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Moving in Rhythm
Mark Apostolos should be able to have any man he wants. Handsome and smart, he's also cripplingly shy, especially around attractive men. Tired of waking up alone, he's desperate to conquer his insecurities and have a real, meaningful relationship.
He gets his first opportunity when he tags along to his sister-in-law's dance class and lays eyes on the sexy instructor. Seth Miller has a way of moving that takes his breath away. It isn't long before sparks fly and they share a steamy kiss, but Seth wants much more than just a casual encounter.
If Mark wants a real relationship with Seth he'll have to come to terms with his sexuality—but will it be enough to break through the walls he's built up around his heart?
He gets his first opportunity when he tags along to his sister-in-law's dance class and lays eyes on the sexy instructor. Seth Miller has a way of moving that takes his breath away. It isn't long before sparks fly and they share a steamy kiss, but Seth wants much more than just a casual encounter.
If Mark wants a real relationship with Seth he'll have to come to terms with his sexuality—but will it be enough to break through the walls he's built up around his heart?
140 pages, Kindle Edition
First published March 19, 2012
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Dev Bentham
25 books127 followersDev Bentham believes in the transformative power of true love. She’s the author of many gay romances, including Moving in Rhythm, August Ice and the Tarnished Souls Jewish Holiday series.
Over the years, she’s lived in way too many places and had far too many jobs, but she’s finally settled in frozen northern Wisconsin where she draws on her former lives to write enduring love stories in which wonderful men find each other. Her restless feet take her globetrotting whenever she gets the chance, but most of the time she’s tucked up in her office in the woods dreaming about romance.
Over the years, she’s lived in way too many places and had far too many jobs, but she’s finally settled in frozen northern Wisconsin where she draws on her former lives to write enduring love stories in which wonderful men find each other. Her restless feet take her globetrotting whenever she gets the chance, but most of the time she’s tucked up in her office in the woods dreaming about romance.
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April 3, 2012
Mark is a painfully shy online math teacher who experiences panic attacks whenever he's around large groups of people and men he finds attractive. He was once engaged to his friend, Ruth, but that fell apart when he realized he preferred men over women. Now anonymous enounters outside of clubs and bars are his only forms of human contact, and they leave him feeling ashamed and dirty.
He agrees to watch over his pregnant sister-in-law, Lisa, while his younger brother, Pete, is stationed overseas. While accompanying Lisa to a Zumba class, he notices the instructor, Seth. Although both men share a mutual attraction, Mark's anxiety threatens to ruin the potential relationship before it even starts.
I really wanted to like this book because I thought the overall premise was interesting and cute: an anxiety-ridden man's life is changed for the better through the love of a kind and patient man. However, there seemed to be very little interaction between the main characters, maybe only amounting to 25% of the book. The other 75% was taken up with Mark's interactions with his sister-in-law, other female friends and occasionally his brother. There was no real build up to Mark and Seth's relationship in my eyes, so everything happened rather fast - one minute they're talking and getting to know each other on the phone and the next they're in bed together.
Instead of filling the book with secondary characters' storylines, it would have been nice if the focus had shifted to the progression of the relationship and possibly Mark working through his neuroses. Throughout the book he kept stating how messed up he was and that he saw a therapist, but it never seemed like he made much progress.
Unfortunately, this book fell a flat for me because the topics that should have been featured were glossed over and peripheral storylines received too much attention and time in the book.
He agrees to watch over his pregnant sister-in-law, Lisa, while his younger brother, Pete, is stationed overseas. While accompanying Lisa to a Zumba class, he notices the instructor, Seth. Although both men share a mutual attraction, Mark's anxiety threatens to ruin the potential relationship before it even starts.
I really wanted to like this book because I thought the overall premise was interesting and cute: an anxiety-ridden man's life is changed for the better through the love of a kind and patient man. However, there seemed to be very little interaction between the main characters, maybe only amounting to 25% of the book. The other 75% was taken up with Mark's interactions with his sister-in-law, other female friends and occasionally his brother. There was no real build up to Mark and Seth's relationship in my eyes, so everything happened rather fast - one minute they're talking and getting to know each other on the phone and the next they're in bed together.
Instead of filling the book with secondary characters' storylines, it would have been nice if the focus had shifted to the progression of the relationship and possibly Mark working through his neuroses. Throughout the book he kept stating how messed up he was and that he saw a therapist, but it never seemed like he made much progress.
Unfortunately, this book fell a flat for me because the topics that should have been featured were glossed over and peripheral storylines received too much attention and time in the book.
March 31, 2019
Charlie Belmont is an excellent narrator. He does women's voices better than any other male narrator I've ever heard.
This story is sweet. Seth is a truly beautiful character. Both inside and out. He's a positive role model for overcoming life's trajedies. He's strong and caring. I about melted with him and his rescue dogs. He's exactly what Mark needs. Mark's anxiety at times felt inconsistent but I admired how he'd built a successful, if rather lonely, life around it.
Overall I enjoyed reading their stories.
This story is sweet. Seth is a truly beautiful character. Both inside and out. He's a positive role model for overcoming life's trajedies. He's strong and caring. I about melted with him and his rescue dogs. He's exactly what Mark needs. Mark's anxiety at times felt inconsistent but I admired how he'd built a successful, if rather lonely, life around it.
Overall I enjoyed reading their stories.
February 29, 2012
This was a very cute and sweet story. I very much enjoyed it.
It's a book about acceptance and self-discovery. Of overcoming your fears and social disorders to finally being able to be happy and content. Mark grows so much over the story. In the beginning he's miserable and alone, scared to come out of his shell because he's gay. Over the course of the story, he realizes being gay is not as horrible as he thought from being raised by a homophobic father. He sees there are people who accept individuals for who they are and he grows to ultimately accept himself. Seth helps him in a surprising way because he's willing to take things as slow as Mark needs and help Mark work through all his emotions. It's powerful and sweet.
I really adored these characters. Mark is so cute with his shyness and how crippling that social disorder is for him which makes him freeze up and stutter in front of men he's attracted to or large crowds. He has severe anxiety in a lot of situations but most stem down to having to do with being gay. He's scared so much of that side of himself that he keeps it in secret and bolts when things start to escalate between him and Seth. Seth was a great character as well. I felt like he was made perfectly for Mark because he knew how to handle Mark, sort of as if Mark was a skittish animal.
It was nice seeing these two circle around each other and I loved seeing Mark try to work through his problems and learn that just because he's gay, doesn't mean he deserves to be lonely and miserable the rest of his life. He realizes he could be happy, open and in a loving relationship. I loved his awkwardness around Seth and how he just couldn't get passed the intensity between them. It was definitely palpable.
The only problem I had with the story is about halfway the story started to drag. I think Mark's internal monologue became a little excessive. I also would have liked a few more scenes of Seth and Mark actually alone together (outside of having sex) so we could have gotten to know them better with the way they act around each other in close quarters. But, I loved Belle, Mark's dog, and I loved the role Claire played in helping Mark understand what Seth is to him. Mark's sister-in-law, Lisa, played a nice role as well and it was funny seeing Mark taking care of her, since she's pregnant, and people mistaking him for his brother, Pete, who's away at war. There were definitely enough laughs to make this story heart-warming and an easy read.
All in all, I really enjoyed it. I loved Mark's social disorder and Seth's instinctive way of soothing Mark. It was a fun, sweet and interesting tale with a great ending. I would love to see these guys again to see how Mark is coping with his new-found courage and see how their relationship is working.
It's a book about acceptance and self-discovery. Of overcoming your fears and social disorders to finally being able to be happy and content. Mark grows so much over the story. In the beginning he's miserable and alone, scared to come out of his shell because he's gay. Over the course of the story, he realizes being gay is not as horrible as he thought from being raised by a homophobic father. He sees there are people who accept individuals for who they are and he grows to ultimately accept himself. Seth helps him in a surprising way because he's willing to take things as slow as Mark needs and help Mark work through all his emotions. It's powerful and sweet.
I really adored these characters. Mark is so cute with his shyness and how crippling that social disorder is for him which makes him freeze up and stutter in front of men he's attracted to or large crowds. He has severe anxiety in a lot of situations but most stem down to having to do with being gay. He's scared so much of that side of himself that he keeps it in secret and bolts when things start to escalate between him and Seth. Seth was a great character as well. I felt like he was made perfectly for Mark because he knew how to handle Mark, sort of as if Mark was a skittish animal.
It was nice seeing these two circle around each other and I loved seeing Mark try to work through his problems and learn that just because he's gay, doesn't mean he deserves to be lonely and miserable the rest of his life. He realizes he could be happy, open and in a loving relationship. I loved his awkwardness around Seth and how he just couldn't get passed the intensity between them. It was definitely palpable.
The only problem I had with the story is about halfway the story started to drag. I think Mark's internal monologue became a little excessive. I also would have liked a few more scenes of Seth and Mark actually alone together (outside of having sex) so we could have gotten to know them better with the way they act around each other in close quarters. But, I loved Belle, Mark's dog, and I loved the role Claire played in helping Mark understand what Seth is to him. Mark's sister-in-law, Lisa, played a nice role as well and it was funny seeing Mark taking care of her, since she's pregnant, and people mistaking him for his brother, Pete, who's away at war. There were definitely enough laughs to make this story heart-warming and an easy read.
All in all, I really enjoyed it. I loved Mark's social disorder and Seth's instinctive way of soothing Mark. It was a fun, sweet and interesting tale with a great ending. I would love to see these guys again to see how Mark is coping with his new-found courage and see how their relationship is working.
April 8, 2012
When I first saw the description of this book, I knew it was something I had to read. I knew I was really going to like it, and I am happy I wasn’t disappointed. I’m thinking if Dev Bentham is writing it, I’m gonna want to be reading it because for a debut novel it’s a freaking hit.
Mark is gorgeous, smart, and has whole lot going for him. He is also socially inept, crowds scare him, attractive men leaves him in crippling shyness and being in his quiet apartment is his solitude. Mark is also struggling with his attraction to men, and the fear of it translates into his life. Doesn’t stop him from doing back alleys, and men’s washroom, because if he doesn’t have to talk he can do a quick blowjob with a stranger.
His world gets shaken when he sees Seth for the first time. His hips are a swaying and Mark is mesmerized by the man, it’s a shame nothing would ever come of his attraction because the things he wants to say to Seth only gets said in his head. Well, Seth is not about to let a good thing go, and Mark is that good thing. The way he goes about communicating with Mark is a thing of beauty.
I really love these characters, and I really like Mark. This book was about him finding himself, and not about a solution to dealing with his anxiety. Loved that Mark found some worth in taking care of his sister in law, and he wasn’t just the shy nut case anymore. I also loved the female characters; they were strong and provided a nurturing in the story. Seth and Mark together is dy-no-mite (three words) and hot as fecking hell (loved the whole treat me like a stranger).
It really was a beautiful love story, about finding that someone who makes everything just right, and never having to change who you are. It’s a story of self-discovery and healing wounds and moving on from them. Good stuff!
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Mark is gorgeous, smart, and has whole lot going for him. He is also socially inept, crowds scare him, attractive men leaves him in crippling shyness and being in his quiet apartment is his solitude. Mark is also struggling with his attraction to men, and the fear of it translates into his life. Doesn’t stop him from doing back alleys, and men’s washroom, because if he doesn’t have to talk he can do a quick blowjob with a stranger.
His world gets shaken when he sees Seth for the first time. His hips are a swaying and Mark is mesmerized by the man, it’s a shame nothing would ever come of his attraction because the things he wants to say to Seth only gets said in his head. Well, Seth is not about to let a good thing go, and Mark is that good thing. The way he goes about communicating with Mark is a thing of beauty.
I really love these characters, and I really like Mark. This book was about him finding himself, and not about a solution to dealing with his anxiety. Loved that Mark found some worth in taking care of his sister in law, and he wasn’t just the shy nut case anymore. I also loved the female characters; they were strong and provided a nurturing in the story. Seth and Mark together is dy-no-mite (three words) and hot as fecking hell (loved the whole treat me like a stranger).
It really was a beautiful love story, about finding that someone who makes everything just right, and never having to change who you are. It’s a story of self-discovery and healing wounds and moving on from them. Good stuff!
More of my reviews and ramblings at PANTS OFF REVIEWS
March 17, 2012
Do you know what's wrong in the world of MM romance today? It's the fact that majority of novels and novellas don't have an actual plot, or if they do, that plot dissipates the second sex is introduced into the picture. Erotica is all good and well, but it gets tedious after a while, and when a reader starts to skip sex scenes no matter how well written, things get ugly.
Happily, this isn't the case here.
Throughout the book Mark grapples with his crippling shyness and even when he makes progress his condition isn't magically cured and forgotten. He doesn't do well with crowds or authority figures, but he does start to open up to an attractive man who is patient enough to give him the space and time he needs.
Seth has his own insecurities and they've made him into a more tolerant man and his experience with traumatised dogs helps him to win over the easily spooked man of his dreams.
Though the book starts with a graphic scene in the back alley of a gay bar, the actual romance is a slow build and more about Mark's battle with himself than it's about if two people are suited for each other. The romance just happens along the way.
The novel is on the short side with 43,000 words, and some elements felt a little too convenient for the plot development, but I generally didn't mind. The time I spent in Mark's head was fascinating enough to make up for the simplicity of the story. Among other things I choose to believe that Mark is the kind of man who'd lie about his brother's name to a casual acquaintance than the author forgot change one P name to another.
If you're in the mood for something sweet, this is for you.
I received an Advanced Readers Copy of this book from the publisher through NetGalley.
Happily, this isn't the case here.
Throughout the book Mark grapples with his crippling shyness and even when he makes progress his condition isn't magically cured and forgotten. He doesn't do well with crowds or authority figures, but he does start to open up to an attractive man who is patient enough to give him the space and time he needs.
Seth has his own insecurities and they've made him into a more tolerant man and his experience with traumatised dogs helps him to win over the easily spooked man of his dreams.
Though the book starts with a graphic scene in the back alley of a gay bar, the actual romance is a slow build and more about Mark's battle with himself than it's about if two people are suited for each other. The romance just happens along the way.
The novel is on the short side with 43,000 words, and some elements felt a little too convenient for the plot development, but I generally didn't mind. The time I spent in Mark's head was fascinating enough to make up for the simplicity of the story. Among other things I choose to believe that Mark is the kind of man who'd lie about his brother's name to a casual acquaintance than the author forgot change one P name to another.
If you're in the mood for something sweet, this is for you.
I received an Advanced Readers Copy of this book from the publisher through NetGalley.
November 30, 2020
I think I have overdosed on sweetness as the last 3 books I have read were all a tad saccharine.
Moving in Rhythm was a nice sweet read but was let down by the ending. Mark's 'crippling' shyness seemed to disappear too quickly; allowing him to declare insta-love for Seth. I would have been much happier if the story ended on an upward swing to HEA rather than having all the threads tied off so neatly.
This book is worth a read but I doubt I will re-visit it any time soon. It is sweetly romantic. The characters are pleasant & likeable. The social anxiety that Mark suffers from is nicely handled but the ending lets the story down.
Moving in Rhythm was a nice sweet read but was let down by the ending. Mark's 'crippling' shyness seemed to disappear too quickly; allowing him to declare insta-love for Seth. I would have been much happier if the story ended on an upward swing to HEA rather than having all the threads tied off so neatly.
This book is worth a read but I doubt I will re-visit it any time soon. It is sweetly romantic. The characters are pleasant & likeable. The social anxiety that Mark suffers from is nicely handled but the ending lets the story down.
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March 19, 2012The characters in Moving in Rhythm were nuanced and engaging—damaged, but self-aware, and never stagnant. Even the secondary characters were fully-fleshed. I felt like they all had lives of their own beyond the rest of the story. I found myself very invested in Mark’s journey toward happiness.
March 19, 2012
Mark Apolostolos is super smart, in very good shape and knows he is attractive but all he has in his life is his dog. Mark has a crippling shyness disorder, so when he sees someone he is attracted too, he literally can’t speak. He goes into a panic attack and must rush away to compose himself.
Depression settled an arm around his shoulders like the old friend it was. Self-loathing swamped him and he felt trapped. Within his head he could be so articulate. Funny, even. But put him in front of an attractive man and all he could do was mumble and grope. Nice.
He has seen a therapist who recommended medication, but with the awful side effects, Mark doesn’t think it is worth it. Instead, he goes to gay bars, picks up random strangers without speaking to them, and usually gets down on his knees for them in some dark alley. He goes home feeling shamed and lonely, but has a hard time not repeating this cycle.
Things start to change though when his brother he is very close to, gets deployed to Afghanistan leaving behind a very pregnant wife. Since Mark teaches college math online courses, he is able to move in with his Sister in-law to help her through the last few months of her pregnancy. When she asks him to come to her Zumba class with her, he meets the very attractive Zumba instructor, Seth. Seth was a professional dancer before a knee injury prevented him from dancing at an elite level. When Mark sees Seth, a massive panic attack sets in but very, very slowly, Seth helps Mark overcome his panic, one step at a time, and a romance develops.
When this review request came through my email, as soon as I read “crippling shyness” I was sold. There is something so enticing about a big, strong hero that can’t communicate with anyone he finds attractive. And I loved that the author doesn’t make his disability disappear just because he falls in love. He struggles the entire book, even at the end although there is happily ever after, he is nowhere near 100% improved. Improvement does come once Mark starts to accept he is a gay man. He kind of has to come out to himself, and then his brother, and then slowly to others in public. Once Seth realizes Mark isn’t a jerk, just extremely shy, he never pushes him. They both have dogs they are very fond of so they are often at the park at the same time. Once Seth knows of Mark’s condition, he sits across the park so Mark can see him, but they talk on the phone and then the next day, Seth might be one bench closer. They also email each other and get to know each other that way. He never gets frustrated with Mark, and a very sweet romance unfolds. Both heroes are very good-hearted and warm and you just root for them to be together. Even after Mark jumps through the hurdles and ends up physically with Seth, he still struggles.
I do wish we had gotten to know Seth a little more. This is all told in Mark’s point of view and Seth has issues himself. He feels worthless now that he is no longer able to dance. But watching Mark struggle, Seth realizes he can confront his own demons as well.
Moving in Rhythm sweet and romantic and has a different premise with the shyness disorder. I highly recommend it.
Depression settled an arm around his shoulders like the old friend it was. Self-loathing swamped him and he felt trapped. Within his head he could be so articulate. Funny, even. But put him in front of an attractive man and all he could do was mumble and grope. Nice.
He has seen a therapist who recommended medication, but with the awful side effects, Mark doesn’t think it is worth it. Instead, he goes to gay bars, picks up random strangers without speaking to them, and usually gets down on his knees for them in some dark alley. He goes home feeling shamed and lonely, but has a hard time not repeating this cycle.
Things start to change though when his brother he is very close to, gets deployed to Afghanistan leaving behind a very pregnant wife. Since Mark teaches college math online courses, he is able to move in with his Sister in-law to help her through the last few months of her pregnancy. When she asks him to come to her Zumba class with her, he meets the very attractive Zumba instructor, Seth. Seth was a professional dancer before a knee injury prevented him from dancing at an elite level. When Mark sees Seth, a massive panic attack sets in but very, very slowly, Seth helps Mark overcome his panic, one step at a time, and a romance develops.
When this review request came through my email, as soon as I read “crippling shyness” I was sold. There is something so enticing about a big, strong hero that can’t communicate with anyone he finds attractive. And I loved that the author doesn’t make his disability disappear just because he falls in love. He struggles the entire book, even at the end although there is happily ever after, he is nowhere near 100% improved. Improvement does come once Mark starts to accept he is a gay man. He kind of has to come out to himself, and then his brother, and then slowly to others in public. Once Seth realizes Mark isn’t a jerk, just extremely shy, he never pushes him. They both have dogs they are very fond of so they are often at the park at the same time. Once Seth knows of Mark’s condition, he sits across the park so Mark can see him, but they talk on the phone and then the next day, Seth might be one bench closer. They also email each other and get to know each other that way. He never gets frustrated with Mark, and a very sweet romance unfolds. Both heroes are very good-hearted and warm and you just root for them to be together. Even after Mark jumps through the hurdles and ends up physically with Seth, he still struggles.
I do wish we had gotten to know Seth a little more. This is all told in Mark’s point of view and Seth has issues himself. He feels worthless now that he is no longer able to dance. But watching Mark struggle, Seth realizes he can confront his own demons as well.
Moving in Rhythm sweet and romantic and has a different premise with the shyness disorder. I highly recommend it.
June 20, 2013
This is the second book I am reading from this author. I couldn't really connect with this story. The writing is good and nothing is wrong with the story but it didn't pull me in . I read Learning from Isaac and I was gripped by the story from the first page. I think the pace of this book was too slow for me and also it came to a point where I just felt a bit weary with Mark's problems. I think this is ok because books affect people in different ways. I am definitely going to read more from the Tarnished Souls series though. Although this one didn't work for me I am sure some of the others will.
August 9, 2019
This was a cute and thoughtful story I just wish it elaborated a little more at the end.
I am hoping the author does another set in this world so you can see how the family's are doing.
A lot was left unfinished.
I am hoping the author does another set in this world so you can see how the family's are doing.
A lot was left unfinished.
August 17, 2015
I did really like this but the reason I only gave 3 stars is because I felt it just scratched the service on the story. It just felt incomplete and so many loose ends even at the end of the book.
August 19, 2019
I’ve read this author before. I listened to the audiobook. Loved the characters mark and Seth. This book was from Mark’s POV. Loved the dogs mixed in to the story too. I hope we get to see more of these two. The end came to soon.
April 3, 2012
Overall
A sweet romance between a man who is pathologically shy and attempting to step outside his comfort zone to support his sister-in-law, and a dance instructor who has a thing for quiet, muscle-y guys. One of those stories where not much happens and even the drama is limited, but it's perfectly sweet and an enjoyable stroll through their lives. What really brought this story to life is the characters and their earnest emotions and honest helpfulness. A great feel-good story.
Strengths
The characters in this story are honest, good, and fun. I think Claire is my favorite, and even though Seth feels like the least explored character in the story (aside from those not really appearing on screen), I liked him. Their romance was a little thin to me, but considering Mark's struggles, it would have been hard to give much focus to Seth when Mark was so wrapped up in himself. Mark is a wonderful "broken character" because he flops between wanting to change and not wanting to bother, Lisa is a good pregnant woman (aka, not stereotyping), and the mix of all the people together was just a very pleasant experience.
Some of what really caught my eye were the descriptions, specifically of Seth's movements. The author took obvious care in describing his grace and poise, but I think my favorite was the dance routine, which I could easily picture.
This is a sweet story. That's what it's meant to be. Touching, tender with a little bit of sexy. It deals with a harder issue, but doesn't go too crazy exploring it and instead sticks to the person who has the issue and what he's going through. A pleasant read.
Weaknesses
I can't think of a weakness of hand, although this isn't a very enthralling story (per se). It was definitely good, excellent even, and I wanted to keep reading and keep reading so the characters would get their happy endings and resolution, but not much happens outside of Mark's struggles. Of course, that is the point of the story, so I don't score against that, but it might not be a book for everyone.
Everyone in this story makes me feel like a couch potato. Mark works out a ridiculous amount of time, though I imagine his profession gives him that sort of time. Still. *whines*
So overall, while I can't give this story a 5-star rating (it wasn't quite that good), this is definitely one I'll be coming back to again.
Requested this book for review.
Be sure to check out my other reviews on my blog.
A sweet romance between a man who is pathologically shy and attempting to step outside his comfort zone to support his sister-in-law, and a dance instructor who has a thing for quiet, muscle-y guys. One of those stories where not much happens and even the drama is limited, but it's perfectly sweet and an enjoyable stroll through their lives. What really brought this story to life is the characters and their earnest emotions and honest helpfulness. A great feel-good story.
Strengths
The characters in this story are honest, good, and fun. I think Claire is my favorite, and even though Seth feels like the least explored character in the story (aside from those not really appearing on screen), I liked him. Their romance was a little thin to me, but considering Mark's struggles, it would have been hard to give much focus to Seth when Mark was so wrapped up in himself. Mark is a wonderful "broken character" because he flops between wanting to change and not wanting to bother, Lisa is a good pregnant woman (aka, not stereotyping), and the mix of all the people together was just a very pleasant experience.
Some of what really caught my eye were the descriptions, specifically of Seth's movements. The author took obvious care in describing his grace and poise, but I think my favorite was the dance routine, which I could easily picture.
This is a sweet story. That's what it's meant to be. Touching, tender with a little bit of sexy. It deals with a harder issue, but doesn't go too crazy exploring it and instead sticks to the person who has the issue and what he's going through. A pleasant read.
Weaknesses
I can't think of a weakness of hand, although this isn't a very enthralling story (per se). It was definitely good, excellent even, and I wanted to keep reading and keep reading so the characters would get their happy endings and resolution, but not much happens outside of Mark's struggles. Of course, that is the point of the story, so I don't score against that, but it might not be a book for everyone.
Everyone in this story makes me feel like a couch potato. Mark works out a ridiculous amount of time, though I imagine his profession gives him that sort of time. Still. *whines*
So overall, while I can't give this story a 5-star rating (it wasn't quite that good), this is definitely one I'll be coming back to again.
Requested this book for review.
Be sure to check out my other reviews on my blog.
March 12, 2012
Very good m/m romance about a closeted online math instructor whose crippling shyness and social anxiety have him living a hermetic life. When his brother is deployed to Iraq, he agrees to take care of his pregnant sister-in-law during the deployment, and finds himself being forced, protesting, out of his shell... not always smoothly. This was a wonderful combination of sweet and serious.
September 11, 2018
New author for me. Sweet coming-out story featuring a chronically shy online math instructor and a dancer. I know some felt this story was too short, but I have to disagree. Yes, a longer story would have been great but the pacing/story development was really well done here and I does indeed feel like a complete story from beginning to end. Of course, a longer story--or an epilogue!-- would have been great, but I can also appreciate her choice to end the story where she does, at a moment brimming with optimism and possibility. :)
April 5, 2012
I liked this book. It was very cute.
I liked how I could relate to Mark because of how human he was. He wasn’t perfect; he had his issues and his fears like you and me. For my part, I could especially relate to his shyness, because although I’m not as shy as he was, I’m still very shy around people I don’t know. His weaknesses and strengths made him very real and easy to grow attached to him, and want him to come out of this story happy.
I liked the slow progression of Mark and Seth’s relationship… They started out by emailing each other, talking a bit about their pasts, and then they moved on to phone calls to finally be together in person. Now, I do have to say that I didn’t quite see the connection between them all the time, because for about 40% (the middle part of the book) they didn’t interact much (except for 3 or 4 emails and a few phone calls). It was more Mark and his sister in law and their friend Claire. I did understand that they were attracted to each other and liked each other a lot, but it was a very big surprise when Mark said I love you, because I couldn’t really understand when did he fall in love with Seth in such a short time when they only talked a few times in person…
Those 40% or so were also pretty slow and boring at times; I found myself putting the book down more often than not.
I would have liked to see more of Seth, because we barely know anything about him even after finishing the book… and it’s the same with Mark too. I don’t feel like I know much about him, except for his anxiety and bits and pieces about his family. I would have preferred more back-story for Mark and Seth’s pasts. But, I did enjoy Mark’s progression during this book. It was a book about him finding himself and accepting who he was. I was rooting for him from the start; I want him to be okay, because he’s beautiful inside like outside, but his social problem kept others from seeing him for who he really was. In the beginning of the book he thought he’d be alone, in the closet, for the rest of his life. But he grew to accept himself the way he was and to come out to his brother. He decided to take the chance with Seth and he did end up happy in the end. I think this story has more of a HFN ending than a HEA, so I would like a sequel, to see how everything turned out for Mark and Seth.
I liked how I could relate to Mark because of how human he was. He wasn’t perfect; he had his issues and his fears like you and me. For my part, I could especially relate to his shyness, because although I’m not as shy as he was, I’m still very shy around people I don’t know. His weaknesses and strengths made him very real and easy to grow attached to him, and want him to come out of this story happy.
I liked the slow progression of Mark and Seth’s relationship… They started out by emailing each other, talking a bit about their pasts, and then they moved on to phone calls to finally be together in person. Now, I do have to say that I didn’t quite see the connection between them all the time, because for about 40% (the middle part of the book) they didn’t interact much (except for 3 or 4 emails and a few phone calls). It was more Mark and his sister in law and their friend Claire. I did understand that they were attracted to each other and liked each other a lot, but it was a very big surprise when Mark said I love you, because I couldn’t really understand when did he fall in love with Seth in such a short time when they only talked a few times in person…
Those 40% or so were also pretty slow and boring at times; I found myself putting the book down more often than not.
I would have liked to see more of Seth, because we barely know anything about him even after finishing the book… and it’s the same with Mark too. I don’t feel like I know much about him, except for his anxiety and bits and pieces about his family. I would have preferred more back-story for Mark and Seth’s pasts. But, I did enjoy Mark’s progression during this book. It was a book about him finding himself and accepting who he was. I was rooting for him from the start; I want him to be okay, because he’s beautiful inside like outside, but his social problem kept others from seeing him for who he really was. In the beginning of the book he thought he’d be alone, in the closet, for the rest of his life. But he grew to accept himself the way he was and to come out to his brother. He decided to take the chance with Seth and he did end up happy in the end. I think this story has more of a HFN ending than a HEA, so I would like a sequel, to see how everything turned out for Mark and Seth.
March 23, 2012
Mark suffers from debilitating shyness. He suffers panic attacks in crowded places. He is only able to converse easily with his brother (Pete), his sister-in-law (Lisa), his dog and then (later) a woman he and Lisa meet in Zumba (Claire). Due to his late homophobic father, he is deeply in the closet. The only sexual contact is with strangers in dark alleys or other anonymous places. After feeling repulsed by this one time too many, he decides to live a life of complete celibacy. His profession is an online professor so he is able to do his job from his computer in his home. While not happy, his life is going on day to day. Then Pete (a physician) is about to be deployed and he asks Mark to come and stay with Lisa (who is very pregnant) while he is away. People assume that Mark is Lisa's husband and he doesn't bother to correct them. Until he meets Seth, Lisa's gay Zumba instructor. After a misunderstanding, Mark sets him straight. What follows is a very unique story. The way that Mark finally gets beyond his shyness is very thoughtful and very well written. Seth is very patient and does not give up on Mark. The way he communicates with Mark without being threatening is perfect.
I totally enjoyed this book. Mark's illness is described where you can almost feel what he is feeling. Seth is very patient even when you can tell that it would be easier to just walk away.
There are a couple of things that could have been added that would have been nice. The ending was perfect for Mark and Seth but I would have liked to have seen resolution for a couple of the secondary characters as well.
Overall an excellent book. This is definitely an author that I would be eager to read more of.
I totally enjoyed this book. Mark's illness is described where you can almost feel what he is feeling. Seth is very patient even when you can tell that it would be easier to just walk away.
There are a couple of things that could have been added that would have been nice. The ending was perfect for Mark and Seth but I would have liked to have seen resolution for a couple of the secondary characters as well.
Overall an excellent book. This is definitely an author that I would be eager to read more of.
August 8, 2019
Dev Bentham writes one of the most ordinary, yet distinctive characters I have ever read about. While they may lead simple, mundane lives, they are also flawed, vulnerable, and therefore relatable. "Moving in Rhythm" is definitely a love story, but it comes with a brilliant cast of secondary characters that complement the storyline with fullness and depth. One of my favourite parts of the book is relationship Mark has with his brother Pete. In his letter to Seth Mark wrote, "Until now we haven’t been really close, except that I can’t imagine life without him and it’s probably the same for him. I’m his scared and silent other half and he’s the brave, outgoing part of my soul. As long as he’s out there I don’t have to feel quite so much of a failure." It's amazing how much can be said in so few words and how it makes you think about the people in your own life.
If you haven't had a chance to read the book, I highly recommend picking it up! You most definitely wont be sorry.
If you haven't had a chance to read the book, I highly recommend picking it up! You most definitely wont be sorry.
April 5, 2012
strong 4*
I so felt with Mark - poor guy to always be wordless when he needs them most. Again - the writing style was very good, the pace of the story was believable, although for me the end felt rushed. I would appreciate a sequel, not only to see how Mark's and Seth's relationship proceeds, but also to learn more about Claire and Lisa.
I so felt with Mark - poor guy to always be wordless when he needs them most. Again - the writing style was very good, the pace of the story was believable, although for me the end felt rushed. I would appreciate a sequel, not only to see how Mark's and Seth's relationship proceeds, but also to learn more about Claire and Lisa.
June 7, 2012
I have to rate this around a 2.5. I so wanted to like this story and I thought I would because the premise was a good idea, but it was completely lacking in execution.
Mark Apolostolos has a severe social disorder that has prompted him to live his life in seclusion, except for the companionship of his dog, Belle. He even manages to have a career teaching online. So, of course, he is unable to form relationships with people other than his family. To experience brief glimpses of intimacy he picks up random guys in bars and has anonymous sex in alleys. No talking, no tenderness, just fun and done. Afterward he is consumed with self-loathing. He finally decides he won't do that to himself anymore and will live the life of a hermit. That all changes when his brother, Pete, begs him to take care of his very pregnant wife, Lisa, during his deployment to Afghanistan with the National Guard.
My biggest problem with this story was that I couldn't connect to the characters. Especially Mark. The prologue, while a big turn off to me (especially mentioning the married men, that already put him in a negative light for me), could have accomplished its goal if there was more showing us his self-loathing than him simply saying it over and over. I felt the triggers of his social disorder seemed convenient. It kind of reminded me of Rajesh Koothrappali on The Big Bang Theory. Except his inability to speak in front of all women (while sober) has been completely consistent throughout five seasons. Whereas Mark apparently can't teach an actual class, so he teaches online. He can talk to guys he doesn't find attractive, but hot guys fluster him. Okay, join the club. He can't be in a room of people without freaking out but he can be in rumba class just fine – until he's thinks about the attractive guy teaching it. He can be at a party, and actually kiss the attractive guy out of the blue, but a lamaze class isn't okay and causes him to freak out. He has problems with pretty much all interpersonal relationships but he befriends Claire with complete ease. I've made some of those sound simplistic, but there appeared to be no consistency to what freaked him out and what didn't. Therefore, I couldn't connect with Mark's problem at all, and I couldn't be as compassionate about it as the story requires. Which is a big problem because it's used as a crutch for all of his issues.
Mark refuses to come out to his family because he's worried about their reactions, but he comes across as completely clueless because there was everything except a giant neon sign flashing above their heads saying they aren't anything resembling homophobic. I don't dismiss how hard coming out is. There is real fear to be had there, . My problem is that he was so myopically focused on his disorder he continually missed the obvious.
I felt like there was a lot of telling us about his problems and the way he lives his life without a lot of showing. He was constantly whining about how "fucked up" he was but I never really felt like he was, just that he kept telling himself that and was fatalistic about it. He basically retreated behind being a victim of his condition to the point he couldn't see what was right in front of his face. He spent the most time with Lisa and Clare but I still didn't feel any connection between the characters. There were glimpses of rapport with Pete but they weren't in contact enough to flesh it out. (I really wish we were given some time with Pete at the beginning before his deployment, it might have helped.)
That disconnect extended to Mark and Seth as well. The relationship between the two was barely cultivated. We got more (and constant) details about Mark's workouts everyday. At a certain point I wanted to light my iPad on fire if I had to read about one more of his freaking workouts. (Of course, if it wasn't the workouts we'd get more detailed grocery shopping lists.) He managed to get closer to Seth than anyone else, but that was only by virtue of the fact that Seth did all the trying. All Mark did was lament his condition and willfully misinterpret Seth's words and actions. With both his family and Seth it seemed like he didn't really want to move forward. It's not the fear I have a problem with, it's the not even trying. It was one step forward, two steps back. Seth is supposed to be different but
I skimmed all the sex. I wasn't interested in the two of them. In the first scene(s) because I was annoyed by the pretending, in the second because I didn't buy the relationship (and really? A sex scene as the very last occurrence in the book?). The end didn't pay off for me at all.
This was a short book, but it took me a long time to read because I couldn't get into it and I was constantly getting irritated with Mark and putting it down.
Mark Apolostolos has a severe social disorder that has prompted him to live his life in seclusion, except for the companionship of his dog, Belle. He even manages to have a career teaching online. So, of course, he is unable to form relationships with people other than his family. To experience brief glimpses of intimacy he picks up random guys in bars and has anonymous sex in alleys. No talking, no tenderness, just fun and done. Afterward he is consumed with self-loathing. He finally decides he won't do that to himself anymore and will live the life of a hermit. That all changes when his brother, Pete, begs him to take care of his very pregnant wife, Lisa, during his deployment to Afghanistan with the National Guard.
My biggest problem with this story was that I couldn't connect to the characters. Especially Mark. The prologue, while a big turn off to me (especially mentioning the married men, that already put him in a negative light for me), could have accomplished its goal if there was more showing us his self-loathing than him simply saying it over and over. I felt the triggers of his social disorder seemed convenient. It kind of reminded me of Rajesh Koothrappali on The Big Bang Theory. Except his inability to speak in front of all women (while sober) has been completely consistent throughout five seasons. Whereas Mark apparently can't teach an actual class, so he teaches online. He can talk to guys he doesn't find attractive, but hot guys fluster him. Okay, join the club. He can't be in a room of people without freaking out but he can be in rumba class just fine – until he's thinks about the attractive guy teaching it. He can be at a party, and actually kiss the attractive guy out of the blue, but a lamaze class isn't okay and causes him to freak out. He has problems with pretty much all interpersonal relationships but he befriends Claire with complete ease. I've made some of those sound simplistic, but there appeared to be no consistency to what freaked him out and what didn't. Therefore, I couldn't connect with Mark's problem at all, and I couldn't be as compassionate about it as the story requires. Which is a big problem because it's used as a crutch for all of his issues.
Mark refuses to come out to his family because he's worried about their reactions, but he comes across as completely clueless because there was everything except a giant neon sign flashing above their heads saying they aren't anything resembling homophobic. I don't dismiss how hard coming out is. There is real fear to be had there, . My problem is that he was so myopically focused on his disorder he continually missed the obvious.
I felt like there was a lot of telling us about his problems and the way he lives his life without a lot of showing. He was constantly whining about how "fucked up" he was but I never really felt like he was, just that he kept telling himself that and was fatalistic about it. He basically retreated behind being a victim of his condition to the point he couldn't see what was right in front of his face. He spent the most time with Lisa and Clare but I still didn't feel any connection between the characters. There were glimpses of rapport with Pete but they weren't in contact enough to flesh it out. (I really wish we were given some time with Pete at the beginning before his deployment, it might have helped.)
That disconnect extended to Mark and Seth as well. The relationship between the two was barely cultivated. We got more (and constant) details about Mark's workouts everyday. At a certain point I wanted to light my iPad on fire if I had to read about one more of his freaking workouts. (Of course, if it wasn't the workouts we'd get more detailed grocery shopping lists.) He managed to get closer to Seth than anyone else, but that was only by virtue of the fact that Seth did all the trying. All Mark did was lament his condition and willfully misinterpret Seth's words and actions. With both his family and Seth it seemed like he didn't really want to move forward. It's not the fear I have a problem with, it's the not even trying. It was one step forward, two steps back. Seth is supposed to be different but
I skimmed all the sex. I wasn't interested in the two of them. In the first scene(s) because I was annoyed by the pretending, in the second because I didn't buy the relationship (and really? A sex scene as the very last occurrence in the book?). The end didn't pay off for me at all.
This was a short book, but it took me a long time to read because I couldn't get into it and I was constantly getting irritated with Mark and putting it down.
February 7, 2018
I'm sorry to leave a bad rating, but this book didn't work for me at all.
It could have had been a nice and interesting story, with coming out issues, the mc's shyness and his anxiety.... but no, it was just falt. too much focus on the sister in law, and she was adorable, really, but not what I wanted to read.
the ending was rushed, and the HFN it seems cold to me, I didn't feel the love between the characters.
I was expecting so much after reading the blurb, and now I'm disappointed.
It could have had been a nice and interesting story, with coming out issues, the mc's shyness and his anxiety.... but no, it was just falt. too much focus on the sister in law, and she was adorable, really, but not what I wanted to read.
the ending was rushed, and the HFN it seems cold to me, I didn't feel the love between the characters.
I was expecting so much after reading the blurb, and now I'm disappointed.
January 3, 2020
I was going to get this book 3 stars, but two things kind of ruined it for me. Firstly, “I love you”was said way too quickly. Secondly, that was an extremely abrupt ending!! What about his brother, what happened there?
April 14, 2012
This review was originally published on my blog Joyfully Jay
Mark Apolostolos suffers from a severe social anxiety disorder. He lives a pretty solitary life, working as an online math professor and spending his free time working out and enjoying the company of his dog Belle. His social life consists only of anonymous bar hookups, those being the only encounters he can handle with men without stumbling with panic and verbal paralysis. But even that is wearing on him and Mark is tired of the sick feeling he gets from the meaningless couplings. At this point he is about ready to resign himself to the life of a hermit.
Things change when Mark gets a call from his brother Pete who is about to be deployed to Afghanistan. Pete asks Mark to stay with his very pregnant wife Lisa and help her through the time without him. Mark is terrified to leave the little cocoon he has built, but determined to be there for his brother and sister-in-law. He moves in with Lisa, helping her around the house and keeping her company during Pete's absence. When Mark agrees to join Lisa at an exercise class at the gym, he is blown away when he meets sexy Zumba instructor Seth Miller. But Mark can barely handle being in the same room as Seth without panicking, let alone start developing a relationship. Things are further complicated by the fact that Mark is not out (not even to himself, as his friend Claire points out). He has never imagined himself having a relationship with anyone so he didn't think it was worth the stress of coming out. And making matters worse, Seth initially assumes Mark is Pete (they look very similar) and assumes Pete is cheating on Lisa when Marks works up the nerve to kiss him.
Mark is incredibly strong and determined and doesn't give up though. A series of baby steps gets him interacting with Seth, and things begin to develop between them sexually and emotionally. Yet for every two steps forward there is a step back, as Mark continues to be plagued by his anxiety disorder. He can't even begin to imagine what the gorgeous, kind, dancer can possibly want with his damaged self. The guys move toward a relationship together, but it will take a lot of strength and patience on both their parts to make things work between them.
Oh, this was such a sweet and lovely story. Mark is such a sympathetic character and Bentham does a great job helping us understand his anxieties and how they control even the smallest aspects of his life. From entering a crowded room, to having a conversation with a cute guy, to even participating in Lisa's birthing class, Mark is often one step away from totally losing it. Yet he is strong and determined and works hard for what he wants. Especially when he moves in with Lisa and his life takes a turn. Suddenly he has friends and a growing relationship with Seth, and despite the struggles he doesn't give up. Mark felt very real to me and I think Bentham really does a great job developing his character.
I also really loved Seth, of course. Hunky and sensitive and caring, he is the perfect guy for Mark (although maybe a smidge too perfect). We see how Seth interacts with his dog Freddie, a rescue who has major socialization issues of his own (there is a lot of doggy goodness in this book). In some ways I found this part a bit too on the nose - Seth has a dog with social issues that he has rescued, now he has a boyfriend with social issues that he is helping -- but I also feel like seeing Seth deal with Freddie gives Mark (and us) the reassurance that this guy can handle what Mark has to dish out. We know even before Mark does that Seth is not going to bail on him for being too much trouble, and that this is a guy who understands and will be there for him.
The book has some nice side characters as well (again maybe a smidge too perfect). Lisa is sweet and sympathetic as a woman about to give birth while her husband is thousands of miles away in a war zone. We can really feel for her as she deals with the daily fear of something happening to Pete on the other side of the world. I also really liked Claire, a friend of both Seth and Lisa's. Claire's partner is also serving overseas, and even with the repeal of DADT, her partner still remains closeted. Claire provides a lot of support for Mark, encouraging him to come to terms with his own sexuality and to have the confidence to come out to his family.
One spot that did bother me was early on when Seth still thinks Mark is his brother Pete. After Mark kisses Seth, Seth tells him, "I don't do bisexuals, okay? It't too painful." Granted, at this point he thinks Mark is a guy cheating on his wife, so he is understandably wary about getting involved with him. But to me this read a lot like an implication that bisexuals are not reliable or capable of being faithful which I think is an unfair stereotype we see too often in romance novels.
Overall I really enjoyed Moving in Rhythm. Really likeable characters dealing with tough issues and a story with a lot of sweetness. Definitely recommended.
Mark Apolostolos suffers from a severe social anxiety disorder. He lives a pretty solitary life, working as an online math professor and spending his free time working out and enjoying the company of his dog Belle. His social life consists only of anonymous bar hookups, those being the only encounters he can handle with men without stumbling with panic and verbal paralysis. But even that is wearing on him and Mark is tired of the sick feeling he gets from the meaningless couplings. At this point he is about ready to resign himself to the life of a hermit.
Things change when Mark gets a call from his brother Pete who is about to be deployed to Afghanistan. Pete asks Mark to stay with his very pregnant wife Lisa and help her through the time without him. Mark is terrified to leave the little cocoon he has built, but determined to be there for his brother and sister-in-law. He moves in with Lisa, helping her around the house and keeping her company during Pete's absence. When Mark agrees to join Lisa at an exercise class at the gym, he is blown away when he meets sexy Zumba instructor Seth Miller. But Mark can barely handle being in the same room as Seth without panicking, let alone start developing a relationship. Things are further complicated by the fact that Mark is not out (not even to himself, as his friend Claire points out). He has never imagined himself having a relationship with anyone so he didn't think it was worth the stress of coming out. And making matters worse, Seth initially assumes Mark is Pete (they look very similar) and assumes Pete is cheating on Lisa when Marks works up the nerve to kiss him.
Mark is incredibly strong and determined and doesn't give up though. A series of baby steps gets him interacting with Seth, and things begin to develop between them sexually and emotionally. Yet for every two steps forward there is a step back, as Mark continues to be plagued by his anxiety disorder. He can't even begin to imagine what the gorgeous, kind, dancer can possibly want with his damaged self. The guys move toward a relationship together, but it will take a lot of strength and patience on both their parts to make things work between them.
Oh, this was such a sweet and lovely story. Mark is such a sympathetic character and Bentham does a great job helping us understand his anxieties and how they control even the smallest aspects of his life. From entering a crowded room, to having a conversation with a cute guy, to even participating in Lisa's birthing class, Mark is often one step away from totally losing it. Yet he is strong and determined and works hard for what he wants. Especially when he moves in with Lisa and his life takes a turn. Suddenly he has friends and a growing relationship with Seth, and despite the struggles he doesn't give up. Mark felt very real to me and I think Bentham really does a great job developing his character.
I also really loved Seth, of course. Hunky and sensitive and caring, he is the perfect guy for Mark (although maybe a smidge too perfect). We see how Seth interacts with his dog Freddie, a rescue who has major socialization issues of his own (there is a lot of doggy goodness in this book). In some ways I found this part a bit too on the nose - Seth has a dog with social issues that he has rescued, now he has a boyfriend with social issues that he is helping -- but I also feel like seeing Seth deal with Freddie gives Mark (and us) the reassurance that this guy can handle what Mark has to dish out. We know even before Mark does that Seth is not going to bail on him for being too much trouble, and that this is a guy who understands and will be there for him.
The book has some nice side characters as well (again maybe a smidge too perfect). Lisa is sweet and sympathetic as a woman about to give birth while her husband is thousands of miles away in a war zone. We can really feel for her as she deals with the daily fear of something happening to Pete on the other side of the world. I also really liked Claire, a friend of both Seth and Lisa's. Claire's partner is also serving overseas, and even with the repeal of DADT, her partner still remains closeted. Claire provides a lot of support for Mark, encouraging him to come to terms with his own sexuality and to have the confidence to come out to his family.
One spot that did bother me was early on when Seth still thinks Mark is his brother Pete. After Mark kisses Seth, Seth tells him, "I don't do bisexuals, okay? It't too painful." Granted, at this point he thinks Mark is a guy cheating on his wife, so he is understandably wary about getting involved with him. But to me this read a lot like an implication that bisexuals are not reliable or capable of being faithful which I think is an unfair stereotype we see too often in romance novels.
Overall I really enjoyed Moving in Rhythm. Really likeable characters dealing with tough issues and a story with a lot of sweetness. Definitely recommended.
May 13, 2012
This review was originally written for The Romance Reviews and can also be found there.
You've guessed it – mention dancers and I'm picking up the book. While this book wasn't quite what the title promised, the aspect of Mark's social awkwardness and his slow venture into something more was so much like dance itself that I didn't really mind missing those expected sexy body twists.
Mark is an online math teacher, a man whose best friend is his dog and who can't quite manage social interactions with strangers. His shyness and the fact that he turns into a stuttering idiot when in the company of anyone outside his comfort zone is something he's receiving professional help for. But it isn't something that actually stops his panic attacks or helps him have any other type of sex other than the dark-alley-corner kind.
With his brother leaving for war and no one else around to take care of his pregnant wife, Mark agrees to help and finds himself in a dance class, staring at the perfect ass of the dance instructor Seth. While good looking, Mark can't spit out coherent words in the company of someone he finds attractive to save his life and it doesn't take him nearly as long as I thought it would to find himself in an awkward situation without an obvious way out.
I like to read about shy characters as well as disabled ones and Mark definitely falls into that category because his inability to interact with people is both crippling as well as defeating. While a very nice and kind man, the isolation has turned Mark into a very insecure man who has accepted a lonely life without any hopes of ever getting things that he wants and needs.
That was what I liked the most about this book, the way Mark found his way out of the cocoon of isolation and took the step forward toward something he so deeply wanted. Since the book is from Mark's point of view I never got to know Seth well, but he was interesting and kind enough to fit well with Mark.
The troubles I had while reading weren't many, but I figure I should mention them. It takes quite a while for the story to reach some type of a point, and once it does, the ending seemed pretty much around the corner. While I do like long beginnings with much detail, I expect the rest of the story to follow the same tone and live up to the buildup. I can't say I found that in this book, and ultimately it somewhat spoiled the experience for me.
Another thing that bothered me was the author's decision to make Mark's issues a matter of his sexual orientation. I could understand that his inability to talk to others and to fear crowds was a condition he couldn't help, in fact I really liked that part, but the insistence of everyone around him that his issues were a matter of keeping quiet about his nature stung even me. I thought him grown up enough to be able to tell the difference and quite honestly saw everyone around him who pushed him as bullies. In that regard, the author lost me a bit, because I liked the original Mark, where his problems were almost palpable and where he was much more real that the individual he eventually became.
So while not quite what I was expecting, the issues this book dealt with were more than a pleasant surprise and something I thoroughly enjoyed. The characters were firmly set in their paths, giving the reader enough spark to stay interested and the plot serious enough to set this book apart from a sea of others. There is something special about it that will intrigue people for sure and I for one can't wait for this author's next book.
You've guessed it – mention dancers and I'm picking up the book. While this book wasn't quite what the title promised, the aspect of Mark's social awkwardness and his slow venture into something more was so much like dance itself that I didn't really mind missing those expected sexy body twists.
Mark is an online math teacher, a man whose best friend is his dog and who can't quite manage social interactions with strangers. His shyness and the fact that he turns into a stuttering idiot when in the company of anyone outside his comfort zone is something he's receiving professional help for. But it isn't something that actually stops his panic attacks or helps him have any other type of sex other than the dark-alley-corner kind.
With his brother leaving for war and no one else around to take care of his pregnant wife, Mark agrees to help and finds himself in a dance class, staring at the perfect ass of the dance instructor Seth. While good looking, Mark can't spit out coherent words in the company of someone he finds attractive to save his life and it doesn't take him nearly as long as I thought it would to find himself in an awkward situation without an obvious way out.
I like to read about shy characters as well as disabled ones and Mark definitely falls into that category because his inability to interact with people is both crippling as well as defeating. While a very nice and kind man, the isolation has turned Mark into a very insecure man who has accepted a lonely life without any hopes of ever getting things that he wants and needs.
That was what I liked the most about this book, the way Mark found his way out of the cocoon of isolation and took the step forward toward something he so deeply wanted. Since the book is from Mark's point of view I never got to know Seth well, but he was interesting and kind enough to fit well with Mark.
The troubles I had while reading weren't many, but I figure I should mention them. It takes quite a while for the story to reach some type of a point, and once it does, the ending seemed pretty much around the corner. While I do like long beginnings with much detail, I expect the rest of the story to follow the same tone and live up to the buildup. I can't say I found that in this book, and ultimately it somewhat spoiled the experience for me.
Another thing that bothered me was the author's decision to make Mark's issues a matter of his sexual orientation. I could understand that his inability to talk to others and to fear crowds was a condition he couldn't help, in fact I really liked that part, but the insistence of everyone around him that his issues were a matter of keeping quiet about his nature stung even me. I thought him grown up enough to be able to tell the difference and quite honestly saw everyone around him who pushed him as bullies. In that regard, the author lost me a bit, because I liked the original Mark, where his problems were almost palpable and where he was much more real that the individual he eventually became.
So while not quite what I was expecting, the issues this book dealt with were more than a pleasant surprise and something I thoroughly enjoyed. The characters were firmly set in their paths, giving the reader enough spark to stay interested and the plot serious enough to set this book apart from a sea of others. There is something special about it that will intrigue people for sure and I for one can't wait for this author's next book.
March 28, 2012
I might almost classify Moving in Rhythm as a novel, rather than a romance. Not that the love story or love scenes are disappointing, but the story is largely about the personal emotional journey of one person, Mark, as he struggles with debilitating social anxiety and with coming out.
Mark has never been able to have a relationship or even tell his closest family members that he's gay; a female friend has been his unwitting beard for years. (His guilt over her is yet another thing for Mark to feel bad about.) As the book opens, Mark is having one more meaningless encounter with an uncaring stranger, which is such a joyless, soul-killing experience, he decides he's better off being celibate.
When Mark's brother Pete is deployed, Mark is called on to stay with his pregnant sister-in-law, Lisa. Accompanying her to zumba class, he meets two people who will be very important to him: Claire, a lesbian who's familiar with the pains of being closeted, and Seth, the very attractive teacher of the class. Mistaken for Lisa's husband at first, Mark is able to relax a little with Seth, since nothing could possibly happen between them. But Mark's mixed signals towards Seth inevitably lead to the truth, and to the cautious forming of a relationship, while Claire helps him take the first steps towards honesty and pride.
My main impression of Moving in Rhythm is a feeling of great tenderness. Although it's an emotional story, I wouldn't call it angsty; the writing style is low-key and realistic, rather than highly dramatic. At some points, I'd say it's even too low-key, with a lack of tension in the dialogue and between the characters. But I was caught up in Mark's painful inner life, and enchanted by the sweetness and generosity of Seth, who comes up with some very creative ways to get around Mark's paralyzing anxiety. (These really keep the sex scenes fun.) It reminded me in some ways of mainstream romances in which the hero has to gently woo the frightened heroine, and it was interesting to see how the author made this work, so I didn't wonder, "why on earth doesn't he just give up on this guy?" It might have been nice to have seen some of the book from Seth's point of view, since he's such an attractive character, but it wasn't really necessary.
I wasn't entirely thrilled with how anxiety, as an issue, is portrayed here. Although Mark is in therapy, he's reluctant to try any anti-anxiety medications, because he's worried about the side-effects. Not all medications cause side-effects for every person, and there are also non-medication treatments for anxiety, none of which he seemed to explore. I love that Mark found the right person for him, but true love isn't generally a cure-all for mental or emotional disorders. But since it tends to be seen as one in 95% of the other romance out there, I can't really make a big stink about it here. And coming out to his family is also shown as being very important to Mark's healing, which I can certainly buy.
Although I'm tempted to grade the book down a bit for the lack of tension, I really did enjoy reading it nonetheless, so I'm giving it 4 out of 5 stars.
(review copy provided by netGalley)
Mark has never been able to have a relationship or even tell his closest family members that he's gay; a female friend has been his unwitting beard for years. (His guilt over her is yet another thing for Mark to feel bad about.) As the book opens, Mark is having one more meaningless encounter with an uncaring stranger, which is such a joyless, soul-killing experience, he decides he's better off being celibate.
When Mark's brother Pete is deployed, Mark is called on to stay with his pregnant sister-in-law, Lisa. Accompanying her to zumba class, he meets two people who will be very important to him: Claire, a lesbian who's familiar with the pains of being closeted, and Seth, the very attractive teacher of the class. Mistaken for Lisa's husband at first, Mark is able to relax a little with Seth, since nothing could possibly happen between them. But Mark's mixed signals towards Seth inevitably lead to the truth, and to the cautious forming of a relationship, while Claire helps him take the first steps towards honesty and pride.
My main impression of Moving in Rhythm is a feeling of great tenderness. Although it's an emotional story, I wouldn't call it angsty; the writing style is low-key and realistic, rather than highly dramatic. At some points, I'd say it's even too low-key, with a lack of tension in the dialogue and between the characters. But I was caught up in Mark's painful inner life, and enchanted by the sweetness and generosity of Seth, who comes up with some very creative ways to get around Mark's paralyzing anxiety. (These really keep the sex scenes fun.) It reminded me in some ways of mainstream romances in which the hero has to gently woo the frightened heroine, and it was interesting to see how the author made this work, so I didn't wonder, "why on earth doesn't he just give up on this guy?" It might have been nice to have seen some of the book from Seth's point of view, since he's such an attractive character, but it wasn't really necessary.
I wasn't entirely thrilled with how anxiety, as an issue, is portrayed here. Although Mark is in therapy, he's reluctant to try any anti-anxiety medications, because he's worried about the side-effects. Not all medications cause side-effects for every person, and there are also non-medication treatments for anxiety, none of which he seemed to explore. I love that Mark found the right person for him, but true love isn't generally a cure-all for mental or emotional disorders. But since it tends to be seen as one in 95% of the other romance out there, I can't really make a big stink about it here. And coming out to his family is also shown as being very important to Mark's healing, which I can certainly buy.
Although I'm tempted to grade the book down a bit for the lack of tension, I really did enjoy reading it nonetheless, so I'm giving it 4 out of 5 stars.
(review copy provided by netGalley)
October 17, 2014
This might be the most read of Dev's stories, but to me it doesn't match up to the others. So, for those who weren't super impressed by this one, don't let it put you off trying the others.
I think my main problem was the lack of tension and the resolution of the main conflict of the story. The main character was paralysed by his anxiety (at times) but this was never really dealt with.
There was a short reference to the fact his father always disapproved of everything he did and gave him a hard time. I think this aspect could have been expanded much more. Perhaps if his brother had come home and they discussed this, that might have worked. But the cause of his problem needed more book time. IMHO!! :)
Because he was so shy with Seth around, and hence scenes with them were either abbreviated or one sided, perhaps story development wise, exploring this could have come in conversation with him as their relationship progressed.
Having to rise to the occasion and overcome fears in order to help someone else when needed is one of the best ways to achieve self worth. Putting someone else's needs before yours. These are aspects that could have been built on.
Plus possibly spelling out how he gained more of an understanding of his own condition by watching Seth deal with his dog. Mark never made friends with it. That fact could have been expanded on. Why couldn't he? Why didn't he?
He panicked when he caught sight of the dog after an intimate moment. Maybe if he had worked through that (with Seth) instead of shovelling it under the carpet as just generally "his condition" that might have helped.
The author is noted for tackling characters with backgrounds that have led to them having issues to overcome. Here's how Wikipedia describes what I gather Mark's problem was: http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Avoidant...
Perhaps more time could have been spent on tnis.
I'm not sure the keeping his gayness secret from Lisa really added much to the plot. Her being oblivious to his social problem was more of an eyebrow raiser for me. Similarly his brother knew all along.
What I like about most of the author's other books is the way her characters are gay and okay with that. This book had to deal with coming out issues, his anxiety, as well as all the plot dramas accompanying secondary characters. An uneasy mix.
I repeat. Her other books (especially the re-edited ones) are much more satisfying. Give them a try.
I think my main problem was the lack of tension and the resolution of the main conflict of the story. The main character was paralysed by his anxiety (at times) but this was never really dealt with.
There was a short reference to the fact his father always disapproved of everything he did and gave him a hard time. I think this aspect could have been expanded much more. Perhaps if his brother had come home and they discussed this, that might have worked. But the cause of his problem needed more book time. IMHO!! :)
Because he was so shy with Seth around, and hence scenes with them were either abbreviated or one sided, perhaps story development wise, exploring this could have come in conversation with him as their relationship progressed.
Having to rise to the occasion and overcome fears in order to help someone else when needed is one of the best ways to achieve self worth. Putting someone else's needs before yours. These are aspects that could have been built on.
Plus possibly spelling out how he gained more of an understanding of his own condition by watching Seth deal with his dog. Mark never made friends with it. That fact could have been expanded on. Why couldn't he? Why didn't he?
He panicked when he caught sight of the dog after an intimate moment. Maybe if he had worked through that (with Seth) instead of shovelling it under the carpet as just generally "his condition" that might have helped.
The author is noted for tackling characters with backgrounds that have led to them having issues to overcome. Here's how Wikipedia describes what I gather Mark's problem was: http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Avoidant...
Perhaps more time could have been spent on tnis.
I'm not sure the keeping his gayness secret from Lisa really added much to the plot. Her being oblivious to his social problem was more of an eyebrow raiser for me. Similarly his brother knew all along.
What I like about most of the author's other books is the way her characters are gay and okay with that. This book had to deal with coming out issues, his anxiety, as well as all the plot dramas accompanying secondary characters. An uneasy mix.
I repeat. Her other books (especially the re-edited ones) are much more satisfying. Give them a try.
March 23, 2012
Mark may look the part of a sexy, alpha male but he doesn't act like it. With debilitating shyness, Mark can not function in many social settings. He lives alone with his dog and closes himself off from people. When his brother is deployed from Iraq and asks Mark to move in and take care of his pregnant wife, Mark's lonely life changes.
The moment I started reading Moving in Rhythm, I was drawn into Mark's lonely world. I don't know what else to call it. Other than his dog, Belle, Mark has pretty much cut himself off from the outside world. After having unfulfilling sexual experiences in back alleys, Mark decides that he can live a celibate life. That being celibate is better than having degrading back alley sex without any contact, feelings or words. Mark wants to be in a relationship but because of his shyness, it makes it nearly impossible for him to communicate with someone he's attracted to. When Mark meets Seth, the Zumba instructor at his sister-in-law's gym, Mark is instantly attracted and rendered even more speechless. There's no way he can continue to accompany his sister-in-law to Zumba and hide his attraction to Seth.
Throughout the novella, I was instantly sympathetic to Mark. We are taken on a journey of Mark's battle with his shyness and anxiety and his battle to overcome. There were plenty of times that I felt Mark's frustration at not being able to communicate with Seth and I'm sure there were a few times I wanted to yell "Just talk to him!". But if only it was that easy.
I loved how Seth gradually made Mark comfortable enough to talk to him. Seth is used to dealing with skittish animals and is very patient and loving with Mark. Because most of the story is about Mark and his issues and feelings, we don't learn enough about Seth. Seth is an interesting character that I wanted more back-story.
Not only is Mark extremely shy but he's also in the closet. Mark has many issues that he must confront and deal with and thankfully, he is surrounded by a loving and supportive family (even if he doesn't realize it at first).
Moving in Rhythm is a sweet love story. I was engrossed from the beginning and was rooting for Mark until the very end. I thoroughly enjoyed this novella and look forward to reading more from the author.
B-
The moment I started reading Moving in Rhythm, I was drawn into Mark's lonely world. I don't know what else to call it. Other than his dog, Belle, Mark has pretty much cut himself off from the outside world. After having unfulfilling sexual experiences in back alleys, Mark decides that he can live a celibate life. That being celibate is better than having degrading back alley sex without any contact, feelings or words. Mark wants to be in a relationship but because of his shyness, it makes it nearly impossible for him to communicate with someone he's attracted to. When Mark meets Seth, the Zumba instructor at his sister-in-law's gym, Mark is instantly attracted and rendered even more speechless. There's no way he can continue to accompany his sister-in-law to Zumba and hide his attraction to Seth.
Throughout the novella, I was instantly sympathetic to Mark. We are taken on a journey of Mark's battle with his shyness and anxiety and his battle to overcome. There were plenty of times that I felt Mark's frustration at not being able to communicate with Seth and I'm sure there were a few times I wanted to yell "Just talk to him!". But if only it was that easy.
I loved how Seth gradually made Mark comfortable enough to talk to him. Seth is used to dealing with skittish animals and is very patient and loving with Mark. Because most of the story is about Mark and his issues and feelings, we don't learn enough about Seth. Seth is an interesting character that I wanted more back-story.
Not only is Mark extremely shy but he's also in the closet. Mark has many issues that he must confront and deal with and thankfully, he is surrounded by a loving and supportive family (even if he doesn't realize it at first).
Moving in Rhythm is a sweet love story. I was engrossed from the beginning and was rooting for Mark until the very end. I thoroughly enjoyed this novella and look forward to reading more from the author.
B-
March 17, 2012
Mark is a man plagued by crippling shyness. He can't function in large groups and he can't hold a coherent conversation with any man he is truly attracted to. As a result, he's never had a real relationship. He's not even out of the closet. His life is solitary and kind of sad, until his brother asks him to come take care of his pregnant wife while he is deployed overseas.
Shortly after the move, Mark's sister-in-law drags him to a Zumba class, where he first meets Seth, the sexy instructor. Mark is so attracted to the man, he can barely function. That and a series of misunderstandings keep them at a distance, until Mark finds a way to share the truth about himself with Seth. From there, we watch them slowly form a relationship.
It really is a sweet love story. Seth is amazingly patient with Mark as he tries to overcome his insecurities. Don't get me wrong --the love scenes are hot-- but Mark's personal journey and the evolution of his relationship with Seth are the real focus of the story. Even within the confines of a short story, I felt like we really got to know both men and that their courtship never felt rushed. (Plus, I always give authors extra points for realism in sexual situations.) Well done. Almost 4 stars.
*ARC Provided by NetGalley
Shortly after the move, Mark's sister-in-law drags him to a Zumba class, where he first meets Seth, the sexy instructor. Mark is so attracted to the man, he can barely function. That and a series of misunderstandings keep them at a distance, until Mark finds a way to share the truth about himself with Seth. From there, we watch them slowly form a relationship.
It really is a sweet love story. Seth is amazingly patient with Mark as he tries to overcome his insecurities. Don't get me wrong --the love scenes are hot-- but Mark's personal journey and the evolution of his relationship with Seth are the real focus of the story. Even within the confines of a short story, I felt like we really got to know both men and that their courtship never felt rushed. (Plus, I always give authors extra points for realism in sexual situations.) Well done. Almost 4 stars.
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March 23, 2012
I liked this. It was cute and Mark was a very easy character to root for.
One of the things I liked most about it was the female characters. They all seemed real - no crazy evil female villains here. I really liked Mark's relationship with the lesbian friend Claire and how she helped him deal with coming out. I liked that both Lisa and Claire had their own problems and that sometimes dealing with their problems helped Mark and sometimes they set him back.
I was a little annoyed by a few small errors in the story, such as "duel" instead of "dual," a few names being mixed up, and the way Mark's last name seemed to be spelled differently every time I came across it. But since I never could figure out how to pronounce his last name I just ignored it and moved on.
I also sort of wished we had more points of view than just Mark's. I would have liked to know more of how Seth saw him, and why Seth fell in love with him. Still, I felt Mark's perspective was very convincing and I enjoyed reading about him a lot. I also really enjoyed all their emails and phone conversations and the way they slowly got closer to each other over the course of the book.
One of the things I liked most about it was the female characters. They all seemed real - no crazy evil female villains here. I really liked Mark's relationship with the lesbian friend Claire and how she helped him deal with coming out. I liked that both Lisa and Claire had their own problems and that sometimes dealing with their problems helped Mark and sometimes they set him back.
I was a little annoyed by a few small errors in the story, such as "duel" instead of "dual," a few names being mixed up, and the way Mark's last name seemed to be spelled differently every time I came across it. But since I never could figure out how to pronounce his last name I just ignored it and moved on.
I also sort of wished we had more points of view than just Mark's. I would have liked to know more of how Seth saw him, and why Seth fell in love with him. Still, I felt Mark's perspective was very convincing and I enjoyed reading about him a lot. I also really enjoyed all their emails and phone conversations and the way they slowly got closer to each other over the course of the book.
March 31, 2012
1.5 STARS
Umm? I sorta didn't like it. I noticed in some reviews the phrase "cute" was used in referring to this read. To me "cute" is what you say when you are confronted with an ugly baby, but you don't want to be rude to the parent by telling them so. This read is not quite like the writing of a Siren Pub. Novel, nor does it have the big word or big story of more solid reads at Dsp and Looseid. For someone who knows of anxiety, it was not conveyed in a realistic way, in my opinion. I did not feel for Mark or his distress in the social situations. There were also a couple of "where the hell did that come from" (a grabby Mark in the kitchen) moments. The sex was not notable and "sweat" was a word that cropped up enough for me during those moments to distract me. Rent it(when that's possible), or borrow it. IMO, not worth the cash.
Umm? I sorta didn't like it. I noticed in some reviews the phrase "cute" was used in referring to this read. To me "cute" is what you say when you are confronted with an ugly baby, but you don't want to be rude to the parent by telling them so. This read is not quite like the writing of a Siren Pub. Novel, nor does it have the big word or big story of more solid reads at Dsp and Looseid. For someone who knows of anxiety, it was not conveyed in a realistic way, in my opinion. I did not feel for Mark or his distress in the social situations. There were also a couple of "where the hell did that come from" (a grabby Mark in the kitchen) moments. The sex was not notable and "sweat" was a word that cropped up enough for me during those moments to distract me. Rent it(when that's possible), or borrow it. IMO, not worth the cash.
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