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You are a complete person with thoughts and dreams and your own, unique personality, but it can be hard to hold onto yourself in a world that tells you to just keep waiting until the right guy comes along. Is this really the purpose of your single years? In Beyond Waiting, you'll discover the true meaning of the word wait and learn why life can be so discouraging if all you're doing is pursuing that ever-elusive Prince Charming. A fresh spin on the fairytales you grew up with will have you yearning for more than happily ever after as you dare to step into the journey that lies within your once upon a time. You were meant for so much more than merely waiting. So brace yourself for the most beautiful fairytale ever written-yours. Study Guide is included. "Beyond Waiting is exactly the book that single Christian girls and women need to read. Rebekah Snyder powerfully weaves truth together in a way that is inspiring and motivating. Every woman should realize the thrilling adventure of following God into the unknown paths He has for her whether or not a man is involved. Rebekah teaches us how to do just that. This book is a must read. It will change your life!" Shannon Primicerio, author of ten books including The Divine Dance Rebekah Snyder is a writer, dreamer, and lover of fairytales who is living her journey of once upon a time in the beautiful mountains of Virginia. Beyond Waiting is the first of what she hopes will be many books to come.

186 pages, Paperback

First published March 22, 2012

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Rebekah Snyder

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Hi, my name is Rebekah and I walk too fast for automatic doors. I also write stories in my spare time.

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December 29, 2012
"I don't believe singleness is a fate from which one needs to be saved, but rather, a gift to cherish." (p.81)

Two of my dear friends first introduced me to this book.

Rebekah's honest and bright writing style captivated me from the start. Her book is not so much about the waiting so much as it is in learning to enjoy the journey right where you are and learning to accept that greater love that Christ has for us. I think her book is just what a lot of young women are searching for; it's encouraging, it's honest, and the author understands exactly where you, the reader, are coming from - none of that..."when I was a girl" stuff...but written by someone who is still on the journey herself! :D The stories are all quite applicable not branching off into college or homeschool or working girl types of "segregation".

"Being content with being single does not mean you must ignore the desire to have a husband, but that you should choose to rejoice in the blessing of singleness." (p.109)

On the whole I enjoyed this book, only I felt there was not enough application for where I am on my singleness journey now. Too many of Rebekah's stories I felt did not apply to me as old as I am and I couldn't connect with (just me personally, not something I think all reader's will find). But I loved her spunk and personality and her desire to enjoy the beautiful life that God gives to each of us. :) I agreed with many of her points as well.

I'd recommend this book to young ladies from about 12 and up to about 21. Me being at the age 26, I found there were many things I've already learned in my own journey of singleness, but this is exactly the book I wish I'd had when I was in my teens and younger adult years. I still, however, did found some encouragement in area's I still struggle in and new insight on a couple things I hadn't thought of yet.

Rebekah's sweet friendship-like writing style makes a girl feel like she's not alone in her struggles and gives encouragement and a challenge not to be satisfied with mediocre living while waiting for a prince charming to come by. :) I only wish I'd learned that lesson years ago! There are so many lessons, so many pieces of encouragement that I'm sure every young lady who reads it will be delighted in her spiritual walk.

"Beyond waiting is such an important concept to grasp. We're wasting the years that God has granted us if we remain consumed by this fascination with earthly relationships. The real journey of Beyond Waiting is so much more than that. It's about finding your way home to the heart of the Father...it's about discovering that purpose and living it with passion." (.153)

I hope to give this book soon to another girlfriend and I'm sure I'll be recommending this book to other young ladies down the line in the future.
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October 16, 2013
What I Loved

I first stumbled upon her website and discovered we had a love of fairy-tales in common. Then I guest posted on her blog about another commonality: a love of dreams.

We became friends on Facebook and I smiled every time I saw her profile picture. World-Changer.

Indeed. If I had only known. =)

My friend Sarah was kind enough to loan me a copy of Rebekah's book, which I had heard about and put on my to-read list. It had me intrigued, the states and miles between us didn't faze Sarah and her determination to lend me her copy, and so, I suppose, the rest is history.
I read Beyond Waiting. It changed my life.

My favorite part? Rebekah's writing sounds so sisterly, so open, so honest. I never once felt threatened or vulnerable or judged. I've had a similar beginning--I've never been dated or courted and I'm happy about that. It's the way I've want it. But, now, since I'm older and I would like to be a godly man's wife someday, I'm grateful for Rebekah's sharing her wisdom about going beyond merely waiting for Prince Charming to arrive--and recognizing that our true Prince is ready to take our hand and lead us into adventure after adventure.

Why I Heartily Recommend This Book

Do I sound like I'm gushing? Pouring out unabashed praise? I have good reason, I promise. And I encourage you to check out Beyond Waiting and see just why I read this book in about two days (even with the Olympics going on!) and why I'm now ever-so-slowly going through the Study Guide, savoring it, letting the Truth seep into my soul. Yes, I am single, but my life is about so much more than merely waiting...
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August 24, 2012
Most books I have read on purity have been let-downs. Although by people I personally admire, and people with good intentions, they left me feeling like my life didn’t matter until I got married. It took me a few weeks after reading those books to feel normal again. Rebakah Snyder’s book was different. It made me want to send it to all my girlfriends and say: "This is how it is supposed to be."

Beyond Waiting is not a book on how to survive your waiting years or a manual on how to treat guys. Beyond waiting deals with the heart of the problem; our value. The reason many girls toss purity out the window or lose it is because they think their value comes from a man. This book will remind girls of an often forgotten fact: God did not make you as half a person. You are whole and complete as you are. I guy is not going to make you any more then you already are.

I highly recommend this book to every unmarried girl. I hope that the pages of this little gem will encourage you as much as it did me.
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261 reviews
October 17, 2012
This book was simply beautiful. the writing style was captivating and the words were like art. I ask all of my girl friends to read this book.

When my prince charming comes I don't want to be the girl who was just waiting.
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66 reviews
March 22, 2013
What an amazing book!!!! i loved it, and I highly recommend it to all girls. We really do need to realize that our wedding day is not the beginning of life; it is the beginning of married life. Until then, we are already living life, and it is our choice whether we live life to the fullest, serve Christ, and cherish each moment or sit around waiting for good ol' Prince C.

An inspiring read!! :D


Favorite quotes from this book:

I'm convinced that no life is worth living if it is not lived for God's glory {pg. 91}

It's time to show the world that you were made for so much more than the life for which others are settling. {pg. 101}
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