Dominatrix: Gender, Eroticism, and Control in the Dungeon

by Danielle J. Lindemann

Our lives are full of small tensions, our closest relationships full of between woman and man, artist and customer, purist and commercialist, professional and client—and between the dominant and the submissive.

 

In Dominatrix , Danielle Lindemann draws on extensive fieldwork and interviews with professional dominatrices in New York City and San Francisco to offer a sophisticated portrait of these unusual professionals, their work, and their clients. Prior research on sex work has focused primarily on prostitutes and most studies of BDSM absorb pro-domme/client relationships without exploring what makes them unique. Lindemann satisfies our curiosity about these paid encounters, shining a light on one of the most secretive and least understood of personal relationships and unthreading a heretofore unexamined patch of our social tapestry. Upending the idea that these erotic laborers engage in simple exchanges and revealing the therapeutic and analytic nature of their work, Lindemann makes a major contribution to cultural studies, anthropology, and queer studies with her analysis of how gender, power, sexuality, and hierarchy shape all of our social experiences.

Genres: BDSM, Sexuality, Nonfiction, Feminism, Sociology

239 pages, Paperback

First published September 1, 2012

Reviews

[Krystle · Rating 4 out of 5]

A bit heavy at the beginning. However I think this book does demonstrate how pro-Dommes navigate the dual worlds of stigma and normal. It also sheds insight on who are the purveyors of the services of Dommes and why they seek out such services. Insightful!

[Andrew Morse · Rating 5 out of 5]

Truly fascinating! It challenged a lot of misconceptions I had.

[Dee]

Holy yikes!! Who can afford to pay $16.50 for an ebook these days?

Sadly, not me :/

[Chris · Rating 4 out of 5]

Once I got past the extremely dense academese of the introduction, this book was fascinating.