My biggest problem with Sparkle was that it features a morally contentious premise - a child arguably being groomed for the limelight when there is a lot of ambiguity regarding the merits of that lifestyle for a child - that it refuses to actively engage with.
Let’s start with the mother as many of the issues stem from the poor execution of her character. She was a terrible mother, in my opinion, and the narrative does not take her to task enough for it.
It's fine that she's a bad mother; books need conflict, after all. Being a bad ‘anything’ can be fluid if you work at it. We have all been bad partners, bad friends, bad leaders, etc at one point or another. It does not have to be a permanent indictment unless you let it be.
My hackles were up from page 1. It is immediately clear that Sparkle's mother is living vicariously through her children. She had a stutter that she felt barred her from reaching her full acting potential. She uses her children to achieve those dreams in their stead.
Despite Sparkle maintaining that her mother would let them quit if they weren't enjoying it, Sparkle is too emotionally enmeshed with their mother to actually do so. Her younger sister, Nova, is putting out disinterested vibes the moment you meet her yet I'm expected to believe her mother - who actually knows her and isn't peering in on her life like some kind of literary peeping tom - has never picked up on that attitude? And can a woman who is so unreasonably invested in her children becoming famous objectively assess the situation in the first place to see that her child doesn't want to do it any more? Would Sparkle be able to recognize for herself that she no longer wants to perform when she takes all of her emotional cues from her mother?
Sparkle’s mother is actively less involved with the younger sister until the moment Sparkle is unable to nab a major shampoo commercial due to her hair loss. Sparkle’s hair loss is to the point that she feels she needs to wear a wig. It is common sense, a shampoo company is not going to want a girl wearing a wig to represent them. Even so her mother forces Sparkle through the motions anyways and she is summarily rejected - as anyone who wasn't obsessed with stardom would have guessed.
When this happens her mother literally snaps on Sparkle for pointing out that their plan obviously wouldn't work by saying and I quote:
“Well, what were we supposed to do? Show up here with all those bald spots?”
She throws a deep insecurity into her 12 year olds face because she cares more about not getting an audition than her child's mental well being. She rushes to apologize but this is how Sparkle is described right after:
“But, it was too late. Mother’s words slashed through Sparkle’s heart like a lighting bolt.
Sparkle blinked fast, desperately trying not to cry.
Of course, she knew this wig would never work on a shampoo shoot. But her mom acted like she would make sure things worked out anyway. How could she turn around and say those mean, hurtful things?”
Her mother then starts to cry forcing Sparkle to swallow her totally valid emotions to comfort her instead. And Nova ends up doing the commercial because Sparkle badly wants to fix the situation. Nova protests because she has actual integrity unlike her mother, but her mother effectively forces her into it.
“But Nova was already shaking her head. “After the way they treated you, Sparkle? No way!”
The scowl on Nova’s face worried Sparkle, so she moved closer to her sister.
“If somebody else has to get the opportunity, I would rather it be you.” Sparkle swallowed hard. “Maybe this Sudsy shoot wasn't my big break after all. Maybe it's your turn to step into the spotlight….”
Suddenly Mother grabbed Nova’s hand and marched back into the studio.”
What happened to the whole ‘if you don't want to do it then I won't make you’? Nova specifically expressed she was 100% against taking the commercial out of solidarity. Her mother does not even ask her. She just takes her inside. She doesn't double check with Sparkle either.
The above quotes are literally the entire conversation before Nova auditions for - and gets - the Sudsy commercial. Sparkle is deeply saddened by this turn of events and her mother never has a check-in with her about it. She is utterly blinded by her own excitement.
Afterwards her entire focus is on Nova. She even starts neglecting Sparkle's social media, not bothering to post anything for weeks.
It's not just me and my adult brain thinking about how messed up their mother is. In-text here is a conversation Nova and Sparkle have about it on page 232.:
“Sometimes I don’t like when Mother makes a big deal out of stuff like this, Nova’s text said.
Playing her mature, big sister role, Sparkle texted back But it IS a big deal. Brands don’t ask kids to be in commercials every day. Especially not bald kids, Sparkle thought bitterly.
Yeah, but she doesn’t whoop and cheer like this when I bring home a perfect attendance certificate. She just tapes it to the refrigerator and forgets about it, Nova’s next text said.
Sparkle raised a hairless eyebrow at her sister. Then she bent her neck to text, That’s because you get them every year, so it’s not exactly rare. Most people go their whole entire lives without shooting a commercial, and you’re doing one at ten.
Sparkle took out an imaginary sword and held back the green-eyed monster from creeping in.
That’s not the point I’m trying to make. You don’t think it’s rude that she’s dancing around in the front seat, calling one daughter special, when her other daughter is sitting right there, too? Nova texted.”
So at least one of her kids absolutely has picked up on the fixation their mother has and how nothing else in their lives matters. She doesn’t respect any accomplishment that is not related to the game plan she has outlined.
Not to mention the fact that letting your child be a child star is ethically dubious and that many pictures of children online are stolen and posted on the dark web for pedophiles all the time. With the rapid advancement of AI technology and the uptick in deep fake pornography it is quickly becoming ethically dubious to even post a photo of your kid eating a slice of pizza on Facebook.
Yet, their mother has specially curated themed social media accounts for each of her daughters that she would regularly post to. In one of the first pages she’s delighted by the amount of likes that Sparkle’s page gets. But, a simple Google search will give you evidence of how nauseating that potentially is, as when you check out the metrics for children’s pages like the one Sparkle has, the majority are typically men from ages 18 to 35 years old. Sure, she’s getting likes but consider the quality of those likes. Is it really worth it when you have literal predators following her possibly scheming to make contact? When you poll people on her page for shoot ideas aren’t you really just serving her up on a silver platter?
It is perfectly normal for a kid to want to be famous. It is perfectly normal for a kid to want to post online or even to post online. It is perfectly normal for a kid to have goals that they are actively working towards while still young. An adult should know better about the risks and act accordingly in their child’s best interest. I personally don't think any child should be thinking about having a serious career and booking jobs even if they do want to be in the biz in the future. I don’t think any child should have a curated social media page.
The book does its readership a massive disservice because it is not modeling a healthy relationship with the Internet or even mentioning any of the drawbacks. It's not just about whether or not you want to be a superstar like Sparkle does, it's about whether or not it's morally correct for a child to be famous and how that can negatively impact their life. This book pretends that the only hangup is whether or not you lose desire for the pursuit. I don’t want a lecture. I don’t need a long list of why the Internet is scary. I am begging for a throwaway line about a downside at the very least.
Inevitably Nova crumbles under pressure and blows up on their mother, refusing to fly to film the commercial. To her credit, their mother lets Nova quit immediately after Nova says she doesn’t need a job because she’s a kid. However, all of the problems that I talked about like the mother playing favorites and not valuing her kids outside of their achievements on the stage or in film are washed away.
She never acknowledges she has been giving Nova preferential treatment. In fact when Nova brings it up in their argument, she pivots to Sparkle for reassurance once again defaulting to using her as inappropriate emotional support. She does not apologize for her behavior. She never resolves to do better or seek therapy or take a break entirely from stage mom-ing. She does not have a heart to heart with Sparkle about Sparkle’s need to please her. The only thing she does at this moment is let Nova stop working. She does not understand at all the pain she has been inflicting on her children. As such she doesn’t so much as stop being a bad mother, as take a break from being one.
Throughout the book Sparkle develops a body image issue due to losing her hair. Her mother does not in any way help to counteract this. She makes it clear she doesn’t view Sparkle as beautiful any more, not explicitly, but in all of her actions. Like I mentioned before, she completely stops caring about Sparkle’s page once Sparkle is no longer pretty enough for social media. She pressures her into wearing a cheap pink wig to school rather than focusing on building up her confidence about her new reality. If Sparkle wanted to wear a wig, fine. It’s her body and she should feel good about herself going through a hard time. The idea does not originate with Sparkle though, her mother is the one who is gung-ho. She spends money they don’t have to buy this wig because she can’t bear to simply gas up her own daughter.
That’s another reason this book left me with a bad taste in my mouth. Being famous means being hyper aware of your body and looks all of the time. There are a million stories from child stars who reached the kind of acclaim Sparkle’s mother wants for her where they lament the childhood that was lost and the innocence that was exploited. Who in good conscience could rationalize putting their own 12 year old through that? They will be critical enough of their bodies on their own without adding a bunch of unfeeling strangers to the mix. Sparkle’s mother actively encourages a toxic attachment to the validation of others by wrapping their entire lives in pursuing this line of work.
There also are so many child stars that fizzle out for one reason or another. Sparkle’s sense of self is tied up entirely in her belief she is a star in the making. What will she do if she, like the millions of other kids out there, fails? What will that do to her self esteem when her mother has made failure not an option?
The concept of child stars and kids on social media is too rife with complications to present it in such a simplistic fashion. I was disappointed by how avoidant Wilson was being about the complexity of the situation that she chose to pick up.
If this was a casual read with no deeper emotional conflict that would be one thing. I’d never bother with this kind of detailed deconstruction of a book that was just about a kid being a social media star and their parents never appeared in the book at all since that book would obviously be pure wish fulfillment. For a book like Sparkle that is actively seeking to explore the difficulties of alopecia, I expect it to fully embrace the tangled web it has weaved, not just brush over it.
I didn’t talk about him, but Sparkle straight up has a dad too. He just doesn’t matter much because he is so far removed from what is going on in his own home. I hated him for being so oblivious. He had big sitcom Dad energy where he blithely left all the heavy lifting to the mother while he swanned off to do whatever. I also hated him because he kept sitting around waiting to get callbacks when it was clear his acting days were done and the family was struggling financially. You’re a grown man who has a family. We all have dreams we need to give up to live. Get a real job already.
Only read Sparkle if you literally do not care about the safety of children on the web or can turn your brain off.