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Set Good Boundaries: Where You Stop & I Begin

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Are you tired of your people-pleasing habit and feeling overwhelmed? Learn to set healthy boundaries, create meaningful relationships, and safeguard your inner peace with this powerful guide!
Who is really in control of your life? Do you ever struggle to strike a balance between your needs and being there for others? Does conflict-avoidant behavior make you feel submissive to others? Does it ever feel like you sacrifice your inner peace and disregard the things that make your heart jump for someone else's sake?
Set Good Boundaries is the essential handbook that teaches you how to set boundaries in all your relationships and start off on the right foot as you develop new ones.
Exercises bring you in contact with your core needs and train you to set boundaries naturally and effortlessly. You have the potential to enrich every relationship in your life, and this book will help you tap into that power.
If you are struggling with a toxic relationship, feel overwhelmed and stressed because of all the obligations in your life, or can't say "no" without feeling guilty, this book is for you.
Imagine being able to breathe a little easier because you've gained the tools to assert your needs and desires with confidence. Some of the expert advice this book
* Discover why it's so hard to set boundaries in the first place (the answer might be surprising) * How to set boundaries with family , friends, and even your boss * Discover the power of vulnerability and how to use it in your favor * Expose where boundaries are lacking even if you are unaware they are needed * Simple conversation starters that help you maintain control when setting new boundaries * Deconstructing the lie of selfishness * How to handle a toxic relationship or a person who invalidates your feelings * Proven tips for saying "no" without feeling guilty * Step-by-step strategies that train you to assert yourself with confidence * How to break away from people-pleasing habits and prioritize your needs - without fracturing healthy relationships * And so much more!
Research from top psychologists and experts in the field of human behavior is paired with practical how-to exercises that have empowered countless people to take the difficult steps toward setting necessary boundaries. This, combined with insights and relatable examples, will give you the tools and the confidence to approach more difficult conversations.
Even if you constantly put other people first, are known to avoid conflict, or simply don't know where to start - this book will give you a full understanding of the boundaries you need to thrive, guide you through real-life exercises to establish them, and equip you to maintain those boundaries for a lifetime.
Ready to start taking back control of your life? Then purchase Set Good Boundaries today!

122 pages, Paperback

Published November 29, 2022

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Zera Young

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Zera Young is a self-development expert who specializes in helping people overcome their limitations by embracing a growth mindset and discovering how to use their inner strength to its fullest potential. In each of her titles, Zera shares her professional expertise, proven psychological methods, and personal anecdotes to guide you on your journey toward mindful growth and self-discovery. Practical advice empowers you to examine your innermost being to create lasting positive changes and take back control of your life.

Zera does not assert her opinion or deliver one-size-fits-all programs. She asks you questions that will allow you to address your situation without judgment, gently clearing the mental cobwebs to expose the root causes of pain, anxiety, and any self-imposed obstacles. Trained in CBT, DBT, and ACT methods, Zera's guidance has helped thousands of people lead healthier, happier, and stress-free lives.

Zera spends her free time reading mystery novels and trying new things in the kitchen. She’s passionate about seeing new parts of the world, but when at home she is also an avid gardener and can spend hours outside in the dirt.

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Author 1 book116 followers
March 10, 2023
Setting Reasonable Boundaries in All Aspects of Life

I have read a fair number of books about setting boundaries, learning to say no, and understanding how to negotiate to fulfill your needs when someone is pushing back hard against you. This particular audiobook didn't really cover any new ground, but I appreciate it anyway. Early on, it made a bold statement about not giving in to your partner’s desires in an intimate relationship if you do not want what they want. For some reason, the way the author stated this really resonated with me and gave me pause to re-examine my failed relationship with my ex-husband and gave me clarity on some of what our problems were. For that, I appreciate what this book has to say, even though most of what it says is very familiar if you've read any books about setting boundaries or saying no. I like how the book discussed how to stand up for yourself in an assertive but not aggressive way to family, friends, and those at work.

I received a promo code for this audiobook, but that did not affect my review.
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Author 2 books4 followers
April 21, 2023
Very important to understand your boundaries.

This author does a really good job walking through different boundary types and what is a healthy boundary. Sometimes it is hard for people to understand when they have not set a healthy boundary. This book describes things to look for in a logical and straight forward meaning.

What is nice about this book it does not read like a book that just hit the high points but it pushes you to dig a little deeper. Overall, if you are struggling with boundaries or need to do some confirmation of boundaries then jump inro this book.
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December 5, 2022
well done

Helpful book on boundaries with easy to apply ideas. I especially appreciated the focus on childhood trauma, and how it affects our need to set for ourselves as well as respect to the boundaries of others.

Nothing you can’t find in other books on boundaries, but this one is still a great read
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