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Soulmates: The Quest for Meaningful Relationships
" Soulmates ", a term when uttered, could either make some people's stomachs flutter with excitement, and hearts skipping a beat, or it could cause some to feel so demoralised and filled with instant sadness, their stomachs churn at the sound of it. What a term. What a powerful word. What a mysterious concept. In his much-anticipated fourth book, best-selling author, Mizi Wahid explores the various concepts of love; discussing marriage, going deep into the topics of singlehood, as well as addressing the issues of friendships and broken relationships. All in an attempt to offer some of his personal perspectives on the mystifying concept of "Soulmates".
246 pages, Paperback
First published December 16, 2022
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About the author
Mizi Wahid
7 books240 followersMuhammad Tarmizi Bin Abdul Wahid is the CEO of Safinah Institute, an Islamic education centre which was started in Singapore in 2009. It conducts Islamic courses in English for all age groups engaging the students with questions, sharings and discussions.
Safinah also conducts camps for teens and children as well as spiritual retreats for adults on a regular basis which are led by Tarmizi.
He is a graduate of the Al-Azhar University in Cairo, majoring in Islamic Law. Upon graduation, he served at the Islamic Religious Council of Singapore in the Office of the Mufti department for two and a half years before embarking on an entrepreneurial journey. He has been featured on local television, interviewed on local radio stations and have also written numerous articles for various publications.
His passion in life is to inspire people through the words of the Quran and Sunnah via his talks and writings. He enjoys traveling and spending quality time with his family. He resides in the North-Eastern side of sunny Singapore with wife, Fadhilah. They are blessed with four beautiful children.
Safinah also conducts camps for teens and children as well as spiritual retreats for adults on a regular basis which are led by Tarmizi.
He is a graduate of the Al-Azhar University in Cairo, majoring in Islamic Law. Upon graduation, he served at the Islamic Religious Council of Singapore in the Office of the Mufti department for two and a half years before embarking on an entrepreneurial journey. He has been featured on local television, interviewed on local radio stations and have also written numerous articles for various publications.
His passion in life is to inspire people through the words of the Quran and Sunnah via his talks and writings. He enjoys traveling and spending quality time with his family. He resides in the North-Eastern side of sunny Singapore with wife, Fadhilah. They are blessed with four beautiful children.
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March 9, 2023
Another one of my best reads for this year so far
January 10, 2023
The writer, Ustaz Mizi Wahid opined that soulmates may be in different angles; not limited to love relationships only. It may be in the friendships and family bond.
This book pictured the reality of two parties in sustaining the ongoing relationship or the process of building a new one. It is not all about rainbows and sunshine all the time. The real cases in community may deeply pondered by the readers. The Q&A’s in every chapters are totally insightful! ✨
This book pictured the reality of two parties in sustaining the ongoing relationship or the process of building a new one. It is not all about rainbows and sunshine all the time. The real cases in community may deeply pondered by the readers. The Q&A’s in every chapters are totally insightful! ✨
November 13, 2022
Great book to read if you are still searching or doubting about what is the meaning of soulmate. Not only for single people but also for married couple to reflect on their current relationship..to have a glimpse on how to make it work, sustain or worst end it.
May 13, 2023
An easy read that tackles the concept of soulmates and relationships. The author also answered an FAQ at the end of each chapter like if “right person, wrong time” exists, or if we can make dua to Allah for a specific person to be our soulmate, etc which I found quite insightful.
Personal key takeaways:
1. Allah’s timing is always right and Allah has a plan for all of us
2. Before deciding on getting married — communicate about everything and set expectations. Your vision for your future should be aligned.
3. Self-love is so important, you have to know and appreciate yourself before you do the same for others
4. The happiest relationships are those who forgive easily and communicate openly & honestly
5. The Prophet PBUH said that the best reason to marry a woman should be for her faith. Her beauty, wealth, family status should be secondary.
6. Total perfection does not exist (at least not in this dunya) and no matter how happy you are in the beginning, all relationships will face adversities. So you should always choose to be someone with the best character, and a person who will complement you in every way.
7. Allah promotes as high as our character takes us.
Personal key takeaways:
1. Allah’s timing is always right and Allah has a plan for all of us
2. Before deciding on getting married — communicate about everything and set expectations. Your vision for your future should be aligned.
3. Self-love is so important, you have to know and appreciate yourself before you do the same for others
4. The happiest relationships are those who forgive easily and communicate openly & honestly
5. The Prophet PBUH said that the best reason to marry a woman should be for her faith. Her beauty, wealth, family status should be secondary.
6. Total perfection does not exist (at least not in this dunya) and no matter how happy you are in the beginning, all relationships will face adversities. So you should always choose to be someone with the best character, and a person who will complement you in every way.
7. Allah promotes as high as our character takes us.
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June 20, 2023
At the end of the day, you should be able to put 100% trust to Allah, the Great planner.
The struggling part would be to put 100% trust to Allah, due to the external factors influencing your decision, your thoughts, your heart and mind.
Please pray for me! :)
A relationship goal is never to be perfect. It should be about growing together emotionally, intellectually, and spiritually. Effort towards striving for betterment
The struggling part would be to put 100% trust to Allah, due to the external factors influencing your decision, your thoughts, your heart and mind.
Please pray for me! :)
A relationship goal is never to be perfect. It should be about growing together emotionally, intellectually, and spiritually. Effort towards striving for betterment
October 30, 2022
Ustaz Mizi Wahid has a gift of writing simple words and is able to relates to what many people nowadays especially single people’s struggle. Some of the concepts are straightforward and clear. A very good book in my opinion especially personally for me as a single woman in her 30s. Easily readable. Thank you
April 13, 2023
4.5 stars
March 1, 2025
In the last year I experienced loss of someone I thought was the one I would settle down with. I did istikharah and Allah showed me, things didn’t end the way I’d hoped for.
It has caused me a great deal of sadness and I experience difficulty to redha, to accept the divine decree. But I try everyday to be at peace with His Qadr, knowing full well that Allah is The All Knowing, The Most Wise and The Most Loving.
This book reminded me of just that, in midst of my sadness, to always have hope, and to always strive to be a better person and to fulfill my time with beneficial things while in waiting for my rizq in finding spouse.
Thank you so much ustaz for your kind and affirming words that keep me hopeful. May Allah bless you and your efforts always.
It has caused me a great deal of sadness and I experience difficulty to redha, to accept the divine decree. But I try everyday to be at peace with His Qadr, knowing full well that Allah is The All Knowing, The Most Wise and The Most Loving.
This book reminded me of just that, in midst of my sadness, to always have hope, and to always strive to be a better person and to fulfill my time with beneficial things while in waiting for my rizq in finding spouse.
Thank you so much ustaz for your kind and affirming words that keep me hopeful. May Allah bless you and your efforts always.
September 21, 2025
Took me sometime to finish it because I didn’t get the push. Been reading it bit by bit. This is my second book from the author, after The Art of Letting God. His words in that book somehow reached to me. So I thought why not read his other books.
As I am someone who has yet to find a spouse, it is pertinent for me to keep improving myself. Hence, this book. The author has captured a lot of his experience in giving counsels, provided real life examples and of course simple analogies that I could easily relate to. Many lessons given in this book were very straightforward, but how the author elaborate them makes it sticks in your heart and your head. Nonetheless, hidayah comes from Allah SWT.
As I am someone who has yet to find a spouse, it is pertinent for me to keep improving myself. Hence, this book. The author has captured a lot of his experience in giving counsels, provided real life examples and of course simple analogies that I could easily relate to. Many lessons given in this book were very straightforward, but how the author elaborate them makes it sticks in your heart and your head. Nonetheless, hidayah comes from Allah SWT.
December 7, 2025
Beautifully written by Ustaz Mizi Wahid as this books shift the readers perspective on finding their soulmate / jodoh. It is bigger than just picking someone to marry, it is the essence behind it. The most important part is loving yourself first and living life to the fullest, seeking Allah’s blessings. Take our time to evaluate what are the criteria that we seek for in a partner and manage both our expectations and visions. Finding a partner who aligns in values, principles, level of thinking, faith, etc are crucial rather than taking physical attributes as the main criteria. May we all be able to find and live happily with our soulmate, seeking for His Jannah in shaa Allah.
September 17, 2024
Thank you Ustaz Mizi for this wonderful book ✨
May 3, 2025
Such a good book and I think it is the best piece from Mizi Wahid. I love the idea that even though we have found our soulmates, we are bound to part ways when the time comes. It is us to always be prepared and put trust in Allah in every circumstances.
December 6, 2024
I lurveeee Mizi Wahid’s writing style! Very conversational yet still beautiful as a written piece. The topic of soulmates is also tackled in such a fresh take, broadening it to also include the idea of non-romantic relationships like friendship. Would definitely recommend this one for single or married individuals.
October 24, 2023
The book gave a redefinition of the term soulmate as we know it, to people we connected throughout life. I like how it shows a new perspective and some pointers of the subject matter than the usual confined societal and individual expectations of jodoh, marriage and such. Its a bit enlightening and reaffirming for me. Book delivers some bitter truth of the reality but always rephrased with optimism. For those feeling a bit loss in jodoh seeking, reading this can probably take some of the pressure off. I ended feeling comforted and at ease. A great book indeed.
July 26, 2023
It took me about a month to finish this book, reading while waiting. Thinking do I ever cross path my soulmate. I love how the author ensured me that it is completely to have standards and stick with it. I always thought that I was arrogant for having certain standards in what I'm looking for a soulmate. Aren't I too good for him? or isn't he too good for me? This book gives me insights on such things. Thus, I'll take my time to figure it all out. No rush, I'll definitely get there.
August 16, 2023
A good book to read for me and my family.
The events that are not happening according to our choice are planned with care and love by the Best of all Planners, Allah SWT.
The life of every creation is dependent on Allah and His perfect plans. Not a leaf can move without His permission. Similarly, the life of a human being is perfectly planned by Allah SWT.
The events that are not happening according to our choice are planned with care and love by the Best of all Planners, Allah SWT.
The life of every creation is dependent on Allah and His perfect plans. Not a leaf can move without His permission. Similarly, the life of a human being is perfectly planned by Allah SWT.
November 16, 2023
Finish reading in one sitting!
A very interesting aspect to look into the term
'soulmates' in terms of relationships with humans in general, that include even friends. I would say it's a light reading but also has its bits and pieces of advice and perspective that you can engrave for your future. Highly recommend for all maturing people especially the single ones too
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A very interesting aspect to look into the term
'soulmates' in terms of relationships with humans in general, that include even friends. I would say it's a light reading but also has its bits and pieces of advice and perspective that you can engrave for your future. Highly recommend for all maturing people especially the single ones too
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April 21, 2023
I like the part where the author addressed that being single is an opportunity for you to spend more time with yourself and explore life more which I agree. But I kinda wish more; to talk more about singlehood. But it was a decent read (and a cute cover, I got the pink edition <3)
August 10, 2023
Personally, for me it's an Islamic version of "8 rules of love". I love it since the mention of soulmate doesn't always mean in romantic relationships.
Perfect read for someone who struggle about jodoh 🥺 and the QnA really really really hit the spot. Gotta re-read for sure!
Perfect read for someone who struggle about jodoh 🥺 and the QnA really really really hit the spot. Gotta re-read for sure!
December 15, 2022
I like how the book discuss many angles of soulmates and includes Q&A section in between chapters.
April 10, 2023
Once again, Ust Mizi made me rethink life😂 I found a different definition of soulmate from this and I’m glad I did. Thank you.
June 7, 2023
5🌟❣️✨️
a beautiful read 😇 I love this book so much
a beautiful read 😇 I love this book so much
June 14, 2023
Love it! Very Mizi Wahid style of writing.
November 28, 2023
This book opens my eyes on another points of views about finding the one and is totally healing to be read when thinking about the uncertainty of the future "us".
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