Mothering Ourselves: Help and Healing for Adult Daughters

by Evelyn S. Bassoff

With examples drawn from her own experience, from her patients' stories, and from myth, fairy tale, and contemporary fiction, Dr. Bassoff shows readers how to overcome the conflict between intense identification with and resentment of the mother that so often causes women deep unhappiness.

Genres: Psychology, Nonfiction, Womens, Self Help, Parenting

Mass Market Paperback

First published March 1, 1992

Reviews

[Sogand Taghvaei · Rating 5 out of 5]

درخشان، درخشان درخشان

بی‌شک یکی از بهترین کتابهای امسالم.
از متن کتاب:
یکی از نشانه‌های بلوغ کامل، ظرفیت دیدن والدین نه به صورت یک الهه و یا یک هیولا ، بلکه به صورت بشری ناکامل و جایز الخطاست.
این موضوع سبب می‌شود که از آن‌ها توقع بیش از حد نداشته باشیم و با آنها دوستی بالغ با بالغ برقرار کنیم.

[Di · Rating 5 out of 5]

Really excellent. Wise, insightful, doesn't bash parents/mothers in order to support daughters.

[Cecilia · Rating 5 out of 5]

one of the first books i read on the mother-daughter relationship. tears, tears, and tears. an opening into the healing that reading about dysfunctional mother-daughter relationships can bring. the power of telling stories.

another book i plan to turn to over and over.

[Andrea M · Rating 2 out of 5]

I thought Chapter 5 was brilliant and the rest depressing.