I've marked this as "read, grad student," which usually means that I read it in grad school in preparation for class in one week when I had a lot of other things going on - ie: did not actually read from over-to-cover, but skimmed for information. In this case, however, I don't remember reading it at all. Possibly it was assigned as an alternate or supplemental reading I never did. I do remember the class it was for, which was an odd mixture or gender and military history of Europe and the US. It was odd because American historians so rarely talk to Europeanists, and military historians rarely talk to the gender crowd (for the record: I am a European historian with an interest in gender). I even remember the discussion that came about probably in connection with this book, because I asked the Americanists to tell me what the Civil War was actually about - was it really slavery that had prompted it or was that just propaganda? Their answer was that it was slavery, but not out of any idealistic rationale, just because the two economic (slave and "free"/wage-based) systems could no longer operate side-by-side.
That doesn't say much about this book, which I went over a bit before sitting down to write. It is rather old (1992), and from a time when gender history was associated with social history, rather than cultural. The result feels to me even more alien than most American history texts. There is some interesting stuff here, though, less in the discussion of masculinity (which was still in its infancy in gender studies at the time) and more in the pieces on "women at war." Particularly the articles by Lyde Cullen Sizer and George Rable caught my eye as having some thought-provoking material. I do think rather too many of the essays are essentially case studies, and the book suffers heavily from the lack of an index. Twenty years later, this is probably only of interest to specialists looking for a particular essay.