“I’m so tired of feeling sad. And waiting for other people to make me happy and they don’t. And if no-one else is going to make you happy, well maybe you just have to do it for yourself?”
I didn't really know what to expect when I first heard about this book as it was made up entirely of e-mails so when Siobhan Curham offered to send me a copy to review I jumped at the chance! The book explores the social media of e-mails and how a most unlikely friendship can be formed through the internet. .I needn't have worried. The book was heart-warming and totally frost-free as Georgie would say!
Fourteen year old Georgie Harris's summer holidays stretch out in a never ending path of boredom before her. It's meant to be the holidays for goodness sake but no, that's not possible with her life is it??!! Banned from going to the local drama workshop by her bully of a step-dad and her increasingly fragile mum, she is stuck with six long weeks of looking after her tooth-fairy obsessed kid sister. Sick of feeling like the outsider at home and at school, she starts emailing the one person she thinks might understand; Dylan Curtland, star of the popular soap opera Jessop Close. And when Dylan starts emailing back, Georgie finally feels a spark of hope. At last she has someone who really gets her, someone who really wants to help! But all is not what it seems in the faceless world of e-mails...
Into her e-mails Georgie pours all her thoughts, feelings and emotions about herself and is able to express all the things that she'd never be able to say in real life. Her emails are funny, thoughtful, amusing, insightful and frequently made me laugh and smile, as well as feel genuine empathy and compassion for her situation.
I loved Georgie's character. She was so strong and brave and full of spirit and I couldn't help longing that it really was Dylan e-mailing her, because I knew it would make her feel so happy and delighted. It wasn't meant to be though and soon, clues every now and then made me wonder, "It cannot be Dylan. Why would a famous actor take the time out to e-mail Georgie?" Georgie tried to hide the truth from herself too. Longing for something good to happen in her life but when the true person behind the e-mails reveals herself she can't hide it from herself any more.
I loved Nan. She was so helpful to Georgie and sounded so sincere that when she revealed herself I didn't think that she wasn't actually 'her'. After all, if she was someone fake then why didn't she just stay as ''Dylan!?'' I know that her real name was Nancy but she always signed off as 'Nan' and to be honest sometimes I would forget how old she was and think she was a grandma!
[[ The Girl Behind The Computer Screen: Blushes with embarassement. ]]
Georgie's Step-dad ''Tone-Deaf'' : Eurgh, don't get me started! He was a vile, repulsive, evil minded man who I could tell from the beginning didn't care a jot for Georgie or her mum. He always seemd to treat his daughter Michaela like a spoilt princess but really, he can't have cared that much for her otherwise he would have behaved better and given her a role-model to look up to; she was only young I felt so sorry for her. She just seemed to be ferried around and passed from one person to the next like a parcel and I know she didn't say anything as long as she got her jelly babies but who wants to have the kind of life where your dad dotes on you in public, your step-mum loves you really but doesn't show it a lot and your constantly being ''babysat'' by your big sister, who does not want to at all.
Georgie's mum sounded really nice, but a bit ''messed up''. She seemed to be having a hard time living with Tone-Deaf but I don't blame her. What I couldn't work out at the beginning was why she actually still lived with him but that became clearer as the book carried on. He was abusive and wild and didn't seem to care how much he hurt anybody and the way he treated Georgie and her mum was appaling. Georgie was more like a servant than a daughter, He would always be down at the bookies or drunk or sleeping on the sofa and would leave his daughter to be looked after by her or her mum, Angelica.
When Georgie started going to the drama work-shop I couldn't wait to see what happened. Finally, she would be able to do something she wanted. I was so happy for her when she got the part of Blousey and couldn't wait to see how she did but I could not believe the lenghts her step-dad went to to make her life a misery. GRRR! I was so angry and frustrated when I read what he did. What kind of horrible physco deliberately organises to go out somewhere ''as a family'' on the very day of their daughters performance, so she has to miss out on a trip and no-one can watch her debut performance?!
I was so glad when her mum turned up after the performance, naively thinking that everything was fine and she had managed to persuade Tone-Deaf to let her watch. Therefore I was so shocked and scared for her when Georgie pulled off her mum's sunglasses and saw her face. TONE DEAF AND PUNCHED HER because she wanted to go to her daughters performance!!! What kind of.....
[[ The Girl Behind The Computer Screen: : grinds teeth in fury, wanting to punch Tone-Deaf back and give him a black eye.]]
I was ECSTATIC when Tone-Deaf was sent to jail, although I still can't belive what he decided to do after he had been let out on bail. ( please correct me if I'm wrong, unfortunately i read the book a while ago so I cannot remember the exact details..he was let out on bail first wasn't he? ) He went back to their house to try and beat them up for landing him in jail in the first place and in the process terrorised his young daughter and then like an idiot, he still thought she would prefer to come to him, rather thsn Angelica and Georgie, who have practically looked after her her entire life and not hurt a hair on her head!...
*rant over.*
Dear Dylan is a poignant, heart-warming tale of friendship, trust, secrets, hardship and how two people can bring out the best in each other while helping each other stay on track with their lives and do what want to do.