"The Fix" offers an up-close look at addictions, changing the reader's perception of what that word really even means. "Addicts" are not just those dependent on alcohol, gambling, or hard drugs. No. Think cupcakes, television, checking Facebook, checking your hair, shopping, Vicodin, pornography, strip clubs, coffee, sugary scones every morning with breakfast, the list goes on, all these things and more able to foster real addictions. Thompson challenges the Alcoholics Anonymous-spawned idea, though, that addiction is a disease. No, he says, addiction is a scary habit of replacing people with things. Viewing it this way makes it more logical. This insight, which Thompson borrowed, comes from Craig Nakken's "The Addictive Personality," in which he writes that addicts form primary relationships with objects and events, not people. The addict begins to judge others only in terms of how useful they are in delivering a fix. Everyone, though, lets the addict own at some point, leading the addict to conclude that objects are more reliable than people. Objects have no wants or needs. "In a relationship with an object the addict always comes first," says Nakken.
"The Fix" opened my eyes to addiction and how it's everywhere…like my life. I now realize that I have struggled (and still do, to some extent) with addictions: sugar, Facebook, checking my email, checking my iPhone, shopping… and how our media/commercial economy/et cetera likes to exploit my addictions to their benefit.
The first step to beating your addictions is realizing you have them and realizing you want and need to beat them. Otherwise, they will overcome you (read about what addiction does to your brain).
Though Damian Thompson does not seem to be writing from a Christian perspective, I would strongly recommend that Christians read "The Fix." Why? Well, think about addictions by another name: idols, and you'll understand how important it is to beat them, even and especially the addictions that seem harmless. Gone unchecked, they can really hurt your relationship with God.
"The Fix" woke me up.