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Transforming Fate Into Destiny
In this penetrating book, renowned intuitive, speaker, and teacher Robert Ohotto guides us on an investigation of the Heroic Journey of the Soul. Exploring three modern-day manifestations of Fate, he shows how psychic energy from family patterns, cultural influences, generational legacy, and global evolution inform our self-concept every day, and how they often block our highest potential and “Fate” us to challenging circumstances and relationships. But, he reveals, these Fated encounters are actually the keys to our unlived life. Each chapter maps our psyche and unravels the mysterious connections of Fate, Free Will, and Destiny, transforming our Fate into Destiny and our limitations into gifts. Through this seminal work based on years of experience, discover how we’ve made two fundamental agreements with the Universe as part of our Heroic Journey—one with Fate and the other with Destiny. As we learn to dance with these two forces, they become two voices challenging and beckoning us to discover our ultimate purpose—the primary task of the modern-day Hero and Heroine; and in the process, serve to unleash the power of our Soul in delivering grace to the world.
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240 pages, Paperback
First published March 1, 2008
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April 7, 2013
I have read many a self-help/spirituality book over the last 20 years. Some resonated with me, many did not. In this instance, I connected with Transforming Fate Into Destiny from the first page through the last. The message contained within is transformative. I also appreciated how well this book was structured and written. It clearly and concisely provides you with the effective tools to achieve what the title states - transforming your fate into your destiny. To understand what that really means and why it matters, well, you have to read the book!
Mr. Ohotto has written a tremendously enlightening book that has changed my life for the better. It is, without question, one of the best and most useful books in the Spirituality genre that I have had the good fortune to read. I highly recommend it as a tool to help your soul along with its spiritual journey. Namasté!
Mr. Ohotto has written a tremendously enlightening book that has changed my life for the better. It is, without question, one of the best and most useful books in the Spirituality genre that I have had the good fortune to read. I highly recommend it as a tool to help your soul along with its spiritual journey. Namasté!
April 10, 2019
Honestly, I don't like to give negative reviews and I thought about just leaving this one blank. But I'm tracking my books here mostly as notes to myself about my reading habit, which I'm working on strengthening this year.
So if I read any details about this book, I might've known that it wasn't about astrology, which is what I wanted. Ohotto's videos are insightful and deep, and I was looking for more of this. Instead, this book goes into his own spin on 'fate' and 'destiny'. The fact that Caroline Myss endorses him is a big deal to me - but he doesn't offer anything compelling or inspiring that I haven't already seen/heard/read. The best part of the book was about redesigning a prayer, from 'ego' to 'soul'...and I think Myss has or is about to publish a book on this subject, which I'd be more inclined to explore.
I gave it 2 stars instead of 1 because I value the fact that he actually wrote a book - good for him! I'd love to see something from Ohotto about astrology, and hope that's next in his destiny.
So if I read any details about this book, I might've known that it wasn't about astrology, which is what I wanted. Ohotto's videos are insightful and deep, and I was looking for more of this. Instead, this book goes into his own spin on 'fate' and 'destiny'. The fact that Caroline Myss endorses him is a big deal to me - but he doesn't offer anything compelling or inspiring that I haven't already seen/heard/read. The best part of the book was about redesigning a prayer, from 'ego' to 'soul'...and I think Myss has or is about to publish a book on this subject, which I'd be more inclined to explore.
I gave it 2 stars instead of 1 because I value the fact that he actually wrote a book - good for him! I'd love to see something from Ohotto about astrology, and hope that's next in his destiny.
November 16, 2016
In "Transforming Fate Into Desitny," author and professional intuitive Robert Ohotto gives us a guide for creating our destiny by learning to work within the boundaries of mortal fate, and by releasing victim mentality, allowing us to move forward with the creation of destiny: finding our life's purpose -- what we hoped to accomplish when we chose to incarnate on earth.
We've all heard the old adage, "Fate is the cards you're dealt; destiny is how you play them." Mr. Ohotto explains that we choose our situations on Earth. We come to Earth to experience and live within earthly paradoxes, such as joy/sorrow, success/disappointment, loss/victory, and to create, providing growth that enables the soul to enhance its luminosity. This is how the soul comes to know itself.
So what is the soul, anyway? It is the very essence of our being, our immortal, higher self that comes to earth to experience and create. We incarnate with others who are seeking similar creative experiences. They most often appear in our lives as those close to us, such as family, friends, and even adversaries who provide growth through conflict. The most challenging people and circumstances we encounter may serve a higher purpose, an opportunity for our soul to grow and raise its vibration. Mr. Ohotto emphasizes acceptance, crucial in the fulfillment of destiny, and asks us to "sit with" the idea that our souls have chosen the situations that we are born into. He explains this cosmic contract is decided before we incarnate, which we do to challenge ourselves to live our life's purpose.
Mr. Ohotto explains how to encourage acceptance by detailing the difference between fate and free will, soul-esteem versus self-esteem, and defines what he calls "inner authority." Our souls crave authenticity, and we cannot be fulfilled until we find what we are meant to do - our destiny. We cannot be other than whom we are born to be, and as long as we desperately try to fulfill "cultural spells," that which our culture tells us we need to succeed, our souls will not be able to bring forth our highest potential. We need to find our authentic selves to succeed. This is achieved when we begin to shift from a need for outer approval and validation from our culture, families, and peers, to a soul-esteem that comes from within. When we do this, we will begin to discover our authentic self, a discovery that is a life-long process.
The concept of fate and free will raises questions about the Law of Attraction. Mr. Ohotto explains this is the creation of our own grace, our vibrational energy attracting like energy as a result of what we focus on, think about, and believe. Thoughts are powerful energy. Mr. Ohotto sees thoughts as the "creative power of the soul." He explains how the law cannot be used to fulfill the desires of the ego. Rather, it provides for the manifestation of our greatest potential, but the law is also bound by fate and destiny. It is bound by the divinely designed events necessary for the growth of our souls. Here, Mr. Ohotto's definition of the Law of Attraction differs from others' views, which he feels see the idea of manifestation through the western misinterpretation of abundance. Instead, he tells us to co-create our own reality through the inner response to the events in our lives, by adopting an "attitude of gratitude" that allows us to see the guidance, grace, and meaning in every situation. We alone are responsible for the way we choose to see each challenge. "The Law of Attraction is intended to enhance our purpose and cosmic contract, not negate it."
Mr. Ohotto goes on to discuss the power of surrender, the alignment of the ego with the soul, and the vehicle of prayer in achieving surrender. Surrender doesn't mean relinquishing our personal power. Rather, he explains, it is releasing the ego, our inner victim, giving the soul the freedom to choose that which is for our highest good. The ego is that part of our mind that senses when something in life is unfair, and seeks vengeance and justice for perceived wrongs done to us. When we let it go, we are trusting the soul to guide us toward our destiny, to have more authority in the choices we make. Prayer can help bring us to this point. Prayer opens a dialogue with the divine and the soul, or higher self, a way of focusing on something other than the messages from the outer world where our ego seeks validation. Prayer allows heaven to intervene. "We can let the soul take it from there."
Mr. Ohotto offers good advice on how to achieve acceptance of ourselves, and discusses other important concepts such as our views on aging and death, structure of the ego, "creative obstacles" versus "fated redirections," and the collective unconscious. Still, as much as I liked this book, I must point out that it is not an easy read, and I have but touched on a few of Mr. Ohotto's teachings here. The book is very intense. I found myself rereading sentences and paragraphs to absorb the lessons imparted. The lessons are well worth learning, but require effort. In fact, looking inward to this degree of honesty and accountability can be downright difficult. A lot of information comes at you very quickly. There is not a single wasted word in this book. I think of this book as the third in a trilogy about the journey of our souls that I have read recently, the other two being Your Soul's Plan: Discovering the Real Meaning of the Life You Planned Before You Were Born and Journey of Souls: Case Studies of Life Between Lives, both of which I would highly recommend. (These books are not related. I am making the connection in my own mind only.) Each covers some of the same ground, yet each is also very unique. This is definitely the more difficult read, but well worth the effort.
Mr. Ohotto leaves us with the comforting thought, "Death is not the end, but a transition to a greater consciousness - that of the soul."
We've all heard the old adage, "Fate is the cards you're dealt; destiny is how you play them." Mr. Ohotto explains that we choose our situations on Earth. We come to Earth to experience and live within earthly paradoxes, such as joy/sorrow, success/disappointment, loss/victory, and to create, providing growth that enables the soul to enhance its luminosity. This is how the soul comes to know itself.
So what is the soul, anyway? It is the very essence of our being, our immortal, higher self that comes to earth to experience and create. We incarnate with others who are seeking similar creative experiences. They most often appear in our lives as those close to us, such as family, friends, and even adversaries who provide growth through conflict. The most challenging people and circumstances we encounter may serve a higher purpose, an opportunity for our soul to grow and raise its vibration. Mr. Ohotto emphasizes acceptance, crucial in the fulfillment of destiny, and asks us to "sit with" the idea that our souls have chosen the situations that we are born into. He explains this cosmic contract is decided before we incarnate, which we do to challenge ourselves to live our life's purpose.
Mr. Ohotto explains how to encourage acceptance by detailing the difference between fate and free will, soul-esteem versus self-esteem, and defines what he calls "inner authority." Our souls crave authenticity, and we cannot be fulfilled until we find what we are meant to do - our destiny. We cannot be other than whom we are born to be, and as long as we desperately try to fulfill "cultural spells," that which our culture tells us we need to succeed, our souls will not be able to bring forth our highest potential. We need to find our authentic selves to succeed. This is achieved when we begin to shift from a need for outer approval and validation from our culture, families, and peers, to a soul-esteem that comes from within. When we do this, we will begin to discover our authentic self, a discovery that is a life-long process.
The concept of fate and free will raises questions about the Law of Attraction. Mr. Ohotto explains this is the creation of our own grace, our vibrational energy attracting like energy as a result of what we focus on, think about, and believe. Thoughts are powerful energy. Mr. Ohotto sees thoughts as the "creative power of the soul." He explains how the law cannot be used to fulfill the desires of the ego. Rather, it provides for the manifestation of our greatest potential, but the law is also bound by fate and destiny. It is bound by the divinely designed events necessary for the growth of our souls. Here, Mr. Ohotto's definition of the Law of Attraction differs from others' views, which he feels see the idea of manifestation through the western misinterpretation of abundance. Instead, he tells us to co-create our own reality through the inner response to the events in our lives, by adopting an "attitude of gratitude" that allows us to see the guidance, grace, and meaning in every situation. We alone are responsible for the way we choose to see each challenge. "The Law of Attraction is intended to enhance our purpose and cosmic contract, not negate it."
Mr. Ohotto goes on to discuss the power of surrender, the alignment of the ego with the soul, and the vehicle of prayer in achieving surrender. Surrender doesn't mean relinquishing our personal power. Rather, he explains, it is releasing the ego, our inner victim, giving the soul the freedom to choose that which is for our highest good. The ego is that part of our mind that senses when something in life is unfair, and seeks vengeance and justice for perceived wrongs done to us. When we let it go, we are trusting the soul to guide us toward our destiny, to have more authority in the choices we make. Prayer can help bring us to this point. Prayer opens a dialogue with the divine and the soul, or higher self, a way of focusing on something other than the messages from the outer world where our ego seeks validation. Prayer allows heaven to intervene. "We can let the soul take it from there."
Mr. Ohotto offers good advice on how to achieve acceptance of ourselves, and discusses other important concepts such as our views on aging and death, structure of the ego, "creative obstacles" versus "fated redirections," and the collective unconscious. Still, as much as I liked this book, I must point out that it is not an easy read, and I have but touched on a few of Mr. Ohotto's teachings here. The book is very intense. I found myself rereading sentences and paragraphs to absorb the lessons imparted. The lessons are well worth learning, but require effort. In fact, looking inward to this degree of honesty and accountability can be downright difficult. A lot of information comes at you very quickly. There is not a single wasted word in this book. I think of this book as the third in a trilogy about the journey of our souls that I have read recently, the other two being Your Soul's Plan: Discovering the Real Meaning of the Life You Planned Before You Were Born and Journey of Souls: Case Studies of Life Between Lives, both of which I would highly recommend. (These books are not related. I am making the connection in my own mind only.) Each covers some of the same ground, yet each is also very unique. This is definitely the more difficult read, but well worth the effort.
Mr. Ohotto leaves us with the comforting thought, "Death is not the end, but a transition to a greater consciousness - that of the soul."
May 14, 2022
great insights
I picked away valuable and practical insights from this book to accept the paths in our life. I was extremely sick last year and have a bad relationship with my mother. This book allowed me to find some form of comfort and make sense of things that are happening for me. One key thing that I remember is that when we’re doing things that are aligned with our destiny, the universe will keep opening doors/opportunities that will lead us to our destiny. If we do the opposite, we will keep stumbling on roadblocks. So when things happen for me at ease, I try not to second doubt myself and remember this piece of nugget.
I picked away valuable and practical insights from this book to accept the paths in our life. I was extremely sick last year and have a bad relationship with my mother. This book allowed me to find some form of comfort and make sense of things that are happening for me. One key thing that I remember is that when we’re doing things that are aligned with our destiny, the universe will keep opening doors/opportunities that will lead us to our destiny. If we do the opposite, we will keep stumbling on roadblocks. So when things happen for me at ease, I try not to second doubt myself and remember this piece of nugget.
June 6, 2021
Loved the insights on differentiating fate vs. destiny.
An easy read that I found had a straightforward approach to the journey of the soul sprinkled with astrological insights.
I do realise this was an older publication.
The course I did with him on the empathic soul archetypes recently, I found had more to offer with the current energetic shifts.
Clearly realised his gifts in intuitive healing with his astrological insights.
An easy read that I found had a straightforward approach to the journey of the soul sprinkled with astrological insights.
I do realise this was an older publication.
The course I did with him on the empathic soul archetypes recently, I found had more to offer with the current energetic shifts.
Clearly realised his gifts in intuitive healing with his astrological insights.
June 2, 2012
I enjoyed reading Ohotto's personal journey into the discovery of fate and destiny. He has a really unique view point as an astrologist. It's filled with wisdom and the decisions about our individual purpose and destiny. I could re-read this book again. He is a thought leader who studied with medical intuitive Caroline Myss Education Institute in Chicago. I did not really use any of his astrological readings, but this book was really interesting because it delves deep into the difference between our fate (ego) and our destiny (soul). Mostly about overcoming limiting beliefs of fate and ego, and allowing ourselves some creative new energy to enliven our souls in any age. Although it's challenging to follow his more soulful ideas 100%, he does have a point. Sometimes we do have to through our ego's fears out to the wind, and follow our soul and heart to guide us forward.
October 17, 2008
I borrowed this book from Beth. At first, the concepts seem too intangible for me, but as I read on it was very helpful in understanding where I am now, how I got there, and that things will happen when they are supposed to happen. Easy to read writing and very positive and uplifting, in my opinion. Good read!
June 6, 2008
It is an explanation of the difference between fate (what you are born with) and destiny (how you play the cards. A topic that could be really dull...Robert has turned into a great read. Just enough humor to keep it from getting too heavy, but doesn't become fluff.
July 28, 2011
An amazing book, particularly in light of the many dances we are all experiencing as lightworkers. Things are shifting, and this book helps explain how we can claim our destiny! Loved it, and our spiritual circle really engaged with it in our discussions.
February 19, 2012
Really liked his book!! Reminds me of Thomas Moore's wise counsel in "Care of the Soul" - listen to your soul, instead of your ego for passionate, satisfying life!
November 9, 2009
Loaned from the library. Good definitions to soul, spirit, ego, etc. But difficult to enjoy.
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May 31, 2019Ohotto gives us a tidy package right smack on Fate and Destiny as the title promises. It is written in impressively accessible, articulate language. You'll find no abstruse paragraphs à la the (admittedly lovely) Dao De Jing, for example. He aims for and hits practicality without neglecting abstract foundations.
This book holds center in the polarization between the two arguments to purely follow your passion vs purely develop with discipline where you are now (like Cal Newport argues). The former too often is stricken with entitlement, and the latter too often is stripped of joy. I think Ohotto's take on things can hold both these truths simultaneously. It's the hub around which these spokes can revolve, resolving the apparent conflict and holding the elevated space which makes harmonious paradox possible.
Ohotto's treatment of prayer is spot-on, and I think would especially appeal to someone who finds the rote prayers one grew up with somehow lacking. This book reminds me that prayer is not to make the universe my errand boy to fetch me what I desire. Rather, prayer helps me bridge the gap between me and Cosmic Law in a personal way despite the impersonal nature of Cosmic Law. Beautiful.
An excerpt:
pg 195
When you engage the tool of prayer, you don't ask for the mountain to be taken away, because the act of climbing it is building something in you that will be crucial for the next phase of the journey. Instead, you pray for help up the mountain, and then accept however assistance shows up. Every prayer is answered, without exception, but you must employ acute awareness in perceiving the response. Realize that you may simply be told to make the most of this difficult circumstance and keep on livin’!
This book holds center in the polarization between the two arguments to purely follow your passion vs purely develop with discipline where you are now (like Cal Newport argues). The former too often is stricken with entitlement, and the latter too often is stripped of joy. I think Ohotto's take on things can hold both these truths simultaneously. It's the hub around which these spokes can revolve, resolving the apparent conflict and holding the elevated space which makes harmonious paradox possible.
Ohotto's treatment of prayer is spot-on, and I think would especially appeal to someone who finds the rote prayers one grew up with somehow lacking. This book reminds me that prayer is not to make the universe my errand boy to fetch me what I desire. Rather, prayer helps me bridge the gap between me and Cosmic Law in a personal way despite the impersonal nature of Cosmic Law. Beautiful.
An excerpt:
pg 195
When you engage the tool of prayer, you don't ask for the mountain to be taken away, because the act of climbing it is building something in you that will be crucial for the next phase of the journey. Instead, you pray for help up the mountain, and then accept however assistance shows up. Every prayer is answered, without exception, but you must employ acute awareness in perceiving the response. Realize that you may simply be told to make the most of this difficult circumstance and keep on livin’!
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