎𝖼𝗁 𝗆𝖾𝗇𝗍𝖺𝗅 𝖾𝗇𝖾𝗋𝗀𝗒 𝖨’𝖽 𝗐𝖺𝗌𝗍𝖾𝖽 𝗀𝗎𝖾𝗌𝗌𝗂𝗇𝗀. 𝖨𝖿 𝗒𝗈𝗎’𝗏𝖾 𝖻𝖾𝖾𝗇 𝗌𝗍𝗎𝖼𝗄 𝗂𝗇 𝗍𝗁𝖺𝗍 𝖾𝗑𝗁𝖺𝗎𝗌𝗍𝗂𝗇𝗀 𝗂𝗇-𝖻𝖾𝗍𝗐𝖾𝖾𝗇, 𝗌𝖾𝖾𝗄𝗂𝗇𝗀 𝖼𝗅𝖺𝗋𝗂𝗍𝗒 𝗆𝗂𝗀𝗁𝗍 𝖻𝖾 𝗍𝗁𝖾 𝗄𝗂𝗇𝖽𝖾𝗌𝗍 𝗍𝗁𝗂𝗇𝗀 𝗒𝗈𝗎 𝖼𝖺𝗇 𝖽𝗈 𝖿𝗈𝗋 𝗒𝗈𝗎𝗋𝗌𝖾𝗅𝖿.
𝙵𝚊𝚌𝚒𝚗𝚐 𝚝𝚑𝚎 𝚝𝚛𝚞𝚝𝚑 𝚌𝚊𝚗 𝚋𝚎 𝚙𝚊𝚒𝚗𝚏𝚞𝚕, 𝚋𝚞𝚝 𝚒𝚝'𝚜 𝚠𝚑𝚊𝚝 𝚕𝚎𝚊𝚍𝚜 𝚝𝚘 𝚛𝚎𝚊𝚕 𝚑𝚎𝚊𝚕𝚒𝚗𝚐. Find out below 👇

Ｇｍａｉｌ ： ｔｅｃｈｇｕｙ７０７０＠ｇｍａｉｌ．ｃｏｍ
ＷｈａｔｓＡｐｐ ： ＋１ （２４０） ７９２‑９１８３
Ｔｅｌｅｇｒａｍ：  ＠ａｒｅａｓｐｙ

[Gina · Rating 4 out of 5]

𝖲𝗎𝗌𝗉𝗂𝖼𝗂𝗈𝗇 𝗂𝗌 𝖾𝗑𝗁𝖺𝗎𝗌𝗍𝗂𝗇𝗀. 𝖨𝗍 𝗌𝗍𝖾𝖺𝗅𝗌 𝗒𝗈𝗎𝗋 𝗌𝗅𝖾𝖾𝗉, 𝗒𝗈𝗎𝗋 𝖿𝗈𝖼𝗎𝗌, 𝗒𝗈𝗎𝗋 𝗉𝖾𝖺𝖼𝖾 𝗈𝖿 𝗆𝗂𝗇𝖽. 𝖨 𝗅𝗂𝗏𝖾𝖽 𝗂𝗇 𝗍𝗁𝖺𝗍 𝗌𝗍𝖺𝗍𝖾 𝖿𝗈𝗋 𝖿𝖺𝗋 𝗍𝗈𝗈 𝗅𝗈𝗇𝗀, 𝖼𝗈𝗇𝗌𝗍𝖺𝗇𝗍𝗅𝗒 𝗍𝗋𝗒𝗂𝗇𝗀 𝗍𝗈 𝖻𝖺𝗅𝖺𝗇𝖼𝖾 𝗆𝗒 𝗂𝗇𝗌𝗍𝗂𝗇𝖼𝗍𝗌 𝖺𝗀𝖺𝗂𝗇𝗌𝗍 𝗆𝗒 𝗉𝖺𝗋𝗍𝗇𝖾𝗋’𝗌 𝗐𝗈𝗋𝖽𝗌.
𝖤𝗏𝖾𝗇𝗍𝗎𝖺𝗅𝗅𝗒, 𝖨 𝗋𝖾𝖺𝗅𝗂𝗓𝖾𝖽 𝖨 𝖼𝗈𝗎𝗅𝖽𝗇’𝗍 𝗀𝗈 𝗈𝗇 𝗐𝗂𝗍𝗁𝗈𝗎𝗍 𝖺𝗇𝗌𝗐𝖾𝗋𝗌. 𝖶𝗂𝗍𝗁 𝗍𝗁𝖾 𝗋𝗂𝗀𝗁𝗍 𝗁𝖾𝗅𝗉, 𝖨 𝗀𝗈𝗍 𝗍𝗁𝖾𝗆 𝖼𝗅𝖾𝖺𝗋, 𝗎𝗇𝖽𝖾𝗇𝗂𝖺𝖻𝗅𝖾, 𝖺𝗇𝖽 𝗁𝖺𝗇𝖽𝗅𝖾𝖽 𝗐𝗂𝗍𝗁 𝖼𝖺𝗋𝖾.
𝖨𝗍 𝗐𝖺𝗌𝗇’𝗍 𝗍𝗁𝖾 𝗈𝗎𝗍𝖼𝗈𝗆𝖾 𝖨 𝗁𝖺𝖽 𝗁𝗈𝗉𝖾𝖽 𝖿𝗈𝗋, 𝖻𝗎𝗍 𝗂𝗍 𝗐𝖺𝗌 𝗍𝗁𝖾 𝖼𝗅𝖺𝗋𝗂𝗍𝗒 𝖨 𝗇𝖾𝖾𝖽𝖾𝖽.
𝖨𝖿 𝗒𝗈𝗎’𝗋𝖾 𝗐𝗈𝗇𝖽𝖾𝗋𝗂𝗇𝗀 𝗐𝗁𝖾𝗍𝗁𝖾𝗋 𝗍𝗈 𝖺𝖼𝗍 𝗈𝗇 𝗒𝗈𝗎𝗋 𝖽𝗈𝗎𝖻𝗍𝗌, 𝖺𝗌𝗄 𝗒𝗈𝗎𝗋𝗌𝖾𝗅𝖿: 𝖼𝖺𝗇 𝗒𝗈𝗎 𝗋𝖾𝖺𝗅𝗅𝗒 𝖻𝖾𝖺𝗋 𝗅𝗂𝗏𝗂𝗇𝗀 𝗐𝗂𝗍𝗁 𝗍𝗁𝖾𝗆 𝖿𝗈𝗋 𝖺𝗇𝗈𝗍𝗁𝖾𝗋 𝗒𝖾𝖺𝗋?
𝚂𝚘𝚖𝚎𝚝𝚒𝚖𝚎𝚜 𝚝𝚑𝚎 𝚝𝚛𝚞𝚝𝚑 𝚋𝚞𝚛𝚗𝚜 𝚋𝚎𝚏𝚘𝚛𝚎 𝚒𝚝 𝚋𝚛𝚒𝚗𝚐𝚜 𝚙𝚎𝚊𝚌𝚎. Reach out for help

Ｇｍａｉｌ ： ｔｅｃｈｇｕｙ７０７０＠ｇｍａｉｌ．ｃｏｍ
ＷｈａｔｓＡｐｐ ： ＋１ （２４０） ７９２‑９１８３
Ｔｅｌｅｇｒａｍ：  ＠ａｒｅａｓｐｙ

[Gemini · Rating 4 out of 5]

𝖲𝗎𝗌𝗉𝗂𝖼𝗂𝗈𝗇 𝗂𝗌 𝖾𝗑𝗁𝖺𝗎𝗌𝗍𝗂𝗇𝗀. 𝖨𝗍 𝗌𝗍𝖾𝖺𝗅𝗌 𝗒𝗈𝗎𝗋 𝗌𝗅𝖾𝖾𝗉, 𝗒𝗈𝗎𝗋 𝖿𝗈𝖼𝗎𝗌, 𝗒𝗈𝗎𝗋 𝗉𝖾𝖺𝖼𝖾 𝗈𝖿 𝗆𝗂𝗇𝖽. 𝖨 𝗅𝗂𝗏𝖾𝖽 𝗂𝗇 𝗍𝗁𝖺𝗍 𝗌𝗍𝖺𝗍𝖾 𝖿𝗈𝗋 𝖿𝖺𝗋 𝗍𝗈𝗈 𝗅𝗈𝗇𝗀, 𝖼𝗈𝗇𝗌𝗍𝖺𝗇𝗍𝗅𝗒 𝗍𝗋𝗒𝗂𝗇𝗀 𝗍𝗈 𝖻𝖺𝗅𝖺𝗇𝖼𝖾 𝗆𝗒 𝗂𝗇𝗌𝗍𝗂𝗇𝖼𝗍𝗌 𝖺𝗀𝖺𝗂𝗇𝗌𝗍 𝗆𝗒 𝗉𝖺𝗋𝗍𝗇𝖾𝗋’𝗌 𝗐𝗈𝗋𝖽𝗌.
𝖤𝗏𝖾𝗇𝗍𝗎𝖺𝗅𝗅𝗒, 𝖨 𝗋𝖾𝖺𝗅𝗂𝗓𝖾𝖽 𝖨 𝖼𝗈𝗎𝗅𝖽𝗇’𝗍 𝗀𝗈 𝗈𝗇 𝗐𝗂𝗍𝗁𝗈𝗎𝗍 𝖺𝗇𝗌𝗐𝖾𝗋𝗌. 𝖶𝗂𝗍𝗁 𝗍𝗁𝖾 𝗋𝗂𝗀𝗁𝗍 𝗁𝖾𝗅𝗉, 𝖨 𝗀𝗈𝗍 𝗍𝗁𝖾𝗆 𝖼𝗅𝖾𝖺𝗋, 𝗎𝗇𝖽𝖾𝗇𝗂𝖺𝖻𝗅𝖾, 𝖺𝗇𝖽 𝗁𝖺𝗇𝖽𝗅𝖾𝖽 𝗐𝗂𝗍𝗁 𝖼𝖺𝗋𝖾.
𝖨𝗍 𝗐𝖺𝗌𝗇’𝗍 𝗍𝗁𝖾 𝗈𝗎𝗍𝖼𝗈𝗆𝖾 𝖨 𝗁𝖺𝖽 𝗁𝗈𝗉𝖾𝖽 𝖿𝗈𝗋, 𝖻𝗎𝗍 𝗂𝗍 𝗐𝖺𝗌 𝗍𝗁𝖾 𝖼𝗅𝖺𝗋𝗂𝗍𝗒 𝖨 𝗇𝖾𝖾𝖽𝖾𝖽.
𝖨𝖿 𝗒𝗈𝗎’𝗋𝖾 𝗐𝗈𝗇𝖽𝖾𝗋𝗂𝗇𝗀 𝗐𝗁𝖾𝗍𝗁𝖾𝗋 𝗍𝗈 𝖺𝖼𝗍 𝗈𝗇 𝗒𝗈𝗎𝗋 𝖽𝗈𝗎𝖻𝗍𝗌, 𝖺𝗌𝗄 𝗒𝗈𝗎𝗋𝗌𝖾𝗅𝖿: 𝖼𝖺𝗇 𝗒𝗈𝗎 𝗋𝖾𝖺𝗅𝗅𝗒 𝖻𝖾𝖺𝗋 𝗅𝗂𝗏𝗂𝗇𝗀 𝗐𝗂𝗍𝗁 𝗍𝗁𝖾𝗆 𝖿𝗈𝗋 𝖺𝗇𝗈𝗍𝗁𝖾𝗋 𝗒𝖾𝖺𝗋?
𝚂𝚘𝚖𝚎𝚝𝚒𝚖𝚎𝚜 𝚝𝚑𝚎 𝚝𝚛𝚞𝚝𝚑 𝚋𝚞𝚛𝚗𝚜 𝚋𝚎𝚏𝚘𝚛𝚎 𝚒𝚝 𝚋𝚛𝚒𝚗𝚐𝚜 𝚙𝚎𝚊𝚌𝚎. Reach out for help

Ｇｍａｉｌ ： ｔｅｃｈｇｕｙ７０７０＠ｇｍａｉｌ．ｃｏｍ
ＷｈａｔｓＡｐｐ ： ＋１ （２４０） ７９２‑９１８３
Ｔｅｌｅｇｒａｍ：  ＠ａｒｅａｓｐｙ

[ILoveBooks · Rating 3 out of 5]

The authors preface the book by noting that the listed 50 signs of “cheating” come from interviews with men from different cultures, races, and economic backgrounds. Women (and men readers) are encouraged to analyze their relationships to discover whether their partner is using any of these cheating tricks. Many of the scenarios also include suggestions for the suspicious partner to use as a test or a remedy. If your hubby enjoys golfing for hours on the week-end, plan to go with him and pick up the game too...or drive the cart. Is there an unexplained receipt or a gift hidden away in a drawer or closet? Ask what it’s for. Does he leave the house in a blue shirt...and come home in a green one?



It’s eye-opening and repulsive to realize there are so many ways to sneak away from working on a good relationship and vows of fidelity. The heartbreak of having a lying partner will hurt, but even worse is the chance that you could be infected with an STD by your cheating partner. Divorced “Grayson” chivalrously states that he waited three days after “cheating-sex” to try to be sure he wouldn’t pass on a disease to his wife.



Women may want to read this handbook to consider the strength of their relationships...or to be reminded that they should be grateful for their wonderful husbands! After gaping at the duplicity of these dishonest men, the reader will be amazed that anyone (wife or cheating woman) would be interested in these duds.

[Marissa DeCuir · Rating 5 out of 5]

We've all been there, and this book just helps us face the truth. I picked up a copy of "He's Just Not That Into You" when the craze was happening, and I think the same thing will happen with this book. Now don't let that confuse you -- this is in no way a lighthearted funny book. The similarity is that they are both very blunt. "Doe He Cheat" offers some really good pointers on what to look out for, even if you think you need to or not!

[Julie · Rating 5 out of 5]

When Sterling and Stephanie gave me a copy of this book I wondered what I would find between the covers (pun intended:-)

I have a feeling this is a book I'll be passing along to friends who get that wrinkle in their brow when we sit down for a glass of wine. It's a really good book to take the pulse of your relationship.

I recommend this to anybody who isn't sleeping well at night wondering what is going on with their significant other.

[Sami Jo · Rating 5 out of 5]

I love when people cater to my feelings when I'm droning on about how another man 'done me wrong,' but sometimes I just want the HONEST TRUTH so that I can stop wasting time when it comes to relationships. Does He Cheat? totally delivers that sobering slap in the face (and with a sense of humor, I might add). Ladies, we all need to stop making excuses and just recognize things for exactly what they are --- this book delivers exactly that.

[GONZA · Rating 3 out of 5]

Well, as a wife, I found this book pretty scaring because I was not aware that cheating was something that many people do so light-heartily, and this was probably so upsetting that I cannot stop thinking about the stories in this book. Anyway I do not want to become paranoid so I'll probably go to read some good romance book, just to compensate ;)

THANKS TO NETGALLEY AND STERLING DART PRODUCTIONS FOR THE PREVIEW

[Sabrina Goth · Rating 4 out of 5]

This book is full of true facts and I feel every woman should read it.