The best book of my 2025 reading list so far. I’ve enjoyed some of Danielle Allen’s other work — Education and Equality, Justice by Means of Democracy — and this one is the best yet (though the oldest of the three).
Danielle Allen begins her book with a problem: distrust among citizens, especially interracial distrust. Allen argues that distrust is ultimately corrosive for democracy, because if a minority (whether a political minority or a racial minority) does not believe they will ever be a meaningful part of decision-making, they will leave the polity entirely. Such distrust enables destruction of the polity—why pursue nonviolent means of change, for example, if you know that no one will listen to you?
Many liberal political theorists would begin with theories of institutional change, but Allen is not primarily concerned with institutions in this book. Rather, Allen is concerned with everyday interactions between citizens. She sees interracial distrust as a symptom of a broader problem of citizenship: we do not have habits of citizenship that convert distrust into trust. Instead, we have habits of citizenship that begin at an early age: “Don’t talk to strangers.” Distrust your fellow citizens.
Why is that the case? And what habits of citizenship might be possible if we took trust seriously?
In part 1, Allen starts her argument reckoning with the reality of democratic loss, beginning with a close reading of the Central High School integration fight in 1957. Integration anxiety was a sign that the United States had entered into a new “founding.” Each “founding” of the United States increased the reach of the polity: Reconstruction (universal white male suffrage), women’s suffrage (all white people can vote), and the Civil Rights movement from roughly 1954 (Brown v Board) to 1965 (Voting Rights Act). But to understand interracial distrust is to understand that, pre-1954, Black Americans and white Americans had habits of citizenship with unspoken rules of domination. Elizabeth Eckford’s harassment at Central High exemplified these habits of citizenship (pictured below).
Allen reads in Eckford’s story a decision of extraordinary sacrifice, and argues that sacrifice — a loss that someone endured for the sake of maintaining a community — is a central democratic fact. All democracy involves losing out on some of your preferred outcomes. The key task of a just democracy is to ensure that it’s not the same people who lose over and over again. This inequity is precisely what dominating habits of citizenship enable. And extraordinary sacrifice can be a way to jolt the polity and generate trust and solidarity where there is none — which was exactly the result of the Little Rock standoff. It was the old and dominating habits of citizenship on full display, enabled by the Black citizens’ sacrifice, that turned the tide of public opinion.
Why do we have such bad habits of citizenship? In part 2 of her book, Allen argues that the idealization of unanimity — a long liberal tradition from Locke and Hobbes to Habermas — is at the root of our bad habits. Idealizing unaniminty excises uncertainty and subjectivity from citizenship. Allen says that we idealized unanimity because we thought it was the only way to be “one people.” She traces this idea back to Thomas Hobbes, who famously sought to define “the people” in his book Leviathan. The classic problem was expressed by Oliver Cromwell: “I am much for government by consent as any man, but where shall we find that consent?”
The “people,” in other words, is an unstable concept; we differ in our opinions and perspectives. How can “the people” rule if “the people” don’t speak in one voice? Hobbes suggested that the “people” yield their power to institutions, and institutions create unanimity. (Hobbes had in mind the institution of the sovereign. The cover of Leviathan famously features a crowned man holding a sword. The torso of the man is made up of the many faces of the masses, turned toward him. The image is clear: The sovereign IS the “people.”) The institutions of government express a singular will that rules the masses—the very unanimity that can lead to civic stability. Distrust and dissent are unfortunate but can be dealt with through repression, because the alternative (according to Hobbes) is worse: the brutality of civil war and the “state of nature.” We can see here the root of the dominating habits of citizenship at the core of Jim Crow: Winners (in this case, white people) dictate the rules, and losers are brutally repressed for the sake of maintaining stability and unaniminity.
Lest you think this is a technical aside, Hobbes’s ideas have staying power. In fact, they are embedded in the very motto of the United States: “E Pluribus Unum.” Out of many, one. However, Allen suggests an alternative framing. We should seek to make our country whole, not one. The people should not be perfectly homogenous (like Hobbes’ Leviathan), but rather imperfectly coherent and integrated. Allen gives the example of harmonizing singers: they are singing different notes and have different ranges, but their heterogenity makes a coherent whole.
The goal in a democracy, then, is not to come to a perfect agreement. Rather, Allen argues that we should aim to maximize agreement and then attend carefully to the “dissonant remainders” so that distrust can be converted into trust. Rather than idealizing unanimity, we should idealize the “proper treatment of disagreement,” ways of relating to one another that can lead to trust. The art of treating disagreement properly, Allen says, goes by the name of rhetoric. Rhetoric is how we express what we think of our fellow citizens and whether we will engage in reciprocity—showing willingness to sacrifice some power for the sake of the community’s wholeness.
In part 3, Allen returns to the twentieth century—specifically, Ralph Ellison—to describe what distinguishes legitimate from illegitimate sacrifice. After all, for sacrifice to make the community whole, it needs to be reciprocal. Those who lose out should win at some point, and those who win should lose out at some point. The problem in American history is that white Americans consistently won out at the expense of Black Americans. Yet there is a lesson on citizenship here: Sometimes sacrifice can obligate reciprocity. “Agree ‘em to death,” says the grandfather of the Invisible Man in Ralph Ellison’s novel. Reciprocal sacrifice, says Allen, can lead to what Ellison calls “brotherhood.”
Allen calls brotherhood by a different term and reads Aristotle closely to get there: “political friendship.” Specifically, she calls for political friendship based on “equitable self-interest.” Where rilvalrous self-interest would seek to get ahead, wanting to get more than one’s fair share, equitable self-interest means that a person moderates their interests (that is, sacrifices) for the sake of preserving the relationship with others. Equity is a key word here. Political friendship depends upon equity: that is, it rests upon equality, agency, and reciprocity. Just as a friend will treat you as an equal, respect your choices, and return your favors, political friendship will do the same for other members of the polity. And where there is distrust, a “signal sacrifice” like that of Elizabeth Eckford can be the catalyst for converting distrust into trust.
At the end of the book, Allen returns to rhetoric as the key means of political friendship. Unlike actual friendship, political friendship does not mean that you know and like the other person. It is not an emotion, but a practice: political friendship describes a default way of acting toward another person, and rhetoric provides those means of action. To be a political friend, you must provide logical reasons for a course of action. But in those times where there are logical arguments on both sides (and there are many of those times), you must show that you have trustworthy character. You can build trust in your character by showing how you have acted in the past and describing what ethical principles guide you. And, perhaps most crucially, political friends negotiate the negative emotions of the polity, emotions like pain, anger, and fear. To be a political friend is to convert those emotions into goodwill, by accurately naming those emotions and assuaging them through a willingness to share power or moderate your own interests.
Rhetoric provides the toolbox for these new habits of citizenship. Where the old habits idolized unanimity and led to domination, the new habits prioritize accommodating disagreement and preserving trust. This new habit of citizenship, Allen writes, rejects the old adage: “Don’t talk to strangers.” That, she argues, is a lesson for four-year-olds, not citizens: “Eyes that drop to the ground when they bump up against a stranger’s gaze belong to those still in their political minority…. The more fearful we citizens are of speaking to strangers, the more we are docile children and not prospective presidents; the greater the distance between the president and us, the more we are subjects, not citizens. Talking to strangers is a way of claiming one’s political majority” (p. 161).
We may not be able to fix our democratic institutions, at least not right away. But as Allen shows us, we can cultivate different habits of citizenship, habits that take pain, loss, and sacrifice seriously. We can do our best to talk to strangers.