I have to confess that memoirs are not my favorite, especially those without any great trauma and conflict because relatively happy childhoods don’t leave much of a sense of accomplishment. (As in “I succeeded despite…”) I think, you succeeded but what was there really to stop you? This is a story of growing up in Red China in the 60’s, 70’s and 80’s with the political terrain constantly shifting, based on who was alive and in charge at the time. This is in parallel the story of the paternal grandmother who, despite the restrictions under Communism, demands to be buried next to her husband where she was born and he died and was buried decades ago. For this, she demands that a forbidden casket be built for her, and that all the preparations be made, so that she can be ready when her time comes. This causes a great deal of ideological and marital turmoil for the father, and financial sacrifices for the family as he must decide between being a good Communist and being a good son while the family must learn to do without a lot of small pleasures as money is funneled into not only the coffin and clothes for the death of the grandmother but bribes and gifts to other parties to insure that all goes as planned while tension between family members grow. This sort of situation is probably universal, a mother-in-law coming between the husband and wife, financial squeezing, etc., so I wasn’t particularly moved by it; in spite of the humor of the family being forced to live with a coffin as part of the furniture, family friction isn’t exactly a purely Chinese concept. As for the ideological propaganda, there was a lot of the same thing, but in reverse, when I was growing up in the USA – plus, a lot of the success achieved by the author was gained by hard work and paid for by the government, again not a big difference here. This is more an anecdotal memoir than anything else, a nice story but not anything spectacular for me.