This is an incredible book--well written, emotionally-captivating, and profoundly inspirational . It starts with a very moving story from the perspective of a mother, showing her love and determination to do all that is possible to help her child. Ling asks, “Would you lie if you were me?” The book asks: How do you keep your family intact and parent effectively when your world is falling apart? How do you watch your child deteriorate before your eyes? How do you handle him asking if he could give up? How do you help your children prepare for the unthinkable? As Ling wrestled with these issues, I felt I was sharing them with her, and the mother in me ached in empathy. All of the scenes involving CuteCute and Lenny’s letter to Ling are unforgettable.
Just when I thought all emotion had drained from me, the story shifts to the perspective of the children and their attempts to make sense of what is going on in their lives. They are referred to as warriors, and that they were, “Living for the number of smiles and not the number of months.”
The book is a story of courage, intense love, living life to the fullest, dreaming seemingly impossible dreams, and the question of whether anyone is entitled to decide the life journey of another. These are special characters who inspire as we pray we never have to face what they did. As an American reader, I had a few problems with terms and phrasing found in the earlier pages of the book, but the overall emotional impact of the story transcends cultural differences. Soon I only noticed the excellent writing. Low Kay Hwa, you deserve one of Lenny’s “ pats on the head.” Beautiful story. I highly recommend it.
I was given a review copy of the book by the author, but the thoughts expressed are solely mine.