She has some incredible statements in here.
"A woman is just as much an ordinary human being as a man, with the same individual preferences, and with just as much right to the tastes and preferences, and with just as much right to the tastes and preferences of any individual."
"It is perfectly idiotic to take away women's traditional occupations and then complain because she looks for new ones."
"But there are other questions – as, for example, about literature or finance – on which the 'woman's point of view' has no value at all. In fact, it does not exist. No special knowledge is involved, and a woman's opinion on literature or finance is valuable only as the judgment of an individual. I am occasionally desired by congenital imbeciles and the editors of magazines to say something about the writing of detective fiction 'from the woman's point of view.' To such demands, one can only say, 'Go away and don't be so silly. You might as well ask what is the female angle on an equilateral triangle.'"
"What we ask is to be human individuals, however peculiar and unexpected. It is no good saying: 'You are a little girl and therefore you ought to like dolls'; if the answer is, 'But I don't.' there is no more to be said."
"'What,' men have asked distractedly from the beginning of time, 'what on earth do women want?' I do not know that women, as women want anything in particular, but as human beings they want, my good men, exactly what you want yourselves: interesting occupation, reasonable freedom for their pleasures, and a sufficient emotional outlet."
I also liked the part where she flips the narrative and puts a man in the position of a woman and the questions she is daily bombarded is. It shows so clearly how silly it is to treat women that way. Unlike other (often male) reviewers of this book, I did not find her to be catty or bitter at all. Rather she truthfully stated the way of life for a lot of women in a lot of places.
I read some other reviews of this book that said she focused too much on individualism. From my reading, I felt she was saying that just because we label someone as "woman" does not mean that they have a stock set of likes, dislikes, and traits. That, I think, is important. Community, and seeing one's self as part of a community, is vitally important, but we also have to understand that a community is still made up of individuals, each of whom is their own unique person. And we should respect that.
Sayers is charming and funny and now I want to read some of her other books.