Read the Blinkist summary. Will not read the book.
Key Takeaways
Schopenhauer argues that emotions (compassion), not rational thinking, forms the true basis of morality.
Schopenhauer identified three fundamental forces that drive human behavior.
1. Self-interest: Acting to help yourself
2. Compassion: Acting to help others (even to the point of ignoring your self-interest)
3. Malice: Acting to harm others
Schopenhauer says through introspection and deliberation we can hone in our compassion, look beyond our immediate self-interest, and not act on our feelings of malice. He recognizes that self-interest and compassion may sometimes be aligned, but if they're not, choose compassion over self-interest.
My review
At face value this may seem reasonable. I would argue that it isn't (entirely) reasonable, but if the basis of morality is emotions, then why should you care if it sounds reasonable or not? Why not just take the bull by the horn and be irrational?
These are, in effect, simply justifications for what Ayn Rand refers to as Altruism (a term coined by philosopher August Comte - literally meaning "other-ism.") Since no reason could possibly be given for such views, proponents of altruism must necessarily ask you to give up reason and simply go by your feelings.
Schopenhauer (and generations of philosophers, psychologists, and laypersons indirectly influenced by him - among other key figures) takes it for granted that feeling compassionate while doing something for others is enough to show that the action is moral. This is fantastic! How do you know, without the use of reason, whether your actions in fact even help others?
Ask yourself the following.
1) Without reason, can you distinguish between intention and impact?
A bleeding heart liberal sees people working hard at a minimum wage job. Driven by compassion, he lobbies to increase the legal minimum wage. Patting himself on the back for achieving his goal, he moves on to the next social cause to help himself feel good. But did he, in fact, by his own standard do good, or simply feel good?
If you understand economics (which requires the use of reason), you know that he didn't. While he moved on with his life, little did he know how many minimum wage workers he intended to help lost their jobs because it was simply became too expensive to hire them for the same job. Little does he think about the businesses closed, jobs outsourced, or automated.
2) Is it helpful to pour into a broken cup?
As the saying goes, "give a man a fish, and you feed him for a day. Teach a man to fish, and you feed him for a lifetime."
Imagine a friend or a stranger comes to you and asks for help. He has a gambling/drinking problem, and he's broke because of it. In your compassion, you give him some money. He spends it on gambling/drinking once again and comes back to you asking for more. If you, feeling sad for that person, bail him out again, are you helping him?
Or are you simply enabling him to continue being self-sabotaging? Are you sure you don't just want him to remain dependent on you, so that you feel important and wanted? And aren't you hurting yourself in this process, by spending your money - which is earned with your time, your labor, your life - on this instead of other better aims? But, perhaps you think your self-interest doesn't take priority over helping others. That brings me to the next question.
3) Can you pour from an empty cup?
Now that you've enabled someone else to become dependent on you, what happens to them once you've ruined your own life by ignoring your own genuine and rational self-interest? Recall the safety instructions you hear on a flight: Wear your own oxygen mask before helping others. Because if you can't help yourself, what makes you think you can continue helping others?
"Men have been taught that the highest virtue is not to achieve, but to give. Yet one cannot give that which has not been created. Creation comes before distribution—or there will be nothing to distribute. The need of the creator comes before the need of any possible beneficiary. Yet we are taught to admire the second-hander who dispenses gifts he has not produced above the man who made the gifts possible. We praise an act of charity. We shrug at an act of achievement."
- Ayn Rand
4) But is helping others the primary justification for your life?
It's perfectly fine, and recommended, to get into "win-win" relationships in life, where you mutually help each other move towards your goal. Not every act of helping others is an act of sacrifice. It is only an act of sacrifice when you give up a higher value in pursuit of a lower value. But is helping others the highest value, the primary justification of your life, even if you sacrifice yourself in the process? But if YOUR life doesn't matter, then why do other lives matter? If other lives matter, why is it only YOUR life that doesn't? If it's good for others to get and keep the unearned, why is it bad for you to keep that which you've earned?
What is the moral code of altruism? The basic principle of altruism is that man has no right to exist for his own sake, that service to others is the only justification of his existence, and that self-sacrifice is his highest moral duty, virtue and value.
Do not confuse altruism with kindness, good will or respect for the rights of others. These are not primaries, but consequences, which, in fact, altruism makes impossible. The irreducible primary of altruism, the basic absolute, is self-sacrifice—which means; self-immolation, self-abnegation, self-denial, self-destruction—which means: the self as a standard of evil, the selfless as a standard of the good.
Do not hide behind such superficialities as whether you should or should not give a dime to a beggar. That is not the issue. The issue is whether you do or do not have the right to exist without giving him that dime. The issue is whether you must keep buying your life, dime by dime, from any beggar who might choose to approach you. The issue is whether the need of others is the first mortgage on your life and the moral purpose of your existence. The issue is whether man is to be regarded as a sacrificial animal. Any man of self-esteem will answer: “No.” Altruism says: “Yes.”
- Ayn Rand
Reject altruism. Not only does that make you hate others who you believe you're morally obligated to serve, it is the path to self-hate and nihilism. It is the morality of death and destruction. What, then, is the proper mode for healthy relationships between rational people? Trade, in matter and in spirit.
The symbol of all relationships among [rational] men, the moral symbol of respect for human beings, is the trader. We, who live by values, not by loot, are traders, both in matter and in spirit. A trader is a man who earns what he gets and does not give or take the undeserved. A trader does not ask to be paid for his failures, nor does he ask to be loved for his flaws. A trader does not squander his body as fodder or his soul as alms. Just as he does not give his work except in trade for material values, so he does not give the values of his spirit—his love, his friendship, his esteem—except in payment and in trade for human virtues, in payment for his own selfish pleasure, which he receives from men he can respect. The mystic parasites who have, throughout the ages, reviled the traders and held them in contempt, while honoring the beggars and the looters, have known the secret motive of their sneers: a trader is the entity they dread—a man of justice.
- Ayn Rand
There's nothing wrong in asking for help when you need it. But reject the mindset that you're entitled to being helped, or obligated to help others who feel entitled to your life, your energy, your time, your money. A trader will find plenty of other traders to help him during unexpected hard times, and he will on average have fewer such hard times. A looter / moocher will create hard times for himself and others.