Gift from the Sea

by ANNE MORROW LIND BERGH

1975 20TH ANNIVERSARY PBACK,

Genres: Nonfiction, Memoir, Classics, Book Club, Essays, Self Help, Philosophy

Paperback

First published January 1, 1955

Reviews

[Audra · Rating 1 out of 5]

so...reading this book, in places, made me long to go back to Atlantic Beach, made me go back and read my diaries of New York.

I thought carefully about whether my strongly adverse feelings about this book were actually warranted or not. I have decided that there is a middle ground I must take here.

Here's my unabashed assessment, untainted by the millions of people who seem to LOVE this book:

if you've already lived the hard life, and come through it, worse for the wear but better in soul, don't bother with Gifts From the Sea. It will probably seem like common knowledge in the form of over-elaborate metaphor to you.

However, if you are living the hard life right now, this book still might not be worth the read, because if you are truly in a rough spot, battling the demons of life, this may just make you bitter that some lady with a rich social life and ample resources is trying to tell you how to live yours. That said, it's always worth a shot to read and gain insight into something, so see how it strikes you.

The people I actually recommend this to are those who are young traditionalists. I can see how a young mother might gain much wisdom from this. Or a person just starting out in life, maybe in a dorm somewhere, or maybe someone young who has just graduated college.

This is a book meant for people who started right, followed the steps in the right order, and never strayed from the norm, in order to awaken the creative and contemplative soul in the everyday woman. Which is wonderful and utterly commendable.

This, to me, is not a book for the extremist, the eccentric, the serious rebel, the woman who saw a path and decided to blaze off through uncharted territory,eventually caught by the briars of life on that untread path. These people do not need advice on how to find themselves, or awaken creativity.

Just one eccentric woman's 2 cents worth.

[Rachael · Rating 5 out of 5]

This is one of those books that really will change your life, and it's one that absolutely should.

Lindberg (the wife of Charles Lindberg) explores the necessity of not only looking inward, but of focusing on one's development in order to fully live as a person, a woman, a mother, and a wife. She is especially potent when discussing the necessity of occasional moments of solitude in order to realign one's priorities and give freedom to creative expression, rather than running oneself ragged with the million fragmented responsibilities of the American woman.

This book was written in 1955, and it is even more relevant today. The text is anchored with a series of metaphors based on the shells that Lindberg collected over a 2 week retreat to the beach, and somehow the shells make perfect sense.

In reading this I realized that I need to not only focus on continuing my own inner development for my own sake, but so that I can be an interesting woman, a mother more capable of giving, and a wife who will continue to grow with my husband rather than stagnate in the ceaseless pursuit of vital--but admittedly repetitive--household tasks.

[Sharon Orlopp · Rating 5 out of 5]

Wow! This 130-page book published in 1955 packs a wallop and has left me speechless.

Last year I read a historical fiction novel, The Lindbergh Nanny. Author Mariah Fredericks conducted very thorough research and provided investigation details about the 1932 kidnapping and death of baby Charles Lindbergh, Jr. After reading The Lindbergh Nanny, I did some internet research and discovered that Charles and Anne Lindbergh had five children after the death of baby Charles. I also learned that Anne Morrow Lindbergh was the author of twelve books.

I chose Gift from the Sea as a book to read for the Goodreads Around-The-Year reading challenge for prompt #40: a book you'd consider a comfort read. The copy I read is the 50th Anniversary edition and it includes an introduction by Reeve Lindbergh, one of Anne's daughters. There is currently a 70th Anniversary edition book that I have ordered to give to my sister.

Reeve Lindbergh's introduction left me gobsmacked. Reeve shares how much this book means to her; she has read it more than fifty times. Reeve shares that her mother was the first woman in America to receive a glider pilot license, the first woman to win the National Geographic Society's Hubbard Medal for her aviation and exploration adventures, and Anne's first book, Listen! received the National Book Award. Gift from the Sea was the topselling nonfiction book in the 1950's.

After reading Reeve's introduction, I did some internet research on Anne Morrow Lindbergh before continuing with Gift from the Sea. Due to the intense media pressure surrounding baby Charles' abduction and death, Anne and her husband Charles moved to the UK in 1935. Their second son, Jon, had been receiving harassment and threats while in the US. The Lindbergh's returned to the US in 1939 and there were allegations and concerns that they were Nazi sympathizers. After Pearl Harbor was bombed, the Lindbergh's supported America's involvement in World War II.

Anne Lindbergh lived to be 94 and she died in 2001. Rudolf Schrock authored a book called The Double Life of Charles A. Lindbergh. Charles died in 1974. One of the allegations was that Charles fathered three children with Brigitte Hesshaimer, a Munich hat maker. After Hesshaimer died in 2003, DNA tests confirmed the three children were fathered by Charles Lindbergh. Lindbergh also had two children with Brigitte's sister, Marietta. In addition, Lindbergh also had two children with his personal secretary.

After learning this information about the Lindbergh's, I dove into reading Gift from the Sea and I could not put it down. The book is based on a beach where Anne spent time in solitude with deep reflection so that she could write. Many of the chapters are about specific shells that she finds on the beach and what each type of shell means to her and to the various stages of her life.

The sea calms her down and teaches her that patience and simplicity are part of the great oceanic rhythms of the universe. Beach living is the art of shedding and learning to live with only what is minimally needed. Our daily lives do not prepare us for contemplation and quiet, alone time. She challenges us to be pioneers in achieving stillness.

I took several pages of notes and have listed below some of the memorable passages:

* What is the shape of my life?

* Women perform a circus act every day taking care of children, the home, meals, transportation, careers, relatives, friends, etc. This leads to fragmentation and continual distractions.

* One should be free like a hermit crab to change one's shell.

* The oyster shell is unique; no shells are alike. It is fitted and formed by its own life and struggle to survive.

* Middle age is a period of shedding shells.

* What does the open sea hold for us?

* We are pioneers trying to find a new path through the maze of tradition, convention, and dogma.

* Both the trivial and the important clutter our lives.

* Island-precepts are signposts toward another way of living.

* The present is passed over in the race for the future.

Even though Gift from the Sea was published 70 years ago, its message about life, women, divisiveness, and change resonates strongly today.

[Kristin · Rating 5 out of 5]

I absolutely LOVE this book!! I highly highly recommend it. It is the perfect gift to give a friend/sister/mother or to buy for yourself to read and re-read. It is also a really quick read which is a nice little bonus. If you want a really professional review read Lucy's. (I really think Lucy should become a book critic). But here's what I thought about it...this was my second time reading the book. The first time I read it I was around 18 and getting ready to leave for college. My mom had read it and really liked it and had suggested I read it. (She has always had two copies of this book...one she kept at home and one she kept at her office). I read it and liked it and even took notes and wrote down favorite quotes from it. (I actually found my old franklin planner and the notes that I took...it was really fun to read). When I read it at 18 my parents were in the process of getting divorced, my family was moving from Kansas City to Houston, and I was getting ready to leave for BYU. Most of the quotes I wrote down were about separation.

"Parting is inevitably painful, even for a short time. It's like an amputation, I feel a limb is being torn off, without which I shall be unable to function. And yet, once it is done...life rushes back into the void, richer, more vivid and fuller than before" Anne Morrow Lindbergh.

I also had a few that I wrote down about trying to figure out who I was and how I mattered to the world.

"...When one is a stranger to one's self then one is a estranged from others too. If one is out of touch with oneself, then one cannot touch others". Anne Morrow Lindbergh

I remember crying on my bed, while reading the book, thinking...Anne Morrow Lindbergh really GETS me. Reading it again at 34 it was a like a whole different book and this time I was laughing reading it thinking...Anne Morrow Lindbergh really GETS me.

She compares the different phases of a woman's life to different sea shells. I loved the analogy of the oyster shell. That would be the married/raising a family stage. She describes it as very ordinary looking...rather lumpy...embedded on a rock...with things attached to it. She talks about how it reminded her of a house full of children, toys and bikes everywhere, with friends spilling out, noisy, messy and chaotic. That sounds so familiar!! She talks about how women's lives are so full of responsibilities, meals to be made, housecleaning, kids to be taken care of, pets, hobbies, friends, children's friends, activities, children's activities, committees and husbands that women rarely take any time for themselves to be renewed. So that quote that I wrote down when I was 18 about being a stranger to one's self means something totally different at 34.

I also really liked how she described the different stages of marriage. My favorite quote from this read-through was:

"Love isn't gazing at each other...it is standing side by side and looking in the same direction"

I think this book has had such appeal and longevity because it is full of universal truths. We, women, are more alike than we are different and that it even transcends time and generations. I can't wait to read the book when I'm 50 and again at 80 and see if Anne Morrow Lindbergh still GETS me...somehow I think she will.

[Cindy Rollins · Rating 4 out of 5]

I read this and all of Anne Morrow Lindbergh's diaries when I was a young wife. They were somewhat guides to life for me as a young bride. A guide from someone in tune to her inner and outer life. It is no surprise that the older I get the further back into the book I find insights. That is how it was written. This time I especially enjoyed the add-on chapter Gift from the Sea re-opened. Especially this passage:

"When I wrote Gift from the Sea, I was still in the stage of life called "the oyster bed," symbol of a spreading family and growing children. The oyster bed, as the tide of life ebbed and the children went away to school, college, marriage, or careers, was left high and dry. A most uncomfortable stage followed, not sufficiently anticipated and barely hinted at in any book. In bleak honesty it can only be called 'the abandoned shell." Plenty of solitude, and a sudden panic at how to fill it, characterize this period. With me, it was not a question of simply filling up the space or the time. I had many activities and even a well-established vocation to pursue. But when a mother is left, the lone hub of a wheel, with no other lives revolving around her, she faces total re-orientation. It takes time to re-find the center of gravity."

It was especially helpful to hear this because, one, she did have a creative vocation before her empty nest and yet, she still experienced the shift and two, she acknowledges that there is not even a hint of this among other women and books. We don't like to admit that this transition is the hardest thing we have ever faced. We know it is natural and even good, but it is still a seismic shift in our lives.

This rereading was done for our November book club meeting.

[Paula K · Rating 3 out of 5]

I've really got to stop reading a book just based on the title and cover. I love the sea and the beach. During the fall and winter I go sea glass hunting North of Boston. It's my second passion to books. My house is filled with all types of sea shells and different shades of sea glass. My husband tells me I should make jewelry when I give up my current job.

I've got to say this book is quite outdated. It's all about women and their place in society. I don't need someone to tell me that females need to seek solitude. I love solitude and wish I had more of it. When my husband says do I mind if he goes out with the folks from work after hours I'm like go! Have fun!

This book sounds like something my mother would have wrote. She hated to be alone. I could never understand that. Who wants to be around people all the time? A walk on the beach with the seagulls overhead, the sun on your back, and the sand in your toes is what it's all about for me.

Gift From the Sea is a shorty so no big deal. But I sure didn't expect it to be like Dear Abby!

3 out of 5 stars (kindly).

[Joel · Rating 4 out of 5]

I love walking around a bookstore and picking up five or six books of varying genres that catch my eye, sitting down and skimming. If I'm interested I may read a chapter or two, a dozen poems, maybe even ponder buying it before I put them all back on the shelf. This was number four in a stack of nine that I picked up today at Borders. After skimming the introduction, I flipped to the first chapter... forty-five minutes later I had left the store to get a pen from my car and had picked up three napkins at the adjoining coffee shop to scribble down quotes. I didn't even touch the other five in my stack once I had opened this. It was wonderful to start the year with a book that contemplates life in a lyrical fashion, using metaphor to reach truth.

Lindberg writes of simplicity to the end of clearing out the distractions and leading to focus on what is most important. She writes of the importance of making time to be alone to reflect on who we are - "When one is stranger to oneself then one is estranged from others too." My campus minster says something very similar - 'When you don't feed yourself, how can you feed others?' She writes of relationships throughout their changing spans, from the "one-and-only moments", being with just the person sitting across from you, whether your spouse, child, or friend, so they feel cared for individually. She writes to help herself deal with the movements of life as they come to her, and in doing so, has captured something to for others mull over.

What a restful day I've had.

[Ginger · Rating 3 out of 5]

This was a great little memoir to read! With only 130 pages, it doesn't take too long to read. In fact, you can read it in chapters over a long period of time and you'll have no problems following along.

Most of all, I enjoyed the ideas and inspiration in this book by being more authentic with yourself and your life. To be okay with disappointment along with joy. To be more aware of your aloneness, thoughts while you are alone and being okay with those thoughts.

I loved how she wrote about living in the moment and allowing yourself to go with the flow of life and responsibilities. You can gain something from this book depending on the subject matter and what you're looking for.

Great read!

[Connie G · Rating 4 out of 5]

Anne Lindbergh spent two weeks on Captiva Island in Florida, one week alone and one week with her sister, reflecting on her life and relationships. She uses five shells found on the beach to symbolize her ideas. She felt that women should try to simplify their lives. Find time for solitude, creativity, and an inner life. Have time alone with your spouse and each child for "one-and-only moments". Find balance between obligations to your family and your community, and time for inner harmony.

Relationships have ebbs and flows like the tide, and peaks and troughs like the waves. Three of her shells represented different phases in relationships, especially marriage, as people go through life. Enjoy the present, find the joy and peace in the here and now.

This lovely slim volume written in 1955 was partly memoir, and partly an inspirational group of essays. The author was a wife and mother during my grandmother's and my mother's generations. It made me wonder what Anne Lindbergh would think about the world today where my daughters' generation is bombarded with information and new devices constantly. Perhaps today's woman has even more need to nurture an inner life as this book suggests.

[Inder · Rating 3 out of 5]

Okay, my favorite part of this book was the afterwards, wherein Ms. Lindbergh acknowledges just how dated the book's appraisal of feminism was (the book was written in 1955, so you can't blame her for what she didn't know was right around the corner - still, her somewhat negative appraisal bugged me and I was relieved that she acknowledged its problems). She also hints at how difficult it is to follow her type of super-zen advice in real life.

I hate to say it, because so many women just L.O.V.E. this book, but it just didn't do much for me. There were definitely some lovely moments here, but much of it was cliched platitudes, and sounded pretty stale and New Age-y to me. It's the kind of stuff that sounds pretty wise, but it's hard to figure out what it really means.

To give Ms. Lindbergh, who I have much respect for, the maximum amount of credit, these ideas might be cliches because this book is just that popular. If so, good for her.

Maybe I am at the wrong time in my life for this book - it's quite possible. Being a married but childless lawyer, I don't spend a lot of time worrying about "giving too much of myself." This is more a (perfectly legit) concern of mothers and homemakers.

There may be some personality issues as well. I'm pretty social. I like hanging out with people. I do enjoy my alone time (which I spend reading, hello), but I'm just not desperate for it like more introverted types often are. This book is definitely very supportive of introverts, but that was a little lost on me. I actually like bustle. I don't like silence and quiet (I mean, that's what ipods were invented for!). I'm tired of preachy introverts suggesting that this means I'm not contemplative!

I'm not giving up on this book entirely - I may come back to this - but for now, "Eh."

[Whitney · Rating 5 out of 5]

On my third reading of Gift from the Sea, I continue to be amazed at how immediately relevant this 1950's classic feels. Anne Morrow Lindbergh takes us with her on her two week sabbatical to a Florida island, where she slowly unravels the tangled busyness of her life as wife, mother, and writer. She eloquently describes the constant tension between her roles in life, the demands and expectations of society, and her own yearning for solitude and creativity.

It's not a difficult read; on vacation, I finished it in a day. But her words make a deep impression on me, and this will be one I return to regularly, for inspiration and comfort and challenge.

[Anne Bogel · Rating 4 out of 5]

I can't believe I put off reading this one for so long. Short, sweet, timeless. Reminds me very much of Eleanor Roosevelt's You Learn by Living (and I LOVE that book).

[Sandy T · Rating 5 out of 5]

I remember reading this at BYU for a class and having to do a paper on it. I remember wondering what all the hoopla was about it... it just didn't do all that much for me. But now, some 30+ years later, it had a whole new meaning for me as I truly understood and felt exactly what she was expressing...
It is amazing that though this book was written over 50 years ago, so many of her observations still ring true today, and I found myself marking up page after page. Perhaps the most I got from it was more understanding of the need to embrace each phase of life... the ebb and the flow like the sea tide...
It would be interesting for me now to re-read that paper I wrote back in college!

[Teresa · Rating 3 out of 5]

Except for my little book club of two (what my friend referred to yesterday as a tête-à-tête), this is not something I would’ve even considered reading. I’d vaguely thought of it as maybe a self-help book, certainly a saccharine read, but it’s neither. It’s one woman’s meditation on the role of women through the stages of life and, in particular, how an artist with a family can claim a space of her own, a sort of practical extension of Woolf’s A Room of One's Own.

I finished it a week ago and while it was a pleasant enough read and the tête-à-tête brought forth some intriguing ideas (as it always does), the book feels rather ephemeral, perhaps because much of what AML writes of, such as everyone needing alone time (a concept she says was looked on as crazy then), is part of our consciousness now. Yet the book still has some relevance, of things we might need to be reminded of, such as living in the moment or downsizing our possessions to give them a space for our deeper reflection.

She was writing from a privileged position: her own escape, to a cabin on a beach island, is not feasible for those without money and resources. But I also considered how revolutionary this book likely was in 1955, its innocuous cover sheltering some radical ideas. I imagine a housewife of the time--think of the Julianne Moore character in either Far From Heaven or The Hours--receiving this as a gift, keeping it by her bedside to reread, her husband not realizing what changes it might inspire in his wife and the mother of his children.

[Laurie (barksbooks) · Rating 4 out of 5]

I found this audio in the bag I keep in the car. It's a nonfiction account of one woman’s ruminations on life while she escapes to a beach cottage for a few weeks. This was written in the 50's but much of it still feels eerily current and will resonate most with introverts.

The MP3 player in my car didn’t like the way this disc was formatted and played the tracks out of order so I can’t review this properly as it kept skipping around. If it weren’t so short (2 hrs or so) I would’ve thrown in the towel for this reason but it was short enough that I got the gist without getting too frustrated.

It’s basically about taking time outs from your life to find your “center”, living with less stuff and fewer distractions and experiencing relationships in the present rather than dwelling on how great they were in the past or worrying about what may happen in the future. All sound advice, if you ask me.

“One cannot collect all the beautiful shells on the beach. One can only collect a few. One moon shell is more impressive than three. There is only one moon in the sky.”

There are a lot of beautiful "quotables" in this book but I didn't take notes. This one struck a cord, and stuck with me, for obvious book related reasons ;)

[Jenny (Reading Envy) · Rating 4 out of 5]

Anne Morrow Lindbergh wrote these musings in 1955, and it is definitely a capture in a moment of time, when roles for women were still assumed to be #1- marriage, #2 - having children, and #3 - taking care of the household. Lindbergh herself in the 20 year anniversary afterword in the version I have mused on how quickly roles and rights changed in her own lifetime, and how central women were to not only their own rights but other civil rights movements.

Still, even though I am not a mother or a housewife, I still found plenty that resonated with me. The need for silence, for solitude, for reflection. The ways we deplete ourselves without carving out time for breathing and thinking. And the gift of being on an island. In my imaginary life, on an imaginary island, I would keep this on my bookshelf to pull out in quiet moments, and maybe use her words to inspire me to be better at journaling and pulling back. Some of it fits right in with my desire to be more mindful, more reflective, and maybe there are some shells with something to teach me too.

This book was discussed on Episode 062 of the Reading Envy Podcast.

[Celia · Rating 5 out of 5]

I was introduced to this book via a chapter in Will Schwalbe's book "Books for Living". How lucky I am to have found it.

It speaks VOLUMES to women of middle age and even though I am past that, it spoke volumes to me.

Here are some descriptions from Will:
This is one of those books I’d heard about and seen on countless shelves, especially in, predictably enough, beach cottages. The author was the widow of aviator Charles Lindbergh and the mother of the baby who had been so notoriously kidnapped and murdered in 1932.

Gift from the Sea is a quiet book of reflections and meditations written during and after a period of time spent at the Florida seashore (on Captiva Island on the West Coast). Each chapter takes its inspiration from a different shell the author finds along the beach. The book contains Lindbergh’s thoughts on feminism, the environment, motherhood, marriage, work, love, independence, and, more broadly, how we manage our time and our lives.

The problem as Lindbergh sees it is “how to remain whole in the midst of the distractions of life.”

This book spoke to me, Celia, especially in the areas of simplifying one's life and understanding the phases of one's marriage. I am married for 18 years to Harold, the love of my life. Perhaps in that respect I am in the middle years of life. I hope to share this book with him. It might have been written to women. I think he will appreciate it just the same.

Lindbergh herself has words of wisdom about her book. Twenty years after writing it she says:
"The original astonishment remains, never quite dimmed over the years, that a book of essays, written to work out my own problems, should have spoken to so many other women."

Yes, you have spoken to me, Anne. Thank you for that.

5 stars

[Hillary · Rating 2 out of 5]

I may be the only person on mother earth that thinks this book is over-rated. I've read it twice now and I just don't get what everyone thinks is so amazing about it. Lindbergh does bring up some interesting ideas that are worth thinking about, but she loses me with the sea shells. I agree with Becca in that, if i want to read something thought provoking with the potential to change my life, i'll read the conference talks in the ensign.

[Regina · Rating 5 out of 5]

"A Gift from the Sea" is mentioned several times in "A Year by the Sea," so I naturally wanted to read it. As with AYBTS, I could have underlined paragraph after paragraph. Even 60+ years after its initial publication, it is still highly relevant for "the modern woman." I will likely return for another reading next time I find myself at sea, needing a harbor of solidarity.

[Linh · Rating 1 out of 5]

Oof. Never thought I'd have a least favorite book, but here we are.

What this book is about: A privileged white woman had the luxury of a two-week solitary vacation beachside, who then proceeded to come up with this 130-paged overlong rambling essay of random ruminations on her own life; which she then used to make inappropriate over-generalizations to womankind, sprinkled with wise-sounding life advice.

What is in this book: "America" being used to specifically mean just the United States. Random quotes from other philosophers or famous people. The word "one" being over-used to a criminal amount. A sprinkling of religious/ Puritan beliefs to denote moral high ground. Generalization of the American women and their values and goals in life. Inappropriate comparison between various beach shells to different aspects of life.

What is not in this book: Any sort of gifts from the sea. Any interesting stories. Any humility.

I came to know and read this book thanks to a book group I am part of, and I look forward to discussing it. I feel accomplished that I finished the book, as it lies outside of my usual reading material; and I believe there was one tidbit that I genuinely found interesting. But I will never read anything like this again.

[Therese · Rating 5 out of 5]

When I started listening, a part of me thought, Oh...it’s going to be one of those women’s “self help” books. But it turned out to be anything but that. Written in 1955, many of the topics such as a woman’s strength and resilience, and the need for moments of solitude necessary for growth and understanding, still resonate today. The author reflects on these subjects while on vacation, collecting shells on a beach and contemplating the different phases of a woman’s life. It’s a book that would be easy to return to again and again, picking up different insights every time it’s read. I ended up thoroughly enjoying it.

Coincidentally, researching the author after I finished reading, I discovered that she was the wife of famed pilot, Charles Lindbergh, and the mother of the child that was kidnapped and later found murdered, which was quite a tragic episode back in the day.

[♥ Sandi ❣ · Rating 3 out of 5]

3 stars

This is a very short non-fiction by Anne Lindbergh. I listened to this on audio. It was adapted to a movie in 1960. An anniversary copy of the book has an introduction by her daughter, Reeve. The audio is narrated by Claudette Colbert, a famous actress from the 50's and 60's.

Lindbergh spoke from the heart. During a vacation on a Florida shore she muses about life's many wonders as she relates them to the shore and sea shells. She speaks on love, marriage, children, solitude and contentment. Lindbergh speaks to the escape from everyday demands.

This was written over 50 years ago, but is just as relevant today as it was then.

[Ken · Rating 2 out of 5]

Scrounging around for a short book this morning, I came across this on the hallway bookshelf. Long ago, my great aunt had it on her table. I remember her telling me how wonderful it was. But this is not her copy. I opened it. The signature inside was my wife's grandmother's. What looks to be a first edition from 1955.

1955! Life must have been so simple then. The good old I-Like-Ike days, after the (World) war and before the (Vietnam) war. I started to read. At first, it seemed similar to Walden--all about simplicity, only in this case a well-to-do suburbanite woman on an unnamed beach vs. a middle-aged man slash pencil maker on a pond named Walden.

On p. 42 I found a bookmark. As far as my wife's grandmother got, apparently. It was a business reply card to the Doubleday Book Shop, Bishop's Corner, West Hartford, CT. (Open until 6 p.m.)

Interestingly, it reads: "You have bought this book anticipating a satisfying reading experience. If the book does not upon closer examination appeal to you, bring it back to us and exchange it for another book. Our only requirement for an exchange in our shops is that the book be currently salable and in new condition. Thank you for your patronage."

Wow. We're really going back in time. The LL Bean pledge, from a bookshop yet! Try finding that on Amazon today!

And, turns out, my wife's grandmother was on to something, stopping as she did on p. 42. The decent start quickly devolved into stereotypes (women are inward-seeking, men outward, for instance) and 5-cent, self-help philosophizing, 50's chick-book style. The abstract words began to fall over each other as Lindbergh compared stages of marriage to various shells found on the beach.

Still, I struggled through. And finished. The last of 2017, after I thought the one I finished yesterday was the last. Leaving the problem of what to read tomorrow. The first of 2018.

Eh. Maybe something else short, like the back of a cereal box. Something deep, like LIFE.

[Linda · Rating 5 out of 5]

I'm sure I read Gift from the Sea at least 30 years ago and have probably bought and given away as many as thirty copies over the years. Gift from the Sea is one of those books that speaks to a person differently through different stages of one's life. I love it and think every woman should read it. I have since read other books (memoirs, diaries, letter of sorts) by Anne M. Lindbergh and have enjoyed them very much. I was happy to come across the 50th anniversary edition as a gift to myself.

[Chrissie · Rating 4 out of 5]

Anne Morrow Lindbergh writes of being a woman in America in the fifties. She compares different stages of marriage to different shells. The writing is beautiful, poignant, wise and the message clear. It is prose poetry. She speaks of the need for simplification in a world cluttered with obligations and gadgets. She speaks of what can be gained by allowing one to withdraw and find inner solace within one's self. How creativity replenishes the soul. She quotes among others John Donne, Antoine de Saint-Exupéry, Rainer Maria Rilke, W.B. Yeats and William Blake.

I cannot express with her ability her philosophical views on life and marriage. They are amazingly relevant still today.

Anne was much more than merely the wife of aviator Charles Lindbergh.

There is a foreword by her youngest daughter Reeve Lindbergh. The audiobook is a republication of the original with an afterword from the author 20 years after the first publication in 1955.

The audiobook narration by Claudette Colbert is easy to follow, even if a bit dated.

I highly recommend this short, contemplative book. It is one to return to over and over again.

[Ayse_ · Rating 4 out of 5]

This book is a collection of essays by Anne Morrow Lindbergh, published first in 1955. Although many years have passed after its publication, I believe many women can relate to her thoughts and feelings reflected in her book. She uses simile of sea and sea-shells to describe life, motherhood, marriage, coming of age. The book is written almost in a whispering tone; like the waves of a calm sea gently brushing the shore. Very soothing read..

One of the passages I enjoyed reading in the book is : 'Perhaps middle age is, or should be, a period of shedding shells; the shell of ambition, the shell of material accumulations and possessions, the shell of the ego. Perhaps one can shed at this stage in life as one sheds in beach-living; one’s pride, one’s false ambitions, one’s mask, one’s armor'.

[Karen Hogan · Rating 5 out of 5]

Written by Anne Morrow Lindbegh, author, aviator, and wife of the famous flyer, Charles Lindbergh. I always buy copies of this book when I find them at book sales, and then gift these copies to family and friends. Even though she wrote this book in the 1950's, it still rings true today. I've realized after some recent readings, that she was spiritually enlightened at a time when that wasn't the norm. The author uses her solitary vacation by the ocean to draw parallels between the sea and sea life (specifically shells), to life, love, marriage, family life, and death. Everyone should read and own this book.

[Karen · Rating 4 out of 5]

The author shares her meditations on youth and age, love, marriage, peace, solitude, and contentment.

She does this while on a brief vacation by the sea.

There is something soft and quiet and peaceful and insightful about this little book.

[Cheryl · Rating 5 out of 5]

The PERFECT words for my journey of rounding my 50th year.
Wish I could thank Anne Morrow Lindbergh in person. I hope somehow she knows.

[Kimberly · Rating 2 out of 5]

This book was chosen by my book club, otherwise I wouldn't have read it. To be honest, I just couldn't wax philosophical with Anne. All I could think about when Anne was discussing marriage and women's roles was about her personal life and the affairs both she and Charles had. I'm not judging them, only they know what went on in their marriage, but, at the same time, I didn't find myself inclined to take marriage advice from her. I thought it was strange that she kept quoting Antoine de Saint-Exupery throughout the book until I found out that she had an affair with him. Then, her apparent admiration for him made more sense (don't get me wrong--Exupery wrote some amazing things, namely The Little Prince). I think Anne had some thought-provoking points to her musings, but it was overly poetic and also a little depressing for me. Her continued mentioning of needing to be alone and getting away from everyone gave me the impression of a woman who wanted a different life.

In short, I didn't get out of this what I was hoping to. The best part of the book was the imagery of the ocean in the first chapter. 1.5 stars, rounded to 2.