Harold Ivan Smith knows the questions singles are asking. As a divorced single Christian, he has wrestled with the questions himself. In this book he presents no simple answers but frank, honest, biblically based guidance to enable singles of all ages to make wise life decisions. New topics in this revised edition The Single and the Family; Single in the Workplace; Coping with Widowhood; Single Parenting; Sexual Addiction; Dealing with Loss and Romantic Grief; Date Rape and Acquaintance Rape; Getting Out of Bad Relationships; Balancing Sexuality and Faith.
Harold Ivan Smith, MA, ED.S., FT, DMin, is a national speaker, noted author, experienced counselor and grief educator. He has presented bereavement workshops across the country, training more than 20,000 professionals and lay caregivers during a thirty-year career. Seminar and conference attendees rave about interactions with Harold Ivan, and his insightful gifts of helping, healing, and facilitating grief.
A prolific writer, he has authored dozens of books and resources, included best seller, A Decembered Grief: Living with Loss When Others are Celebrating. Also among his titles are Griefkeeping: Learning How Long Grief Lasts; ABCs of Healthy Bereavement; Grievers Ask, When You Don’t Know What to Say; When Your Friend Dies; Finding Your Way to Say Goodbye: Comfort for the Dying and Those Who Care for Them; and Grieving the Death of a Father. His newest book, Using Biographical and Historical Grief Narratives With The Bereaving (Routledge).
He is also an authority of the griefs of American Presidents and First Ladies. He facilitates Grief Gatherings, an innovative storytelling program at Saint Luke’s Hospital in Kansas City, Missouri, where he is a member of the teaching faculty. Harold Ivan is active in the Association for Death Education and Counseling (ADEC) and is designated a Fellow in Thanatology (FT).
Bought from a thrift store, I read it & I really like it--I even use it as a reference once in a while. It's a book I can relate to as a single-never-married (& not currently in a relationship).
After reading it, I came up w/ some updated questions, as this was written in the late-1980s (at least the edition of the book I read was originally published in 1988): What about online dating? What if my parents want me to date, but I don't want to? At what age is one supposed to have lost their virginity (or is it ok to be a 40-year-old+ virgin)? What about single-parent adoptions? What about single-parent cryobank issues (sperm banks, egg banks, etc)?