Quotes from book: The deepest relief that addiction provides is that it destroys our deepest passions. As addiction continues, it dulls the deeper passions of our hearts for other people and other things. Addiction opposes love. it nails the energy of our longings to someone or something - a person, place, substance, behavior, or belief. And the addictive object or central activity works; it provides relief from living in the midst of messy relationships, so we want more and more of it.(But then it imprisons us to self hate.)
When we are addicted we can not love.
Addiction is energized by the belief that if God were as He should be, we would not struggle with desire and having to say no to desire. And so we substitute a God of our own making. Really, the heart of addiction is rooted in the last addiction: "I will be in charge, because i know best."
So far what i have read, this book explains quite well the root of addictions, How addictions kills our desire and how I want to be in Control of my life.
This book rings true to my life, how I have tried to numb out my pain through my addiction to food and co-dependency. I see how i have killed the desire of my heart, I want what the cover of this book says.
Own My Desire Live Beyond Recovery Find Lasting Freedom
This book is not just for those who are addicted, I think it is a book for those who deal with wounds that has kept anyone from living a full life that God has intended for us to live.
In spite of overly relying on The Message for quotations from Scripture and some questionable theology (especially in chapter 10), this is a beautiful book about addiction written by a therapist with her own addiction story and a strong hope in Jesus.
I've skim-read this book in the bookstore and referred a lot of people to it -- but finally ordered it for myself! I don't think it's too soon to say that this is the book every addict or recovering addict should read. Or anyone who tends to fill the hunger for relationship and intimacy with -- dare i say it -- books...food...football...work...ministry...children...[or any other kind of idolatry]. If you get what I'm poorly saying -- it's for all of us!:)
Another book for my counseling class. The author does a great job of encouraging you to not suffer through addiction alone. Gospel-centered encouragement at times, heretical advice at others. I would encourage a lot of discernment when reading this book, but there’s good things to be learned from it.
Self will is not enough to beat the demon of alcohol or any drug for that matter. I am sure there are those out there that do not believe in God or His precious son and managed to get sober but I guarantee they are still longing for something, they just don't realize it. This book is Christian based and is by an addiction professional who also happened to suffer from alcoholism. As you read her story and those of other addicts you will be encouraged that you too can get sober by turning your cares over to God, the higher power you can lean on in times of temptation. My mom and I actually read this together and studied it. I recommend this book to all suffering addicts and those who love them and are baffled at how they can help.
4 stars for "The Last Addiction." Me Hersh defines addiction and then goes on to ask the million dollar question. .....is there true healing? A vivid account of baptism in the Jordan, therapy and prescription drugs, gave me a true account of our lives as a journey of healing! The long winding road needed to find the source of our desire and passion! The blessing of suffering is real for all and the courage to face our brokenness is essential!
The best book I’ve read this year. Profoundly healing for me personally, helping me understand myself and people I love. I can’t recommend it enough to anyone who longs for More in their lives and the lives of their loved ones.
An insightful read into the causes of addiction and the hope that we have
A great read that helps one discover the hidden motivations that fuel our addictions. This book helped me self reflect on so much about why I do the things I do.
I don’t struggle with addiction but have always had family who has. I expected this to be informative for them but it ended up being the best for me. I think I highlighted half the book. It’s one of those that punches you in the face and makes you feel loved all at the same time. Super challenging in regard to our addiction to ourselves!
Hersh uses a combination of case studies, her own story, psychology, and Christian thought to look at the subject of addiction: what it is, what it causes in us, and how to walk the path toward freedom and hope. Her writing is accessible, honest, gracious and vulnerable. The last addiction refers to the desire to save face by saving ourselves.
I took an class on addictions taught by the author of this book, Sharon Hersh. The class changed my life. The book reminded me how much the class changed my life. A MUST READ!!! I read the entire book in one sitting.
This is one of my favorite books of all time. It almost feels devotional in context. I have read it twice now and both times I have been left longing for more!