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These Things Happen
Daniel Zimmer will do almost anything to end his pain—except for the one thing that might work.
Growing up in 1970s Brooklyn under the shadow of his tyrannical father and against the backdrop of the Son of Sam murders, the Karen Ann Quinlan tragedy, and the New York Yankees' back-to-back championship seasons, Daniel Zimmer struggles to find a sense of safety and belonging. Daniel and his brother Max find moments of solace in the rebellious rhythms of early punk and metal bands like the Ramones and Judas Priest. But when faced with an unexpected family tragedy—for which he feels responsible—Daniel discovers the magical escape that alcohol can provide, numbing his pain and guilt.
Carrying the trauma of his youth into adulthood, Daniel falls deeper into alcoholism as he fights to face life on life’s terms. Then, just as he finally begins to embrace sobriety, Max attempts suicide and Daniel’s ex-fiancée makes an unexpected reappearance. Forced to face his demons head-on, Daniel struggles to take things one day at a time.
Flashing through Daniel’s life, past and present, this nostalgic ode to Brooklyn is an unflinching account of the inevitable ups and downs of recovery and coming of age. Ultimately, it is a story of the ravages of generational abuse and the power of recognizing addiction and opening the door to the possibilities of redemption.
Growing up in 1970s Brooklyn under the shadow of his tyrannical father and against the backdrop of the Son of Sam murders, the Karen Ann Quinlan tragedy, and the New York Yankees' back-to-back championship seasons, Daniel Zimmer struggles to find a sense of safety and belonging. Daniel and his brother Max find moments of solace in the rebellious rhythms of early punk and metal bands like the Ramones and Judas Priest. But when faced with an unexpected family tragedy—for which he feels responsible—Daniel discovers the magical escape that alcohol can provide, numbing his pain and guilt.
Carrying the trauma of his youth into adulthood, Daniel falls deeper into alcoholism as he fights to face life on life’s terms. Then, just as he finally begins to embrace sobriety, Max attempts suicide and Daniel’s ex-fiancée makes an unexpected reappearance. Forced to face his demons head-on, Daniel struggles to take things one day at a time.
Flashing through Daniel’s life, past and present, this nostalgic ode to Brooklyn is an unflinching account of the inevitable ups and downs of recovery and coming of age. Ultimately, it is a story of the ravages of generational abuse and the power of recognizing addiction and opening the door to the possibilities of redemption.
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276 pages, Paperback
First published September 19, 2023
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About the author
Michael Eon
1 book18 followersMICHAEL EON earned a BA in psychology from the University of Michigan and an MA in international affairs from Columbia University. A former board member of the Audio Publishers Association and a former producer of major motion pictures and television productions, Michael worked in the publishing and entertainment industries for more than twenty years. Michael discovered the core of this story through the cathartic processing of autobiographical memories, following its evolution into this novel of redemption and recovery. Originally from the New York area, he currently lives in New Hampshire with his family. “These Things Happen” is his first novel.
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April 25, 2024
I absolutely loved this novel! WOW! This book is so well written, it is so heartbreaking, while also being uplifting, with a great message of how love for your family can be so painful, so devastating, but in the end the love you have for them never dies.
Eon does a wonderful job in giving the reader a kaleidoscopic look into the lives of these characters! I felt as though I was right there in Brooklyn of 1970s into the 90’s. For this being a first novel, I was very impressed! Although this novel was hard to read at times due to the overarching subject matter, I did not want the story to end. I did not want to say goodbye to Daniel Zimmer and his family/friends.
Trigger Warnings:
Suicide, Alcoholism, Death, Domestic Violence, Trauma
Eon does a wonderful job in giving the reader a kaleidoscopic look into the lives of these characters! I felt as though I was right there in Brooklyn of 1970s into the 90’s. For this being a first novel, I was very impressed! Although this novel was hard to read at times due to the overarching subject matter, I did not want the story to end. I did not want to say goodbye to Daniel Zimmer and his family/friends.
Trigger Warnings:
Suicide, Alcoholism, Death, Domestic Violence, Trauma
May 17, 2024
It was almost everything I wanted it to be over and over but kept falling short due to over-dramatic dialogue, unenjoyable pros, and forced character motivations.
I loved the idea of the plot and how everything tied together yet it all felt so shallow and somewhat rushed by the end. With an overbearing theme and unsatisfying, milk-toast ending, I couldn’t leave this read with a lot of positive things to say. I wanted too much from it.
I loved the idea of the plot and how everything tied together yet it all felt so shallow and somewhat rushed by the end. With an overbearing theme and unsatisfying, milk-toast ending, I couldn’t leave this read with a lot of positive things to say. I wanted too much from it.
April 17, 2024
Thanks to the author for sending an ARC in exchange for an honest review. I was very pleasantly surprised by this book! It’s not one of the usual genres I read, but I thought the premise sounded very interesting - and indeed, it was. Eon did a great job building Daniel’s character and created a very realistic story about intergenerational trauma and addiction. The story was compelling and drew me in right from the start. I don’t usually enjoy books that flip back and forth between different timelines, but Eon wove the two timelines of Daniel’s childhood and adulthood together seamlessly and in a way that helped moved the story forward. Highly recommend!
January 8, 2024
This was a pretty good first book of the year!
Daniel Zimmer grew up in the 70s in New York city in a family that we could not define as a happy one. During the book, we get glimpses of Daniel's childhood, its most important but also traumatic moments. Everything that happened to him made him the man he is now. A member of the AA, he is trying his best to overcome his addiction and improve his life. After an "accident" involving his brother Max, he is forced to come to terms with his past.
I had pretty low expectations when I started this book. I don't usually read this genre, and I didn't think this would be one book I would always remember. I didn't grow up in New York in the 70s, but there was so much in Daniel's story that was relatable to me. Some things hit me more deeply than others, and I can't really say this was an easy book to read. Definitely, if you have ever experienced something similar, it might not be for you either, but it was worth reading it. It was easy for me to feel Daniel's pain, regret, guilt, but also anger, confusion and hopelessness.
The book was also very well written. So much emotion came out of the page. I struggled a little bit at the beginning, but mostly because I wasn't familiar with Daniel and his family. Once I reached 50%, I couldn't put it down.
I want to end by saying that I am so glad I gave this a try, and I think you should too!
trigger warnings: self-harm, addiction, dysfunctional families/relationships, violence
Daniel Zimmer grew up in the 70s in New York city in a family that we could not define as a happy one. During the book, we get glimpses of Daniel's childhood, its most important but also traumatic moments. Everything that happened to him made him the man he is now. A member of the AA, he is trying his best to overcome his addiction and improve his life. After an "accident" involving his brother Max, he is forced to come to terms with his past.
I had pretty low expectations when I started this book. I don't usually read this genre, and I didn't think this would be one book I would always remember. I didn't grow up in New York in the 70s, but there was so much in Daniel's story that was relatable to me. Some things hit me more deeply than others, and I can't really say this was an easy book to read. Definitely, if you have ever experienced something similar, it might not be for you either, but it was worth reading it. It was easy for me to feel Daniel's pain, regret, guilt, but also anger, confusion and hopelessness.
The book was also very well written. So much emotion came out of the page. I struggled a little bit at the beginning, but mostly because I wasn't familiar with Daniel and his family. Once I reached 50%, I couldn't put it down.
I want to end by saying that I am so glad I gave this a try, and I think you should too!
trigger warnings: self-harm, addiction, dysfunctional families/relationships, violence
February 16, 2025
“i knew what it meant to hate a monster. i lived with a real one. but i was powerfully drawn to monsters in films. unlike my father, they couldn’t help what they were. and i appreciated that they tried to resist their monstrousness.”
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these things happen by michael eon is an exploration of one man's journey through the complexities of life, family, relationships, and addiction. the story revolves around daniel, who is forced to confront his past and reevaluate his choices following his brother's failed suicide attempt. through a series of flashbacks, and present moments, we are given a firsthand account of daniel's life, including his troubled childhood in 1970s brooklyn, a family tragedy, and the lasting impact of his father's abusive behavior, leading us into the events that shaped daniel's life and led him down the destructive path of alcoholism. the echoes of michael cunningham's a home at the end of the world can be felt throughout these things happen.
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“it shouldn’t be this hard to just live.”
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these things happen by michael eon is an exploration of one man's journey through the complexities of life, family, relationships, and addiction. the story revolves around daniel, who is forced to confront his past and reevaluate his choices following his brother's failed suicide attempt. through a series of flashbacks, and present moments, we are given a firsthand account of daniel's life, including his troubled childhood in 1970s brooklyn, a family tragedy, and the lasting impact of his father's abusive behavior, leading us into the events that shaped daniel's life and led him down the destructive path of alcoholism. the echoes of michael cunningham's a home at the end of the world can be felt throughout these things happen.
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“it shouldn’t be this hard to just live.”
October 13, 2023
It was the age of the Son of Sam murders, and Julia Quinlan- all the while Daniel Zimmer continued to grow up and, although wanting to be nothing like his father, when forced into the same behavior he abhors (by the man, a sick sort of punishment), he finds his solace there, comfort- either in the bottle or smoking cigarettes, both things he didn't want to ever do- but does. As the family watched their father's attitude about Julia Quinlan, the legal case that in 1975 led to patient rights, the start of living wills and a patient having a "right to die"- the fact that the girl mixed alcohol and benzodiazepines, a choice that led to a coma she would never wake up from- everyone in the Zimmer family seemed to have an opinion on the media surrounding the case but only their father was allowed to be heard in the home- and anyone who agreed with him, that is. Their father, later, as the Quinlan families struggled to let their child die (the hospital wouldn't let them take her odd a ventilator), when hearing it on television says- "I'm tired of seeing her (swear word) face."
One of the ironies of the book, These Things Happen, is that Mr. Zimmer and later, two of the boys, Daniel, and Max, will find comfort- more than comfort even, in alcohol. It seems when they drink it allows all they want to express to, in a way come out- because, at any other time, things are repressed. That is, except for the father of the boys who seems to have no problem sharing every strict thing he thinks and making the family adhere to these rules. The book opens with a scene where the Zimmer father has come home, always a terrible time of day for the household- the boys, unable to sleep until "the things that happened every night was over."
Readers see as the man of the house comes home from work, the youngest Zimmer boy, Max, tries to self-soothe by rocking himself back and forth. The sweet thing about the middle Zimmer boy, Daniel, the narrator of the story, is that although he finds the rocking strange, he never says anything because, and he says this to readers, "who was I to judge?" And as their mother makes a late dinner for their father (the smell always makes Daniel hungry again), when their father comes home, before Daniel hears anything, he turns and hugs the wall, presses a pillow over his ears, and hums. The boy knows the routine and the abuse that is to come.
Throughout the book, the Zimmer mother pops pills, Valium, so much so that it is a large part of the story- for a woman without a habit (seemingly). But the fact that their mother defends their father's behavior throughout the entirety of their marriage, which never ends- always with the same excuses for him- that he had a hard life, childhood, etc. However, the boys' problems with their father persist to such a point that the eldest of the children, Harry, after defending his brothers from their father's unwarranted abuse, leaves the home for a day and the next, winds up drinking and driving- killing a young boy who was a friend of Daniel, along with losing his own life in the accident.
Growing up Daniel meets his soul mate quite young and their story, though turbulent at times, is a sweet one- he is a good man, all things considered with his "habit". But a relationship with an alcoholic or addict is never easy but, in the end, though terrible things occur in Daniel's life- he finds a way to fight his demons- in the rooms of Alcoholics Anonymous. And like many in the program, there are many tries and failures but then, nothing and no one in life is ever perfect and what good would life be if it was? What would there be left to strive for if, for the first time, we had anything or tried something, and it was perfect? And there is beauty in the imperfection in life, so many times…
These Things Happen is a great coming-of-age story that continues into Daniel's adulthood- because when do we stop growing as a person, really? And a coming-of-age story often does carry until the end of a person's life- because it can often take a long time to work out the kinks of our past and make a life for ourselves that we are happy, healthy, and loved in- sometimes that may never happen before a person dies. The boys find comfort after their eldest brother passes, in the rebellious music of early punk and metal bands like Judas Priest and the Ramones- which leads readers back to their own discovery and love of music- what that was like for them, no matter if this was the music in their life soundtrack or it was much different- anyone with a love for music finds so many things within it. I, for one, always love to be reminded of what it was like at the start of that musical journey for me- and hear about others- what it was like for them, as Daniel describes within the story.
Michael Eon goes back and forth as the main character, Daniel narrates his life- past, present, and future. And, although the book skips around through the boy's and then the man's life-- it is a very cognizant and understandable story- entertaining, bringing forth much in the reader's own life to the surface. And that real-world events that impacted Daniel and his family are included- that was the best for me, to see the reactions of normal Americans, during the time that momentous things happened in the world. And while they weren't wars, things like Son of Sam and the Quinlan family plight- which let readers know what real life was like- how it impacted others and then, all of us, whenever we step into the story, made These Things Happen even more entertaining.
----A Five star read, an author to follow, after this book, I am a Forever Fan (of the author), Happy Reading!
One of the ironies of the book, These Things Happen, is that Mr. Zimmer and later, two of the boys, Daniel, and Max, will find comfort- more than comfort even, in alcohol. It seems when they drink it allows all they want to express to, in a way come out- because, at any other time, things are repressed. That is, except for the father of the boys who seems to have no problem sharing every strict thing he thinks and making the family adhere to these rules. The book opens with a scene where the Zimmer father has come home, always a terrible time of day for the household- the boys, unable to sleep until "the things that happened every night was over."
Readers see as the man of the house comes home from work, the youngest Zimmer boy, Max, tries to self-soothe by rocking himself back and forth. The sweet thing about the middle Zimmer boy, Daniel, the narrator of the story, is that although he finds the rocking strange, he never says anything because, and he says this to readers, "who was I to judge?" And as their mother makes a late dinner for their father (the smell always makes Daniel hungry again), when their father comes home, before Daniel hears anything, he turns and hugs the wall, presses a pillow over his ears, and hums. The boy knows the routine and the abuse that is to come.
Throughout the book, the Zimmer mother pops pills, Valium, so much so that it is a large part of the story- for a woman without a habit (seemingly). But the fact that their mother defends their father's behavior throughout the entirety of their marriage, which never ends- always with the same excuses for him- that he had a hard life, childhood, etc. However, the boys' problems with their father persist to such a point that the eldest of the children, Harry, after defending his brothers from their father's unwarranted abuse, leaves the home for a day and the next, winds up drinking and driving- killing a young boy who was a friend of Daniel, along with losing his own life in the accident.
Growing up Daniel meets his soul mate quite young and their story, though turbulent at times, is a sweet one- he is a good man, all things considered with his "habit". But a relationship with an alcoholic or addict is never easy but, in the end, though terrible things occur in Daniel's life- he finds a way to fight his demons- in the rooms of Alcoholics Anonymous. And like many in the program, there are many tries and failures but then, nothing and no one in life is ever perfect and what good would life be if it was? What would there be left to strive for if, for the first time, we had anything or tried something, and it was perfect? And there is beauty in the imperfection in life, so many times…
These Things Happen is a great coming-of-age story that continues into Daniel's adulthood- because when do we stop growing as a person, really? And a coming-of-age story often does carry until the end of a person's life- because it can often take a long time to work out the kinks of our past and make a life for ourselves that we are happy, healthy, and loved in- sometimes that may never happen before a person dies. The boys find comfort after their eldest brother passes, in the rebellious music of early punk and metal bands like Judas Priest and the Ramones- which leads readers back to their own discovery and love of music- what that was like for them, no matter if this was the music in their life soundtrack or it was much different- anyone with a love for music finds so many things within it. I, for one, always love to be reminded of what it was like at the start of that musical journey for me- and hear about others- what it was like for them, as Daniel describes within the story.
Michael Eon goes back and forth as the main character, Daniel narrates his life- past, present, and future. And, although the book skips around through the boy's and then the man's life-- it is a very cognizant and understandable story- entertaining, bringing forth much in the reader's own life to the surface. And that real-world events that impacted Daniel and his family are included- that was the best for me, to see the reactions of normal Americans, during the time that momentous things happened in the world. And while they weren't wars, things like Son of Sam and the Quinlan family plight- which let readers know what real life was like- how it impacted others and then, all of us, whenever we step into the story, made These Things Happen even more entertaining.
----A Five star read, an author to follow, after this book, I am a Forever Fan (of the author), Happy Reading!
January 14, 2025
this was such a quick and easy read. would recommend if you want to read something that will take a day or two. the overall themes of addiction and healing were intriguing but there were a lot of clichés in the book. overall it was like a 3.5
October 7, 2024
Michael Eon’s These Things Happen offers a raw glimpse into Daniel Zimmer's life. Daniel is a man deeply scarred by a chaotic childhood in 1970s Brooklyn. The novel deftly navigates the complexities of addiction, family trauma, and recovery.
From the start, it’s clear this story isn’t for the fainthearted. Eon paints a vivid picture of Daniel’s life under the shadow of an abusive father and an emotionally distant mother. This dysfunctional family sets the stage for the pain Daniel experiences throughout his life. The story moves fluidly between his childhood and adulthood. It weaves together his struggles with addiction and the burden of guilt he carries from a family tragedy.
One of the novel's strong points lies in its ability to show the effects of generational trauma. Eon doesn't shy away from the gritty reality of how Daniel's early exposure to abuse seeps into every aspect of his adult life. This is particularly evident in his addiction to alcohol. Alcohol serves as a temporary escape from the pain he can never entirely outrun. The depiction of addiction is brutal and honest, making it easy for readers to empathize with Daniel, even as they want him to make better choices.
The book is not without hope, though. Despite its heavy subject, These Things Happen is a story of redemption. The back-and-forth between past and present allows readers to witness Daniel's slow but steady path toward healing. As he begins confronting his internal and external demons, a sense of resilience shines through the pages. While the journey is far from easy, Eon reminds us that change is possible even in the darkest times.
However, the novel is not without its flaws. Some readers might find the reliance on Alcoholics Anonymous (AA) teachings heavy-handed. Integrating AA principles into the story sometimes feels more instructional than organic. This AA dogma can detract from the story's emotional depth. Additionally, the character of Brie, Daniel’s ex-fiancée, could be more fleshed out. Her reappearance in his life catalyzes Daniel’s introspection, but her motivations and struggles remain underexplored.
Despite these minor criticisms, These Things Happen is moving and thought-provoking. Eon’s writing is fluid and immersive, so we become invested in Daniel’s journey. The emotional highs and lows are natural, and readers will find themselves rooting for Daniel to overcome his past and build a better future. It’s a story that stays with you long after it ends, offering a hopeful look at the human capacity for healing.
Ultimately, These Things Happen is a novel that speaks to the strength of the human spirit. While it doesn’t shy away from the harsh realities of trauma and addiction, it also offers a message of hope—that redemption is possible, even for those who have wandered off course. For anyone who has grappled with personal demons or watched a loved one who has, this book provides an empathetic portrayal of the long road to recovery.
From the start, it’s clear this story isn’t for the fainthearted. Eon paints a vivid picture of Daniel’s life under the shadow of an abusive father and an emotionally distant mother. This dysfunctional family sets the stage for the pain Daniel experiences throughout his life. The story moves fluidly between his childhood and adulthood. It weaves together his struggles with addiction and the burden of guilt he carries from a family tragedy.
One of the novel's strong points lies in its ability to show the effects of generational trauma. Eon doesn't shy away from the gritty reality of how Daniel's early exposure to abuse seeps into every aspect of his adult life. This is particularly evident in his addiction to alcohol. Alcohol serves as a temporary escape from the pain he can never entirely outrun. The depiction of addiction is brutal and honest, making it easy for readers to empathize with Daniel, even as they want him to make better choices.
The book is not without hope, though. Despite its heavy subject, These Things Happen is a story of redemption. The back-and-forth between past and present allows readers to witness Daniel's slow but steady path toward healing. As he begins confronting his internal and external demons, a sense of resilience shines through the pages. While the journey is far from easy, Eon reminds us that change is possible even in the darkest times.
However, the novel is not without its flaws. Some readers might find the reliance on Alcoholics Anonymous (AA) teachings heavy-handed. Integrating AA principles into the story sometimes feels more instructional than organic. This AA dogma can detract from the story's emotional depth. Additionally, the character of Brie, Daniel’s ex-fiancée, could be more fleshed out. Her reappearance in his life catalyzes Daniel’s introspection, but her motivations and struggles remain underexplored.
Despite these minor criticisms, These Things Happen is moving and thought-provoking. Eon’s writing is fluid and immersive, so we become invested in Daniel’s journey. The emotional highs and lows are natural, and readers will find themselves rooting for Daniel to overcome his past and build a better future. It’s a story that stays with you long after it ends, offering a hopeful look at the human capacity for healing.
Ultimately, These Things Happen is a novel that speaks to the strength of the human spirit. While it doesn’t shy away from the harsh realities of trauma and addiction, it also offers a message of hope—that redemption is possible, even for those who have wandered off course. For anyone who has grappled with personal demons or watched a loved one who has, this book provides an empathetic portrayal of the long road to recovery.
October 23, 2023
These Things Happen is a realistic novel that confronts alcoholism, spousal abuse, child abuse, tragedy, and suicide. The story begins with Daniel Zimmer finding his brother, Max, having just attempted suicide with a gunshot to his head. Daniel holds his brother while help arrives. He had been trying to convince Max to attend AA meetings with him, and regrets not knowing the depths of Max’s despair. Can Max recover from his trauma, addiction, and depression?
The second chapter travels back in time to 1975, when Daniel was 12 years old, and Max was 14. The two brothers, growing up in Brooklyn, received a rare gift of some money from their father to spend at Woolworths. To impress his terrifying father, the older brother, Max, chooses to buy a cap gun, when he would rather have bought Hit Parade Magazine. Daniel wanted to buy a wolfman figurine, as he relates to the wolfman from the Lon Chaney Jr. film; however, his father is enraged by his choice of what his father refers to as a “doll,” and so Daniel is also forced to purchase a cap gun.
The novel proceeds with each chapter shifting between 1970s Brooklyn and 1990s Brooklyn to reveal how significant moments in childhood impacted Daniel, the main character and narrator, later in his life. He is attending AA meetings with over 300 days of sobriety, only to relapse when tragedy hits. In the 1970s timeline, Daniel builds a friendship with Brie, a neighbor who is asthmatic. In the 1990s timeline, Daniel is on the verge of breaking up with his live-in girlfriend, Jill. His relationships with these women reveal dimensions of Daniel that are full of both tenderness and resentment.
As a twelve-year-old, Daniel loves playing the trumpet, and he carries the mouthpiece around as if it is a good luck charm. As a grown adult, Daniel works in real estate in Brooklyn, never realizing his dream to travel to places like Chicago and New Orleans to play trumpet.
This novel is captivating, and the poignant details give a sense of the eras. The relatable characters and their struggles will appeal to anyone familiar with the pillars of Alcoholics Anonymous. One shortcoming of this novel is that the narrative timeline gives a random hither-and-thither swinging quality. But that is a minor flaw for an otherwise engrossing read. And while this book may not be lighthearted reading, it can evoke the desire to support and care for each other, to work to find hope. These Things Happen inspires strength to cope with the effects of addiction and abuse - sobriety is a worthy pursuit.
Quill says: These Things Happen is a stunning, cinematic novel that provides the reader with a satisfying emotional catharsis.
The second chapter travels back in time to 1975, when Daniel was 12 years old, and Max was 14. The two brothers, growing up in Brooklyn, received a rare gift of some money from their father to spend at Woolworths. To impress his terrifying father, the older brother, Max, chooses to buy a cap gun, when he would rather have bought Hit Parade Magazine. Daniel wanted to buy a wolfman figurine, as he relates to the wolfman from the Lon Chaney Jr. film; however, his father is enraged by his choice of what his father refers to as a “doll,” and so Daniel is also forced to purchase a cap gun.
The novel proceeds with each chapter shifting between 1970s Brooklyn and 1990s Brooklyn to reveal how significant moments in childhood impacted Daniel, the main character and narrator, later in his life. He is attending AA meetings with over 300 days of sobriety, only to relapse when tragedy hits. In the 1970s timeline, Daniel builds a friendship with Brie, a neighbor who is asthmatic. In the 1990s timeline, Daniel is on the verge of breaking up with his live-in girlfriend, Jill. His relationships with these women reveal dimensions of Daniel that are full of both tenderness and resentment.
As a twelve-year-old, Daniel loves playing the trumpet, and he carries the mouthpiece around as if it is a good luck charm. As a grown adult, Daniel works in real estate in Brooklyn, never realizing his dream to travel to places like Chicago and New Orleans to play trumpet.
This novel is captivating, and the poignant details give a sense of the eras. The relatable characters and their struggles will appeal to anyone familiar with the pillars of Alcoholics Anonymous. One shortcoming of this novel is that the narrative timeline gives a random hither-and-thither swinging quality. But that is a minor flaw for an otherwise engrossing read. And while this book may not be lighthearted reading, it can evoke the desire to support and care for each other, to work to find hope. These Things Happen inspires strength to cope with the effects of addiction and abuse - sobriety is a worthy pursuit.
Quill says: These Things Happen is a stunning, cinematic novel that provides the reader with a satisfying emotional catharsis.
October 30, 2023
Fatalistic Narrative, Eliciting Willingness and Acceptance
These Things Happen is a psychological September 2023 book by Michael Eon. The 274-page and 30-chapter book is authoritative: from the author’s psychology background to the referenced horrible historical events to the generous autobiographical elements.
Its simple narrative reasserts that “these things happen”: a consoling phrase used, or meant, by the novel’s bearers of bad news to elicit the hearers’ acceptances of the “nature taking its course”. Miscarriage? Nervous breakdown? Drug abuse, rehabilitation, and then relapse? Homicidal and suicidal tendencies? Premature deaths? (Un)avoidable fatalities? Resentment? Personal tragedies? Terminal diseases? PTSD? Antisocial disorder? Alter egos? Tribulations? Remorse? These things happen.
This fatalistic book predominantly features the fictitious dysfunctional Zimmer family—father Walter, mother Arlene, and three rebellious brothers Harry, Daniel, and Max—whose troubled members have intergenerational trauma, kick-started by the abusive paternal grandfather Gabe, whose trickle-down effect negatively affects their futures, colleagues, friends, and spouses.
Worse still, these unresolved childhood traumas push them to early deaths, through suicide or addictive behaviors. For instance, Walter (he adversely picks on family and employees), Harry, and Max—and other unrelated characters—die prematurely.
And yet, a handful of those affected seek solace among their kind (e.g. the Alcoholics Anonymous’ twelve-step program) and/or from a Higher Power (e.g. Serenity Prayer, spiritual principles, and church attendance) to redeem both themselves and each other.
Other themes: self-hatred, teenage rebellion, self-imposed cage, isolation, anger, fear, hope, intolerance, end-of-life care, (a)theism, escapism, career switch, harsh parenting, intimidation, mental health, dissatisfaction, reconciliation, victimization, recovery, faith, family secrets, sadism, familial bonds, survival techniques, manipulation, empathy, reminisce, finding closure, grieving process, selflessness, hopelessness and helplessness, social pressures, reassurance, willingness, and humanity.
From the popular culture's vivid allusions to the witty and catchy Alcoholics Anonymous’ tenets, These Things Happen specially discusses the troubling connection between the life-long--and oftentimes fatal--interpersonal tribulations of vulnerable persons and the unaddressed intergenerational trauma.
These Things Happen is a psychological September 2023 book by Michael Eon. The 274-page and 30-chapter book is authoritative: from the author’s psychology background to the referenced horrible historical events to the generous autobiographical elements.
Its simple narrative reasserts that “these things happen”: a consoling phrase used, or meant, by the novel’s bearers of bad news to elicit the hearers’ acceptances of the “nature taking its course”. Miscarriage? Nervous breakdown? Drug abuse, rehabilitation, and then relapse? Homicidal and suicidal tendencies? Premature deaths? (Un)avoidable fatalities? Resentment? Personal tragedies? Terminal diseases? PTSD? Antisocial disorder? Alter egos? Tribulations? Remorse? These things happen.
This fatalistic book predominantly features the fictitious dysfunctional Zimmer family—father Walter, mother Arlene, and three rebellious brothers Harry, Daniel, and Max—whose troubled members have intergenerational trauma, kick-started by the abusive paternal grandfather Gabe, whose trickle-down effect negatively affects their futures, colleagues, friends, and spouses.
Worse still, these unresolved childhood traumas push them to early deaths, through suicide or addictive behaviors. For instance, Walter (he adversely picks on family and employees), Harry, and Max—and other unrelated characters—die prematurely.
And yet, a handful of those affected seek solace among their kind (e.g. the Alcoholics Anonymous’ twelve-step program) and/or from a Higher Power (e.g. Serenity Prayer, spiritual principles, and church attendance) to redeem both themselves and each other.
Other themes: self-hatred, teenage rebellion, self-imposed cage, isolation, anger, fear, hope, intolerance, end-of-life care, (a)theism, escapism, career switch, harsh parenting, intimidation, mental health, dissatisfaction, reconciliation, victimization, recovery, faith, family secrets, sadism, familial bonds, survival techniques, manipulation, empathy, reminisce, finding closure, grieving process, selflessness, hopelessness and helplessness, social pressures, reassurance, willingness, and humanity.
From the popular culture's vivid allusions to the witty and catchy Alcoholics Anonymous’ tenets, These Things Happen specially discusses the troubling connection between the life-long--and oftentimes fatal--interpersonal tribulations of vulnerable persons and the unaddressed intergenerational trauma.
October 17, 2023
In "These Things Happen," Michael Eon masterfully delves into the intricate themes of childhood abuse, addiction, and the arduous path to recovery. This is an unflinching and tough read. The book's main character, Daniel Zimmerman, is born into an environment of profound dysfunction and abuse, sharing this tumultuous upbringing with his two brothers, Harry and Max.
From the start of the story, it becomes abundantly clear that this is not a book for the faint-hearted. Eon unflinchingly tackles heavy, somber themes with a striking realism that is fairly unsettling. The narrative's uncompromising portrayal of trauma and addiction grips you, drawing you deeply into Daniel's tumultuous journey. As you bear witness to his struggles, it's impossible not to feel a profound sense of empathy for his harrowing experiences. The depiction of addiction within these pages is an unvarnished, realistic look at a profoundly grueling and emotional ordeal.
Eon masterfully interweaves Daniel's formative years and his present-day struggles, providing a poignant and intimate look into the massive, yet almost unknown influence of a turbulent upbringing. The narrative prompts you to question the essence of addiction - whether addicts are mere products of their surroundings or if they bear a degree of personal responsibility.
Throughout the narrative, Daniel's resilience becomes a source of inspiration for readers. His journey to confront his addiction and regain control of his life is riddled with hurdles and tribulations, mirroring the real-life battles encountered by countless individuals grappling with similar challenges. The narrative is an unflinching testament to the enduring struggle faced by those seeking to break free from the clutches of addiction and the long-lasting ramifications of early-life trauma.
"These Things Happen" is a profoundly moving and thought-provoking read. It invites you to explore the intricacies of the human condition, the lasting effects of trauma, and the unwavering determination required to reclaim one's life. Eon's storytelling is a compelling blend of heartache and hope, leaving an indelible mark on readers who embark on this poignant literary journey. The book's ability to elicit such profound emotions and introspection underscores its effectiveness as a vehicle for the exploration of addiction, recovery, and the profound complexities of the human experience.
From the start of the story, it becomes abundantly clear that this is not a book for the faint-hearted. Eon unflinchingly tackles heavy, somber themes with a striking realism that is fairly unsettling. The narrative's uncompromising portrayal of trauma and addiction grips you, drawing you deeply into Daniel's tumultuous journey. As you bear witness to his struggles, it's impossible not to feel a profound sense of empathy for his harrowing experiences. The depiction of addiction within these pages is an unvarnished, realistic look at a profoundly grueling and emotional ordeal.
Eon masterfully interweaves Daniel's formative years and his present-day struggles, providing a poignant and intimate look into the massive, yet almost unknown influence of a turbulent upbringing. The narrative prompts you to question the essence of addiction - whether addicts are mere products of their surroundings or if they bear a degree of personal responsibility.
Throughout the narrative, Daniel's resilience becomes a source of inspiration for readers. His journey to confront his addiction and regain control of his life is riddled with hurdles and tribulations, mirroring the real-life battles encountered by countless individuals grappling with similar challenges. The narrative is an unflinching testament to the enduring struggle faced by those seeking to break free from the clutches of addiction and the long-lasting ramifications of early-life trauma.
"These Things Happen" is a profoundly moving and thought-provoking read. It invites you to explore the intricacies of the human condition, the lasting effects of trauma, and the unwavering determination required to reclaim one's life. Eon's storytelling is a compelling blend of heartache and hope, leaving an indelible mark on readers who embark on this poignant literary journey. The book's ability to elicit such profound emotions and introspection underscores its effectiveness as a vehicle for the exploration of addiction, recovery, and the profound complexities of the human experience.
January 15, 2024
These Things Happen is a deeply thoughtful, character-driven story about generational trauma, addiction, love, and making amends. The story follows Daniel, the now-grown middle son of a dysfunctional family, who suddenly finds himself facing the emotional and tumultuous aftermath of his younger brother Max’s failed suicide attempt.
Daniel and his brothers grew up in 1970s New York City, with an abusive alcoholic father and kind yet vacant mother. After a horrible tragedy occurs in his teens, Daniel begins abusing alcohol to cope and sinks into addiction, which naturally affects every single relationship in his life. After Max's suicide attempt, things get even more complicated when Daniel’s ex-fiancee and dear childhood friend, Brie, suddenly re-enters his life. Despite the tumultuous highs and lows of his life, throughout the story Daniel finds solace and comfort in music (both as a trumpet player and as a fan - the story even includes a night at a Judas Priest concert!). I feel that this book did an excellent job describing the physical, mental, and emotional struggles that Daniel and several other characters face on their journeys through sobriety, relapse, and all the phases in between.
This story draws you in right from the beginning, the characters are easy to connect with and root for, and each chapter keeps you wondering what's coming next. I really loved how realistic and sincere this entire story felt. Author Michael Eon makes you feel like you're right there with Daniel, simultaneously wishing he'd make better decisions and feeling a sympathetic sense of understanding for what he's going through. With excellent pacing, the novel seamlessly moves between Daniel's past and present, weaving a deep and moving story that culminates in a satisfying, though bittersweet conclusion with a powerful message.
This book covers a lot of heavy topics, from addiction, suicide, and terminal illness to forgiveness, making amends, and the struggle to believe in God in the face of life's cruelty. It also serves as a sobering reminder that we cannot save people from themselves, no matter how much we love them. But, despite its emotional heaviness, These Things Happen still carries a thread of hope and an insistent reminder that real change is possible for those willing to do the work - and that the help of one caring person can indeed sometimes be enough to help another decide to save their own.
Daniel and his brothers grew up in 1970s New York City, with an abusive alcoholic father and kind yet vacant mother. After a horrible tragedy occurs in his teens, Daniel begins abusing alcohol to cope and sinks into addiction, which naturally affects every single relationship in his life. After Max's suicide attempt, things get even more complicated when Daniel’s ex-fiancee and dear childhood friend, Brie, suddenly re-enters his life. Despite the tumultuous highs and lows of his life, throughout the story Daniel finds solace and comfort in music (both as a trumpet player and as a fan - the story even includes a night at a Judas Priest concert!). I feel that this book did an excellent job describing the physical, mental, and emotional struggles that Daniel and several other characters face on their journeys through sobriety, relapse, and all the phases in between.
This story draws you in right from the beginning, the characters are easy to connect with and root for, and each chapter keeps you wondering what's coming next. I really loved how realistic and sincere this entire story felt. Author Michael Eon makes you feel like you're right there with Daniel, simultaneously wishing he'd make better decisions and feeling a sympathetic sense of understanding for what he's going through. With excellent pacing, the novel seamlessly moves between Daniel's past and present, weaving a deep and moving story that culminates in a satisfying, though bittersweet conclusion with a powerful message.
This book covers a lot of heavy topics, from addiction, suicide, and terminal illness to forgiveness, making amends, and the struggle to believe in God in the face of life's cruelty. It also serves as a sobering reminder that we cannot save people from themselves, no matter how much we love them. But, despite its emotional heaviness, These Things Happen still carries a thread of hope and an insistent reminder that real change is possible for those willing to do the work - and that the help of one caring person can indeed sometimes be enough to help another decide to save their own.
August 14, 2024
"These Things Happen" by Michael Eon is a raw and evocative exploration of a life shaped by hardship, addiction, and the pursuit of redemption. Set against the gritty and vibrant backdrop of 1970s Brooklyn, the novel tells the harrowing story of Daniel Zimmer, a boy growing up under the oppressive rule of a tyrannical father. Daniel's childhood is marred by abuse, leading him and his brother Max to seek solace in punk and metal music, and later, in alcohol — a coping mechanism that spirals into a battle with addiction as Daniel enters adulthood.
Eon’s storytelling is poignant, capturing the emotional turmoil of addiction with a stark realism that is both unsettling and deeply moving. The narrative shifts between Daniel’s past and present, allowing readers to witness the long-lasting impact of generational trauma and the arduous journey toward healing. The depiction of Daniel’s struggle with alcoholism is handled with sensitivity, offering an authentic portrayal of the recovery process. The inclusion of AA principles adds to the novel’s authenticity, making Daniel’s journey relatable for anyone who has faced similar battles.
While the novel delves into dark and challenging themes—such as childhood abuse, family tragedy, and the relentless grip of addiction—there is an underlying thread of hope that runs through the story. Eon masterfully balances the somber subject matter with moments of resilience and the potential for redemption, reminding readers that even in the bleakest of circumstances, there is always a possibility for change and growth. The characters, particularly Daniel and Max, are complex and well-developed, drawing the reader into their lives and making their struggles feel personal.
Ultimately, "These Things Happen" is a compelling and deeply emotional read that resonates long after the final page is turned. It’s a testament to the resilience of the human spirit and the power of confronting one’s demons. Michael Eon’s debut novel is a gripping narrative that will leave readers reflecting on the intricacies of family, addiction, and the enduring quest for redemption.
Eon’s storytelling is poignant, capturing the emotional turmoil of addiction with a stark realism that is both unsettling and deeply moving. The narrative shifts between Daniel’s past and present, allowing readers to witness the long-lasting impact of generational trauma and the arduous journey toward healing. The depiction of Daniel’s struggle with alcoholism is handled with sensitivity, offering an authentic portrayal of the recovery process. The inclusion of AA principles adds to the novel’s authenticity, making Daniel’s journey relatable for anyone who has faced similar battles.
While the novel delves into dark and challenging themes—such as childhood abuse, family tragedy, and the relentless grip of addiction—there is an underlying thread of hope that runs through the story. Eon masterfully balances the somber subject matter with moments of resilience and the potential for redemption, reminding readers that even in the bleakest of circumstances, there is always a possibility for change and growth. The characters, particularly Daniel and Max, are complex and well-developed, drawing the reader into their lives and making their struggles feel personal.
Ultimately, "These Things Happen" is a compelling and deeply emotional read that resonates long after the final page is turned. It’s a testament to the resilience of the human spirit and the power of confronting one’s demons. Michael Eon’s debut novel is a gripping narrative that will leave readers reflecting on the intricacies of family, addiction, and the enduring quest for redemption.
July 3, 2024
Michael Eon’s These Things Happen kept me turning the pages, that’s for sure! I tend to enjoy books that, through strong characterization and attention to setting, evoke a mood capable of engrossing me. These Things Happen did that.
Minor dings about the book for me include some grammatical issues and my lack of interest in the punk rock and metal scene that absorbs Daniel. Despite this type of music and outlet not appealing to me personally, I could appreciate it, especially in the vividly conveyed contexts of the 70s, of Brooklyn, and of addiction. Eon does a great job telling, in some ways, two stories: the story of Daniel’s past and the story of his present. They converge in a way that maintains intrigue and interest. I felt for the characters, I felt for their struggles and goals, and I found myself rooting for them.
One strength of the book for me includes the mood and atmosphere of Brooklyn that Eon evokes. Without going overboard, he gives astute attention to setting in terms of both time and place, and I felt this enhanced the world of the story; it contributed to the characterization of Daniel and Brie as well as the characterization of their relationship. Furthermore, the mood Eon establishes helps evoke the volatile and seemingly friable yet touching relationships between Daniel and his brothers and between Daniel and his parents. Another strength includes Eon’s portrayal of an addict. During segments of the novel one could readily say were among Daniel’s high points, an attraction to the bottle still surfaced, reiterating the ongoing lure of alcohol to an addict. Eon shows that addiction, ever-present, affects not only every aspect of one’s life, from work to relationships, but also does not disappear, even when those other (positive) aspects of life come to the fore. To me, something about the Brooklyn mood and the realities of addition at work on Daniel’s life reeled me in for an enjoyable story and read.
Minor dings about the book for me include some grammatical issues and my lack of interest in the punk rock and metal scene that absorbs Daniel. Despite this type of music and outlet not appealing to me personally, I could appreciate it, especially in the vividly conveyed contexts of the 70s, of Brooklyn, and of addiction. Eon does a great job telling, in some ways, two stories: the story of Daniel’s past and the story of his present. They converge in a way that maintains intrigue and interest. I felt for the characters, I felt for their struggles and goals, and I found myself rooting for them.
One strength of the book for me includes the mood and atmosphere of Brooklyn that Eon evokes. Without going overboard, he gives astute attention to setting in terms of both time and place, and I felt this enhanced the world of the story; it contributed to the characterization of Daniel and Brie as well as the characterization of their relationship. Furthermore, the mood Eon establishes helps evoke the volatile and seemingly friable yet touching relationships between Daniel and his brothers and between Daniel and his parents. Another strength includes Eon’s portrayal of an addict. During segments of the novel one could readily say were among Daniel’s high points, an attraction to the bottle still surfaced, reiterating the ongoing lure of alcohol to an addict. Eon shows that addiction, ever-present, affects not only every aspect of one’s life, from work to relationships, but also does not disappear, even when those other (positive) aspects of life come to the fore. To me, something about the Brooklyn mood and the realities of addition at work on Daniel’s life reeled me in for an enjoyable story and read.
September 14, 2023
These Things Happen by Michael Eon revolves around the life of Daniel Zimmer and the challenges he faces, centered on family dynamics, addiction, and personal growth. After a devastating opening scene, the story shifts between periods of Daniel's life, from tense family memories to Daniel's attendance at Alcoholics Anonymous (AA) meetings and both old and new interactions with friends and family. Tragedy strikes when death occurs in an accident, leading to guilt and a reliance on self-medicating. Daniel's journey through addiction and recovery continues, marked by moments of relapse and self-reflection. With his relationship with his brother Max severely strained, and the declining health of his childhood friend and wife Brie continuing, Daniel's only chance at recovery will require complete surrender and the turning of his life over to a higher power.
Michael Eon does an incredible job of transporting readers to specific moments in New York City's past, creating a visual atmosphere through descriptions of its neighborhoods, his characters' roles in them, and the music scene in These Things Happen. From drives home after getting fresh haircuts and listening to ball games on the radio to the seven-floor walk-up apartment in Brooklyn that Daniel shares with Jill, they all feel real. Eon is also skilled in applying symbolism in nuanced ways, such as the interpretation of the song Dreamer Deceiver to explore the difficulty of adolescence, identity, and the allure of escapism, and champagne flutes that run the double edge of celebration and temptation. I grew up in urban San Francisco and even though the landmarks were different, the energy of being a child in a city that will eat you up, if you let it, seeps through the pages. Overall, this is an excellent piece of literary fiction. Very highly recommended. (Review by Readers' Favorite)
Michael Eon does an incredible job of transporting readers to specific moments in New York City's past, creating a visual atmosphere through descriptions of its neighborhoods, his characters' roles in them, and the music scene in These Things Happen. From drives home after getting fresh haircuts and listening to ball games on the radio to the seven-floor walk-up apartment in Brooklyn that Daniel shares with Jill, they all feel real. Eon is also skilled in applying symbolism in nuanced ways, such as the interpretation of the song Dreamer Deceiver to explore the difficulty of adolescence, identity, and the allure of escapism, and champagne flutes that run the double edge of celebration and temptation. I grew up in urban San Francisco and even though the landmarks were different, the energy of being a child in a city that will eat you up, if you let it, seeps through the pages. Overall, this is an excellent piece of literary fiction. Very highly recommended. (Review by Readers' Favorite)
February 6, 2024
The book 'These Things Happen' by Michael Eon captivated me and kept me motivated to follow the lives of Max and Daniel. Their lives are filled with challenges like physical, mental, drug, and alcohol abuse. They face these struggles alone and from those who were supposed to care for them. This book provides a close-up view of the difficult life that Daniel and his family endured. It evokes empathy and encourages us to root for Daniel's success in overcoming the hardships he faces. The characters in the book feel real, and the families depicted are relatable to those we encounter in our daily lives. Our lives are fragile and can change suddenly, or we can see the pain coming from a distance. In such times, it's important for us to support one another. The story prominently features AA (Alcoholics Anonymous). Although I've never attended an AA meeting, I've considered going because I have family members who struggle with addiction. This book made me view the AA community as a viable and helpful option, rather than something to be afraid of. The story shows that there are people in AA who understand and that individuals come and go from the program continuously. Everyone is always welcome. Overall, this book was enjoyable and easy to read. I'd be interested in reading more about the ongoing journey of these characters. 'This is How Life Goes' is a deeply emotional and reflective book. It encourages readers to delve into the complexities of being human, the lasting impact of trauma, and the unwavering strength needed to rebuild one's life. Eon's storytelling skillfully combines heartbreak and optimism, leaving a lasting impression on those who embark on this powerful literary journey. The book's ability to evoke intense emotions and self-reflection highlights its effectiveness in exploring addiction, recovery, and the intricate nature of the human experience.
September 19, 2024
These Things Happen by Michael Eon is a poignant exploration of trauma, addiction, and the lingering effects of a troubled past. Set against the gritty backdrop of 1970s Brooklyn, the novel follows Daniel Zimmer, a man shaped by the harsh influence of his tyrannical father and the tragic events that unfolded in his youth. Struggling to find solace in a turbulent world, Daniel turns to alcohol as an escape from the pain and guilt that haunt him after a family tragedy. The rebellious music of the era, from bands like the Ramones and Judas Priest, provides brief moments of comfort, but the weight of his trauma follows him into adulthood, leading him deeper into addiction.
As the story alternates between Daniel’s childhood and his present-day attempts at sobriety, we gain a deep understanding of the emotional scars he carries. The narrative deftly weaves together the past and present, revealing the devastating impact of generational abuse and the painful choices that shape lives. Daniel’s struggle is compounded by his brother Max’s suicide attempt and the sudden reappearance of his ex-fiancée, forcing him to confront the demons he has long tried to suppress. The raw portrayal of addiction and the fight for redemption is both heartbreaking and uplifting, as Daniel navigates the difficult road to recovery while facing the complexities of family, love, and loss.
Michael Eon’s storytelling is emotionally charged, drawing readers into Daniel’s world with vivid language and relatable characters. The novel captures the essence of human vulnerability, highlighting the intricate ways trauma and addiction influence relationships and personal growth. These Things Happen is an intense and captivating read that offers a compelling look at the power of resilience and the possibilities of redemption, making it a must-read for those drawn to stories of survival and emotional healing.
As the story alternates between Daniel’s childhood and his present-day attempts at sobriety, we gain a deep understanding of the emotional scars he carries. The narrative deftly weaves together the past and present, revealing the devastating impact of generational abuse and the painful choices that shape lives. Daniel’s struggle is compounded by his brother Max’s suicide attempt and the sudden reappearance of his ex-fiancée, forcing him to confront the demons he has long tried to suppress. The raw portrayal of addiction and the fight for redemption is both heartbreaking and uplifting, as Daniel navigates the difficult road to recovery while facing the complexities of family, love, and loss.
Michael Eon’s storytelling is emotionally charged, drawing readers into Daniel’s world with vivid language and relatable characters. The novel captures the essence of human vulnerability, highlighting the intricate ways trauma and addiction influence relationships and personal growth. These Things Happen is an intense and captivating read that offers a compelling look at the power of resilience and the possibilities of redemption, making it a must-read for those drawn to stories of survival and emotional healing.
September 14, 2023
These Things Happen is a novel penned by author Michael Eon in the literary style, emotive writing, and slice-of-life subgenres. It is best suited to adult readers. The work is raw and compelling as it delves into the complexities of addiction, family dynamics, and the search for redemption. Set against the backdrop of 1970s Brooklyn, the story follows Daniel Zimmer as he navigates a tumultuous upbringing marked by a tyrannical father and the traumatic events of the era, including the Son of Sam murders and the Karen Ann Quinlan tragedy. Daniel's descent into alcoholism is portrayed with painful honesty, and the narrative takes readers on a journey through the highs and lows of his struggle.
Author Michael Eon's writing is evocative and emotionally charged, capturing the essence of Brooklyn in the 1970s and the music scene that provided solace for Daniel and his brother Max. What makes this book truly stand out is its unflinching portrayal of addiction's grip on a person's life. The book doesn't shy away from the dark and destructive aspects of addiction, making it a powerful and relatable read for anyone who has faced similar challenges. I also really enjoyed the craftsmanship in the flashbacks that weave through the narrative, which were a unique touch that added depth to Daniel's character, allowing readers to understand the root of his pain and guilt. Despite these darker moments, the novel is a story of hope and redemption that resonates long after the final page is turned, reminding us that, despite life's trials, it's possible to find a path toward healing and recovery. Overall, I would not hesitate to recommend These Things Happen as an accomplished literary drama with much to offer. (Reviewed By Readers' Favorite)
Author Michael Eon's writing is evocative and emotionally charged, capturing the essence of Brooklyn in the 1970s and the music scene that provided solace for Daniel and his brother Max. What makes this book truly stand out is its unflinching portrayal of addiction's grip on a person's life. The book doesn't shy away from the dark and destructive aspects of addiction, making it a powerful and relatable read for anyone who has faced similar challenges. I also really enjoyed the craftsmanship in the flashbacks that weave through the narrative, which were a unique touch that added depth to Daniel's character, allowing readers to understand the root of his pain and guilt. Despite these darker moments, the novel is a story of hope and redemption that resonates long after the final page is turned, reminding us that, despite life's trials, it's possible to find a path toward healing and recovery. Overall, I would not hesitate to recommend These Things Happen as an accomplished literary drama with much to offer. (Reviewed By Readers' Favorite)
October 21, 2023
Altho’ classified as fiction, Michael Eon’s debut novel, “These Things Happen”, reads like an autobiography. It’s passionate, painful, graphic, emotional and fraught with tension. This is not an easy read and anyone who has experienced a childhood with an abusive parent, alcoholism, drug abuse, death of a sibling or close friend, suicide or you can’t abide generally dark stories, should be forewarned. Language is adult but not gratuitous and none of the violence, death or substance abuse scenes are graphically depicted.
Even with the above as subject matter, Eon is able to weave a thread of hope, moments of sweetness and a few nuggets of humor into this hard fought coming of age story. The story is told from the voice of the youngest son in a three boy, middle class family. The timeline bounces between present and past, without any indications, but it’s not difficult to follow. Young Daniel reflects on his life from age 5 thru present day where, at the close, he’s in his mid thirties and is working the 12 steps from AA. At times, the story is laborious and I wanted to skim thru it, frustrated with Daniel and his weakness. Maybe the author did his job too well.
Eon paints excellent pictures of New York during the time period of the story. It was easy to visualize the 1970’s streets, businesses, cars, clothing, etc. from the rich descriptions provided by this author. I could easily imagine this book being turned into a limited series, which plays well with Eon’s history in the publishing & audio industries.
Not the kind of fare to cozy down with or read in a single sitting but well worth the time to share with someone else’s experience or perhaps revisit your own history of when “These Things Happen”📚
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Even with the above as subject matter, Eon is able to weave a thread of hope, moments of sweetness and a few nuggets of humor into this hard fought coming of age story. The story is told from the voice of the youngest son in a three boy, middle class family. The timeline bounces between present and past, without any indications, but it’s not difficult to follow. Young Daniel reflects on his life from age 5 thru present day where, at the close, he’s in his mid thirties and is working the 12 steps from AA. At times, the story is laborious and I wanted to skim thru it, frustrated with Daniel and his weakness. Maybe the author did his job too well.
Eon paints excellent pictures of New York during the time period of the story. It was easy to visualize the 1970’s streets, businesses, cars, clothing, etc. from the rich descriptions provided by this author. I could easily imagine this book being turned into a limited series, which plays well with Eon’s history in the publishing & audio industries.
Not the kind of fare to cozy down with or read in a single sitting but well worth the time to share with someone else’s experience or perhaps revisit your own history of when “These Things Happen”📚
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November 21, 2023
These Things Happen by Michael Eon is a book that I have enjoyed reading. The book demonstrates how childhood trauma can be passed from one person to another if not dealt with. This is clearly evident in the life of Walter Zimmer who is married to Arlene Zimmer and have three boys Harry, Daniel and Max. Walter’s childhood appears to be a difficult one since his father is an alcoholic. He also turns out to be an alcoholic and the wife Arlene can do nothing about it. Walter comes out as a male chauvinist because of how he treats his wife. He seems to make a mountain out of a molehill regarding everything his wife does. He is not appreciative of anything she does for him. At some point, Arlene is not able to even defend his children against their father’s abusive behaviors. This traumatises the children very much. Walter finds solace in his work and the bottle. As the story continues to unfold, the children end up as alcoholics as their father and this leads to Harry’s death through a road accident as he is driving under the influence of alcohol. In addition Max is struggling with suicidal throughts and this causes him to take his own life by shooting himself. Daniel also struggles with alcoholism but through the help of his girlfriend Brie and Dale who is a recovering addict chooses to turn over a new leaf and enrol for AA. The journey is not easy for him since Brie is also struggling with illness. The bond between them is so strong and there are always there for one another despite their challenges. It is sad that Brie eventually dies and this is so heartbreaking for Daniel but also lifechanging since he chooses to make a difference for himself. This read is very eyeopening and full of life lessons regarding addiction and traumas in families. I can highly recommend it!
October 19, 2023
“These Things Happen” by Michael Eon, is nothing short of an amazing story. It is the story of the Zimmer family, in Brooklyn, NY. from the mid 1970s’ to the Mid 1990s’. Our protagonist is Daniel Zimmer, the youngest of three brothers. Walter, the father, is a bully to everyone, including his family. Most of the events in the story are directly or indirectly a result of this treatment. Alcohol is abused by all the men and Arlene, the mother, uses tranquilizers. Alcoholism amplifies the bullying and its effects.
The story opens in the 90s’ on the failed suicide attempt of Max, the middle brother. Max has a history of mental illness for which he is supposed to be on medication, which he often doesn’t take. Our author does a masterful job of taking us from the present to the past with the same characters present in both. From there the story proceeds to chronicle the events in the lives of this family from Daniel’s perspective. As a recovering (seven years sober) alcoholic myself, I can attest to the accuracy of the portrayal of Alcoholics Anonymous in this story. Mr. Eon has captured the principles and rituals of AA precisely. There is a lot of death included in our tale. The same characters are present through the years, and as in life, these things happen. The incidents of loss of life are written about very tastefully.
The Zimmer family and their friends are complex and intriguing characters, well worth reading about and getting to know. Whenever I stepped away from this book, I continued to think about the story and couldn’t wait to get back to it. I’m sure you will find it the same way, and I recommend you give it a read. Enjoy!
The story opens in the 90s’ on the failed suicide attempt of Max, the middle brother. Max has a history of mental illness for which he is supposed to be on medication, which he often doesn’t take. Our author does a masterful job of taking us from the present to the past with the same characters present in both. From there the story proceeds to chronicle the events in the lives of this family from Daniel’s perspective. As a recovering (seven years sober) alcoholic myself, I can attest to the accuracy of the portrayal of Alcoholics Anonymous in this story. Mr. Eon has captured the principles and rituals of AA precisely. There is a lot of death included in our tale. The same characters are present through the years, and as in life, these things happen. The incidents of loss of life are written about very tastefully.
The Zimmer family and their friends are complex and intriguing characters, well worth reading about and getting to know. Whenever I stepped away from this book, I continued to think about the story and couldn’t wait to get back to it. I’m sure you will find it the same way, and I recommend you give it a read. Enjoy!
November 26, 2023
Daniel Zimmer grew up in the 1970s under his tyrannical father. When tragedy strikes his family, Daniel turns to unhealthy coping mechanisms to drown out his trauma and guilt. Now, in the present day, Daniel struggles day to day and desperately tries to achieve sobriety. But along with his addiction, Daniel's brother is suicidal, and visitors from the past are turning up.
These Things Happen is a story of abuse, trauma, addiction, and the struggles of life. It highlights the many paths and possibilities available in life. It also shows how split decisions can have lifelong consequences.
The story chapters alternate between the present day and the past. The past is Daniel's childhood. Through this method of storytelling, we learn Daniel's history and see his life through his eyes. Because of this, abuse, trauma, and addiction are an integral part of this story. We see the effects of abuse on Daniel and his brother Max, and how trauma can shape a person at a fundamental level. There is also the underlying message that when you're on the outside looking in, you never see the full picture. I thought this was clever because it emphasises that everyone's life is different and not one experience is the same.
The characters throughout the book are realistic and relatable, with real-life issues at their core. It is easy to form a connection to the characters, especially to Daniel. The author's use of language and storytelling invoked many emotional responses.
These Things Happen is an intense read that is emotional and captivating. It is very well written and draws you in immediately.
These Things Happen is a story of abuse, trauma, addiction, and the struggles of life. It highlights the many paths and possibilities available in life. It also shows how split decisions can have lifelong consequences.
The story chapters alternate between the present day and the past. The past is Daniel's childhood. Through this method of storytelling, we learn Daniel's history and see his life through his eyes. Because of this, abuse, trauma, and addiction are an integral part of this story. We see the effects of abuse on Daniel and his brother Max, and how trauma can shape a person at a fundamental level. There is also the underlying message that when you're on the outside looking in, you never see the full picture. I thought this was clever because it emphasises that everyone's life is different and not one experience is the same.
The characters throughout the book are realistic and relatable, with real-life issues at their core. It is easy to form a connection to the characters, especially to Daniel. The author's use of language and storytelling invoked many emotional responses.
These Things Happen is an intense read that is emotional and captivating. It is very well written and draws you in immediately.
December 11, 2023
“To surrender is to stop fighting.” Anyone who has ever struggled with any form of addiction or experienced emotional and physical domestic abuse can surely, painfully, relate to this story. Daniel and his brothers have had a hard life, to say the least. Yet, the way each of the family members has struggled to survive and overcome the same upbringing and trauma varies. Daniel finds himself lost inside one liquor bottle after another, to the point it has taken over his life, controlling every decision he makes and ruining his closest relationships. I liked how the author flip-flopped from current day to the past every chapter, giving us necessary insight into the protagonist’s triggers and often painful memories. These glimpses gave us understanding into Daniel’s behaviors, as well as his brother Max. Daniel eventually tries AA but his journey with it is tumultuous because he is a “dry drunk” as he admits at one point, simply just miserable but not fully committing to a life of sobriety and the freedom it offers. After losing so many vital relationships including the love of his life, finally realizing he needs to forgive himself, his brother, even his awful (probably undeserving) father, and make a step toward faith in a higher power, Daniel does pull his life together. This story is like many in that redemption often comes after the hardest life lessons and hitting rock bottom, but hopefully can serve as a reminder to all of us that our trauma does not define us and that we don’t have to wait until we hit our lowest to begin healing.
September 4, 2023
What a very interesting book. I liked it because I had a lot of different characters and themes. And everybody seemed to be related together.. It was about three boys named daniel max and henry. The father was very abusive to all of them and the mother. Devil have the worst, and then max henry was pretty much grown up and left the house. They all had addiction problems. The father drank and so the kids turned to drink as well. The mother was pretty much hooked on Oh Pill. Daniel was gonna be a really great trumpet player. And he liked this girl named BRI e.. She had Ask her so they moved away when she was young. To be near the doctor's in Manhattan.. Daniel got a very complicated life and max did choose least to fight a lot. There's a lot of tragedies in this book, They were all tied together. Everybody had a story to tell good or bad. It was also like a love story between bury and daniel. Daniel finally went to alcohol nominees because he couldn't handle his liquor. Dale sponsor somehow was related to Daniel through many different aspects of his life.. Henry, his brother died in a tragic accident on US18. Due to alcohol. Daniel had a lot of pain and guilt and anger to everybody. Used to watch horror movies because it made him feel better. Max his brother had a lot of emotional problems as well. Max also tried to do suicide and daniel Saved him. As I read this book, it's like a theme. And you'll find out who's related to what and what happened in this book?
October 24, 2023
"These Things Happen: A Novel" by Michael Aeon is a deeply gripping tale of two brothers who are struggling with a stubborn addiction. The story begins with the protagonist, Daniel Zimmer, who is holding his brother Max, an alcohol addict who has just survived a suicide attempt. Readers will encounter moving details of their horrid upbringing at the hands of an inhuman and insensitive father, whose actions left the two boys with lasting trauma. Their emotional mess has taken ages to heal, and they have found solace in the most pitiful of places. In the text, resilience and self-control are deeply challenged as the protagonist moves through a myriad of drawbacks and horrific situations that seem immovable in his pursuit of inner freedom.
This tale has been beautifully crafted to demonstrate very sensitive issues that touch on family trauma and the despair that comes with a poor upbringing. Author Aeon demonstrates his keenness for detail as he takes readers through the protagonist's family's present and past lifestyles. This book offers a deeply relatable account of the inevitable ups and downs of addiction and recovery. His tone is unflinching and candid as he paints for his audience the world of those seeking to break free from the clutches of addiction. This book will inspire and remind people struggling with various kinds of addiction that they are not alone and that the vice can be broken. Highly recommended.
This tale has been beautifully crafted to demonstrate very sensitive issues that touch on family trauma and the despair that comes with a poor upbringing. Author Aeon demonstrates his keenness for detail as he takes readers through the protagonist's family's present and past lifestyles. This book offers a deeply relatable account of the inevitable ups and downs of addiction and recovery. His tone is unflinching and candid as he paints for his audience the world of those seeking to break free from the clutches of addiction. This book will inspire and remind people struggling with various kinds of addiction that they are not alone and that the vice can be broken. Highly recommended.
December 8, 2023
"These Things Happen" by Michael Eon is a poignant narrative that follows Daniel Zimmer through the challenges of a tumultuous upbringing, dealing with a tyrannical father, addiction, and family tragedy. The story explores heavy themes such as childhood abuse, addiction, and recovery.
Eon's storytelling is both touching and realistic, bringing forth the struggles of Daniel with empathy. The author effectively captures the emotional turmoil of addiction, providing a raw and unvarnished portrayal. The depiction of Daniel's journey, from his troubled childhood to adulthood, is an emotional rollercoaster that elicits both sadness and hope. The inclusion of AA principles is noted for its accuracy, offering a genuine portrayal of the recovery process.
However, the novel is not for the faint-hearted, as it unflinchingly confronts somber and unsettling themes. The heavy subject matter may be challenging for some readers, considering the pervasive trauma and addiction portrayed. The book is a testament to the author's ability to create complex and intriguing characters within the Zimmer family, making the reader deeply invested in their lives.
In summary, "These Things Happen" is an emotional journey that skillfully navigates the complexities of addiction and recovery. While the heavy themes may be difficult for some readers, the story's authenticity and the portrayal of the Zimmer family make it a compelling read.
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Eon's storytelling is both touching and realistic, bringing forth the struggles of Daniel with empathy. The author effectively captures the emotional turmoil of addiction, providing a raw and unvarnished portrayal. The depiction of Daniel's journey, from his troubled childhood to adulthood, is an emotional rollercoaster that elicits both sadness and hope. The inclusion of AA principles is noted for its accuracy, offering a genuine portrayal of the recovery process.
However, the novel is not for the faint-hearted, as it unflinchingly confronts somber and unsettling themes. The heavy subject matter may be challenging for some readers, considering the pervasive trauma and addiction portrayed. The book is a testament to the author's ability to create complex and intriguing characters within the Zimmer family, making the reader deeply invested in their lives.
In summary, "These Things Happen" is an emotional journey that skillfully navigates the complexities of addiction and recovery. While the heavy themes may be difficult for some readers, the story's authenticity and the portrayal of the Zimmer family make it a compelling read.
Thank you
Happy Reading
October 19, 2023
This book was heartbreaking in the amount of trauma that is dished out from the very beginning of the book. I thought the book did a great job describing life in Brooklyn during a very specific time period.
The book runs a split timeline with flashbacks and current day. I felt very invested in the flashbacks, and felt that was where the true meat of the story was. The current day story was like attending an AA meeting.
Lots of AA sayings, jargon, quotes with a really thick laying on of religion. I felt like all of the education the author was trying to impart really detracted from the storyline and actually became the main story.
The real tipping point in my “meh” feeling about the whole book was when I read the “About the Author”. The book felt like it was written from a very personal level and I was looking forward to reading about the personal connection. However, the About the Author read like a resume, except a line about “cathartic processing of autobiographical memories” which read like a whole line of BS. The book felt so personal, I felt a little betrayed by the sterile nature of the About the Author. If this was purely a fictional book, then it seems like the depth of the AA teachings were a bit over the top; if it was based on personal experience, I really wanted to know what it was.
The book runs a split timeline with flashbacks and current day. I felt very invested in the flashbacks, and felt that was where the true meat of the story was. The current day story was like attending an AA meeting.
Lots of AA sayings, jargon, quotes with a really thick laying on of religion. I felt like all of the education the author was trying to impart really detracted from the storyline and actually became the main story.
The real tipping point in my “meh” feeling about the whole book was when I read the “About the Author”. The book felt like it was written from a very personal level and I was looking forward to reading about the personal connection. However, the About the Author read like a resume, except a line about “cathartic processing of autobiographical memories” which read like a whole line of BS. The book felt so personal, I felt a little betrayed by the sterile nature of the About the Author. If this was purely a fictional book, then it seems like the depth of the AA teachings were a bit over the top; if it was based on personal experience, I really wanted to know what it was.
December 11, 2023
The pattern of addiction
There is a lot to like about this novel. It traces the pattern of addiction for most addicts: family history, mental illness, childhood trauma, and an early introduction to alcohol and / or drugs. It also illustrates the effect on those around the addict. Feelings of helplessness, anger, frustration, and sorrow cycle through friends and families of substance abusers. The novel also highlights the inevitable self I destructive nature of addicts who either ignore their positions or defy the problem. Death by disease, overdose, or suicide are common, usually much earlier than in a healthy person.
The back-and-forth timeline was confusing until the middle if the book when things came together. My primary arguments with the author's decisions are in the conviction that only AA provides a way to live with addiction (understandable is there is some autobiography involved) and in Brie's illness. As a lifelong asthmatic myself, the progression of disease and its treatments are not accurate, especially for a white, young, middle-class woman. Statistically, Brie's disease would be controlled. Cystic fibrosis, on the other hand, closely follows the path the author describes.
The most important message to the reader, however, is in understanding alcoholism, and the author does an exceptional job making it real.
There is a lot to like about this novel. It traces the pattern of addiction for most addicts: family history, mental illness, childhood trauma, and an early introduction to alcohol and / or drugs. It also illustrates the effect on those around the addict. Feelings of helplessness, anger, frustration, and sorrow cycle through friends and families of substance abusers. The novel also highlights the inevitable self I destructive nature of addicts who either ignore their positions or defy the problem. Death by disease, overdose, or suicide are common, usually much earlier than in a healthy person.
The back-and-forth timeline was confusing until the middle if the book when things came together. My primary arguments with the author's decisions are in the conviction that only AA provides a way to live with addiction (understandable is there is some autobiography involved) and in Brie's illness. As a lifelong asthmatic myself, the progression of disease and its treatments are not accurate, especially for a white, young, middle-class woman. Statistically, Brie's disease would be controlled. Cystic fibrosis, on the other hand, closely follows the path the author describes.
The most important message to the reader, however, is in understanding alcoholism, and the author does an exceptional job making it real.
September 23, 2023
The story starts with some really tough blows right off the bat. You know this is not a book for the faint of heart when we start throwing triggering words or vivid descriptions of parental abuse from the first chapters.
The book describes different periods of Daniel’s life. This is done to great effect - it shows off how certain parenting tactics and familiar tradition can affect people at different stages. At times, it can even read as a memoir.
It ends up being is a frightening, accurate, and beautiful portrayal of the effects of a toxic family in people’s lives. At the same time, it’s a tale of perseveration, especially for those who want to find their own path in life, away from the controlling claws of family members that don’t respect boundaries.
It’s interesting how sometimes our worst obstacle towards independence is more breaking down the systems our families taught us than physically getting free from them.
This story has a lot of hard-to-swallow pills. Michael Eon manages to weave trauma, addiction, and grief all in one, through strong, flowing prose that can at times catch you off guard with its bluntness.
I look forward to more of Eon’s works in the future.
The book describes different periods of Daniel’s life. This is done to great effect - it shows off how certain parenting tactics and familiar tradition can affect people at different stages. At times, it can even read as a memoir.
It ends up being is a frightening, accurate, and beautiful portrayal of the effects of a toxic family in people’s lives. At the same time, it’s a tale of perseveration, especially for those who want to find their own path in life, away from the controlling claws of family members that don’t respect boundaries.
It’s interesting how sometimes our worst obstacle towards independence is more breaking down the systems our families taught us than physically getting free from them.
This story has a lot of hard-to-swallow pills. Michael Eon manages to weave trauma, addiction, and grief all in one, through strong, flowing prose that can at times catch you off guard with its bluntness.
I look forward to more of Eon’s works in the future.
October 3, 2023
Eon makes his literary debut in this heart-wrenching novel. "These Things Happen" tells the story of Daniel Zimmer as he grows up with his dysfunctional family in 1970s Brooklyn. Amidst his rocky relationship with his alcoholic and abusive father and the tragic death of his eldest brother, Daniel finds moments of solace with his brother Max as the two bond over rock and metal bands. Daniel carries his childhood trauma into adulthood, including his feelings of guilt and resentment. As an adult, Daniel struggles to find his place in the world, turning to alcohol to numb his pain and fears, leading him down a path of self-destruction. Eon's novel is separated into two timelines, Daniel's childhood and his adulthood. The chapters switch between both timelines and Eon does an excellent job at transitioning between the two that it doesn't feel confusing to the reader. I especially enjoyed how fluid the author's writing was, it was very easy to immerse myself in Daniel's life. This novel is a coming of age story, as well as well as the tumultuous journey of recovery from addiction, with its many highs and lows. Readers will be rooting for Daniel to come out to the other side despite his many hardships.
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