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How to Make a Man Fall in Love with You by Tracy Cabot

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“A great piece of psychological wisdom.”—PlaygirlYES, YOU CAN DO IT! You’ve heard about it on Donahue and Today . You’ve read about it in Time and New Woman. Now you can discover how Find the love of your life Make the chemistry of love happen—at will Meet your love’s unconscious needs Establish instant trust and rapport Anchor your happiness with a magic touch Get him to say yes—so subtly, he won’t even know you’ve done it Keep love alive for a lifetime Now the magic is here, ready to use—if you dare. Revolutionary new scientifically tested and proven techniques show you how some women seem to find true love effortlessly. Now you can too! “It’s about time women began applying as much savvy to their personal lives as they do in their careers. Tracy Cabot’s book outlines intelligent and workable strategies.” —Ruth Halcomb, author of Women Making It

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First published January 1, 1984

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1,184 reviews
January 1, 2013
Felt that most of this book revolved around "game playing" and I didn't care for it. Affirmations. True. What your inner dialogue says is what you project. As for reading people, that works, but to use it to "get a man" seems wrong. Why would you want to be with someone that you weren't naturally compatible?

Why would you want to be with someone that doesn't want to be with you? Why play games, date others, make someone jealous, baby and pamper someone like they were a child you had to coax. You can lead a horse to water, but you can't make them drink.

If you aren't compatiable in bed, move on. The book suggests ways to manipulate a man into fixing this. Really?

If you aren't feeling like you are his priority, move on. The book suggests ways to manipulate into fixing this.

If you get invited to a party he throws and know you are one of several of his GIRLFRIENDS that will be there, how to dress like him to make him like you more. This just had me laughing my ass off! What a stupid suggestion. First, you should wonder why you are trying to compete with his other GIRLFRIENDS?

There were other equally stupid manipulation tactics: mirroring, anchoring (come on?), etc

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Pride, ladies. There are good guys out there. Drop the ones that aren't right for you, don't try to manipulate or change them. Move on. (This is from me, not the book.)

Wouldn't waste my time recommending this book to anyone.
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June 28, 2007
39. A revolutionary new, scientifically tested and proven method for finding true love effortlessly. A national bestseller, this is the fail-proof, fool-proof, tried-and-true method for finding a mate for life.

While an interesting read, I don't think I'd base my entire dating life on this plan. I liked that one of the first things the author tackles is "what do you want in a mate?", also has interesting ideas for how/where to meet men. While I doubt that this plan is entirely fool-proof, I think it certainly has its merits.
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June 28, 2008

Book Review:
How To make a man fall in Love with you
By Tracy Carbot
Review by:Stephy Jemmisparks

This book brings out a lot of excitement and promises of hopes -in how the union of romance can be worked over by a lady's real efforts,combined with psychology and the art of communication.

The books is as educational as it is self-reflective, insightful and revolutionary, giving deep insights and perspectives usually hidden from the average lady. The lump of negative approaches and unfortunately common practiced ones, are brutally exposed and uncoded to its core. Thus,effectively rendering its total ineffectiveness.

Offering surprising new approaches, guided steps and problem solving techniques, armed with deep revelation of the art of understanding a man, particularly,YOUR DESIRED MAN, opens up a new era of opportunities.

With this stated. I would not recommended this book for teenagers, for its adult content. The information is fresh, and engaging, overall an interesting read, with which I enjoyed but do not imply to totally agree on every aspect.
This entire review has been hidden because of spoilers.
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468 reviews
September 22, 2008
The advice given in this book works for any type of relationship, such as making friends or getting a woman to fall in love with you. It is excellent and not creepy or controlling in the way that The Rules is.
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August 25, 2013
A very good book on psychology of any relationship - be it a relationship with your parents, a loved one or your colleagues. It helps you to naturally please those you like and that mean something for you.
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11 reviews1 follower
July 31, 2011
This book is nothing like the title. It has some great insight on how to read people in general. Read it years ago, a lot of it stuck with me. Good book!
Profile Image for Sara.
45 reviews2 followers
November 19, 2013
Read this back when I was young and dumb, lol. 'Enough said.
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September 1, 2025
Very practical

This little book gives some startlingly helpful, step by step advice unlike any I have come across before.

The author breaks down into steps the ways that those women who men adore are able to bond with a man in a way that makes him able to adore her.
This is so important. These days women are having a hard time connecting with men and vice versa.
This book, if the advice is followed, will help bridge the gulf between us and bring understanding and love.

The only caution is, don't ever use this to manipulate a good man, or any man.
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April 4, 2018
Ain't love suppose to be spontaneous?, what about love at first instance ? and a lavish wedding is the key to happily ever after ?? ok you are not Cinderella ! and there is no Prince charming any more, the write is busting everything you learned from fairytales about love and how to get a man attention, your happiness is your responsibility so do not wait for someone with shining armor.
the author advocating NLP techniques and approaches such as visual attraction since men usually get attached visually, very interesting book to read.
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