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304 pages, Paperback
First published January 1, 2012
…how misguided is the common notion that in order to “deny our sinful tendencies” we must “deny our sexuality.” With such an approach we end up trading one sin (the lustful indulgence of sexuality) for another (contempt for human nature).
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…identifying our humanity so closely with our sexuality is not a matter of reducing the human person to the “sexual level.” Rather, it is a matter of raising all that is sexual to the level of the human person. [pp.18-19]
Oh! How tragic that we have believed the lie that God does not want to grant the desires of our hearts! Our desire for “eternal joy,” for “pleasure in the extreme” is not bad. That’s not the problem; God created us that way. He put that desire in our hearts so that we, like a bride, might open our longing to “the gift” of the eternal Bridegroom. And if we believe that God is not going to grant us the heaven we desire, we will attempt to satisfy our desire for “pleasure in the extreme” on our own. If heaven is not real, then we will probably set our sights on the next best thing—that primary icon of heaven found here in the created world: sex. But alas, this “false heaven” ends up creating a living hell…. Welcome to the pornographic “culture of death” in which the primary icon has become our primary idol.
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If the evil of our pornographic world is to be stopped, we mustn’t condemn the body and sex, nor seek to snuff out the fire of eros that lies at the core of our humanity. Rather, we must rediscover the true meaning of the body and sex as a sign of the “great mystery” of Christ’s love for the Church, redirecting eros towards its true object. [pp.215-216]