Unfortunately, accidents happen. But in this day and age the mindset is, "we have all this technology and all this acquired knowledge and know-how. Why CAN'T we prevent accidents and mishaps?!"
Because, no matter what you do, people will get hurt.
Mentally: Ack! Everything so far has been [A]! I must've done something wrong.. But I'm SURE that I calculated those answers right.. Don't know... should I change or ... aaaaaah! ..
Emotionally: He said he'd call, and when he finally did he just said "Hey". Does he not care about our relationship? Why is he playing with my emotions! Sob!! Dove Chocolate you're my only boyfriend!!
Physically: I got hit by two cars. One each on a separate occasion. The first one I was playing my GameBoy SP (Fuck yeah!) and the van that drove immediately after I was just about to make it to the curb whacked me in the back of the head with it's way-stuck-out mirrors.. I was basically unharmed, but pretty shook up because it was so sudden , you know? The second time I was riding my bike through a neighborhood intersection. I had my helmet on (foreshadowing) and I didn't think to stop and pause to see if there were any cars coming from my right (I had some pretty sweet momentum going on - on account that I had just dipped down from a big hill) .. A car came to my right, I swerved, closed my eyes, and waited impact. The whole world was twisting and no matter what I couldn't stop myself until inertia and momentum and velocity and yadda yadda ran out... I have some scars on my inner thigh and a severe aversion to bicycles (this happened 3 years ago. I still haven't ridden one since.. I can't help it) .. and if I hadn't worn my helmet I wouldn't be talking to you today (severe coma -> pull the plug , or hemorrhaging and death.. 1000 ways to die >_> <_< )
The point is, you can't prevent all accidents. Unfortunately, humans are prone to making mistakes, to act on their own selfish urges. I think we will all let slide the guy who eats too many pieces of cake at a birthday party when it's not even his, but embezzlement and pyramid schemes are the worst.
But what am I getting at? Oh yes..
Well that incident that happened before with the bicycle? I didn't sue the guy for hitting me. SHOCKING! Oddly enough, he was a classmate's father and my classmate was in the car at the time of the accident as well.
People these days take drastic measures to make sense of why something happened. Forget God's Divine Plan, it's always someone else's fault. While I do hate that I had the bad enough luck to cross an intersection with a car coming at my blind spot, I do not blame him for hitting me. I just rode right in the middle of the road.. I ACCEPT responsibility for my actions. It kind of was all my fault, and I'm sad to say that the man who hit me still feels very bad about it after a handful of years. It's not your fault :(
Anyways... sorry for going off on tangents..
The government should provide programs for those in need and can't make ends meet, but shouldn't be nosing their way in on everyday life.
Banning dodgeball? Really? Yes it makes people feel very left out for being picked last or having all the balls hurled at you, but if you're the only one left standing, of course they will aim at you! And if you're so afraid, stand behind your team mates. And why are you putting all your eggs in one basket for acceptance? Gym? Really? People are born jocks. If you're not good at sports, then get really good at English or Math or Art, because being good at sports doesn't really help you in the long run UNLESS you are aiming to get a job that requires strenuous physical activity or playing for a professional sports team.
What I didn't like about this book was that the author has a sour note in his voice. I don't like that, especially when I'm on the fence trying to decide what course of action should've been more appropriate for the situation.
I think that, no matter what your policy political-wise, there is always the exception to your blanket of governing strategy.
Food Stamps and welfare are perfect for those who, though they work two jobs to support their three kids, can't make ends meet.
But on the other hand, lazy good-for-nothing shmucks who spend it on crack should be exempted from these "hand outs" .. I hate calling them "hand outs" . What's the harm in getting some extra help from somebody else? I hate asking for help because I feel like I can do it on my own, but if I really need help I will ask because it's better than muttering and wallowing in your own despair over the fact you can't get anything done right :/