An informative memoir about a son taking care of a mother with Alzheimer's Disease. The story is told in a manner that educates and focuses the reader on the insidious nature of adult mental dysfunction, while at the same time offering useful insights and advice on the responsibilities of caregiving.
Alzheimer's and its evil brain-robbing cousins are a scourge that rip our loved ones from us piece by piece. When the disease is firmly in control, there are no silver linings or wonderfully shared moments. At best, we can strive for an approach that will leave us free of missed opportunities and regret.
After majoring in physics and pre-med at the University of Maine I found myself in NYC working as an executive fundraiser for a multinational non-profit. Six years later I was swimming with whales, running my own adventure dive boat, and searching for sunken treasure. I've been a commercial fisherman, charter boat captain, captain-for-hire, camera boat operator, and Hollywood boat wrangler.
In 1987 I started to write for a few recreational and commercial boating and fishing magazines. I then tried my hand at screenwriting, and in 1998 placed a script in the top 25 of the Nicholl Screenwriting Contest sponsored by AMPAS. In the years that followed I managed to option a few scripts but never hit the jackpot and had one made into a film.
My first book, What They Don't Tell You About Alzheimer's -- about my mother's struggle with AD, was published in 2012. A few months later I published my first novel, Calamity, about a cash-strapped Maine charter boat captain who starts working as a P.I. specializing in maritime investigations.
We are currently navigating through out own journey with Alzheimer's for the first time. Although heartbreaking I am so appreciative for the information nobody gives you! I learned so much through the generosity of Robert and sharing his personal experience with this horrible robbery of his loves one a piece at a time.
I didn't learn anything new in particular, and I felt that he devoted as much time to his dad (pancreatic cancer) as his mom (Alzheimer's); not sure why other people found this informative or insightful.
When a family member has dementia or alzheimers, you don't know how to act. I know the first time I met my Dad's cousin was she was diagnosed with the illnesses and she kept asking questions who is that? What is that? I found her hard to answer without thinking can you forget who my grandad is, but this book made me think from a different prospect.
I have a family member with Alzheimer's and I found this book to be a realistic, accurate description of the events I have observed over the past several years.