Kare Anderson gives us 4 simple steps to Resolving Conflict Sooner, taking us on a roundtrip through conflict, coming back to ourselves after the conflict is resolved, and feeling pleased with results and relationships. The 4 steps 1. Tell yourself the truth 2. Reach out to the other side 3. Listen attentively to others 4. Prove you are fair Through these four simple steps, Kare shows us how conflict can be an opportunity for people to come together, connect, and establish deeper relatedness. Woven throughout the book are helpful tips to keep in mind as we practice the art of resolving conflicts in our day to day lives.