I know what you're thinking. You hate me. You got a glimpse of my ring and you're pissed. I know your kind because I was once your kind. Every time I saw a happy couple I could feel last night's dinner coming up. When I saw wedding magazines I wanted to take a blowtorch to each one of them. Engagement rings? The only way you could talk to me about "karats" was if you were going to feed one to your pet rabbit. Yes, I was sick. Sick of set-ups, match-ups, and break-ups. I'd been on blind dates and I've been on dates where I wish I were blind. But I finally did find Mr. Right. And I'm going to show you how. Through humor, empowerment, and basic common sense clinical social worker "Professor Kelli" instills confidence in women, makes them laugh at their situation (or the men they've dated), and teaches them the process of letting go and staying present. Sure, it's about finding a husband but it's more about finding you first.
This is an uplifting book with empowering messages of self-love and reconsidering values through intentionality. It's not just about finding a husband, it's about being at peace with yourself.
Positives: I really enjoyed the journaling exercises, the references (e.g., a user friendly website to find volunteer opportunities), and the suggested activity list for seeing if a potential partner has certain values and character traits.
Negatives: The author's religion bleeds through the pages. There are several spelling and grammatical errors, and the "humor" tries too hard.
Overall, there is some genuinely good advice in this book that might encourage self reflection and help you realize something about yourself, but it comes with spiritual bias and a few poorly written jokes.