Oedipus schmoedipus, as long as his mummy loves him? This review is rather like the book- over- long,allusive, tortuous,but there you are.
Adolescent smut, obsession with death, would- be incest, disgust at dogs' ways, an obnoxious central character around whose baffled, potentially mysogenic and misanthropic persona women run circles,along with a sometimes over- literary style- these and more await the easily- upset or offput reader of this book, which is very funny at times,situationally and descriptively, if of that black humour- appreciating mind (there's a lot of mind in it).
It is also infuriating, even boring, in its overwrought introspection- or indeed extrospection,by the narrator- but that's also the point of this schlemiel of a protagonist. But an almost dialectic,casuistic introspection dominates the writing.
The story,mainly a life story around a central final resolution of sorts, depicts the tortuous mental processes of a man, pampered by women from birth, who feels perpetually unmanned and put down. His coping tactics,which can be very spiteful, are convincingly portrayed and add up to unobliging and largely unpleasant character traits. It is a deal too long,mainly due to the mental convolutions being indulged in detail.
There are laugh-out-loud thumbnail.portraits of characters (a female academic colleague dresses severely. like a mime, and stands on one leg like a stork,with just a gash of red lipstick; another, oversolicitous, who only has to ask you how you are to make you feel terrible) , along with ludicrous situations, such as a first and only reluctant dog walk by Henry, who has never taken a dog for a walk. These often act as one- liners in a mass of more morose introspection,acting both as relief and incongruous contrast.
There is a strong tilt at a perceived feminisation of academic Eng Lit, which could lead to warnings that students might be upset by latent mysogeny in the perhaps unlikely event that this book becomes a university set text- amongst Henry's achievements. "... he had a degree in girls' literature". But to characterise the authorial tone as mysogenic would be inaccurate - the men are all flawed, ineffectual or overbearing,whereas most of the women have strong and often positive characteristics,so misanthropic would be closer.
I'd say this was a Marmite book on the experience of my book club, except that I was the only one to finish,let alone like it.
I think familiarity with or appreciation of the British Jewish idiom,with its a smatteting of largely explained direct Yiddish terms, will either help or hinder appreciation of the narrative as a whole,along with the bathetic humour ( "so he took her (the father's supposed mistress) to the Midland Hotel, in broad daylight- he should have taken her somewhere cheaper?")
There is a final,ironic resolution to a mess of a life and to more than one family mystery, and a suitably ironic finish to some preposterous situations. I quite enjoyed it but the weight of the character's content was too slight for such a large book, and I would dip rather than read through again - too much already!