Day Bang is a 201-page book that teaches you how to pick up women during the day, primarily in a coffee shop, clothing store, bookstore, grocery store, subway, or on the street. It contains 51 openers, 23 long dialogue examples with commentary, and dozens of additional lines that teach by example.
Day Bang includes...
-The optimal day game mindset that leads to the most amount of success -An easy mental trick to prevent your brain from going into a flight-or-fight response when it's time to approach a woman you're attracted to -A detailed breakdown of how to use the "elderly opener," an easy style of approach that reliably starts conversations with women -2 ways to tell if a girl will be receptive to your approach -How to avoid the dreaded "interview vibe" -10 common mistakes guys make that hurt their chances of getting a number
Day Bang shares tons of tips and real examples on having successful conversations. It teaches you...
-How to use my bait system to get the girl engaged and interested in you -How to segue out of the initial opening topic into a more personal chat where you'll get to know the girl on a deeper level -How to take the interesting things you've done (your accomplishments, hobbies, and experiences) and morph them into bait hooks that gets the girl intrigued enough to want to go out with you -My "Galnuc" method to seamlessly get a girl's number -An easy hack at the end of your interactions that will reduce the chance of a flake and prime the girl for going out with you -Ways to open up a conversation on a girl who isn't giving you much to work with
Day Bang goes into painstaking detail on how to approach women in a variety of common environments...
-How to open a girl in coffee shops when she has a book, laptop, mp3 player, cell phone, research paper, crossword or Sudoku puzzle, or nothing at all -Two methods for approaching a girl on the street, depending on if she's moving or not, with a diagram to explain all the approach variations -How to approach in a retail store or mall environment, with openers to use on customers or sales clerks -How to approach in bookstores, with specific tips on how to customize your approaches in the cafe, magazine section, or general book aisles -How to meet women in public transportation, on both the bus and subway -How to meet women in grocery stores -How to approach girls in secondary venues like a beach, casino, concert, gym, hair salon, handicraft fair, museum, art show, park, public square, or wine festival
Dozens of additional topics are logically organized into 12 chapters...
-Preparation. How to reduce your approach anxiety -Opening. How to deliver your opener in a way that doesn't scare women away -Rambling. How to have conversations that make women interested in you -Closing. How to get a number in a way that reduces the chance she'll flake -The Coffee Shop. How to pick up in coffee shops and cafes -The Street. How to pick up outdoors -The Clothing Shop. How to pick up in retail shops, malls, and big box stores -The Bookstore. How to pick up in bookstores -Public Transportation. How to pick up in the bus, subway, or long distance transportation -The Grocery Store. How to pick up in grocery stores -Other Venues. How to pick up just about anywhere else women can be found -Putting It All Together. How to maximize your day game potential
The lessons taught in this 75,000 word, no-fluff textbook will help you meet women during the day. If you need tips on what to do after getting her number, consult my other book Bang, which contains an A-to-Z banging strategy. Day Bang focuses exclusively on daytime approaching.
Daryush Valizadeh, also known as Roosh V, Roosh Valizadeh, and Roosh Vorek, is an American pick-up artist of Iranian and Armenian descent, known for his writings on seduction and antifeminism. He writes on his personal blog and also owns the Return of Kings website where he publishes articles by others on related subjects. Additionally, Roosh has self-published multiple books, most of which offer advice to men on how to talk to, pick up, and ultimately sleep with women in general, as well as in specific countries.
Essentially a blog post on how to start a conversation with a girl in a Starbucks, padded out to 200 pages long so it could cost more. As is the case with the original Bang, Day Bang is overly detailed with things that seem like they should be obvious. For example, when you walk up to a girl, should you say hello, or hi? I bet you didn't think of that one, now did you? It's probably best for people who see a list of instructions and actually follow them to a T. People with a strong background in math and science, B.O. and a nervous tic. The next James Holmes - except maybe he'll read this book, get some stank on his hanglow, and a tragedy will have been avoided. Add an additional star if that actually happens.
Men, do you want to win the war between the sexes? If so, you need strategies to do so. Feminism has allowed for unbridled female hypergamy to be released, thereby ensuring access to the males with the highest sexual market value (SMV). Women now have very little restraints on their sexuality, and complete power over any man they fornicate with via the guillotine of "sexual harassment". Our society (especially colleges) has turned polygamous, with the top 20% of men getting 80% of the women. The average man has been left out — he has no strategy, no teachers, no assistance from the Herculean men of yesteryear. He is told to "be himself", be nice, and that all will go well. Yet he doesn't know how to talk to girls and is scared to approach them. What is he to do?
The first step he should take is to improve his external appearance. He should improve his fashion and start lifting weights consistently. Because your subjective belief about your SMV is premised upon objective reality, if you improve objective reality (your physique, clothes, and mind), you will improve your confidence. By working out, you will also increase your testosterone, which further increases audacity. As you start improving yourself, you will become excited about your direction in life and be less dependent on life-sucking pornography and the attention of women. The Goddesses you once saw will turn into playful companions who are challenges to swoon.
While improving your body, you can likewise learn about how to approach women. It is essential that you do approach women, but also keep in mind the venue where you approach them. Different venues full of women will have different averages of intelligence, conscientiousness, and interests. You should go to the venue which has the highest likelihood of having a woman you desire. If you want a mother, go to conservative churches in your area. If you want a woman who shares your passion for some sport or interest, join a co-ed club that offers it. If you want an irresponsible and quickly degrading wet hole, go to college parties. Green pastures await.
The question now is, "how to approach her?". This is where Roosh's book comes in. Its essence lies in how to open a conversation with a girl and get her number during the day. How do you do that? In any environment you are in, you just have to ask her a question about some prop or object she has. Inquire about the model of her phone, her book, a piece of clothing, directions to a pet store, or where the subway is heading. Be seriously interested in that object. Intersperse your questions with observations relating to the prop and why you are interested in it. As a stranger approaching her, you must keep the conversation non-personal for at least two minutes, so you do not appear creepy. You are just an interested questioner, a good-hearted inquirer — an elderly man looking for help in relation to your destination and next purchase.
Then you must throw personal bait to her, hoping she will catch it. For example, say, "When I was in Europe, I could never read the subway directions". Or perhaps, "Where I come from, coffee shops always look like cabins . . ." In essence, you are throwing a bone to her about some personal experience or location you have been in, hoping she will inquire more about it. If she does, then continue. She is interested enough in you to inquire about your personal life.
After conversing for a few minutes about whatever personal topic your segue into, then you can go into what Roosh calls GALNUC. This is a series of questions you will ask her to get her more comfortable with you and ready to actually go on a date. G = German, A = Age, L = Location, N = Name, U = Usually, C = Cool. Is this the "perfect method to get numbers"? No. But it is a framework for readers who think too much so that they can actually take action.
For G, you ask whether she is 1/2 German (if she is European). Afterward, you can converse about ancestry, physical traits, and other avenues such a question leads to. For A, you ask about her age, and then make a humorous comment about her age in relation to your own. If you are much older than her, tell her how you may be too experienced for her; if you're younger than her, ask if she can keep up with your youthful spirit. For L, you will ask where she lives. This is important for planning dates. N stands for name, which simply means to ask for her name. Then you can go into U, which stands for "where do you usually hang out?". This lets you know about her interests. Lastly, C stands for "Well you seem cool do you want to grab a drink sometime and chat some more?". Then you can pull out your phone and get her number. These letters should not be done right after one another but should have a decent amount of time in between each letter. The conversation should branch off into other topics, not be an interview.
When you approach women in real life, you will feel your heart pumping. This is a good sign, as it means that they are attractive. Your anxiety is to be conquered via courage and habit. The more approaches you do, the more confident you will become. The more confident you become, the more attractive you will be to women. The more attractive you are, the more options you have. The more options you have, the higher likelihood of finding the woman you desire. All dating is a process of winnowing. The first selection characteristic is that of appearance (leading to genetically healthy children). Then one selects based on personality, and finally a shared vision of life. You will not find a woman who has the traits you desire if you do not approach many of them. Your judgment will be tainted through inexperience and you will make faulty decisions. While you are young and your SMV is rising, your best bet is to gain experience approaching and dating women, trying to find one who you truly align with and love. "Gaining experience" does not mean mating like a rabbit, but means understanding how to converse, how to dress, how to attract, how to approach, how to be confident, and all the other skills that improve one's options in the sexual marketplace.
Do you want to be a genetic dead end, the first organism in three billion years of unbroken reproduction which does not procreate? If not, you must first understand how to approach and attract women and then implement this knowledge in reality. Even if you fail at the mating game, at least you will have tried. The most contemptible are those who do not even make an attempt.
Do you have trouble picking up girls? Are you Sick of hanging out at the bars at night-time only and not getting anyone to look your way or at least move past first or second base? Wanting to find a way to get back into “The Game” of dating fun, flings and frolics? Look no further with this great book “Day Bang” How to casually pick up girls during the day by Roosh.V. With this book you can get into the game and can say goodbye to those late nights where you sit leering at the end of the bar, hopelessly casting your line out there aching for someone to take a bite, only to be left with an empty line especially if you happen to find the bar your regular hang-out as that might turn girls off you and go “OMG, there’s that dorky pick-up guy again”. At only 201 pages, Day Bang gives guys an insight into how to pick women up during the day whether it be early morning whilst waiting in the Starbucks for your Whipped Cream Mochachinno with a hazelnut swirl or waiting in the checkout line with your groceries as you spot a hot chick in front of you and needing to pass time as you checked her out, with Day Bang complete with its large collections of openers and conversations – you might leave the supermarket with more than your groceries. Day Bang is your one-stop guide to eventually getting laid which of course we all know is the optimal goal as Roosh. V takes you carefully step by step his prime game of making eye contact , the slight initial flirting, then the opportunity to have a conversation which captures the female heart and then with a hey, how you doing ? You will be ending the conversation with My Place or Yours? As we are living in a world of technology and of course everyone has a cellphone, Roosh. V also adds a section on Texting or as we call it Sexting – the art of sex via text messages. This is often the easiest way to flirt with a girl as you banter back and forward and for some who hold the shy genes this is a great way of getting the girl to open up and share personal aspects of her life and when she trusts you enough more often than not you will receive a text that reads “want to meet” and if that first meeting goes well and you find her eating out of the palm of your hand then guess what guy’s you have got your “Day Game “ on and it’s Hook, Line and Sinker as she will want more of you and if you keep her interested then of course ultimately that leads to the number #1 thing on most guys mind SEX. Day Bang is a great guide for all males, who just need that extra little push into the hunting and attracting their female prey and it would also be a great book for females to read as who knows by reading the game, they too might be able to learn a few tricks here and there and they too can turn on their dating radars as like Cyndi Lauper sung “Girls Just Wanna have Fun” too.
As some of you can tell, morbid curiosity accounts for at least half the books I read. My decision to read this was very much an extension of that desire, and for some reason I found the title “day bang” to be unreasonably amusing. Needless to say, this book is comically misogynistic, so much so that it’s past the point of satire. Trust me, nothing I can make up is worse than what’s actually in this book. (For some reason, it’s also quite racist. But I guess from a guy who’s penned hits such as “The Damaging Effects of Jewish Intellectualism and Activism on Western Culture”, it should be expected.)
The average success rate of Roosh’s “students” being only 7.5% is extremely funny. He spends the first tenth or so of the book literally setting up the reader for the worst humiliation and disappointment they can imagine, which he characterises as an inevitability but really, is just a testament to the effectiveness (or lack thereof, rather) of his methods.
Afterwhich, Roosh teaches his readers how to… maintain a normal conversation, with pointers like don’t continue to ramble if the person isn’t interested. Wow, my brain is wrinkling. He teaches his readers to make up hobbies and anecdotes to seem interesting. Honestly, if you have so little to offer that you have to lie to maintain a basic conversation, maybe work on yourself a little before attempting to slay mad pussy. Roosh’s methods are braindead but excruciatingly detailed, coupled with diagrams and flowcharts teaching the reader exactly what angle and direction to approach their unsuspecting victim from. It’s all very tedious and banal.
And the end of it all I can’t help but wonder: what’s the point? Is this really making you happy? Enduring pointless conversation just to get in a girls pants to have meaningless sex that lasts about 9 seconds before repeating the whole process, doesn’t that sound miserable?
I have better things to do than ponder the mental health of Roosh and his loyal cult followers. I had a good laugh but ultimately I feel empty at the realisation that there are many losers and rapists like him.
The subtle and indirect openers described in this book will improve your confidence and success rate in the field of approaching and banging women drastically. This book is a life-tool, I recommend it.
Ако мога да дам на тази книга 10 звездички, бих го направил.
Тя е за това как да заговаряш жени през деня. Предишната му книга покрива повече дискотеки, барове и като цяло нощен живот, а нещата там са супер различни.
Всъщност, нещата, описани в тази книга са съвсем обикновени и нормални за някои хора, но за голяма част от мъжете не са. Примерно, много малко жени през деня ще се отнесат приятелски с тебе, ако започнеш веднага да им задаваш лични въпроси - как се казваш, от къде си, и т.н., ако не те харесат от пръв поглед (а ако е така, няма какво толкова да се стараеш така или иначе).
Като четях тая книга, приказвах с приятелите си за нея, разбира се. Една и съща реплика чувах всеки път - "Че ти имаш ли нужда от това хахаха". Ами да, имам. Сега, може да звучи като да се хваля, ама резултатите ми са доста по-добри от средните и те затова се чудят. Само че като се замисли човек за бройката и я раздели на годините, нещата не изглеждат толкова впечатляващо, макар да са на светлинни години от обикновения смотльо. Винаги може още :Р
Pretty good book in terms of looking at the simple way we can start conversations in a more natural way. I think Roosh nails this pretty well. He may get criticism for the repetitiveness of his work but the his process of using conversation starters that aren't meant to see if the other person even wants to chat is huge. This removes so much pressure and I think it's the key driver in why what he is preaching seems effective. He does ramble a lot. A LOT. He uses so many examples that get boring, but he is trying to drive the point home of how easy this can be. My main criticism is that this really could have been a long blog post and would have been just as effective.
I started out liking it and highlighting lots of passages (Kindle). Then it turned creepy and insanely repetitive. The "emerging from bushes" and street/publictransport diagrams and urging the reader to stalk girls were off-putting. Then there is the problem of the guy currently being a monk or whatever and unpublishing his books. It questions credibility in the first place, even if he simply changed his mind. It's a pet peeve of mine when people do a 180 and are not congruent with who they are at the core. For example, if you had values and dreams as a kid (not small kid but high school age), I'd expect your young adult self to be the same thing but with money. That's why I respect Asmongold as he is a millionaire but still is the same kid as he was. Yet this Roosh character pulls a 180 and suddenly figures what he wrote is not okay? Yet the book was written with all seriousness.
It could even be useful, I mean I get the concept and kinda liked the elderly opener. Although I can pretty much guarantee no one would approach me even if I went to a cafe next to a retirement home. Hell, I'd even bump my rating up to 4 if it turns out that this strategy works. But I doubt I'll go out and actively try it. Why? It's simply too much work to get casual sex this way. When it comes to relationships I never had a problem, but I don't want those now. This whole indirect game seems way too contrived, sneaky and dishonest. I wouldn't feel great to base a relationship on this. It's true that I never ever approached anyone (and he recommends like 10 a week or whatever), in the real world, people just sort of bump into each other or have mutual friends and meet at an event or use apps. These setups are akin to Joe Goldberg's inserting himself into the life of targets (with less killing), as seen/read on You (coincidentally I'm listening to that novel series and while that is fiction, this was meant to be real life).
Regarding the content, a huge part relied on taking the conversation to a baity lane where he drops a comparison to another country or city he has visited. Well, in my poor-ass country if you mention that you've been to the US, the Canary Islands, or New Zealand (some real examples of mine), no matter the context, people will think you are bragging. And I just don't frequent less fortunate countries. Also I travel for my own entertainment not to put it on Insta or tell anyone about them unless asked. I don't tend to use them to advertise "my coolness" during dates... I kinda do the opposite of what people buying status symbols do (those that are ernings statement wealthy). I'm "just" balance sheet wealthy and I don't tend to broadcast it as my scorecard is inner. I don't care what people think of me, I structure my life internally, for myself, and not for my neighbours' pleasure, and also not as a bait to get a ons. Also, I hate the word Bang. Would it hurt to call the book Day Game instead? Smh.
What's more, it goes against what I've already learned from more reputable sources/authors from both inside and outside the manosphere. Overall I consider it skippable, even if the pua scene is something I'm familiar of, this could only pass as entertainment for me, and a thin one at that. I removed the other book from my list and won't be pursuing this author. What has worked for me is to focus on myself and not hide at home, the girls will come or appear when you least expect them to.
cool little book about pickup. Entire idea is that you spot hot woman you like, you see any "prop" she has (like laptop, book, or any sorounding) and ask her about this, then continue with conversation like normal, meanwhile throwing "bait", which basically means some interesting facts about yourself that shows you as "interesting person" (in that book mostly presented as travelling anectodes). This is divided into chapters for each location where you can pick up girls (like coffee shop or bookstore) and even has example conversations (even though i often wondered if those really happened as written). I have not checked if strategies presented are any good (i have some serious doubts) but i do respect "no bullshit" approach of this book - this really can be treated as manual with some actionable items, while hacks like Rollo Tomassi made their worthless, totally unfalsifable theories that are in no use to most of men.
Teaches how to talk to girls in a non threatening way, but his lines are lame and unnatural. It also directs you to play stupid all the time, like you can't accomplish the simplest of tasks without the advice of a near by pretty girl. Also some shit he has you ask girls in his final routine to number close is stupid. Like "where do you live" . Who the fuck asks for somebody's home address just after meeting them? It also only teaches number closes, which he forgets is not the goal. The goal is to sleep with beautiful women. Good advice if you are looking to get friendzoned though.
Pretty crass language about women in pockets, but useful insights. If you're a shy guy I can see if working well for building confidence up and just getting comfortable with talking to women. Unlike "night game" it isn't rehearsed lines or overly sleezy (despite the title) and you can have some sincerity to chat. In essence, the book is really about how to get dates during the day, not bangs. So if you make a good connection, great, you can get a date and take it from there.