“It is never too late to be what you might have been.” - George Eliot
Author Beverly Flaxington is a Certified Professional Behavioral Analyst (CPBA) and Certified Professional Values Analyst (CPVA), an accomplished business consultant, corporate coach, trainer, facilitator, behavioral expert, hypnotherapist, college professor, and business development expert. Beverly co-founded The Collaborative, a sales and marketing consultancy, and is currently principal of the firm. Beverly is the creator of “The Sales Effectiveness Model” used by many client firms to help diagnose areas of weakness and implement more effective selling practices. She trademarked the S.H.I.F.T. Model for goal setting, and The Five Secrets to Successful Selling program.
Her expertise is lauded around the globe because she offers practical, useful and easy-to-understand guidance for those individuals wanting to change their circumstances.
Beverly puts the YOU back into self-help instruction. As she states in her Introduction, ‘Human beings are responsible for change, whether it is change in their personal or their professional life. Every effort to create change, however, is susceptible to the same problem — lack of commitment and motivation. Change requires the motivation to keep up a sustained effort, and a commitment to getting to the desired place. And it requires a level of awareness, understanding, buy-in, and action… This book looks at everything from the resistance to success we all experience and ways to break free of it, right down to the issues relating to what you want, your desired outcomes, and how they can sometimes be in conflict.’
In a very straightforward, empathetic and sternly supportive manner Beverly uses the first part of the book to teach her SHIFT technique. Using diagrams, worksheets and illustrations sensibly she allows us to visualize and conceptualize the S.H.I.F.T. model - Specify your desired outcome, Highlight your obstacles and categorize them, Identify your internal and external human factors, Find you alternatives, Take disciplined action - and in doing so she moves us through motivation to commitment. She emphasizes the concept of ‘know thyself’ - consider the YOU in you and be clear about what we actually want to change, then study the obstacles to make that change, explore/identify the human element (‘Remember that the definition of insanity is doing the same thing repeatedly and expecting different results!’) and consider those around us who will be influenced by the change, and then once the plan of action for change is accepted by the YOU then take disciplined action to achieve that shift.
Throughout this immensely accessible book Beverly offers golden comments such as, ‘Why is figuring out what really matters so hard for us? It is because often we are moving away from something we do not like instead of moving toward something we do want.’ And after she spends the first section of the book teaching us the S.H.I.F.T. technique she provides substantive backup with ‘Tips and Tools for Greater Effectiveness in Life’. She makes it sound easy and if we erase all the barriers we have constructed to truly reach the goals we desire, this process becomes immediately available. Excellent teacher and a fine coach and author. Highly recommended.