DNF @ 20%
I have so many issues with this book already after the introduction. Below are some direct quotes:
"In Afghanistan, the hideous Taliban have instituted a vicious war against the entire sex, driving women out of jobs and torturing and killing them for supposed infractions of their religious laws, laws harsher than those the Nazi imposed on the Jews during the Holocaust."
Seriously? What kind of ridiculous oppression Olympics is this?
Jacqueline Onassis and Princess Diana "were famous only through the men they married, and not for any talent of their own".
I know almost nothing about Jacqueline but does the author seriously think that Princess Diana's fame only came from her marriage from Prince Charles? For one, she was way more popular than Charles, which caused immense jealousy from Charles. Her work with charities and her activism were legendary, which the author completely disregarded. Moreover, even if she got some of her fame from her marriage to Charles, it's not a form of misogyny. It's because he comes from the royal family. By the same logic, Prince Philip was only famous because of his marriage to Queen Elizabeth. Except he was much less beloved than Diana, precisely because of "talent of her own".
The author claimed that most of the hunter gatherer women died in their 20s, which showed her lack of understanding of how life expectancy works. A life expectancy of 25 - 30 years, typical of the hunter gatherer society, doesn't mean that most people drop dead in their 20s. The human race would't survive in that scenario. Instead, life expectancy is maths of averages. Due to the high infant and childhood mortality rate, the life expectancy is dragged down. In other words, the life expectancy of a 50-year-old and a baby who died at 1 is 25.5.
The author also seems to believe in the matriarchal utopia in ancient civilisations. While I don't know enough about prehistorical times and every single ancient civilisation to refute this claim completely, I can tell you that it's NOT true in ancient Egypt and ancient China, two periods of history that I do have some knowledge about.
Don't get me wrong. Ancient Egypt was ahead of its time when it comes to female rights. Women had fewer restrictions compared to their contemporaries in other cultures (or even current day women in some cultures). They had the rights to their own property, which stayed with them after the divorce. Their statues in the mortuary temples were only slightly smaller than their male counterpart, in accordance with the natural physical differences between the two sexes. They had the freedom to choose their work, as long as it wasn't in a position of prestige and power. But here's the kicker: women were still very much not in a position to wield power in ancient Egypt. Yes, there were quite a few queens who co-ruled with their husbands/brothers/sons/fathers. But that was still not the norm. If there was a male heir, the male heir would be the principal ruler. And you would be hard pressed to find any female scribes, one of the most important and prestigious positions in ancient Egypt. So to imply that ancient Egypt is a matriarchal utopia is just farsical.
In the section about the queens/goddess who ruled, the author stated "The power of the Goddess was inherited, passed from mother to daughter, a direct line. A man only became king when he married the source of power. He did not hold it in his own right." She then proceeded to give the example of Thutmose I, the third pharaoh of the 18th dynasty of ancient Egypt, who had to "yield the throne on the death of his wife to his teenage daughter Hatshepsut, even though he had two sons."
This is factually wrong on many levels, even with the very limited evidence. First of all, Ahmose's wife was never called a King's Daughter, casting doubt on her royal family connection. The title she did hold was King's Sister, implying that she could be the sister of her husband Thutmose I, a very common practice back in ancient Egypt. So the idea that the power of Thutmose I came from her only because of her royal blood is most likely not true.
An even more glaring factual error is that Thutmose I was actually succeeded by his son Thutmose II, NOT his daughter Hatshepsut. Not only that, but Thutmose wasn't even the son of Queen Ahmose, but the son of Thutmose I's minor wife Mutnofret. As a result, Thutmose II married his half sister Hatshepsut, who was the daughter of Queen Ahmose, partly because of the brother sister marriage tradition, partly to increase his legitimacy. Hatshepsut was crowned the Great Royal Wife of Thutmose II. After his death, she initially ruled as regent to his step son Thutmose III, and THEN became the co-ruler of Thutmose III after several years of regency.
Oh, and the author's statement "even though he had two sons" is also laughable. Yeah, Thutmose I had two sons, Amenmose and Wadjmose, with Ahmose and neither succeeded him to the throne. Not because ancient Egypt preferred queens as the author seemed to think, but because both Amenmose and Wadjmose predeceased Thutmose I, making it a tad difficult for them to inherit the throne...
Also, her interpretation of the section on marriage and home from the Maxims of Ptahhotep is not accurate. While there aren't that many glaring errors this time, the subtle differences change the tone of the text drastically. The author interpreted the text to mean that a husband needs to worship his wife and fulfils all her wishes. Otherwise if she leaves him, it will be his downfall. In reality, the text did say to love, provide for, and cherish one's wife, but all under the context of protecting/controlling her ("Distance her from power, restrain her." "Your quelling her, is water."), which is not dissimilar to the misogynistic rhetorics of later times and even today's society in certain parts of the world.
After this, I really cannot continue with the book. It might have some very good points about feminism but how can I trust anything the author says? My issue with the author is that she has a preconceived idea before researching for this book so all her "history" and interpretations were used to fit that idea. That's not how you write a factually accurate history non-fiction book.
It's such a shame because the topic is fascinating and so important. When there are people who genuinely believe women are inferior to men because all great inventions/events in history were made by men, we desperately need books who actually explore the stolen or neglected history of women. But this one is not it for me.