This is a profound telling of cancer slowly tearing a family apart as teenaged Dana battles for her life. Masterfully told from the point of view of twelve-year-old sister Erin, this shares vividly a girl’s confusion, anger, resistance, fears, and concerns. I was impressed that the authors did not give adult-depth processing to Erin as she narrated her story, yet they succeeded in showing how each person in the family struggled with faith, guilt, and anger, alternately distancing themselves, then desperately trying to create some sort of unified family life.
I saw firsthand how parents might break themselves trying to pay the bills, nurse the very sick child, and care for the other family members. My own mother was struck with polio when I was four, so I recognized some of the household disorder, abandonment, confusion, loss. I was dismayed by sports-minded Erin’s responses to the situation, but a middle schooler tends to be self-preoccupied, and the family often shut her out of her sister’s room which made it easier and easier to distance herself from the deepening horror.
I loved Erin’s care for her brothers and her clear inability to resolve either of their problems, making her mad at the adults for not seeing the brothers’ needs.
Though it starts slowly, this book portrays grace, forgiveness, and restoration of relationship as a family walks through the valley of the shadow of death. I wept at parts and grieved at other sections.
I would strongly recommend this to any family entering a cancer battle for a family member.