The only thing worse than hearing one of your friends brag about his acid trips is hearing two of your friends brag about their adorable baby. Similarly, the only kind of autobiographical comic I dread reading more than the teenage drug fiend story is the "let's have a baby" story. The hipster and the bourgeoisie are the twin horns of lame, and these two emblematic narratives are like their spoor, left behind when they pass.
So Peter Kuper's Stop Forgetting to Remember focuses on drug use and babies, which is on the face of it a big problem. It also contains a "how I lost my virginity story" and a "I'll teach that bitch who didn't love me a lesson" story, all tied together by a chatty narrator ("Okay, okay! We get the picture! Jesus, don't you ever shut up??" one character complains. "Can't you see I'm trying to sleep?"); these are all red flags.
(Of course Stop Forgetting to Remember isn't technically autobiographical; the protagonist is named Walter Kurtz (a nod to both Harvey Kurtzman and Jacob "Jack Kirby" Kurtzberg as well as Walt Kelly), and Seth Tobocman is named Saul, etc. There may be other minor differences that those familiar with the minutiae of Kuper's life can seek out, but, really, Kurtz is an authorial stand-in if there ever was one.)
Adding to the problem is the fact that Kuper has incorporated a couple of older pieces into the text. When Pynchon did this in V., he rewrote the interpolated story so its style would match the main narrative, but revising comics is really hard and time-consuming, and so the old material tends to stick out like a sore thumb, especially since it's not always well-integrated. The Richie Bush parody from World War Three Illustrated seems particularly shoehorned in, but then even a lot of the new material is awkwardly shoehorned in.
If all of this makes Stop Forgetting to Remember sound terrible--well, it's better than it sounds. Kuper's storytelling is strong, he's just telling the wrong stories. And his art, although uneven, is at its best very striking; his distinctive woodcut style is abstracted enough that it lets Kuper slip in surreal or cartoony moments when it suits his purpose. When running like a scared rabbit, a character turns into a rabbit. When dizzy and confused, a character turns into a dreidel. This sounds rather simplistic and overly literal, but its execution is charming.
In the end, the real problem with Stop Forgetting to Remember (in addition to all the ones enumerated above) is, I think, one of distance. Kuper's neither removed enough from his experiences that he can look back dispassionately and analyze it (as, say, Chester Brown does) nor close enough to them to make us feel that the emotions are happening now and the trauma is our own (as, say, Lynda Barry does). The in between stage just feels kind of...awkward. The best part of the collection is probably the account of Kurtz's experiment with bisexuality, if only because straight men having gay sex is still taboo enough to require some courage to write about, which creates an interesting dynamic the rest of the book lacks. The fact that this portion of the book ends with a horrible girlfriend crawling like a worm, even turning into a little cartoon worm as she grovels over the phone--well, this is typical of the maturity level of the book.