To pass or not to pass, that is the question. This diverse set of essays challenged my outlook in a lot of ways. I highly recommend it.
Essays are on the following: how psychology has failed (and continues to fail) lesbian women; how in a culture where conforming to femininity is rewarded/required, more feminine lesbians can throw the butches under the bus for the privileges of passing as heterosexual; the misrepresentation of black lesbians in film (seriously it's horrible. Do male filmmakers understand how to portray lesbians at all????); the eroticization of differences and power structures in relationships that stems from heteropatriarchy; and how religion (focus is on Judaism and Christianity in this book) fails women in general, but lesbians specifically.
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