It's a cliche, but I sometimes judge a book by its cover. This one offers a clever design with the words "Cat" and "...Being in Touch with Life" in the title. I'm an almost single girl with three cats, trudging through the rough terrain of chronic illness and divorce. Like the cats, the book was coming home with me.
Self-help books are anathema to me. I'm sure they help many people; unfortunately, dusty stacks of said books purchased by my thrice-married mother left an indelible impression. Montaigne was a famous French philosopher, though. He lived through bloody religious civil wars in 16th century France. He felt the combined loss of his father, brother, best friend, and first-born child keenly. This man knew pain and suffering (having also inherited his father's kidney stone condition).
Montaigne's sense of loss and grief proved so great, in fact, that he retired as magistrate to live out his days in his tower library. At this time, a Christian life was one of stoic struggle while alive, happiness and peace occurring only after death. And when Montaigne begins writing what becomes his famous Essays, he seemed content with that arrangement.
I gather the role of shut-in, isolated from the rest of the house (and his family), bored and unsettled Montaigne. Stoicism, he realized, was not for him. Simply put, he decides life is meant to be lived, not squandered waiting for...well, for what? Why be given this life and not enjoy it? He even turns the agonizing pain of a kidney stone passing into a positive, productive event. His surmise--without the pain, how can one appreciate the absence of it?
Despite the pain, Montaigne decides a European tour is in order, as he discovers within himself a burgeoning curiosity about the world in which he lives. For a man of the 1500's, he develops pretty modern ideas on religion, sex, race, cruelty, and violence. If you're like me, a lover of Shakespeare, you discern Montaigne's influence on the playwright. Remember, it was during this time that sex became increasingly taboo and legislated; now read or remember Measure for Measure (already thought to be a play ahead of its time), and you'll have a greater sense of the philosopher's impact on the Bard.
Learning about Montaigne's transformation from stoic to lover and student of life and introspection, both good and bad, had a profound effect on me (the right book at the right time). It wasn't a quick read, as it's dry at times (with sloppy editing); in the end, however, it was time well spent, as became Montaigne's life.