Like Kamasutra, Manu Smriti is probably the most misunderstood and misinterpreted book. Kamasutra is not a sex manual on sexual positions and Manu Smriti or the Manava Dharmashastra is not a caste enchiridion. But unlike Kamasutra, it is the most hated and vilified book in ancient Indian literature. Kamasutra is a study of the art of living with love and desire(kama). It writes about the 4 main human pursuits, methods of courtship, training in the arts, how to approach and find a partner, nature of love, marriage, widowhood. All in all, a manual of human life.
Manu Smriti is similar. A manual of social life. A societal codified study of the time it was written in. But unfortunately, it has become the mouthpiece of political ideologues for their own motives. Now, why is it hated so much? And how is this particular translation by Wendy Doniger?
I, for one, would never gloss over the substandard portions of the book and try to portray it as some form of a revealed book that has to be worshipped and venerated for eternity. Does this book contain portions not acceptable to the modern society? Most definitely yes, just like any other book of its time. Like, readers claim that they're happy to be not born in the time of Manu smriti. Well, we all are, like we all should be. The people at the time of Manu should be happy to be not born in the century before or even more so, millennia before. By that time, people could practise agriculture, there was surplus, less people died of hunger, and by being caught by wild animals, they knew how to make houses of bricks, had better medicines. Society was better. Much better.
But, even at the time, when many people around the world were largely hunter gatherers, Indians were living in a society. A full functioning society with infrastructure like proper drainage system, floored houses of bricks and mortar, cattle farming etc. So, where am I going with this? Being a student of sociology, I can't look at this book other than a window to the past to understand the society that is dynamic and ever changing.
Manu Smriti is a treatise on the functioning of a proper society. And how do you make a functioning society? Through rules. How do you discipline your child? Yes, you got it right, through rules. But do you, as a parent make mistakes? Every parent does and that helps him to better himself. The book talks about the rules of respecting our seniors, how to refrain from physical/ personal assaults, importance of rearing a child in a functioning society, arranged marriages, purification after death, Dharma of men and women, duties of husband and wife.
First, the negatives:
It's claimed that it gives validity to the caste system. Well, this happens to a person when he's not educated in his own Hindu Shastras and thinks actual education lies in his school textbooks. Now, it's not his fault but allow me to explain. The only books to claim any authority on Hinduism are Shrutis. Any king can rise up and make codes for his kingdom, and call it a Smriti. It doesn't give it a religious backing. They can be accepted or rejected as per choice. Also, it is a varna system which is explained clearly in the Manu Laws written by Patrick Olivelle, the only other book in English I've read.
Then, it's argued that people follow caste system because of Manu smriti. Well, manu was lying in his dusted cupboard until British took it our for their political reasons. But I don't say that it teaches us to practise equality. No, he does mention some objectionable things, that every sane person should reject, like we have been doing it for more than 2000 years. Yes, he does mention caste system, rather varna system,but it had been mentioned in texts before his time. Did Newton invent gravity? No, it existed before, he discovered and wrote about it.
Now, people say that they have read the book in Sanskrit and got the full understanding because? They know Sanskrit? No. They've got a Sanskrit-English dictionary.
"Hey you Hindu monkey-worshipper, why do you have 33 crore Gods?"
"Umm, we don't actually."
"But I have a Sanskrit-English dictionary. Doesn't 33 koti mean 33 crores."
"Yes, it does. But actually, it means 33 types. Different contexts, different meanings."
"But I have a dictionary!"
"That's good, but it really doesn't."
You get my point. This same mistake is committed by Wendy Doniger as well.
One of the best philosophers ever, Nietzsche claims Manu Smriti to be the highest art of living. He goes on to say, that it is of an incomparable spiritual and superior work. I don't agree with him, though. He says that the position of women is better off than that in any other work of it time anywhere. But Wendy pulls out a quote from verses dedicated to ascetics-sanyasins who have renounced the material life here on Earth and claims the book's misogynistic. These verses are for ascetics to tell them that attraction towards opposite sex is indeed the biggest of illusions.
The fact that 100s of verses she has to misquote from such chapters show the bias and stupidity of this writer. And this is just one of the many. People ask the Hindus to denounce it completely because crimes are committed in the name of Manu. Are crimes committed? yes. Is it deplorable? Definitely. But the funny thing is the educated people who have heard about Manu are non-casteist, which is totally different from varna in Manu Smriti, and the people in uneducated rural areas that do, have never heard of him.
But do we denounce Quran because of its flaws? or Bible? No. We just ignore it. So let the book lie undisturbed on the library shelves so that those who are interested in ancient Indian literature can study it in peace.
Now, the positives:
It talks against dowry. Yeah, surprising, right? And the importance of a girl child, as opposed to be believed and practised in some parts. Also, it has been shown in negative light by Wendy Doniger. Reason, she knows best. But it is mentioned in the Manu Laws written by Patrick Olivelle.
Equal inheritence to women, again not mentioned in this book but mentioned in the other one.
Vedic rituals to be performed by women as well (both husband and wife). This again, as expected, doesn't see light in this translation.
The goverment protection to widows, children and handicaps.
A wife to be given control of running the household and distribution of the finance.
One should renounce artha (money) and kama (pleasure) if it is in conflict with Dharma (duty). A negative by hedonist standard, but as a functional sociologist, I'd keep it in this list.
TL;DR:
It is book for the understanding of society and its laws since no society functions without laws Like every book of its time it has its good and bad. But bad is grossly exaggerated in popular perception.
This particular book is very biased as she refutes Nietzsche, and other great philosophers influenced by it like Hegel, Schopenhauer, Schegel etc. But then she claimed that Sita called Rama a pig, so her credibility can be invalidated unless you are as ideologically possessed as her.
Better, pick up the book Manu Smriti by Patrick Olivelle, an extremely knowledgeable person in philosopy, sociology, history alike. Thank me later.